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[gdfluid]

*taps mic* um hello is this thing on?

just like my gender i kind of... floated away? (hah see what i did there) and it took me forever to remember what email/ password combination i was using in this acc 😭

but oh yeah i am back and in this year??? i was gone i had so many gender problems we got CONTENT (personal experiences) to tell everyone (Tumblr)!!!1!

(i also finally understood how to change text colors ......and letter types)

#guess whos back #im back #with lots of #gender problems #genderfluid problems #and other stuff

[gdfluid]

✨ genderfluid is not binary ✨

i >hate< when people describe genderfluid as “a mix between male and female/ a gender that flow between male and female/ a gender that is both male and female”

stop saying that envolves only male and female. there are lots of genders and genderfluid people can go though all these labs and identities.

obviously there are people who only experience male-female, but genderfluid is so more than that. stop presuming i’m only go though male and female (or that i go though these genders! i also can be genderfluid without experiencing boy or girl days).

i am genderfluid, i am not faking it, i am valid AND i go though more than two genders! the world is not binary, >genderfluid< is not an binary identity, so why would you think that the genders i flow are only the two binary genders?

#gender fluid is not binary #gender fluid #gender fluid problems #genderfluid #genderfluid problems #nonbinary #queer #trans

[gdfluid]

being genderfluid is a constant “i’m really trans or i’m just a cis person who don’t like gender stereotypes?”

this thought sucks and i hate it here

#gender fluid #genderfluid #gender fluid problems #genderfluid problems #trans #lgbtq #queer #nonbinary problems #non binary

[gdfluid]

hello! i found your blog a little bit ago and i enjoy it a lot! i think you’re a cool person👉👈 but i kinda wanted some advice? so i’m a cis female and recently i’ve been questioning my gender identity and i have no idea if i’m like...just being dramatic or secretly wanting attention? i don’t dress particularly male or female, but i often fantasize about being a slightly feminine male and looking more androgynous. i’m perfectly fine with the gender i am now though. idk what to do lmao :’) if you ever see this, i hope you have a nice evening!💕

hey! first, thank you, knowing that people like waht i post make me really happy!

now, maybe you are gender non-conforming (gnc). is when a person goes against the imposed gender norms, or does not have an appearance consistent with their gender, in short. and don’t worry, feel like this is totally valid and is not dramatic or wanting attencion, gender issues are complicaded and it’s ok to feel confuse (?) or something like that.

and sorry for the delay to answer! I forget to look at this area on tumblr lol

[gdfluid]

Help me get top surgery

Hey there, my name is Oliver! I’m a 21-year-old AFAB nonbinary trans person who uses they/them pronouns. I’ve started a GoFundMe to help raise money for the top surgery I hope to get in the future!

I’ve experienced severe dysphoria relating to my chest for several years. My chest dysphoria negatively affects my mental health and, subsequently, my self-esteem. Because of this, I’ve desired to get top surgery to alleviate my dysphoria for the longest time. However, I never thought I’d be able to do this because my insurance won’t cover any of the costs. While my insurance has covered my hormone replacement therapy in the past, they refuse to cover any and all gender dysphoria related surgeries. My insurance provider, which is military-based, has strict policies regarding this, specifically stating that they do not cover these procedures.

Any support is immensely appreciated. Even if you can’t contribute, I’d appreciate if you shared my GoFundMe with others who may be able to help out. Thanks so much for reading!

[gdfluid]

sometimes being genderfluid is awesome and be like “oh im hot af in all genders haha fuck gender roles IM the role”

but sometimes all i want is lay down on the floor and become a hoodie ball and cry because gender is so confusing and i can’t understand my own fellings and myself and ?-!:?/&:$(&($//?/!!!!!

