#feed your self

[nexus-nebulae]

shoutout to people who don't have a "before" the trauma.

shoutout to people who don't have any sweet or nostalgic childhood memories. to people who don't remember enough of their childhood to know what the before was like. to people who lost their innocence before they ever learned the word for it. to people whose pasts were too painful to keep around in any form. to people who only knew trauma, and don't have an idea of what life would be like without it. to people who can't long for "the better days" because there weren't any.

you deserve a good future. i hope it's there for you soon.

#trauma #ptsd #childhood trauma #sorry just. feeling shitty about not having a past anymore #and please i'm so tired please for the love of god don't tag this with self deprecating shit like 'but i dont deserve anything' #you're only feeding into your mental health getting worse and you're using other peoples attempted positivity to do it #its just mean to both you and the op

[toboldlymuppet]

gripped by fear

my piece for dark waters, an op angst zine

#i love my boy hes so brave and beautiful #usopp #one piece #op fanart #skeletons #horror #i guess? #something about not wanting to be left behind but also fearing your own inability to do something about it #and in turn feeding your own self-doubt and believing that getting involved will only hurt more people etcetc #water 7 enies lobby arc girlies where you at

[cantobear]

put your hands together —

#キミガシネ #your turn to die #yttd #kimi ga shine #midori yttd #sou hiyori #i'll have this as a print at impulse!! #it's extremely self-indulgent but i needed to feed myself #cantobearart

[twentyfivemiceinatrenchcoat]

AGH FASHION DESIGNER SUGURU AND MODEL SATORU W A NEW INTERN DESIGNER UNDER THEIR WING 😞😞☹️ - 🌺

WAHHHH I LOVE THIS 🥺🥺🥺 the pining and flirting and slowburn of it all… model!satoru and his favorite designer suguru geto, both of them undeniably skilled and born with an eye for fashion….. well-known and adored……..

designer!suguru who gets tasked with showing you the ropes, who’s always so patient and kind despite your inexperience. diligent with his teaching but also so laidback, so easy to talk to… he looks intimidating, but he’s so polite that you can’t help but swoon a little. and he admires your enthusiasm so much…… grows fond of you soooo quickly bc you’re just such a breath of fresh air compared to the divas he’s forced to work with all the time. he thinks you’ve got real potential and he wants to nurture it.

and ofc you end up running into model!satoru eventually…. bc he’s always hanging around suguru whenever he gets the chance. and he’s maybe a little jealous that you’re hogging so much of his personal designer’s attention, but… he also thinks you’re so cute . T_T like a little puppy following suguru around… so excited to be apart of something you’ve dreamed of for so many years……… he looks into your eyes and sees the same sparkle he had before he made it big, and it makes his heart race.

yeah . i’m just thinking abt the peaceful coffee breaks with suguru….. how he’d insist on paying for your drink, ”since he’s your senior” (he wants to be your favorite </3)…… and how he’d just be so protective over his little intern. don’t get me started on the close proximity with satoru when you’re taking his measurements, the glance and smile he sends your way during an impromptu shoot… the way he always calls for you with a sweet coo of ”how’s my favorite intern doing today?”

😔😔😔 yeahhhhhh. they make me feel ill.

#thank you 🌺 anon my beloved….. i am kissing your beautiful brain #😭😭😭😭 now i kinda wanna write this oh no #my anons keep making my wip list longer this isn’t fair T—T #(i love you all very much) #NO BUT THIS IS SO BIGBRAINED IT’S INSANE #fashion designer!sugu the loml…. model!satoru just feels so natural too #i think they’re both very mature!!!!!!! #there are some aus where i think satoru would lean towards his more bratty hs self #but here i feel like he’s similar to the way he is in canon :3 just. silly and goofy and passionate abt what he does #AND very fond of youth. of people with lofty goals and dreams and starlight in their eyes #(<- has gotten carried away) #YOU GET IT THOUGH i know you’ll see the vision 🌺 anon 🫂🫂🫂 we’re holding hands #i need them both #need suguru to buy me expensive coffee while satoru feeds me pieces of a pastry #for some reason i keep thinking of coffee breaks i might. just be hungry 😭😭😭 #ask tag ✩ #🌺 anon !! ✩ #geto x reader #gojo x reader #stsg x reader #satosugu x reader #gojo satoru x reader #geto suguru x reader

[palatinewolfsblog]

"Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation and that is an act of political warfare."

