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^^^this is what the start of the ad looks like

if anyone could rb with a photo ID thatd be great

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guys i did it!!

50 full days clean, this is the longest i’ve been clean in ages

wow i’m so proud of myself

#self harm #clean #50 days clean #i’m so proud #this has been hard #anxiety #sh

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Yall i just got an email from tumblr saying I interacted with accounts made by the IRA …… is this even real????

The internet is wild

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If you were emotionally abused as a child,

Part of your healing is making your inner child feel emotionally safe.

This means not making fun of them anymore.

Being a safe place for them to be vulnerable,

To be scared,

To be overwhelmed.

To be able to sit with those feelings without hurling shame on them,

Without silencing them through criticism,

Without repeating the voice of the abuser(s).

Just like how you can repair your relationships with other people,

You can repair your relationship with yourself.

You can apologize to yourself.

You can repair your own trust in yourself.

You can change the way you talk to yourself.

You can change the way you listen to yourself.

You can change the way you treat yourself.

After all, what’s damaging about emotional abuse is how it teaches us to treat ourselves.

The opposite of abuse is to be safe.

It’s never too late to learn how to be safe for ourselves.

We can learn to treat ourselves better.

We can learn to love ourselves.

We can learn to cherish ourselves.

We can learn healthy self talk.

We can learn how to validate ourselves.

We can heal.

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fuck jk rowling

what a prick for ruining the books that shaped my childhood, can’t believe i used to idolise her, and now i wouldn’t even be aloud into hogwarts 🙃

#fuck jk rowling #jk rowling #harry potter #help i hate this

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we were discussing wills and inheritances in the breakroom today and one of the boys brought up that he heard if you hate someone in your family, you’re supposed to leave them something, literally anything, even if it’s just like 1 penny, so that they can’t sue and say you just forgot them, and one of the other boys said why wouldn’t you just say like “I specifically do not leave anything to this person” and one of the girls piped up “No, leave them 1 penny, it’s a bigger fuck you” and then she paused and goes “No wait, tell them that you leave them everything in the box you’ve buried in the woods and they have to go find it and dig it up and then they can have everything in it, but it’s just 1 penny” and because I am a writer, and thinking up wild things to have happen is part of the writing job description, I (without looking up from my computer where I was currently writing a story) said “or a bomb. I mean, you hate them right” and i looked up and everyone was looking at me and the girl (who FYI is a horror movie enthusiast and I had figured on appreciating the joke) goes “well. I mean, what are they going to do, arrest me? I’m dead.” and I wish I could bottle the looks on the boys’ faces.

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do you ever just find a new ship on like tiktok or something, and then instantly re watch the tiktok 15+ times well crying because it’s so cute or are you mentally stable

#ah help #bdjsjsjs #may or may not be about minecraft swords #@/sneetzy on tiktok #heart is happy #autistic brain goes mine #yes im autistic i can say that

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you can’t support autistic people and support the police. No amount of paint jobs or sensitivity training can stop police from killing with impunity

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#r slur #ableism #be a nice person #slurs

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hi how do i drop toxic friends who are the only irl friend i have so therefor i will be labeled a loner and they low key hate me so they would spread rumours about me and say all my secrets because they hate me??

and how do i get rid of the years of toxicity, self hatred, trust issues, anxiety and a ton more because of them?

(context, they talk about me behind my back, exclude me, steal from me, call my anxiety stupid, say they hate me and wish they could kill me, call me names, judge me, hate when i do things but laugh when someone else does, does not tell me when i’m rude *i struggle with that* and instead talk about me behind my back, and downright use me?.... help)

(also i know they hate me because one of theirs friends told me they said “(she) fuckings hates you, and tells me that all the time”, and it wouldn’t surprise me if the others did too)

#toxic friends #toxic #anxiety #friends #fake friends #friend aduvce #help me please

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Little tips for when you feel bad and don’t know why.

-Ask yourself the last time you drank some water. Drink a few sips even if it wasn’t long ago. Coffee doesn’t count (neither does soda unless it’s the only option) 

-When was the last time you ate? Get a small snack if able.

-Are ANY of your clothes too tight or uncomfortable? This includes socks, headbands, hats, and shoes.

-Stretch! Pop those shoulders, arch that back, straighten those legs. It Helps.

-If you happen to stim, do it! Do whatever feels right!

-Look for sounds, smells, etc. That are bothering you.

-Get your headphones and put on whatever music makes you feel happy/good/energetic.

-Loosen your shoulders, take some deep breaths. Drop your head and loosely roll your head. Try to relax as many muscles as you can.

-Close your eyes for a second.

-Did you take your meds (if you have them)? Do you need to take a Tylenol, ibuprofen Etc.?

-Are there allergens in the vicinity, are there any allergy medications you need to take?

-Breath deep.

I am by no means a professional and I don’t know what could be causing it but I know that these are kind of helpful. I’m not you and you aren’t me so these might not work. If the feeling bad is medical attention worthy, these might not help.

However, I hope that this does help someone.

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folklore + colors

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PSA: if any lgbtq+ fans reading this are panicking on how to delete all of their posts alluding to their sexuality, go get on your computer. If you go to a blog setting, there is a mass post editor where you can comb through specific years and months of every single original post you’ve made and you are able to delete mass amounts of posts at the snap of your fingers. Please signal boost this, it could help save someone from being doxxed and or outed !!!!!

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outing someone isn't just like 'oh no don't do that it's mean :( don't be a meanie :(' it's like........ literally dangerous.......... like literally .... dangerous ....... you DON'T know how it is going to affect someboy like they could literally be KILLED for it so like if u think ur being funny or clever for outing someone because you disagree with an opinion they posted on twitter or for LITERALLY ANY REASON EVER, literally choke! you are disgusting! also even if they aren't in a physically dangerous situation, screw you for taking away their opportunity to come out on their own terms and for scaring them.

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UM IS THIS ONLY HAPPENING ON TWITTER OR IS IT ALSO HAPPENING ON TUMBLR BECAUSE I JUST GOT A FUCKING DM

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