hello! I have a very important request of you all! My platform on here isn’t huge but I think it’s the one I can make the most impact on.
If you can, please donate to the link below. they are incredibly close to their goal. Mosa Hammad is trying to get his family out and into Egypt and it’s crucial that we help get them out as quickly as possible because of the border closing soon. He has small children that need to get out and be safe. Thank you.
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Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".
Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"
And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".
Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.
At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.
So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!
Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!
Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!
Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.
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The Fertility Collaborators: Unlocking Opportunities through the Egg Donor Affiliate Program
Introduction
In the realm of assisted reproduction, the journey towards parenthood can be filled with challenges. For individuals and couples facing infertility, the possibility of conceiving a child may seem elusive. However, with advancements in medical technology and the support of agencies like "Help Create Families," there is renewed hope through the Egg Donor Affiliate Program. In this article, we will explore how this innovative program serves as a catalyst for unlocking opportunities and bringing dreams of parenthood closer to reality.
Understanding the Egg Donor Affiliate Program
The Egg Donor Affiliate Program is a unique initiative offered by agencies such as "Help Create Families." This program connects individuals who are interested in becoming egg donors with prospective parents in need. By serving as a collaborative platform, the Egg Donor Affiliate Program facilitates the creation of partnerships, allowing those desiring to contribute to the gift of life through egg donation to connect with individuals who are unable to conceive on their own.
Collaborating for a Common Goal
The essence of the Egg Donor Affiliate Program lies in collaboration. This program brings together potential egg donors and intended parents who are united by a shared desire to create a family. By fostering a collaborative environment, "Help Create Families" cultivates an atmosphere of support, empathy, and understanding, where all parties involved can work towards a common goal.
How "Help Create Families" Empowers Opportunities
Expanding the Network: Through the Egg Donor Affiliate Program, "Help Create Families" expands its network of potential egg donors. This ensures a diverse range of candidates, allowing intended parents to find the perfect match that aligns with their preferences and requirements. By increasing the pool of available egg donors, the agency enhances the chances of successful matches and provides more opportunities for individuals or couples struggling with infertility.
Screening and Selection Process: "Help Create Families" understands the significance of meticulous screening and selection procedures when it comes to choosing egg donors. The agency ensures that all potential donors undergo comprehensive medical and psychological evaluations, ensuring their suitability for the program. This rigorous process instills confidence in intended parents, assuring them that they are collaborating with a reputable agency committed to their well-being.
Personalized Matching: The Egg Donor Affiliate Program at "Help Create Families" emphasizes personalized matching. The agency takes into account the preferences and characteristics outlined by intended parents, carefully considering factors such as physical attributes, educational background, and personal interests. This attention to detail facilitates a more tailored and meaningful connection between the egg donor and the intended parents, increasing the chances of a positive and successful outcome.
Support and Guidance: "Help Create Families" recognizes that the decision to pursue egg donation can be emotionally and logistically complex for intended parents. To ease the process, the agency provides comprehensive support and guidance throughout the journey. They offer counseling services, educational resources, and assistance with legal and logistical aspects, ensuring that all parties involved feel empowered, informed, and supported every step of the way.
Opportunities for Egg Donors: The Egg Donor Affiliate Program not only benefits intended parents but also provides opportunities for compassionate individuals interested in becoming egg donors. By participating in the program, egg donors have the chance to make a profound impact on someone else's life, helping to fulfill the dreams of parenthood for those in need. Moreover, egg donors receive proper compensation for their time, effort, and commitment, making the experience even more rewarding.
Conclusion
The Egg Donor Affiliate Program offered by "Help Create Families" represents a beacon of hope and collaboration in the world of assisted reproduction. By facilitating connections between potential egg donors and intended parents, the program unlocks opportunities for parenthood, providing a pathway towards realizing the cherished dream of having a child. Through personalized matching, comprehensive support, and a commitment to quality care, "Help Create Families" empowers individuals and couples to overcome infertility, nurturing a collaborative environment where dreams can be turned into beautiful realities.
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Of Tiny Tots, Mistaken Identities, and Reunions
Seventeen year old Damian Wayne is dragged to a business deal outside of Gotham (along with his father and Drake), mostly to keep up appearances that the family does work outside of Gotham, networking, and because Damian does need to learn the ropes of the company, he decides to head outside the meeting with the Manson family to get a breather (mainly cause the Manson's were annoying him fully, it was like they were trying to suck up towards Damian and trying to push their daughter on him but at the same time he caught them almost insulting and hostile towards him before they would stop and correct themselves) when out of the blue a three year old toddler with black hair comes running over with a cheerful "Daddy!" and latches onto his leg.
Damian is stunned in place but feels frozen when he hears a voice, older and almost identical to his own but he can detect a familiarity in it, a voice he only hears in his dreams nowadays say.
"Ellie, no! That's not me Starlight! I'm so sorry dude-"
When Damian turned his head towards the voice he's meet with an near identical face, granted there were some minor differences, but very, very familiar pair of striking blue eyes staring at him. Eyes that were somehow full of life, which shouldn't be possible because the last time he saw those eyes they had been dim and milked over years ago. The speaker had become startled at the his sudden turn and the words that he had been saying had quickly died out when he too took in Damian's features.
"D...Damian?..." the name came out so soft and small that Damian almost didn't hear it but he did.
And before Damian could stop himself, he spoke a name he hadn't dared utter in years.
"Danyal."
His twin looked like he had just seen a ghost, and Damian was sure he looked the same. And given the last time they had last saw each other it was no wonder they both looked like death warmed over them for a moment.
After all... Damian had failed to protect his brother, Danyal al Ghul all those years ago on a botched mission.
His bother who... wasn't dead.
His brother who was looking like he wanted to run but was keeping himself rooted in his spot.
His brother whose eyes were glancing downwards and seemed so nervous.
His brother who knew the little girl, Ellie, still hugging his legs.
His brother who had... responded and corrected her mix up when she had called Damian 'Daddy.'
And oh, she's looking up at him and making grabby hands wanting to be picked up and she has Danyal's eyes and his nose and-
Oh... Damian.... Damian's an uncle it seems.
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Much like Welcome to Nightvale, I feel like a lot of people have forgotten just how big and influential Yuri on Ice was. It fully broke into the mainstream. It was everywhere. Evgenia Medvedeva, the top female figure skater in 2016 and 2017, had YOI plushies thrown to her on the ice and wore a Victuuri tshirt to an interview. Japanese pair skaters Miu Suzaki and Ryuichi Kihara skated to the YOI theme at the fucking Pyeongchang 2018 Olympics. The Olympics. Canadian ice dancer Joseph Johnson did the ‘J.J. Style’ hand symbol in the kiss and cry. Johnny Weir made me cry by talking about how he wished the homophobic world of figure skating he experienced could have been more like the kinder world of Yuri on Ice.
There were cameos and references to it everywhere. Everyone was talking about it. People who had never watched anime were watching it. It was so big it crashed Crunchyroll and Tumblr. Twice. And all that for what was at its core, a queer love story that helped pave the way for more queer stories to come.
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