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2024 GUIDELINES.

No beating yourself up over the past.

Nourish your body with healthy choices.

Protect your joy at all costs.

Feed your focus, starve your distractions.

Pour your soul into every endeavor.

Value and protect your time.

No settling for less than you deserve.

Don’t just think, act.

Forgive yourself daily.

No neglecting self-care.

Let go as a form of empowerment.

Less expecting, more accepting. 

Practice gratitude daily.

No accepting less than you deserve.

Give back to your community.

Invest in relationships that uplift you.

Ask for help when needed.

Enjoy the ebbs and flows of the human experience.

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〔 FAQ 〕

. what is feminine energy?

feminine energy is a force within and around all around us that is receptive, formless, magnetic and wild. feminine energy is not a fixed form or singular thing. it is our feelings of pleasure, pain, passion, rage, joy, emptiness and fulfillment. it is our sensual nature, emotions and physicality. it is associated with the basic senses (touch, taste, sound, smell, sight), creativity, destruction, imagination, sexuality and sustainability. the simplicity of being able to experience emotion and physical pleasure is feminine energy. feminine energy is free flowing, changeable and wild. feminine energy is so attractive because of the emotion and desire it what ignites in us. everyone wants to FEEL good.

. what feminine energy is not.

feminine energy is not a set of rules or fixed form based on how you dress, behave, speak, look, etc. those are mannerisms that are taught and learned. feminine energy is innate, meaning it is an energy that you are born with and doesn't have to be taught. remember feminine energy is what makes you feel good and it looks different for each individual. for some wearing dresses makes them feel best about themselves, while for others it's wearing blue jeans outs them at ease, etc.

. is feminine energy just for girls/females?

no. both females and males have feminine/masculine energy within'. women are more connected to the feminine energy and men are more connected with masculine energy because of our bodily hormones. the estrogen hormone is dominant in women and it deals with emotions. therefore women are prone to being more emotional and internal. the testosterone hormone is dominant in men and it deals with being productive, muscle mass and strength. therefore men are prone to being more active and energetic.

the goal is to balance both masculine and feminine energies in order to have the richest experience.

. the difference between dark and light qualities.

dark and light are labels influenced by society standards of what we are taught are bad and good. this includes our personal traits, desires, thoughts, beliefs and nature.

our dark qualities are what we have been taught are bad/harmful. because of this belief, we are uncomfortable with expressing these traits outwardly and suppress them. we are more like to be criticized and shunned.

our light qualities are what we deem as good/helpful. due to this belief we are comfortable and accepting of expressing these traits outwardly. we are more likely to be praised and accepted.

in the end, both your light and dark side are two sides of the same coin, yet all part of a whole. you cannot separate one from the other. instead of demonizing one and glorifying the other, you must learn to balance and accept both as you, unapologetically.

. my definition of dark feminine energy.

dark feminine energy is an elevated mindset where you release shame and own every aspect of who you are (shadow and light, needs and wants) in order to express yourself however you desire. it is about embracing the forbidden and not giving a fuck about being ‘good’ in the eyes of others.

dark feminine is not centered around men or anyone else. it is centered around self elevation and freedom, so that you can live a unapologetic lifestyle.

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. my definition of light feminine energy.

light feminine energy is an elevated mindset where you own your gentle, nourishing and, open nature. it’s your nurturing, caring, empathetic, playful and affectionate side.

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. what is a siren?

to be a siren is to be shameless in your self expression. it guides you to embrace your sensual nature, pleasures and fulfillments (which is considered dark/wrong in society), and stand powerfully in it, instead of shrinking in accordance to others. being a siren means to become the priority and put yourself first.

being a siren is about owning your dark side, light side, shadows and all. therefore, truly mastering yourself. becoming all powerful. you are no longer concerned about giving attention to those who try to bring you down, because you are thriving in a world of your own. it's about getting everything you want and acquiring your pleasures at all costs.

. what does it mean to be succulent?

suc·cu·lent. (adj.) - tender, juicy, and tasty, moist, delicious.

to be succulent is to be fulfilled in life. mind, body and spirit. it is to experience a fruitful, enriching reality. to have prosperity in all of your endeavors. to not only know, but stand in your power and attractiveness. to know your worth and act accordingly.

