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I just want to say your aroallo playlist slaps! I think you'd really like the songs "Black Sheep" and "Have To" by Blue Kid, they fit the vibe completely

BLUE KID MENTIONED WHAT??? And oh my gods youre right!! I never listened to those songs with an aro perspective!! Thank you for pointing that out to me and im so glad you enjoy the playlist 😄

#aroallo playlist

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oh my gods im so glad im not the only one

its even worst when the characters are queer and if i say i didnt immediately pick up on it im a "bad" gay person.

Like how dare i not pick up on the queer romantic undertones, how dare i dont immediately jump for joy when queer romance is HINTED on screen, how dare i say they arent queer and idk just friends we already have so little representation bla bla bla

good lords im tired of trying to justify that sometimes i legit am just not interested in wtv relationships these characters can POTENTIALLY have with eachother when cannon WHICH I ENJOY is right fckin there

being in fandom and aro is like i enjoy these characters' dynamic 'right? they're the perfect couple!' hmm well they're not together in canon, so that's not really the dynamic i'm talking about 'oh, so you don't ship them? i guess it's because you're aro, but that's okay! they can still be platonic!' free your mind.. please. do you understand that these categories of attachment are made up? are you capable of enjoying a relationship dynamic without first defining it?

#op is so real in the tags #like same i have ships #but to be completely honest most of my ships only happened after i got exposed to media about them as a couple #istg ppl need to really reassess when they say “yea no relationships arent my priority” #are you sure about that ????? 🤨 #aro problems #aromantic

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All playlist are loved in this place 😌

got tired of all depressing and hating yourself for being aro vibes on legit any other platform besides tumblr (looking at you tictac app) so wanted to listen to positive aromantic playlists and legit could NOT FIND ANY??????

And the ones that were vaguely positive were made for aroace ppl. Which is great! But im not ace!!! So WHERE'S MY POSITIVE AROALLO REP?!?!?!

Anyways i solved this hyperspecific problem myself and made a POSITIVE AROALLO playlist:

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#aromantic #aro #aroallo #ugh and it has songs i dont know??? #p e r f e c t #love finding new songs fr

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Guys im loving all these shared playlist 😭 especially after the shit show that was that poll 😀 yea we def need them

got tired of all depressing and hating yourself for being aro vibes on legit any other platform besides tumblr (looking at you tictac app) so wanted to listen to positive aromantic playlists and legit could NOT FIND ANY??????

And the ones that were vaguely positive were made for aroace ppl. Which is great! But im not ace!!! So WHERE'S MY POSITIVE AROALLO REP?!?!?!

Anyways i solved this hyperspecific problem myself and made a POSITIVE AROALLO playlist:

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#aro #aromantic #aroallo #cishet aromantic men are queer enough #aromantic is not an add on label to other querr identities #aromantic is queer enough on its OWN #and if you disagree with that fuck off dont interact

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The title is PERFECT im using that saying irl

got tired of all depressing and hating yourself for being aro vibes on legit any other platform besides tumblr (looking at you tictac app) so wanted to listen to positive aromantic playlists and legit could NOT FIND ANY??????

And the ones that were vaguely positive were made for aroace ppl. Which is great! But im not ace!!! So WHERE'S MY POSITIVE AROALLO REP?!?!?!

Anyways i solved this hyperspecific problem myself and made a POSITIVE AROALLO playlist:

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#OF COURSE YOU CAN #idk if ppl saw my og tags but im basically pleading to share yalls positive playlists #like PLZ #i am sTARVED #i love all shared playlists #plz send more #aro #aromantic #aroallo playlist

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might I suggest It's Only Me/The Wizard of Magicland by BNL for the playlist

ive never heard of this song before so thank you anon!!! I added it to the playlist!!!

#aromantic #aromantic playlist #aroallo playlist

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a FANTASTIC ADDITION you are SO RIGHT

got tired of all depressing and hating yourself for being aro vibes on legit any other platform besides tumblr (looking at you tictac app) so wanted to listen to positive aromantic playlists and legit could NOT FIND ANY??????

And the ones that were vaguely positive were made for aroace ppl. Which is great! But im not ace!!! So WHERE'S MY POSITIVE AROALLO REP?!?!?!

Anyways i solved this hyperspecific problem myself and made a POSITIVE AROALLO playlist:

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#i had 2 on 5 #good addition y e s #cant believe i forgot about how do you love #a tragedy has been avoided guys we're good

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WE'VE GOT ANOTHER!!!!!

got tired of all depressing and hating yourself for being aro vibes on legit any other platform besides tumblr (looking at you tictac app) so wanted to listen to positive aromantic playlists and legit could NOT FIND ANY??????

And the ones that were vaguely positive were made for aroace ppl. Which is great! But im not ace!!! So WHERE'S MY POSITIVE AROALLO REP?!?!?!

