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[jacebeleren]

transboilink replied to your post: lesbianlinkle:

radley I’m going to oppress you for this

whats wrong with bullying children?

#transboilink

[shellysaurus-rex]

helo frend! I hear you are the person to see about joining the fatesonas server on discord? If it's not too full I would be interested in hopping in!

it’s never too full friendo!! u v u b we’re always accepting new members~ i’ll send you an invite right away! :3c

#shell speaks #fatesona discord #transboilink

[noodlerama]

hey my dude I know you've said you're okay but positivity never hurts so- I really enjoy following you! No matter who you were or how you thought in the past, I am proud of you for learning and growing and becoming a better person. I love your art and your posts and I'm glad you're being so resilient about all this. Please continue to be so, and I hope things die down so you can have some peace soon!

Aww wow thanks a lot man, you have no idea how much that means. I know I said it didn’t bother me but I really appreciate you choosing to follow me through all this bullshit and sending this thoughtful message, I can’t give enough of my thanks 💖💖💖

#transboilink #ask

[kr--o]

transboilink replied to your post: honestly if there’s something that peeves the fuck...

fuckin sersiously im so tired of being made to feel like garbage for liking fates

same. if it weren’t for both awakening and fates we wouldn’t have sick titles coming out on mobile or a warriors styled game and heck! even a switch main series fe game like whoa!

#transboilink #kurotxt

[warlordess]

your anons need to chill smh? First of all, you're a lovely person inside and out. Second, people literally get depressed and unhealthy without enough interaction and attention. Seeking it is healthy so don't use traits like that as an insult??? Besides which you aren't really an attention seeker from what I gather anyway, just open and opinionated. Lastly, if they really dislike you so much they need to just mute/block you and grow up. SMH I'm sorry you're havin to deal with this!

You know, when I was younger, a kid, I was bullied all the time, taken advantage by other young girls in the complex I used to live in who would like me one day when I had something to give them and hate me the next because I didn’t.

In high school, other kids turned this bullying physical. For instance, one guy that I had in an English class the year before spent our woodshop class the next year harassing me with his group of guy friends, talking about me. One time, the class had a project to make toy rockets and, while the teacher was outside testing some of them out, the guy came back inside and chucked a piece of wood at my back and then threw his rocket and hit me in the side of the head. This was because, in that English class from the year before, we had been assigned a project together. Now, this project was the first one I’d ever had that relied on out-of-class work/homework… The boy didn’t contribute more than a page of notes while I did my entire half, so we basically turned in half a project and received a D, and he blamed me for that. While I’d been telling my counselor at the school (and the teachers, and any adult who stood still long enough to hear me) that he had been bullying me, it wasn’t until this incident at the end of the year that they actually did anything about it.

I’ve had empty soda bottles chucked at my head, pencils, then there was the laughing, ridicule, harassment (not as bad but since it lasted longer/more consistently, it should be mentioned).

Bottom line, I spent most of my preteen/adolescent years being bullied and - fun fact - I’ve actually been a patient at the psychiatric hospital I now work at twice during my youth because of depression and anxiety disorders. I was also a patient at a childhood/adolescent psych facility for about a year.

The thing is, through all of that bullying, I didn’t know what to do so I shrunk in on myself, let it happen, let them all get to me. And again, when I got old enough to tell someone about it who should have been able to help, they didn’t bother pursuing a solution until the last week that it would have made any difference. And if there’s any reason not to tell someone that people are treating you this way, it’s because you’ve already tried and tried and failed since nobody listened to you before.

So as a young adult, I grew a sarcastic spine. I still have a lot of trouble asserting myself, but I’m getting a little better (and I’m going on 30 years old so… geez, took long enough). I have this thing where I don’t want to rock the boat, plus I can get emotional when it gets to a point and I don’t want that coming back to bite me in the ass. As the saying goes, if you don’t have something nice to say, don’t say anything at all, right? And some people notice this. I have a tell where I’ll avert my eyes and, if I have a beverage, I’ll take a drink from it to occupy my mouth so nothing slips out in the meantime.

Now, while the internet is a terrible, god-awful place sometimes, the one thing I like about social media is that I have my own little corner where I can say what I want, feel what I want. And, if I think what I have to say is controversial/negative, I go out of my way to make sure it shouldn’t be seen by people who don’t want to see it. On tumblr, as I’ve said, I leave posts untagged and abbreviate/split common terms/words that get pulled up in a search. On Facebook, I only friend people I really know so what I post gets seen by the few I’ve screened beforehand. I believe that this is a lot more civil and respectful than a lot of people here. I think that everyone should care enough to do what I consider to be the minimum of social courtesy.

But then it comes down to what’s been happening over the past few days. People shouting at me to get over myself, I’m desperate, I’m an attention whore, I’m ugly, etc, etc. I’m surprised I haven’t received an actual open death threat recently (which has happened in the past, even as an adult). These people chase me down, come to my little pocket room of the internet, my safe space, where I should be allowed to say what I want (within reason, but I wouldn’t say any of the really terrible stuff anyway because I’m a decent human being, or so I think), and they attack me personally over it. So of course I fight back. I crack jokes, I respond in sarcastic GIFs, I give a logical debate as to why they’re wrong about this, that, or the other thing.

