BDSM gets a bad rep as like a violent (male) dom pushing the boundaries of a reluctant (female) sub but in my experience it's a lot of subs with wildly elaborate fantasies screaming shit like "PUT MY ASS IN THE CHILI" while a new dom is like "Okay I think, we are reaching yellow for me,"
Im Brainstorming female asa and arkin and i think asa would definitely have either really short haircut like a pixie cut or a tight bun but probably first since the mask but for arkin i feel like a ponytail not the type like jojo siwa at the top of her head but like just normal and back of the neck(i think theres different types of ponytails but i really don’t know)or a messy bun since i duno she has a kid and stressed mother
here’s the closeted furries “hey man… can u bum me a cig” and “the one uncle nobody invites to the family reunion but SOMEONE keeps telling him where it is anyways”
if you want an idea of what john is like, imagine hau from pokemon sumo
ALSO the ppl who kept asking me for trans thomas art, HERE he’s trans in this au (;