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The absence of detailed clitoral anatomy from OB/GYN literature indicates a gap in OB/GYN education. The nerves of the clitoris are not shown even in gynecologic surgery textbooks where techniques putting them at risk are described. They are not in peer reviewed literature on sexual dysfunction, vulvectomy, or cosmetic vulvar surgery.

This is not a problem of lack of research. The research has been done. In fact, detailed clitoral anatomy was illustrated in 1844. Photographs of detailed clitoral anatomy have been taken since. The problem is that this research does not get disseminated. I have been emailing OB/GYN textbook authors with limited success. I believe more social pressure would help.

The most efficient solution would be to get the American Board of Obstetrics and Gynecology to add this anatomy to board exams. This would force OB/GYN textbooks to add it and OB/GYN residency programs to teach it. ABOG currently refuses. I believe enough social pressure drawn to this issue would force them to acknowledge and remedy this problem.

If anyone wants to sign up for Medium and clap that would be awesome. I am not trying to promote Medium or tell anyone to get a membership. I just think it looks more professional than other social media sites. It shows there are people listening to me and that it matters. If anyone wants to share this on Facebook, twitter, or Instagram, that’s awesome too. I posted it on Facebook under my name, Jessica Pin.

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DestigmaTyze podcast episode 2! Unpacking queer sex and relationships! (Warning: explicit sexual content)

#destigmatyze podcast #epside 2 #destigmatize #sex #queerness #kink #polyamory #lgbtq pride #lgbtq

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Episode on consent coming soon! Keep your ears out!

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new video is up! MY NEW AGE VAGEEN

there is a lot of pseudoscience floating around out there about sexual health. so i put a rock in my vag (for science).

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PSA: always pee before and after sex

I don’t care what kind of sex you have or who you have sex with (even if it’s just yourself)!

ALWAYS pee before and after sex. if you do nothing else, ALWAYS pee after.

I know the post-O glow can be pretty powerful, and also sometimes it’s hard to get to the bathroom if your legs feel like jelly.

But you will regret everything if you get a UTI. Just go pee. Your bladder will thank you.

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Consent episode coming soon! It’s gonna be a good one!

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masturbating is a safe and healthy way to explore your own sexuality. it can improve your self esteem, reduce stress, relieve cramps, and it can help you sleep. do not feel shame. masturbating is normal and good for your health.

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Here is episode 1 of the new DestigmaTyze podcast! This episode centers on women’s sexuality and sexual erasure, featuring Dr. Marilyn Preston, Ph.D

#the destygmaTyze podcast #sex #sex education #sex health #erasure #lgbtq #queer #women #society

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Taking Care of Your Pussy

Sex education is the cat’s meow! Nuzzle up to some knowledge with the help of our sex edu-cats. Narrated by the amazing Sasheer Zamata.

Episode 1: Meet Your Vagina & Vulva

Episode 2: Sex & Masturbation 

Episode 3: Keeping it Clean & Healthy

#vagina care #planned parenthood #sexual resource #sex #masturbation #sexual health

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I can’t orgasm. What gives?

Someone asked us:

I am a woman and I cant orgasm. Through sex, masterbation, stimulation, or anal. Im just not sensitive downt there. Im worried sould I be? Any tips.

It sounds like you’re frustrated after trying lots of different things. And you’re not alone. A lot of people have trouble in the orgasm department. Orgasms don’t come to some people as easily as they do to others — and that’s totally normal. It can take years for some people to discover what works for them and have their first orgasm. So it could be a question of figuring out what turns you on and how you like to be touched — whether that means with hands, a sex toy, or help from someone else. People orgasm in all different ways from touching different parts of their body. The most common ones are the vulva, clitoris, labia, vagina, penis, scrotum, perineum, prostate, and anus.

Some people don’t have orgasms at all — ever — and that doesn’t necessarily mean something is “wrong” with them. Orgasming is a thing bodies can do, but not all bodies can do all the things. If having an orgasm is something you really want to do (understandable, since many people think it’s pretty great), then it’s worth taking a look at what could be keeping you from having one.

Orgasm troubles can stem from medical, psychological, and emotional issues like:

Diabetes, perimenopause, menopause, and neurological conditions like multiple sclerosis.

Medications like antidepressants, antihistamines, and high blood pressure medication. (Always check with your doctor or nurse before you stop or change your medication.)

Anxiety, depression, and PTSD.

Stress, guilt, embarrassment, and body image issues.

We’re here to help. The staff at your nearest Planned Parenthood health center have seen it all, don’t judge, and can talk with you about your worries.

It may help try to relax and not focus so much on the orgasm. Sometimes the stress and anxiety that come from pressure to have an orgasm is the thing keeping you from having one. For now, try enjoying the effort.

Good luck and have fun.

-Emily at Planned Parenthood

#sex #sexual resource #planned parenthood #orgasm

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What’s Fluid-Bonding?

Someone asked us:

what does it mean to be “fluid-bonded”?

“Fluid bonded” is a term some people use to describe sexually active people who’ve had barrier-free sex with each other. Barrier methods like condoms, FC2 Female Condoms, and dental dams help prevent bodily fluids from mixing, which helps prevent spreading STDs. So people who don’t use barrier methods when they have sex are at a greater risk for STDs, including HIV.

There are some steps fluid bonded folks can take to manage their STD risks:

Be honest with each other about your sexual activity, including whether or not you use condoms/dental dams with other people.

Use birth control if getting pregnant is not a goal. [link: https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control]

Get tested for STDs regularly. [link: https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/stds-hiv-safer-sex/get-tested]

If you have an STD, get treated right away and follow your doctor’s instructions about taking a break from sex during treatment, getting re-tested in a few months, etc.

Fluid bonding comes with risks, and it’s not something everyone is comfortable with. For most people, barrier methods are an important part of a fulfilling sex life. The key is to make sure everyone feels safe and sure about what’s happening when it comes to their sex life.

-Mylanie at Planned Parenthood

#contraceptives #fluid bonding #safe sex #communication #STI #STD #sex #sexually active #sexual resource

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Can I use a dental dam for vaginal sex?

Someone asked us:

For vaginal sex do u cut a hole in the dental dam or does the dam stay intact and slide inside during sex

So glad you asked this question! Dental dams only help prevent STDs during oral sex on a vulva or anus. You place them over a vulva or anus before oral sex and keep it in place the whole time (and you don’t cut a hole in it).

If you want to avoid pregnancy/STDs during vaginal or anal sex, your options include condoms and FC2 Female Condoms.

Condoms are usually pretty easy to get your hands on. They’re sold at drug stores, grocery stores, gas station mini marts, online, in some bathroom vending machines, and are available for free at many Planned Parenthood health centers and other health clinics. FC2 Female Condoms, which go inside the vagina or anus instead of over the penis, are available by prescription from your doctor or nurse as well as at many health centers and clinics.

You may be able to get all of the above (including dental dams) at your nearest Planned Parenthood health center. Call to find out.

-Emily at Planned Parenthood

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Worried about stepping over a line? Whether it’s a first date or an ongoing thing, it’s all about getting consent.

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New Year’s Eve is here, which means it’s prime kissing time! If you’re looking for a smooch when the ball drops, remember to ask.