Audre Lorde.

#quote of the day #quote of today #inspirational quotes #inspirational words #audre lorde #self care #self preservation #body mind spirit #feed your head #feed your soul #feed yourself #you matter

[girlyaois]

I honest to God think a lot of the moral fears surrounding whether you think about your f/os enough or if you comfort your f/os enough in your mind or if YOU do enough FOR your f/os can... really and truly be answered simply by being reminded that they aren't real. you do not morally owe any of your f/os your time, effort, or emotional availability. because they aren't real, and you are. and it's OKAY to say this. it will never be immoral to acknowledge we daydream and draw fanart for ourselves and our joy because we're real people, they're not, they don't need anything from you. don't exert yourself worrying about people who don't exist.

#selfship #self ship #selfshipping #self shipping #txt #i keep seeing posts reassuring people that they arent bad for not thinking about their f/os often. but all for the wrong reasons #“they still love you even if youre too busy!” the right thing to say is that they arent real and you dont owe fiction anything. #i know its not the same but as someone with ocd it genuinely is starting to remind me of all the “ocd reassurance” posts. that are horrible #(the ocd reassurance posts just playing into the cycle by explaining why we arent bad people. therefore feeding compulsions.) #say it how it is. its not worth worrying about.

[chrollohearttags]

I can take a silly ass teenager with no common sense talking about fic writers but I’ll be damned if a non black bitch being blatantly racist and a bird ho who’s a single mother of three kids and has custody of none of them speaks on me or my friends.

#you got me fucked up severely #go feed your kids—oh wait #go laugh abt that since ur such a fan bitch #speak on that in the comments #idk what the problem is #but I promise y’all don’t want me to start #sitting up in tiktok comments at ur elderly age making fun of writers #the hell be wrong with you hoes #cherry chats 🍒 #what’s so funny abt the whole thing is that she named every racist stereotype she could #and black bitches in the comments laughing #mind you #I don’t have a single fic of what she described #you self hating hoes couldn’t even outwrite my wattpad fics #just illiterate ugly and bitter #y’all be funny but I’m hilarious dpwm

[paoofthestars]

Yea I saw one of those cute pastries and I just made a headcanon for these two

I was supposed to be the first panel only but my hand slipped, so oops!

#please dont look at this #i feel so ballsy for posting this ong #self indulgent #oc x canon #clickbait ship #<- yeah imma call their ship with that #ig??? #pink addison #purple addison #pierre c addison #viviana p addison #deltarune #utdr #my art #digital art #paoofthestars #Forgive me if you see this on your feed

[podcast-hemocytoblast]

tma au where everything is the same except the Eye doesn’t let people say swear words in their Statements. As in, it censors them. You get your trauma ripped out of you and, to add insult to injury, The Eldritch Horror of Not Minding Your Own Damn Business forces you to describe these viscerally awful things that you’ve experienced using the word “unalive.”

#the magnus archives #tma #the eye #i just think it would be really funny if someone walked into jon’s office just in time to hear him saying some shit like #“Statement of Trevor Herbert regarding his life as a self-proclaimed vampire unaliver” #i think this would actually be beneficial to the Eye bc it could feed off the shame and humiliation of #having to say the word unalive in public against your will #i’m sure i can’t be the first person to have made this post. i mean. what is the eye if not #the embodiment of those kids who films strangers in public to post on tiktok dot com #*film.

[ride-a-dromedary]

I have no base for this, but Halsin seems like the type who would settle in the middle of the group with fruits (that he likely foraged) and little wooden bowl in tow and just start cutting them unprompted and offering them to everyone else.

