i know nobody is online rn to read this but ;-; i gotta get it off my chest i love ken so much he means everything to me he's making me so happy and i've needed him so so so bad. he's brought me comfort when my ptsd has been so fucking unbearable and every time i'm having a crying fit over losing my tf f/os or every time i'm having a flashback i ALWAYS immediately IMMEDIATELY think about him rushing to my side, holding me and saying "hey hey it's okay, i'm here, i'm right here" and it's such a relief because i haven't been able to genuinely wholeheartedly believe any character would be willing to do that for me the entire time i've been struggling this year.
i've never gone so long without comfort from f/os, much less being triggered by the ones who used to comfort me the most. so to have barbie and ken right now is like the biggest wave of relief every single day when i wake up and the hyperfixation is still there. sometimes i will literally close my eyes and sigh in relief when i hear a song and my first thought is sebastian or ken or six or... whomever. i love being in love again. i NEED this. i love waking up and my first thought isn't my trauma most of the time now, it's ken. or it's six. or it's barbie. or it's harley. or it's officer k. or it's... yeah you get it. i needed these characters so fucking badly. every time i see a gifset and get excited over it, i feel a rush of gratitude bc self shipping has always been the glue holding me together. it doesn't feel as intense or strong as the SB musical or TF used to make me feel but i am not picky. not at all. i will take anything and i'm praying this lasts for at LEAST another few weeks please
i may not be at a sense of peace right now and i dont know when i ever will be, it could be years, but im so. so. so. so so so thankful to have these characters right now when i've needed someone so badly for so long. i hope ken knows how much i love him ;-; i hope barbie knows how much she has helped me, has saved me from one of my major triggers and has helped me to love and feel safe around the color pink again. i wish they could see me when i'm not so broken but i'm glad they're here even when i'm at my worst, i'm glad they still love me even when they deserve to see me in a much better light
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went to the TWRP concert!! Was very fun! Had a blast!
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i totally get what you mean in that last reply! Him being "dumb" seems to be one of his own personal insecurities and both the fans and the writers of the show tend to be guilty of leaning a bit too heavily on that perception of himself but not really questioning it? so he says he's dumb and everyone goes oh yeah he is :) even when he gets chances to prove that he is smart and capable in his own way that perception still stands for some people (also both in fandom and sometimes in the show there's a weird tendency to make characters be condescending when he says something Silly or play some of his more serious moments (like the Russian scene in season 3) kind of for a laugh? or just not really take it seriously
OHHH exactly <3 sadly the tried and true steve harrington manifesto continues to be "doesn't get taken seriously including even in the midst of literal torture" in every possible way 💔
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me: sends my family a carefully thought out ideas gift list for my partner with sizes, options, etc *2 months* before december since he can be difficult to gift and they all get stressed about it b/c they procrastinate. Also stated in the email that gifting is optional and not to stress about it
october, november, first half of december: crickets
my mom, literally a week and a half before gift-giving event: i wish to get a thoughtful gift for your partner and have waited till now. pls halp, i am very stressed.
me, internally: *eldritch screech into the endless void*
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What if he has chosen to be a parent to the kid at least until he is old enough to understand more?
highly doubt it given just how little time he's spent with the kid for all we know his actual family has told him that louis is just a family friend who sings and stuff. like not even a relative, just a friend who lives abroad
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