ahhh this subject, this topic, this 'if you don't get married then you aren't an adult and your whole life should revolve around the whole family thing' and talking as if it is a given, this looming doom over my queer head.
On one hand the documentary is nice because sometimes parents are understanding. Mine aren't, and for some reason they hardly show the not-so-accepting ones when it comes to minorities but alas, there are the surprisingly accepting ones. It's a hit or miss and quite the Russian roulette.
On the other hand the sentiment of 'you must get married' is there regardless. I don't think I'd be able to explain the way I feel about the whole thing without too many sappy words and metaphors that I'd never be able to say before interjections and overall disdain. AND the threat looms ever nearer. I don't like getting older in a society with expectations. It's not for me. I’m not sure what I will do. At all. I do not see a solution because of two completely warring ideologies. And I’m not sure who to ask because no one I know is both desi and on the aroace spectrum sooo…. I guess I’ll have to figure something out or run away to the woods when I’m older. Not that I can handle isolation. So there’s that too. And I don’t think I’m being over dramatic…sometimes I am but last time I even touched this subject briefly with my parents, it was a whole thing, spirals and not fun for months and months and drastic stuff. So Adult life things? If it’s anything like last year's brush with this then I’ll need to build up some ‘happiness inducing and comfort mechanisms’ ahead of time.
I don’t know. Sometimes it feels like I’m in the tentative, last ‘safe period’ of my life. From here it’s…. Choices I don’t want to make. Ha. Fun.
Apologies for the unsolicited rant!
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yeehaw
To be honest I have no ideas for this one
Just decided “why not draw Sheriff standing outside a party?”
Sheriff would probably join in, but he has work to do
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This Villainess wants a Divorce / Survive as the Hero’s Wife
This plot is so cliche I love it. Give me 1000000 more “isekai-ed as the villainess the ML can’t possibly love me” manhwa.
Summary
Our girl isekai-ed as the villainess, which means she’s destined to die. Oh no.
Gotta save herself by... befriending the ML from childhood... and then get a divorce once the main plot is over. Yes. This is a solid plan. 100%. It’s not like the MC is gonna catch feelings for his kind childhood friend or anything...
>.>
Oh no, he did. Well I guess we have to defeat the actual villains and make sure our boy ascends to the throne.
Tropes
- isekai-ed as the villainess
- just throw this whole family away
- what do you mean I’ve drastically changed the plot the original FL and ML definitely still belong together
- ~babies~ who grew up together
FL - Carnelia Easter
- she just wanted to be BFFs with the ML to escape death, plan failed successfully
- BFFs with the original FL, you love to see it
- smart when it comes to making plans, dumb when it comes to romance
ML - Caeser de Raiman Cline
- for once it’s an actual *Crown Prince* from the start and not some grand duke (from the north)
- he’s so handsome but he’s so bad at courting
- I am sorry my dude you fell in love with an extremely oblivious FL
- smart when it comes to fighting in war, dumb when it comes to romance
Rating: Yes PLEASE READ THIS
Spent ink on certain chapters in Tapas. Will probably be getting the rest of the chapters til the end once my free chapters are done. I love it but not that much compared to some other series. Lol
Status (as of 26 Oct 2022)
100% complete, including side stories.
Same Same but Different
- Author of my Own Destiny
- Beware the Villainess!
- Not-Sew-Wicked Stepmom
full rec list
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I have gay Converse, a spell jar and a complete and utter lack of a moral compass
but I have a necklace that I haven't taken off for about a month and counting, shitty piano skills, and a maybe delusional friendship with the WIND so I think that counts for something
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a small child came into the café today and asked to buy a chocolate truffle. he tapped a credit card on the reader and it did not go through, mainly because it was not a credit card but in fact a junior cinema pass. i gently explained he couldn't use that to buy things in shops and he looked so gutted that i was like "...but just this once you can have it for free, don't tell my boss though" he said thank you and walked out with his truffle and as he went i heard him chuckling to himself and saying "yes..... yes!!!!!" like the sickos comic
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Changing my belief system from "this is the hill I'll die on" to "this is the hill I'll kill you on" has done absolute wonders for me 10/10 do recommend
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its rude to reblog things from people you arent mutuals with fyi. :/
💀 my brother in christopher
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cat laziness is so contagious. you'll see your cat flopped on its back in your bed a completely comfy cozy baby and you'll be like. you're right. you make a compelling argument.
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