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breaking-news-the-aroace-has · 3 days

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The AroAce is protesting this vehemently. They can absolutely be trusted near massive heavy-duty machinery that can completely demolish things. They would never, EVER put important government documents or a transphobic state legislator into an active woodchipper. No way.

#aroace #aromantic #asexual #aromantic asexual #aspec #breaking news #brought to you by ^him #arospec #what has the aroace done today #aroacespec #aro #ace #aro ace #asexual aromantic #they can be a little silly sometimes. they admit that.#but everyone should have basic rights!#and sometimes those rights include messing around with woodchippers #trans rights

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aspecpolls · 2 days

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Arospecs and Acespecs, are you comfortable with the idea of having a life partner?

(i.e. Someone to spend the rest of your life with; can be romantic/sexual/platonic/whatever)

- Yes (AroAce)

- No (AroAce)

- Yes (Aro)

- No (Aro)

- Yes (Ace)

- No (Ace)

#aro #aromantic #arospec #ace #asexual #acespec #aroace #aroacespec #aspec #anonymous #polls #hope it's ok that i added the extra options!#i felt like there would be at least a few voters #that really aren't sure or need some nuance beyond a hard yes or hard no

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sunbloomdew · 7 months

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do you ever see a person and you are overcome with incredible fondness? and you just think "oh." but not in a romantic or sexual way you are just filled with warmth and it makes you happy, it just does. and you think "i'm so happy you exist. i'm happy you are somewhere out there in the world, doing your thing". it's love but also not entirely

like people are lovely and i feel it in my entire chest like a burning candle that smells like roses and a sunny day

#on love #aroace experiences #aroace #aromantic #asexual #aspec #aroacespec #sunbloom talks #<3 #just late night revelations #i like love and i love people :)

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some---weirdo · 30 days

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If this post gets:

100 notes I'll explain my gender to my friends and tell them my pronouns

500 notes I'll explain my romantic orientation to my friends (they think I'm aroace, I just identify as ace) ✓

1000 notes I'll come out to my sibling (they're agender, I know they'll support me)

10 000 notes I'll come out to my sister (she has pronouns in her discord bio, it'll be fine)

100 000 notes I'll tell my best friend I love her

1 000 000 notes I'll come out to my homophobic, transphobic conservative Christan family that I live with (they still talk to my agender sibling, so it'll just be very awkward for the next few years...)

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aroacearchangel · 6 months

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hey. do whatever you want btw. it’s your identity. kiss people for fun. enjoy sex. nobody’s stopping you. being aro and/or ace doesn’t mean you have to be repulsed by romantic or sexual activities if you don’t want to.

and also! things only mean what you meant them to mean. you can have platonic sex and platonically make out with your friends. it’s true. just be sure to communicate so that everyone involved understands and you’re good.

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thetisming · 5 months

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the aro/ace experience of going 'but am i actually aro/ace?' and then seeing an allo and being like 'oh. okay. yeah i am. what the fuck'

#asexual #aromantic #ace #aro #acespec #arospec #aroace #aroacespec

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r0ttingsystem · 19 days

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Allos are so weird about hugs and it's pissing me the fuck off

We LOVE hugs and physical stuff, can't get enough of them

So NATURALLY, we hug people we care about. A lot. And very "intimately" (aka for an extended period of time and very tightly) or we just generally cling and hold onto them

Or like, hold hands and stuff a lot of the time

Our friend kept looking at us like we were making out sloppy style right in front of her because we hugged our other friend who was upset "too intimately". And because we hugged/ held onto another one of our friends

She keeps making comments (not jokes. Comments.) about us looking like lesbians with our friend too and it's so fucking infuriating

1) why would that be a bad thing?????????

2) I WAS JUST HUGGING HER??????? At MOST you could call it cuddling but like??????

Like I'm FUCKING SORRY you don't get hugged enough??????

she doesn't like touch and I completely get that, we only are okay with being touched by people we trust/know too, but her not wanting to hug people ISNT MY PROBLEM??????

she also freaks out about other "intimate" things like our friend fixing our septum

anyways that was my aroace rant, goodnight chat

#judah.txt #aroace #aromantism #aromantic #arospec #acespec #asexual #aroacespec

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fallenrain40 · 2 months

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"but aroaces can still feel lo-" shut up. it doesn't matter if we can feel love or not. why is this always your defense to why aroaces should be valid? it gets even worse with alloaces and alloaros. people constantly saying "aces can still have sex!!" and "aros can still have love and have partners!!" YES, they can, but you aren't bringing that up just to bring awareness towards aroaces. No, you are using that fact as a way to ignore and condemn the part that makes us aroace; the lack of attraction. I'm sick and tired of seeing aces and aros have to defend themselves by bringing up all the other ways they can love. Why can't we for once celebrate the parts of us that DON'T love?

#just a very tired loveless aroace's ramblings...#aro #aroace #ace #aromantic #asexual #aromantic asexual #loveless aro #loveless aromantic #loveless aroace #arospec #aspec #acespec #aromantism #aroacespec #loveless #apothisexual #apothiromantic

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queerneurodivergentnerd · 8 months

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Friendship can be just as intense as romance. Romance can be just as intense as friendship. There is no one over the other. There is human connection, there is the strength of the bond that varies based on the specific circumstances surrounding each relationship. There is love - it may be platonic or romantic or anything in between. There is love, and it simply presents different forms.

Love doesn’t come with a hierarchy.

#love #aromantic #asexual #aroace #aspec #arospec #aroacespec #queer #friendship #romance #qpr #relationships #love has no hierarchy

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gaygayhomesexualgay · 1 month

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the a in lgbtqia stands for alien because thats what we are apperently

#“sex/romance is what makes us human!!!”#asexual spectrum #asexual #aromantic asexual #aroace #aspec #aromantism #arospec #aro pride #aromantic #aromanticism #asexuality #aro #aroacespec #acespec

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bizarreaizen · 1 year

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aromantic and asexual cis men seriously need more recognition, they've been told that being a virgin above the age of 18 is weird and that they get no bitches and they've seen that romance and sex is very important to a man and you need to have it or your "lame" and "boring"