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so when the allos say that they are marrying their best friend thats all fine and dandy but when the aroaces say they are marrying their best friend somehow THATS a problem

#asexual #aromantic #acespec #arospec #aromantic asexual #aspec #aroace #because when allos say it they dont actually mean their best friend they just mean that their spouse is the closest person to them #you get what i mean right?????

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don't say you're "asexual."

say the only lust you feel is bloodlust.

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why are yt to mp3 websites always the shadiest fuckin sites I feel like I’m going down a dark alleyway risking the chance of getting drugged and/or stabbed just bc its the only place where I can find a guy to deal me some decent fart with extra reverb dot mp3s

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Honestly one of the hardest part of being aroace or acespec/arospec is having to tone down how much I love. I love making people feel cared for. I remember little details about people. I just want to be a place of comfort and love.

But we live in such a romantic/sex centric society that if you're too nice, or remember too much, you must be interested in them.

The number of times I'm just being my loving self and people interpret it as romantic interest is exhausting.

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Probably the most insulting thing anyone has said about my friendships is 'you're dating, right?'

#LITERALLY.... #the amount of the times me and my bestie have been mistaken for being in a relationship #i could pay off my debts #and we're not even cuddly????? like theres nothing huge to indicate that we are a couple??? #we just hang out a fuck ton and we rib on each other #YA KNOW. LIKE FRIENDS DO. #drives me up a fucking wall #any demonstration of a deep and meaningful emotional bond Must mean we're a couple right!!! no other possible explanation!!!

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the difference between me and aphobes not getting any is that i didnt want any to begin with

#asexual #asexuality #acespec

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Jump down to proceed.

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Aro beam is good but I think we need more aromantic attacks. Aro projectile. Aro groundslam. Aro shockwave. Arosplosion.

#not a single mention of this so im doing it #aro mace

[anxious-rainbow-creature]

So I'm making a story that may or may not go anywhere and basically all the characters are aspec. Am I adding too many aspec characters? I feel guilty for some reason about this and I would like some advice.

NO

MAKE THEM ALL ASPEC

ADAPT

OVERCOME

EVOLVE

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Mentally I'm here

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those little hands look so fucking human i could use them as drawing references

I'm sneef snorfin over here

#incomplete animporphs transformation #op your rats are so precious btw

[anxious-rainbow-creature]

isnt it crazy how the term for a person's attraction is "sexuality" and how that is emblematic of society's narrow focus on sex as a primary reason for a relationship's existence lol anyway fuck allonormativity and amatonormativity

#asexual #asexuality #aromantic #aromanticism #aroace #aspec #acespec #arospec