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𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒅 𝒏𝒆𝒆𝒅𝒚 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒎𝒂𝒅𝒆 𝒖𝒑 𝒃𝒚 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒎𝒂𝒅 𝒂𝒕 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒃𝒄 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒂𝒃𝒍𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒖𝒏𝒊𝒄𝒂𝒕𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒊𝒓 𝒏𝒆𝒆𝒅𝒔 𝒃𝒆𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒎

𝑫𝒐𝒏𝒕 𝒍𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒏 𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒎 𝒃𝒐𝒐.

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A Winner stays positive regardless of temporary circumstances. They are able to see themselves winning before it even happens.

These are the types of people that could be going through the worst experience of their lives, yet remain relaxed and carefree. Others are often perplexed at how unbothered they are. But as mentioned above, the Winner knows they've ALREADY WON. They continue to celebrate life and don't take a moment for granted.

H.S.

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Repeat after me: My anxiety does not control my life. I will not sacrifice areas of my life to my anxiety. My anxiety is not keeping me away from certain activities or places if I want to go there, I will, and I will do it even if scared. I make the decisions. I am in control.

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THE SIREN

→ The Siren’s charm is easy-flowing like water. Her seduction like a irresistible song that just oozes out of her. She knows she is valuable and therefore attracts success like a magnet.

Her presence is so sensual and palpable that she is certain to attract both admirers and jealously, but gossip goes in one ear and out the other because she doesn’t need anyone’s approval. She stands firm in who she is and is confident in her own beauty, femininity and abilities. She vibrates so high that the shame and guilt others try to subject her to is invisible and no where on her radar.

Instead she indulges in a succulent lifestyle, allowing herself to enjoy all her pleasures with gratefulness and worthiness. She's remains in a relaxed and in a steady lane of her own. There's is no need for her to rush, worry or compete with others. She knows that when the time is ripe, what is meant for her will come.

She commands her desires and lives life as a winner, celebrating beauty in every moment. She manifests knowing she already has the desired result. Even before the happening she knows she’s already won. ©HONEYSIREN

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One of the most dangerous things in the world is not being able to say no to people because you don't want to upset them or dissapoint them. This will completely ruin your life in every way possible, at work, in your private life, your sex life and your friendships. It's a way of removing your own consent in your own decisions and go against your wishes, it is always a crime against yourself. Let yourself have a say. Upsetting people is better than traumatizing yourself.

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𝑻𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒌: 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝑰 𝒄𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒆?✨

☼☽

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I try my best. I work for what I want. I attract.

I am a magnet for my desires.

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ARI LENNOX Get Close

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𝑴𝒚 𝒔𝒎𝒊𝒍𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒊𝒈𝒐𝒖𝒔.

𝑴𝒚 𝒂𝒖𝒓𝒂 𝒊𝒔 𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒖𝒓𝒊𝒏𝒈.

𝑴𝒚 𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒈𝒚 𝒊𝒔 𝒂𝒕𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆.

𝑰 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒚𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝑰 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕.

𝑰 𝒂𝒎 𝒕𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒊𝒍𝒊𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉 𝒔𝒊𝒕𝒖𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔.

𝑰 𝒂𝒎 𝒂 𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒅𝒆𝒓 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒂 𝒇𝒐𝒍𝒍𝒐𝒘𝒆𝒓 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝑰 𝒓𝒆𝒊𝒈𝒏 𝒒𝒖𝒆𝒆𝒏 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒔𝒖𝒑𝒓𝒆𝒎𝒆.✨

"𝑳𝒐𝒐𝒌 𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒎𝒊𝒓𝒓𝒐𝒓, 𝒕𝒆𝒍𝒍 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒏𝒂 𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒓, 𝒕𝒆𝒍𝒍 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒃𝒊𝒕𝒄𝒉 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒎𝒂𝒌𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒕 ✨𝒄𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒓✨” - I AM

-𝑻𝒉𝒆𝑭𝒂𝒕𝒆

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𝑭𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒔.

Dark Feminine Energy Looks Like:

Setting boundaries

Being direct and assertive

Making yourself the 1st priority

Being bold in what you believe in

Not allowing others guilt or shame you

Embracing your sexuality

Doing shadow work

Being self centered

Having your true desires met

Doing things your way

Being the main character

Letting go of what doesn’t serve you

Saying no

Indulging in your pleasures shamelessly

Embracing all aspects of you

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Darkly Delicate

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