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Wow it’s almost like the oversexualisation of queerness is one of the reasons why asexuals, non-binary folks and aromantics are not seen as queer enough to be part of the community

#DING #DING!! #DING!!!!!! MOTHERFUCKER #aspec #sorry we dont exist to be sexualized #none of us do #so fucking jot. #that. #down.

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#the dysphoria says they're big but idk that that's true.... objectively?

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sorry my sister and i have the most powerful bond in the whole world so jot that down

#my sister and i have the second most powerful bond #second to this guy and his sister's

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in an effort to engage with my husbands interests and reconnect with him i will seduce his lover and have an affair with him also

#yeah why not

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happy 1 year anniversary to my friend saying this when i came out as asexual to them <3

#i screamed #hello???? #i think someone did say something similar to me once and i bet close followers of my life story can guess who #anyway #acephobia #undescribed #sometimes #you're an attention whore AND aspec #so jot that down allo bitches

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In the club saying shit like "frankly" and "in all honesty"

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when I see something dated 2019 I think “oh that’s not too long ago” and then I remember that 2019 was not only five years ago but those five years have somehow contained several lifetimes

#stop it. #stop that #i #no #no!!!! #NO GOD NO #oh god the passage of time #oh god #puts my head in my hands #no!!!!!!!

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I could NOT be in feudal Japan. Here are some reasons why

I wasn’t born then.

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this too shall pass

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art by Seth Tobochman

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sick of hearing about "healing crystals" that "cleanse your mind and body of negative energy" i want to know which rocks can hurt you and fuck up your vibe so bad

#i'm in tears

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oh. Mom spontaneously apologized for telling us to stop crying when we were younger and we went "oh. ah. I see." because we can't cry when we're genuinely upset unless we're at near meltdown state. there's like a wall there. and we went "that explains a lot. and also we forgive you." because again like. at this point we hold very little anger towards her for a lot of reasons. but just. children can either be incredibly resilient or incredibly fragile and it's all up to the adults in their life; as the child you don't get to choose which you are. and doesn't that suck? that you have no choice in how deeply you're affected?

#local birb opens beak #i am so reactive to that kind of behavior as well #any attempts to shut down a crying child #or stop a meltdown #make me FURIOUS #and now i understand #i dont remember in my brain #but my *body* remembers #and we're so protective of kids already #just that immediate NO you are NOT allowed to say that #kicks in #the way we cannot be around other people parenting small children for very long #it's so real #os #parental #emotional neglect #emotional abuse

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i love six o clock because the clock looks so stupid. "|" like get real

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if you don‘t personally own one but your roommates/parents do and you are allowed to use it, that counts as yes

#okay yes but i dont iron my clothes #i use it to iron sewing #though if i needed to iron clothes #i could use it #i used to iron church clothes every week i know how to

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A ghost, too swallowed up in his passions to take notice of the child floundering in his care. His letters and his gifts had come too late. Postmarked with regrets she didn’t care to receive. Sealed with apologies she didn’t have the space to break open.

— Your Blood, My Bones, Kelly Andrew

#and that's just fathers #quotes #your blood my bones #kelly andrew

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how much will it take for you all to read the archive undying. what must i sacrifice so you will read it and draw fanart of sunai and veyadi

#please #please read it #i am also on my hands and knees #the archive undying

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Dayspring, Anthony Oliveira