#BG3 Musing #Halsin #Halsin Posting #i cannot get over him telling shadowheart he would feed her and carry around her bowl if she were a goldfish #you know what i'm talking about right - like the little paring knife cuts them in his hands #at first it just looks like he's doing it for himself but like halsin just eats things sans cutting them lbh #it's a clever and nonchalant way for him to share because others are more likely to take small pieces than like a whole apple yk? #we should all benefit from the bounty we are provided every day and all that #and eventually near everyone just starts...taking it from him and he smiles and continues #i think my other basis for this is halsin just doesn't like seeing people suffer - whether that be neglecting their basic needs #(because he neglects his own self enough lmao but lemme not neglect my friends though they're important) #or isolating themselves or what and it stems from his desire of just wanting to help #and feels absolutely no offense if they brush him off #like okay but it'll still be here if you want it later ^_^ #that's also why i am a sucker for the 'halsin offers to let astarion drink from him' trope in fics #because it goes along with the 'i don't want you to suffer and if i can help i will' even though as a druid #technically your existence is very dodgy to me (but halsin is just a nice person! that's really the long and short of it) #but like obviously disapproves if you do it without permission lol

[peapodsplace]

Hey Baba, it seems like you've been seeing a lot of yucky stuff online right now. A lot of people who aren't remembering their manners and are forgetting that there's people behind a screen. I know you like your screen time but please remember that the world isn't all like that okay? Some people are different online and forget their values and let's remember that these days, algorithms perpously show you things that'll make you upset. Yes, yes it's not very fair, is it sweetheart. Please remember to take some breaks and that the world isn't really like that. It's so important to protect yourself. Yes, silly even if you think you don't deserve it; because you do.

#todd talks #🫛 #agere #agere text #age regression #caregiver blog #caregiver text #agere reminders #inspired by my instagram filling up with really scary & unhelpful advice and people who are just coming out to bully people #please remember everyone that the hot market these days isnt real estate or stocks it is peoples attention spans and companies want to show #you the cherry-picked very best and the tailor made worst just for you #for years i only had tumblr reddit and youtube because i dont want a big digital footprint and i dont think much good comes from it #but i got instagram a few months ago so i can stay in touch with people and oh my gosh its vile #even when youre so particular about what you like/watch #but!! #as long as youre being aware you are already doing great. if you catch your self going hang on. this is a rubbish post. thats you recognisi #whats going on. which makes it a lot harder for it to get to you #sorry if this is a bit much but its something thats really important to me.. i just think social media is so evil these days. #be your online body guard!!! protect your feed!! keep your head up!!! #and if you feel you cant??? i can take care of it for you raaaa!

[eyeofnewtblog]

Things that happen at work:

Warehouse Manager, who is the prankster of the office, and after exactly 1 (one) request to be involved in scheming: Hey, so, you know how I hired that one customer service ladies kid? Yeah, he just turned 21 yesterday and was super excited about being able to go to a dispensary. Can you make up a fake drug test?

Me: Oh god, I literally have the perfect form already printed out, like it’s supposed to be for the drivers to go get their med cards renewed, but it’s a whole thing, we do our drug testing at the same facility, company, whatever, it’ll be perfect!

Warehouse Manager: *legit evil giggles* Okay, let me know how it goes!

Me, to the new warehouse kid, in front of all the other warehouse workers who are by now In On It: Hey, so, you’ve been selected for a random drug screening. Here’s the paperwork you need to bring to them, you’ll need to fill in your legal name and social security number right here. The facility is right across the street, but they close at 3 pm so you’ll need to get over there before the end of your shift. *walks the fuck away before I can’t keep a straight face anymore, because that poor kid literally just froze up, like whole body clenching*

Me, after about ten minutes, to Lead Warehouse Guy: Hey, I think it’s been long enough, and honestly if he actually goes over there for a drug screening with that particular form they WILL charge the company and I don’t actually want to get in real, legit trouble…

Lead Warehouse Guy: Yeah, I hear you. Wait here, but keep the serious face on as long as possible.

Lead Warehouse Guy: *gathers up the new kid, takes the paperwork from him, and leads him over to me, I can’t hear anything that they’re saying but he’s obviously being comforting but serious, manly hand on shoulder type stuff, they get real quiet as they get up to me*

Lead Warehouse Guy, very seriously: Brandon, ultimately, what we need you to know right now, is…*rips the paperwork up*…that you’ve been fucked with.

