what I was talking abt earlier. we have fully looped back around and away from feminism, societally, whereas before it was very Feminism 101 to acknowledge that many parts of existing as a woman in a misogynistic society are painful and upsetting.
not that being a woman is Inherently Negative in a bubble. but that living on this earth, in the conditions we're living in, is hostile to women.
and that gender is a performance. that many of the Staples Of Femininity as accepted by society are things that you have to create and perform and mold artificially and aren't inherent, that COMPLAINING about day to day difficulties of existing as a woman is something that you're allowed to do.
acknowledging these basic, again, feminism 101 things, that something tied to womanhood is more time consuming or more expensive or more dangerous Because Of The Problems. does not CREATE the problems. that when women complain about having to perform femininity, they are not, in fact, oppressing themselves. the call does not come from inside the fucking house.
saying that you HAVE suffered does not fucking equate that you believe you SHOULD have suffered.
like I could talk about this for hours. how braindead and one-dimensional the Takes are getting. "being a woman is looking in the mirror and going fuck yeah i'm a woman" damn. I guess any negative experiences you have by living in a misogynistic world... are your fault if you are anything but positive?
"you don't actually want liberation" we've fully gone back to telling feminists "you WANT to be oppressed" when anything negative about our society is pointed out. it's not real until I say it out loud, I guess, and then I'm actually the one who caused it.
if anybody expresses any unhappiness with how they're treated or the status quo or the language and culture surrounding womanhood and femininity. they've created it, right that second. they invented it just now. it wasn't a problem before somebody complained, right?
also trans women aren't braindead zombies who just follow the flow of whatever cis women around them say. I am pretty fucking sure they are very much aware of pain, and are MORE than aware of the swirling torrent of misogyny and standards of femininity than anybody else. actually. and I am pretty sure someone complaining on tumblr that being a woman means always putting on a performance is going to make someone change their mind about transitioning. also "performing femininity" as a necessity to being treated well as a woman is not fucking NEWS to your Local Trans Woman. I AM PRETTY SURE SHE GETS THE CONCEPT. using trans women as a scapegoat for this braindead perspective on gender politics is spineless, meritless, and pathetic.
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something i really like about GSNK is that it’s about a group of friends, but it isn’t about a friend group. everyone knows each other so there can be interesting interactions between any combo of the main characters, but it’s not like all seven of the main characters ever hang out all together at once, so there’s never any sort of feeling that it’s forced to include everybody in every comic.
in fact a big part of GSNK is everyone knowing each other, but not knowing that others know each other, or not knowing their ‘true identity’ (like mikoshiba being unaware of who does backgrounds for nozaki’s manga while chiyo knows, or everyone knowing seo is lorelei while wakamatsu is unaware of it).
it feels realistic in a way to portray people as having multiple overlapping friend groups instead of just only one tight group of friends who they always hang out with. it’s an interesting dynamic that i rarely see to this extent with main characters in other slice of life/sitcom series
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Need literally anything smutty about Matty rn I’m dying
omg have a snippet of something i'm working on
“you’re so wet, what the fuck turned you on so much?”
“you,” you answer honestly.
“what about me?” he asks, his lips moving against your core as he speaks. “i wasn’t doing anything.”
his breath is hot over your damp underwear, making it stick to you; you shiver, and matty pulls your underwear down slowly, tugging them down your thighs until he can get them over your ankles.
"love?" his voice pulls your attention back as he runs his teeth over your inner thigh. his stubble burns the sensitive skin there - coaxing quiet gasps from your lips as your head drops back into the pillows.
“' just fucking looked at you and wanted your mouth,” you confess, all in one breath, and matty smiles against your skin. he nips lightly at the flesh there, then sucks on the bite until you're squirming under him, unable to stay still as the heat pooling at the base of your spine grows more and more intense by the second.
he pulls back, licking the bite mark before murmuring, “you got it.”
you don't have time to ask what he means before he’s pinning you to the bed by your hips, his long fingers spread to grip the meat of your ass. his tongue licks over your cunt - from your hole all the way up to your clit; he sucks there, hard, then slips one finger into you. your hips buck up from the sudden intrusion, and matty moans against your clit, the sensation vibrating through your entire body.
“fuck,” you gasp, reaching down to tangle a hand in matty's curls. his fingers dig in hard to the muscles of your thighs, leaving bruises in their wake and you whine, a desperate sound that tears up out of your chest. he reaches up with one of his big hands to palm at your waist as he slips a second finger into your tight entrance. you make yourself relax, from your shoulders down your spine and your hips; when you make your thighs relax muscle by muscle, you can feel your walls relax, too.
you're shaking by the time matty stops hovering and drops his head to lap at your clit with his tongue. his grip on your hips tightens; he slips a third finger into your cunt at the same time, and all the heat pooling in your core spills out - pouring like waves of fire through your body and matty just keeps going.
“matt, matty,” his name is the only thing in your head; your brain blank and blissfully staticky; you can only stare unfocused up at the ceiling as the image of matty’s dark hair between your thighs plays on a loop in your mind’s eye.
when the last tremors of your orgasm have worn off, matty carefully slips his fingers out of you, bringing both his hands to your waist and his mouth up until he’s kissing over the planes of your stomach. his calloused hands relax your shaking body, leaving you boneless and wrung-out. that doesn’t stop you from leaning up into matty's kiss when it comes, though.
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I'm kinda of curious since you seem to have been infected with the Shroud brainrot, do you have any thoughts on Idia and Lilia being internet friends?
oh I have absolutely been infected with Shroud brainrot, how did they shoot right up next to grampa vampire and his idiot dragon son, I did not anticipate this plot twist
"Idia and Lilia don't realize that they're WoW friends" is probably my favorite running gag (+ bonus Silver bragging about his Cool Jock Gamer Dad in front of Idia, who makes neither connection and ends up just being super intimidated by this hypothetical chad dad). and if I'm being 100% honest I was actually a little disappointed that it ended up being blatantly shown because it makes for SUCH a good "hey wait a minute" moment as they both go on about their online bestie. BUT their friendship is actually really sweet and getting to see (and now hear, Lilia WHY do you talk like that online WHY IS THAT YOUR ONLINE VOICE) them interact more than made up for that, so I'm happy to see it! 💚 now that it's in the main story I am expecting some choice bits in episode 7. can't wait for Idia to be forced into even more social interaction against his will.
there is also a particularly good bit in one of Idia's stories where Lilia brings up the possibility of meeting offline and they're just. both of them are just like.
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