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dont play defense

#trans

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I theorize the reason "bottoms" appear more prevalent than "tops" on these types of spaces is that it is simply easier to be funny about being a bottom than about being a top without sounding like a sex offender

"uuuuu 🥺 pls cock me aaaaaaaa *runs into wall like Wile E Coyote running into his own tunnel painting*" easy as shit comedy

"I want to put my DICK in someone" whoa dude calm down, take it easy

#sex mention #bottom #top #sub #dom #kink

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here, have some bi-ace solidarity

#ace #bi

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I love my life highly satisfied just being myself

(Female version here)

#aro #ace #aroace

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i don't know what aphobe needs to hear this but... no one is forcing you to use the split-attraction model.

the split-attraction model is nothing but a tool. it's a way for some people to better explain their attraction. if you don't like/want/need it, then great! just don't use it.

for a lot of aspec people, though, it can help describe complicated feelings around attraction considering how much of society is amatonormative/allonormative.

(oh, and btw... aro/ace people are not the only people who can use the split-attraction model! anyone can use it!)

#split attraction model #sam

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as a girl whos a gross dude i looove men who are fancy ladies. we are best friends

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‘are you afab or amab’ why? you tryna figure out what typa holes i got? you tryna bang??

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You're still entitled to your privacy when you come out as ace. Coming out doesn't mean you have to answer people's personal questions about your sexuality.

#ace

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Just saw someone with “use whatever pronouns you use for yourself for me” in bio. I honestly never considered the depth the pronoun metagame could have, we’ve barely scratched the surface with this shit

#pronouns

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Let me give you ace skeleton icons for this week

I really like skeletons, I hope you do too :)

Update: Aro Skeletons Icons too

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Not all venom fans are monster fuckers 😞 some of us are just aroace disasters who like the idea of a platonic soulmate who likes to murder annoying people for you, is that so bad?

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Happy spring! gave them a CROAKus crown <3

also trying out a new watermark pls let me know if it's too faint or distracting!

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I want a qpr so bad rn

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only two acceptable answers if i tell you that i'm aroace:

1. wow that's so cool!

2. me too!

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aroace culture is doubting your aro identity bc these feelings you have for your zucchini could be what asexuals experience as romantic and you will never know for sure if you’re actually aro.

(meanwhile, scared that if these feelings are romantic, my aro zucchini might be able to tell and not want to be with me anymore)

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Aro culture is wanting a platonic version of tinder so fricking bad

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Hypothetical: say your partner spent several grand of your joint money on something they wanted without asking you and tried to hide the purchase from you, how would feel?

Angry and upset, right? It’s wrong of them to do, I think most of us can agree on that

What if they discussed the purchase with you first before and you both agreed on the purchase, are you still mad? Is your partner still in the wrong? Of course not, it was something you agreed upon

This is the same reason why polyamory isn’t cheating