New warehouse kid: *breaks into relieved cackles* OH MY GOD YOU GUYS HAD ME! Oh man, I already texted my mom, holy fuck, oh man, I thought I was SO gonna be fired! Oh thank god ! Whoo! Yes! Okay! All of you suck! I mean, that was good, but holy fuck that sucked!

Me, after I’m done catching my breath: Oh, sweetie, I’m sorry! I really am! I’m so sorry! But it really was funny…I’ll make you muffins or cake or whatever, I’ll bring it in Monday, okay?

New kid, still recovering: Yeah, sure, whatever you want to do? Sure?

#humans are space orcs #things that happen at work #I’ve adopted another youngling #they need feeding these younglings #muffins are my bitch #Tupperware is difficult #how to date your self 101: recycled sealed lids #regardless of label

[angelic-loveerr]

1. it's always about me, and it always will be. I am the main , the original, and the unique.

#affirmations #self love #manifesation #self concept #affirmyourreality #law of assumption #i love myself #loa #self concept affirmations #self improvement #affirmdaily #affirm and persist #master manifestor #manifestyourreality #law of manifestation #manifestation #lawofattraction #law of the universe #manifestingmindset #feed your mind and affirmations #black girl blogger #black femininity #higher self #better yourself

[prussianmemes]

you should kill yourself if you spend 12 minutes sorting around your notes on your desk, making sure they look messy but also the prettiest ones are on top, posing your textbook open and having the most "academia" looking web page or lecture slides on your laptop screen before taking a picture and posting it on your social media story while quietly scrolling through songs to put with it.

#every time exam season comes around #people do this religiously #i hate it profusely it's so incredibly vain and pointless #you're like the people who go to the library for an epic study day and set up your big environment #only to sit on your phone for 5 hours #have the humility to be honest about your study habits and what works and what doesn't #i feel like its a form of cognitive dissonance this type of stuff and a form of lying to themselves #which is the one person you should always be brutally honest to #txt #i plan ahead and give myself so much extra time because i know my time efficiency is dogshit and i compensate for that #i try to avoid talking to other people about studying and i try to insulate myself when i am #of course for med school it's impossible not to talk about it as your classmates will bring it up in every third conversation #which opens the pandora's box of listening to other people talk about it which is atrocious as all people ever take away from it is #'oh my god everyone is doing so much more i'm so behind' #which isn't true everyone is in their own variation of hell just slightly different #i try to block it out completely when i can #med students have this annoying tendency to group themselves into these circles of self feeding despair and nervousness #i mean all of med insta is full of dogshit memes like this of the same 'le epic med stress' memes #kill yourselves you people are self fulfilling prophecies #josef lada ice these fools #to chce klid #as the man said #a taky trošku sebevědomí #and also not listening or giving a fuck what anyone else is doing #každý ma svůj systém a svůj styl #and have a life outside of this as well

[makenna-made-this]

Branching out into different birbs with this lovely little BAWKmission of Chuck the Vulture for @mr-fangs Cannot believe I have never drawn a turkey vulture, they are one of my favorite local bird in our area. I always admire their cute, wobbly drunk flying while they ride thermals in the air

Still offering these little $12 BAWKmission drawings. As always, links to all my commission info and kofi in my pinned post~

#BAWKmissions #kenna commissions #makenna made a thing #shameless self promotion #turkey vulture #love their little bald heads #birds #birdblr #wildlife #commissions open #art #artblr #artists of tumblr #small artist #doodle #help me pay my bills and feed my spoiled chickens #sketch #let me draw your chickens #i am but a single mother trying to support my six feathery daughters

[bubbledtee]

something in me thinks that if you were dating him, modern!80s!james would call you “honey” when you’re alone together.

#idk if this makes sense but he def loves acting like a little married couple at the end of the day #he calls you ‘honey’ and feed you little bites of whatever food he’s eating #he’ll let you snuggle up to him while you read a book and he watches tv #sometimes he’ll ask what you’re reading about #and he’ll be tucking your hair behind your ear all gentle #this is completely self indulgent #and incoherent #but someone understands me i’m sure #james hetfield #papa het #modern!80s!james #bub’s thoughts