Like you said, it’s natural and healthy to seek some attention here and there. People thrive on people. People change people. And this is coming from an introvert.

So yes, when it comes to these kinds of people, I guess I do think I’m better than them. And the reason for that is because I don’t hide behind grayface to attack people personally - or to send asks/make posts at all. And, when I make a mistake - and I have - I pursue a solution or apologize. I’ve done it before a few times since joining Tumblr. (Hell, this happened recently between us but we both realized there was miscommunication, apologized, and moved on without consequence.)

I’ve found what I felt was the safest, most appropriate way to assert myself and state my opinions clearly and it’s taken me almost three decades to figure it out. And I refuse to let my voice and what little built up self-esteem I’ve accumulated over the course of my life be eaten away by these nameless, faceless people. At the very least, that’s one lesson I’ve learned that’s stuck with me. They’re meaningless.

They’re so scared to stand behind their own opinions that they won’t even attach a name to themselves. At least I have that going for me.

#asks #bullying #cyber bullying #anon hate #personal #long post #transboilink

[inspiritingplums]

((Anyway hi to new followers! I’m the mun, Lief. I’m a trans man and use he/him pronouns and am 26 years old.

My handle for my art is ‘bedheadedhero’ and my ooc tumblr is ‘transboilink.’ I’m more active on my twitter though, which is ‘faroshscales.’

I’m shy and sometimes a little clumsy at socializing but I do my best! Nice to meet you and thanks for following.))

#;ooc

[lgbt-and-fandom-moodboards]

Gay Cas + Destiel moodboard for @transboilink

#cas #castiel #destiel #supernatural #moodboard #spn #gay

[hollylu-ships-it]

First Commission down!

Ordered from @transboilink

Requested their Pokeshipping fankids “Rain & Coal Ketchum”

This was interesting b/c i don’t usually sketch for finished product. :D Thanks for the commission!

#Pokeshipping #fankids #pokeani #sketch #my art #hollylu #commission #pokemon

[meztliel]

Tagged by @tea-and-acorns thank ya! 

Rules- answer 11, ask 11, tag 11

1. If you could live in any fantasy world, which one would you choose? Does the Pokemon world count? Lol. Fantasy worlds tend to be too brutal for me to wanna live in them. But, I would like to live in Middle-Earth, preferably The Shire, Valinor, or Lothlorien during more peaceful times. 

2. Composition notebooks or regular ones?  Regular

3. Favorite Disney princess? Belle 

4. Extroverted or introverted?(or ambiverted?)-  Introverted AF

5. Favorite musical?  Does Disney’s The Hunchback of Notre Dame count? If not, Les Miserables, I suppose. I’m not really into musicals other than Disney ones. 

6. How many countries have you been to? Besides where I live (U.S.), just Mexico. 

7. Would you rather live near the ocean or a mountain? Mountain 

8. Favorite person in history? I’m not sure tbh. So many great people who did great things, but also not so great things. I’ll go with Frida Kahlo

9. Favorite flower? Orchid

10. Favorite live-action Disney movie? Beauty and the Beast or the 1994 live version of The Jungle Book 

11. Coffee or tea? Coffeeeeee

My Questions:

What’s one of your fondest childhood memories?

Favorite cult film?

Would you rather live without books or without music?

What’s your aesthetic?

What’s the last song you listened to (by choice)?

Last book you read?

When did you first join Tumblr?

Fictional character you’d like to either: be friends with or date

Do you have any pets, and if so, can I pet them (plz)?

Name something that makes you happy

Tell me something random about yourself

I tag @kairi-yajuu @redasuki @betaruga @smol-bluemage @arofili @rickseriastar @moonmyobsession @spocketlaine @transboilink @odetosebastiana @7khaleesi if you guys want to! Otherwise ignore, it’s cool :)

#mez replies #meme game #ask meme

[jacebeleren]

oh my god calvin are you really translating that map, as your brother I am proud and surpassed

okay like this is kinda WILD the sheikah text is actually romaji for japanese text and theres a bunch of TYPOS in the original text so WOO

#transboilink #asks

[breathofthewild]

@transboilink IM SHAKING

[mushroomdubs-blog]

Hello all, this is Kon!

As you know, we closed our first round of auditions a while back. Today, Mir and I are finally able to start casting! We will be doing it bit by bit when we are both having free time.

We hope to get some major roles cast today and then work our way through the rest of the roles that got enough auditions. Please have some patience and we will have things done soon!

Contact us here or contact me at @transboilink on tumblr to get in touch :)

[kr--o]

transboilink replied to your photo: when you and your bro bond over judging tf outta...

they laffin at newsies suspenders

that’s just cruel, instead they’d allow newsie to join in

#transboilink #kurotxt

[warlordess]

slides in at an ungodly hour after seeing ur pics to say. frend. ur a cute. paps and disappears

I don’t know what “paps” means but thanks for the compliment that makes no sense because, as I’ve said a million times before, I’m fuuuuuuuuuuuuugly.

#asks #personal #transboilink

[jacebeleren]

transboilink replied to your post: transboilink replied to your post: ...

everything. bullying radley on the other hand is a national pastime, often broadcast on telev

“I’m Radley And I Think Bullying Is Something That Is Ok To Do”