Anyways i solved this hyperspecific problem myself and made a POSITIVE AROALLO playlist:

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#i love the cover art oh my gods its perfect #aromantic #aroallo #alloaro #arospec #aromantic pride #aro

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WE GOT ANOTHER ONE BOIS

got tired of all depressing and hating yourself for being aro vibes on legit any other platform besides tumblr (looking at you tictac app) so wanted to listen to positive aromantic playlists and legit could NOT FIND ANY??????

And the ones that were vaguely positive were made for aroace ppl. Which is great! But im not ace!!! So WHERE'S MY POSITIVE AROALLO REP?!?!?!

Anyways i solved this hyperspecific problem myself and made a POSITIVE AROALLO playlist:

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#aroallo #aro #aromantic #aro pride #arospec #bring on more bABEY

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reblogging every positive aroallo playlist BCS WE NEED IT

got tired of all depressing and hating yourself for being aro vibes on legit any other platform besides tumblr (looking at you tictac app) so wanted to listen to positive aromantic playlists and legit could NOT FIND ANY??????

And the ones that were vaguely positive were made for aroace ppl. Which is great! But im not ace!!! So WHERE'S MY POSITIVE AROALLO REP?!?!?!

Anyways i solved this hyperspecific problem myself and made a POSITIVE AROALLO playlist:

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#THANK YOU SO MUCH #and it has alt songs??!?!? #A WIN FOR THE COMMUNITY #lets keep them coming guys plz #aromantic #aro #aroallo pride #aroallo #alloaro #arospec #aro pride

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got tired of all depressing and hating yourself for being aro vibes on legit any other platform besides tumblr (looking at you tictac app) so wanted to listen to positive aromantic playlists and legit could NOT FIND ANY??????

And the ones that were vaguely positive were made for aroace ppl. Which is great! But im not ace!!! So WHERE'S MY POSITIVE AROALLO REP?!?!?!

Anyways i solved this hyperspecific problem myself and made a POSITIVE AROALLO playlist:

Larger image of the playlist cover i made

#plz i am starved #if anyone has a positive aro playlist SHARE WITH THE CLASS #no hate towards us bonding over our share anger/grief at the world its important and we SHOULD talk about it #but not ALL THE TIME???? #it SHOULDNT be THIS HARD to find good vibe songs for us #ive BEEN thru the hating being aromatic stage I GET IT #but jesus christ we can LIGHTEN UP A LITTLE?? #aro #aromantic #aro problems #aro culture is #aroallo #aromantism #aromatic positivity #aro pride #aro posting #aroallo pride #lgbtq #arospec #aspec #aro discourse #pride #alloaro

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I love me when I'm in love.

It wasn't romantic and it wasn't quite platonic but I loved them and for a bit they loved me.

We loved. I want to say we tried but by the end of it... You left me. With no warning.

And i loved you and i hate you and i loved you and i loved and i loved and i hate that things ended this way but it doesn't matter because it's over now.

I finally got rid of our playlists today. A piece of me died but I'm sure something will grow in it's decay.

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Guess I'm so insignificant to my partner that they forgot to invite me to tag along with them while I was in the fucking room and checking where they were gonna go with a friend we always hang with together.

They say I love you and I want to believe it but idk if i can anymore i deserve better but holy fuck do I love them.

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I'm fucking lonely

but i dont want to interact with anyone

I'm too proud to say shit

so i guess i die

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You've hit a new low in life when you need to search up "sad songs to cry to". That's a whole new level of low not even hell would reach.

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Haha that feeling when you've been non-verbal the whole day and your family makes fun of you by saying you're a robot and you're running on less than 6 hours of proper sleep and you want to die and you feel so fucking lonely even tho you have the best of friends and your soulmate is dating you platonically but you feel like everyone has actual reasons to feel like shit so instead of reaching out to someone you pace around your room after staying outside burning shit to try and feel something again.

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I'm aro af and I do want a life partner(s) but not in a romantic sense. And I do have a partner that fits the bill.

My s/o is NOT aro. They want a love life. I can't provide that no matter how hard I try. And I really would be happy if they found someone like that, truly. But they would leave me. It's not even a question of maybe, they will, we've discussed it.

And yea, maybe that will never happen. Maybe we'll live out our lives together like we've envisioned. Maybe I'll find another platonic partner to live out my life with.

That's a lot of fucking maybes.

If I weren't so romance repulsed, I could've found someone to love me like that without fear of them leaving for a different type of relationship. It's not like I haven't tried.

But I am and it makes me wish I weren't aro.

#aroallo #aro problems #romance repulsed #queer platonic partner #i've placed all my hopes onto this one person and I know it isn't healthy #i should let them go but i love them too much #a lot of my anxiety actually stems from this but I dont want to leave them and I know they dont want to leave me either