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cbk1000 · 4 months

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So, Mr. Jenn's grandma is in her 90s, and has been in the early stages of dementia for a while now. She's still coherent, and still able to take care of herself and live independently so far, so there's been no move to put her in an assisted living facility. But this does mean we hear some kind of wild stuff. She has a lot of paranoia and has been complaining about people in her attic (she lives in a one-story apartment), and recently she told my MIL (her daughter) that the people who were out to get her are also after MIL and FIL's new Labrador puppy. The people in her attic have also attacked her with some kind of ray gun? (Not actually sure if that's what she called it, but her descriptions of it basically sound like some kind of sci-fi weapon that they're apparently using to knock her down.)

Anyway, the latest now is that my FIL and I have back-to-back birthdays (me on Monday, him on Tuesday), and we always celebrate together with a dinner on whatever the closest Saturday is when our birthdays fall on weekdays. He called Mr. Jenn today (they talk every day when Mr. Jenn gets off work) and tells him that grandma will not be at the birthday dinner tomorrow, because 'no one loves her.' As a specific example of this, she said 'Jenn hasn't spoken to me in two years.'

We have a family get-together at his parents' (grandma included) for every major holiday, plus every birthday (hers included). She's seen me multiple times in the last few months. She just saw me two weeks ago, for Mr. Jenn's birthday. I remember talking to her at his birthday. My FIL told Mr. Jenn he specifically remembers me talking to her at his birthday.

No idea why she has decided that I specifically have not spoken to her in years (we get on well because she was a bit eccentric even before the dementia, and I go down enough weird rabbit holes that I can hold a conversation on lots of things without judgement because when you've sought out the parts of the internet I've sought out, you can't judge), but dementia is really a bitch if it makes you turn down a free dinner.

#personal #i've been wondering for a while how much longer she'll be able to hold out #i'm hoping she passes before it gets to a point that she has to go into care #because i know the loss of her independence would be a huge blow to her #but i'm wondering if this is indicative of it worsening #does she think she hasn't seen me in two years?#or just that i've ignored her at every family get-together for the last two years?#either one is not great in terms of what it says about her cognitive function #she can be a bit tantrum-y dementia aside #so i'm not surprised she's throwing a fit #just at what's prompting it #i'm not offended #it's not her fault #just kind of baffled at the various ways cognitive decline presents #my grandpa in the last few years of his life didn't recognise any of us #grandkids or kids #and thought he was still on a navy ship in ww2 #she doesn't seem to be slipping in that way #it's more these delusions about people out to get her and now me snubbing her

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phospolipid-bilayer · 5 months

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Nightmare is apparently made of worms? "The worms have found their orifices". This picture. Horrifying. Probably because the Narrator sees Shifting Mound as a parasite?

#slay the princess #'Your existence hurt them'#This leads me to think that. Um #Uh #Paranoid has a couple in her #A couple worms #Maybe more #It's not her fault #They're just. There. Since day one #Very unfortunate #The worms. The horrors. They love her

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postsfromthedark · 6 months

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claudia has made it very hard to excuse her war crimes, but I shall continue to do so

#Pls #She's my bbgrl #My skrunkly #My beloved #Claudia tdp #tdp claudia #the dragon prince #Please listen #It's the narrative that's doomed her #Her only flaw is her loyalty #To people who refuse to save her over others #And her inability to cope driving her insane #It's not her fault #Please listen to me

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karineverse · 5 months

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I started the year the same way I finished the last one. Crying. My mom is not here again.

#it's not her fault

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thatscarletflycatcher · 3 months

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We have reached the stage of the hot Jane Austen men poll where I only care about two guys there, and reach peak annoyance at the sacred cows of the Tumblr Austen fandom (S&S 95, P&P 95, and P&P 05 a little).

#X is the book character brought to life #WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG SO WRONG #I mean I knew it was going to come to this #so I'm not surprised at all #I enjoyed the first rounds specially because I knew #in general no hard feelings for the P&P girlies #it's not her fault #but the P&P mania bores me

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oifaaa · 2 years

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Steph really decided she was going to marry into the Wayne family no matter what

Actually I think it's more stephs trying to do everything in her power not to be a member of the Wayne family but unfortunately for her her type is "pathetic little man" and "girl who could beat me up"

#Ask #Anon #It's not her fault #Shes trying her best to get the fuck out of there

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grilledkatniss · 17 days

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So I realized a while back I had this internalized nagging resentment towards Beyoncé and the beehive and I think it's coming down to a few factors that piled up over time. And none of those have anything to do with Beyonce herself but everything to do with her fanbase.

#God honestly #it's not her fault #i have to self check my attitude every time something related to beyonce is said or her content is streamed in my presence.#it's like im gearing up for a fight like some Kanye like piece of shit is gonna pop up outta nowhere #like remember when they screamed beyonce should have won while harry was on the stage accepting the grammy like what the fuck #i have nothing against Beyonce but everything against those fuckers #what's wrong with you #that's so disrespectful #and jz her husband calling out the academy for not giving her the aoty?? while he was being honoured by them for some special award like #bro i would hate it if any respectful institutionalized entity gave me anything as a result of being publicly shamed #like beyonce im so sorry about your husband #that was so embarrassing #beyonce #she IS a queen #her fanbase need to fuckin calm down #you're more detrimental to her success than you know #awkwardifying life #lemme reiterate this. she is pure class. but those type of fans are like hogs splattering mud all over Beyonce's hard work

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tsarnvoiny · 2 months

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on topic with these phone memes. if you have a nickname in her phone , mean or not . . it's a GOOD SIGN. things like that don't happen with her often , so if you end up with a nickname of any kind it's cause she likes you!

#headcanon ✡ i'm writing my own story now.#the mean ones are usually because she has a REALLY DARK sense of humor #don't take it personal #it's not her fault #she learned how to be funny from wade

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gloriousclio · 8 months

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me reading the Illiad for the first time since college: oh right i don't like the illiad.

i skipped book 14, forgive me

#i just liked Emily Wilson's translation of the Odyssey SO MUCH #it's not her fault

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ask-thedetectiveoffnaf · 9 months

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So about Mxes Did Hailey or Vanny created him?

Luis: Who's Mxes.... you mean that rabbit ghost.... I figure Vanessa made him to trap us here.... She's banned from seeing my little sister..

Cassie: So Vanessa is a friend?

Luis: ......Used to be... now she's a killer and evil... She's dating my baby sister..

Cassie: Wow...

#five nights at freddy s #It's not her fault #Fnaf Vanessa #Fnaf Mxes #fnaf security guard #Fnaf Cassie

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stare-but-dont-see · 1 year

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#it #really is funny how karma works huh #i guess #i shoukd have known better #it's not her fault #if i was #interesting or funny or #worth #anything more #it would be different #i cant feel hurt #for being seen only for one thing #it's not her fault it's #me

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mushroom-for-art · 2 years

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This was meant to be like another Mewtwosona but if Arceus slapped on a new typing due to the fact I do gardening boom u got a grass type now but I fell out of love with her so she gets her own post.