gonna take my job! / bojan's parents are just regular people / but you said to me it was because i sing better!
or, a quick compilation of bojan crying because of kris
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You know who I’m even angrier at? More than people on tiktok/youtube making fun of accounts of abuse and rape. More than anyone who’s used this situation for profit or just their 15 min of fame. More than the people watching and laughing because they have never had to deal with something like this and they have no idea what being abused feels like. More than the survivors who are still seeking abusers’ approval and leached onto this man. More than the people using Amber (and us) like their personal punching bags to forget their miserable lives. Even more than the alt-right who funded and spread the misinformation campaign that so many swallowed up with glee, because they can’t believe how ridiculously lucky they got, and this couldn’t be a better campaign to take away women’s rights and distract everyone from everything else they are doing if they tried to plan it.
The people I’m angrier at are the ones who have a platform and didn’t speak up. Youtubers who have made it their job to comment on social issues, who have made countless videos about queer rights, woman rights, and roevwade, but for some reason were suddenly silent on this, acting like it didn’t even exist ---- as though a bisexual young woman being abused by her much older straight cis husband wasn’t relevant to them; as though the rights of abuse victims aren’t relevant enough to talk about; as though it’s defend the rights of women until that woman is being piled up on and shredded to pieces like it’s the world’s most popular pastime. Because not losing a few followers out of their millions is more important than raising your voice against a public lynching and standing your ground. I’m angry at the lawyers with any kind of social media presence who stayed silent, and acted like this was none of their concern, when they’d HAD to know this was wrong. I’m specially angry at the lawyers with platforms who took a “neutral” stance, and instead of researching, investigating, and dissecting this ugly dog fight show and the people cheering, took their law information about it from headlines and tiktoks and made jokes. I’m angry at your politicians and politic commentators who call themselves defenders of minorities, and who comment on every little public thing, and who are still screaming about voters rights, and bodily autonomy, and ‘don’t say gay,’ but seemed to have suddenly lost the capability of speaking out about this, and reaching out a hand for someone who actually needed it right then and now, and not in the future --- if not for her than for every other survivor this has and will affect. I’m angry at every celebrity that worked with him and has got to have seen one or multiple of his rages, of his unprofessionalism, of his highs, and stayed quiet, because looking good is more important than lending credibility to a less powerful and stablished woman colleague in need. I’m devastatingly angry at the MeToo movement and anyone that was ever associated with it, helped by it, or worked in any other organization against IPV or SA and has said nothing, because not getting bad DMs is more important than doing their fucking jobs or helping someone as they were helped.
Not everyone that saw what’s happening was able to speak up, and that’s okay. But if you have a platform, and the means to protect yourself, and specially if you make a living by commenting on social issues, and you didn’t say anything, then this is on you too, as much as it is on the monsters profiting from this in any way.
This is your responsibility. Staying quiet as many of your audience burned a queer woman at the stake, and hurt the rights of millions of abuse victims worldwide, made you complicit. And if I have to see one more of those people cry about our rights while pretending they can’t see, hear, or speak about this, I’m going to pull my hair out. You are all cowards, and I’m disappointed in every single one of you. More than in any of the cold blooded bastards that spoke up for an abuser because it was trendy.
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on of those twitter phannies yesterday was like “soviet of you haven’t watch BIG in a while maybe you should” in regards to people talking about the hand holding in spooky week and i badly wanted to respond being like ?? basically i’m gay… the video where dan calls phil his soulmate and literally confirms everything 😭 maybe they should watch BIG again actually
there is this weird thing where some people heard dan say that the speculation about his sexuality and invasion of privacy that he endured was traumatic and somehow from that got that he hates so-called "Phan Shippers" and is against anyone talking about him and phil potentially being a couple and it's so bizarre because it's just literally not what he said at all ? and if he did say that it would be highly hypocritical because, and i cannot stress this enough, dan and phil have always leaned into the shipping thing. always. they know it gets them views and they also clearly find it funny. that was never the issue.
the actual issue has always been people demanding answers and straight up harassing them about it, accessing their families' social media looking for clues, showing up at their literal home being weird, and, while closeted, constantly asking them if they're gay. THAT was the issue, that's what dan is talking about in his video.
i'm not even saying the general shipping didn't also get on their nerves sometimes, i'm sure it absolutely did, but that's not at all what dan said really affected him mentally.
the amount of times dan and phil have joked about it, actively encouraged fanfic (both by tongue-in-cheek writing it themselves and many times saying they consider fanfic to be a good creative outlet), referred to themselves as "phan" (a term they coined themselves, lest we forget), gone along with phannie jokes about them being together, and most of all emphasised that they generally try to stay out of fan spaces (i.e. anything they aren't tagged in) because they want us to feel free to be weird and post whatever without being afraid they'll see it... i'm sorry but to then vehemently insist dan and phil hate it when people ship them and are gonna ?? stop uploading again ?? if we do it ?? fucking stupid. and unbelievably annoying. if you don't like rpf that's fine, but there are so many more important issues you could dedicate your time to than policing people going 'aww' over two lameass grown men touching hands.
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Ramona's Kitchen
Ramona:(Notices all her teas and what not are on the counter) Scott sweetie.. why
Scott: (Obliviously playing Donkey Kong 64 in the living room) Look I know it's not a great game but it has the DK Rap Ramona, the DK Rap. It's a rap but it's about monkey's.
Ramona: Not that. Why's all our tea out here? (Opens cabinet to find...)
Roxie: (Scrunched into the cabinet having moved a lot of things to the counter. ) Sup
Ramona: (Dryest look imaginable)
Roxie: Don't tell me your not impressed
Ramona: A little but i'm mostly asking what the hell.
Roxie: I needed to see how your relationship was going. Make sure he was treating you right, score you on the rebound if he wasn't. Normal friend stuff.
Ramona: Roxie you were here yesterday. And last saturday and
Roxie: Yes but you KNEW I was coming. I had to make sure he was a good boyfriend when he's NOT expecting me.. and he is. Not every man finds an N64 on the side of the road Ramona. Treasure that. Treasure that.
Ramona: Okay look you can't do (Gestures) this. This isn't healthy. And i'm also not sure our cabinet's are well built enough for this.
Roxie: You think i'm some ametuer flowers? I checked the limits of your cabinet's last Saturday. I am the cabinet master!
Ramona: i'm just saying maybe get out a bit more. Talk to someone who isn't Todd. Won't enable this.
Todd:(voice from under the sink) She probably has a point
Ramona: (Sighs and opens the cabinet under the sink)
Todd: I'm stuck down here.
Ramona: .... Kinda proving my point there buddy.
Todd: Indeed I am.
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