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At this point this painting is just a constant in my life

Like I'll work on it for 20min sometimes when I feel like it. Don't think I'll ever finish at this pace - There's still all the background, Crowley's wings, the rest of his clothes.

Welp, at least I got something,,

#Good omens #fan art #queue

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#lol #queue

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"Angel" to demon transition 🤣

@alipstaylor as Angel Crowley @nataswilde as Crowley

#good omens #cosplay #queue

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Since the OP made their post unrebloggable (and blocked me. Both actions they are well in with their right to do)

I'm going to make my response it's own post because I think the point is important

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As someone who is autistic and has BPD and CPTSD and loads of trauma yes you sometimes need to change how you interact with others to keep people around

When I was 13 I hit the few friends I had when I was angry

I had to change that in order to keep those friendships

When I was in my early 20s if I was losing an disagreement with my husband I would threaten to kill myself. My husband told me it hurt him and was cruel and manipulative behaviour, because it was.

So I worked hard to change that to keep my relationship

It's easy to say "I shouldn't have to change for others" and that's true to an extent. You shouldn't change your interests or passions or dim your light. And you should have space to be imperfect and flawed and not have to pretend your ugly bits aren't real. But if something you are doing it causing other people harm you kinda need to change that.

That's called "living in a society"

People adapt to each other and make space for each other in their lives. You adapt to them and they adapt to you

You start being more diligent about throwing away the empty toilet roll because it really bothers them. They start warning you before they run the blender because you hate loud noises

I stopped threatening to kill myself because I was mad I was losing an argument and my husband stopped being so vocally judgemental amount media he personally dislikes

There is a certain type of person who heard the phrase "your emotions are valid" and took that to mean "my emotional reactions and my behaviour are always objectively correct because my emotions are valid and if you have an emotional response or react to what I'm doing negatively then you are wrong and you can't be hurt because my emotions are valid"

And that's a recipe for disaster

Your emotions are valid to feel. They are how you feel and there are reasons you feel the way you do

However, your reactions and behaviour are something you can learn to control and can be irrational

We live in a society and we as people change each other as we interact and that isn't necessarily a bad thing

#psychology #save

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Very important follow up question.

@theprideful @paneerlajwanti

here, have some bi-ace solidarity

#save #i added a poll take the poll

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I have to unfollow bcz you post about cock so much om sorry!

I wonder if there was some kind of warning about that on my blog

#save

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Shoutout to the biromantic asexuals

here, have some bi-ace solidarity

#sometimes thats me #i've got some sot of ace flux thing going on

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I had to put these two images together. Just too ineffable. 🥂

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You might have thought card sharks and loan sharks were named after the predatory fish, but apparently there’s a decent chance it’s the other way around from an old Dutch word meaning “person that takes unfair advantage of other people”. Before that they were known in English as a haye or dogfish, which means sometime in the ~1400s enough English sailors started saying “don’t get in the water, it’s infested with those jerks”

#Language #Save

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I'm not connected to the post this came from, so I don't have THE story on this one, but I do have A story on this one.

req'd by @prokopetz

i'm gonna need the story on this one, boss

text: Great, advice from Mr. "It's Not Cuckholdery If You Fuck Both Of Them"

#I'm in this picture and I'm ok with it actually

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#Satire #Or something like #Lol

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"how can you like this objectively bad thing!" because i have bad taste. move on.

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i think what’s on a person’s nightstand is very telling so reblog this and put in the tags the things you have on your nightstand

#a topographical 3D printer is currently occupying the entire thing #normally it would be vitamins and a glass of water

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#tie dye #I should probably get around to putting some of my tie dyes online

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If my capacity for self-cringe could be converted into electricity we could solve the energy crisis.

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whats "Furfur" short for

He just didn't grow as tall as the other demons.

#Save

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Knowledge is empowering