#gender fluid #genderfluid #transgender #trans #nonbinary #gender fluid problems #genderfluid problems #queer

[gdfluid]

bitches be like

"how did you know i was non-binary?"

after they say that their name is a 16th century vampire name or an inanimate object or a planet/ star name or an animal,,,,

(p.s. yes I’m bitches)

#gender fluid #genderfluid #transgender #trans #lgbtq #nonbinary #nonbinary memes #nonbinary problems

[gdfluid]

the life of genderfluids that‘s summed up in asking themselves “BUT WHAT IF I’m actually [insert here a gender]????” for spending too much time in that specific gender is extremely tiring

#gender fluid #genderfluid #gender fluid problems #genderfluid problems #trans #nonbinary #queer

[gdfluid]

*my queer ass watching any serie, movie or anime* oh nice

*me realizing that i can create headcanons* oH NICE YOU MY SUNSHINE ARE A TRANSMASC BOI AND YOU SWEETHEART ARE A NON-BINARY PAN ARO PERSON

this happens with EVERYTHING that I watch and doesn’t exist a single one character in my favorite shows that is straight or cis or allo in my hc lol

#nonbinary #gender fluid #transgender #trans #queer #lgbtq #trans memes #genderfluid #non binary

[gdfluid]

genderfluid culture is always take twice as many clothes as necessary on trips because i never know what gender i will flow to.

#gender fluid #genderfluid #gender fluid problems #genderfluid problems #trans #lgbtq #nonbinary #genderfluid culture

[gdfluid]

genderfluid problems

I’m going to my father’s house this week and I have to make my suitcase and choose my clothes but I can’t cause WHAT IF I choose fem clothes and have only boy/agender days?? what if i choose masc clothes and have girl days? WHAT IF I ONLY HAVE BIGENDER DAYS??1!1?1?1?

I will have to take twice as much clothes to be prepared for any situation 👁👄👁

#gender fluid #genderfluid #transgender #gender fluid problems #genderfluid problems #trans #nonbinary

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Please stop using "sex to sex" terms to define trans experience.

I find the terms FTM and MTF really frustrating. Like they're good terms, specific, self explanatory, they clearly and simply describe a set of experiences... It's good stuff, A+. But when they're used as synonyms for transgender they erase a huge variety of experiences.

For example trans woman doesn't automatically translate to "Male to Female", that idea is explicitly intersexist, I am definitely a trans woman but I was never male.

So using MTF and FTM in isolation as your community descriptor erases the variety of trans experience, such as:

nonbinary people,

genderqueer

gender fluid people,

people with different sexual developments,

people who choose to social transition only,

agender people,

genderflux,

people who cannot safely transition,

people who are insensitive to some sex hormones,

etc etc

But I think that's part of the idea. Medical professionals who's livelihoods are based on gate keeping trans therapies have a financial incentive to use the terms in this way, if there's nobody to exclude then there's no reason for them to be involved.

Again, FTM and MTF are good terms. Use them to describe yourself if they fit, there's nothing wrong with them being a big part of your identity. Just stop using them as synonyms for transgender, transmasc, or transfemme. It's discriminatory even if that's not your intention.

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Thank you,

Mhacha loves you all,

💛💜💛

[gdfluid]

geez understand my own gender is so confusing

sometimes all i want is to be a little cute plant and just do photosynthesis~ in the sun

but NO

i am a GENDERFLUID PERSON and i have to deal with lots of problems and those complicated situations around my gender and everything else

#i just wanna do photosynthesis #gender fluid #genderfluid #transgender #gender fluid problems #genderfluid problems #trans #lgbtq #nonbinary #queer

[gdfluid]

Solidarity 💖💛💙 💖💜💙

[gdfluid]

Parenting.

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[gdfluid]

I’m talking with two people simultaneously. With one, I’m using he/him pronouns, and with another I’m using they/them.

Both pronouns at the same time, but one with one person and other with another.

Why.

#gender fluid #genderfluid #gender fluid problems #genderfluid problems #nonbinary #queer

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genderfluid problems™ :

at this very moment I suddenly flowed to male, and coincidentally i saw a video of cis boys wearing skirts

now i want to wear a skirt so bad to be more masculine, but I don't have skirts and all I want right now is to wear a skirt and look very handsome~

#gender fluid #gender fluid problems #genderfluid #genderfluid problems #lgbtq #nonbinary #queer