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dilfhos · 7 months

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sooo this is gonna be a messy rant on the observations ive made between different writer communities, blog interactions and overall “status”. just silly little things I’ve noticed in my 4+ years being on tumblr btwn 2 diff blogs. and this is about no one specific, a very generalized post so if you find urself offended i honestly dont know what to tell you?? :o do better ig. & if you relate, i feel for you. TLDR @/end.

i dont like interacting/ building connections with people but not for the reasons ppl think. im not stuck up or pretentious or weird or anything. just another anime-enjoyer who loves to write in her free time. nobody special by a longshot!! i enjoy writing, always have since before i was a teen. (wasn’t always ff tho!).

but over the years ive just noticed fandom writing has its gritty sides that no one talks about often and its no mystery why so many prolific/ popular writers deactivated, me included. i had some shitty experiences and have seen friends go bc of it.

firstly, I’ve noticed, once you start interacting and building friendships with people, it’s easier to see the bigger perspective of where ppl stand and the blatant hierarchy of friendships and groups. same applies to that outside. like its literally just me n’ my bsf then my acquaintances bc mfs be weirddd omg its like cults or something. like thats why initially I didn’t interact w/anyone starting on my new blog. that n’ fear of drama following from my last blog ugh. ‘Cept the few i’ve met on my old blog (like my wifey)

not to mention i have bad anxiety. and sometimes im cue-deaf. i dont always pick up what people put down and vice versa and it makes me conscious in a lot of my interactions. so a part of me doesn’t want to interact at all to avoid all awkwardness and possible miscommunications. that’s not to say i don’t notice subtle changes in interactions after one situation / conversation or so forth, that in myself or witnessed between other ppl. (im perceptive, just not that good conversationalist lol. like i really have to try.)

but then…if you don’t interact with people on here, your chances of building an audience or a reader base is slim to none. the likelihood of developing relationships is zip. because you’re already perceived and pegged as just another tumblr writer. pause. to clarify, a writer who doesn’t want any recognition or interactions from mutuals or new friends. or just a lonely writer? a introverted, lonely writer. which leads to little to none interactions (anons, reblogs, moots —exposure.)

so then its like you’re kinda placed btwn a rock n a hard place. and there’s absolutely no problem with that! in fact this is the best part—meeting friends and like-minded people! people that make being online all the more worth it right? thirsting over fictional characters and sharing in each other’s works!

but you have to be in specific circles it seems. but then you can’t imply that you want to be in those circles bc then you’re desperate.

but well, then you cant purposefully want to be independent or be on your own or else you’re a hater, hypocrite or stuck up. not to mention, no one will reblog your stuff lol. no one will interact fr, and you’re friendless essentially. and god forbid if you disagree on something as if opinions don’t exist btw! then you’re being ganged up on. (like omg grow up!)

but then if you reach out you’re seen as trying to wedge in or kiss ass? you interact and follow and you’re ignored or left hanging? (bc im gonna touch your hand when i say this—it never gave fan, your majesty of horny nerds) and this is about ALL the writing communities and fandoms—spicy content, black content and dark content. ALL.

yet no one wants to talk about the pregnant elephant in the room—bias. and favoritism. also people seem to have a hard time being direct with how they’re feeling toward/about someone ( in a good or bad way) which in turn leads to a lot of miscommunication and subliminal attacks. (not to mention hate anons? one of my moots just had her inbox flooded w/them recently, ew.)

you can lead a horse to water AND you can write a 500-word essay on the observations made on tumblr writers as a whole. (a long ass post on the truth on behalf of those feeling this too)

also, slapping a HEY LOOK AT ME! IM A WRITER WHO WANTS INTERACTION AND FRIENDS! on a blog is frankly embarrassing. it shouldn’t even take all that seeing how easy it is for others wanting the same thing.

or doing less to achieve the same result.

not to mention, yall shit on ppl who essentially feel this way altogether bc you peg them as sb who doesn’t “try” or just jealous when their own works are phenomenally written themselves. ive seen it. and ive lived it. never gave jealousy baby.

at the end of the day, we’re all writers— either longterm or hobbyists. (personally, im longterm) self-indulgent or not! and its absolutely amazing when people are being fair in how they spread love and feedback to their writers.

Secondly, its not news that people have to want to reblog your fics so that their followers can reblog, so they can reblog, and their followers can reblog and so forth. but ppl honestly dont care atp bc once they’ve already read it, they owe you nothing. and apparently asking for reblogs is crass and bold. (imma do it anyway) but putting your very all into a story just to turn and see a half-thought out hc soaring 3k in 2hrs and 5k in a day — you have to stfu, open your ass and take it. keep it cute!

you’re getting fucked after all!!

because if you complain—you’re just jealous and lazy and uncreative!! and i hate that to seem like a writer worth a damn, you have to change up your writing style every two weeks to fit in with trending waves.

“no more poetic long fics, nobody’s into that! short, snappy slutty shots are all the rage!” “ppl are only into these specific tropes but you can’t exceed 2k words!” “only add trending characters to these hcs! ppl love them only!” “don’t write too much about a specific character or else ill unfollow you!” its exhausting.

i am well within my right as a literary artist to desire more feedback and interaction on anything i put out. period. and you are too! 🫵

God, im tired of that stupid, ‘you have to enjoy your writing for yourself and not worry about notes’ line. i do love my writing! don’t get me wrong there’s nobody id rather write like if not myself fr. not to mention the inspiration i draw from famous literary authors. however, i would love feedback and the same energy that i see with others in my same caliber.

and when i see others that didn’t even try fr—its a slap in the face to put it bluntly.

i can want silly little comments and notes about something i cherish and put out for that reason and yall aren’t gonna make me feel bad about it. sorry! like yall really be making people feel shitty for wanting the same type of interactions you get! especially when its harmless, bye asf. nb want to recipe to ur peach cobbler b!

the only one giving push back are those appointed popular /top blogs n’ cliques tho. now personally, i honestly dgaf if you have 20 followers or 25k, writing is writing and if its good you should want to support it regardless of following count/interaction right?

unfortunately, and quite unsurprisingly its not the case for the rest of this hellhole lol. there’s always gonna be some “big blog” in any part of tumblr or any social media for that matter.

but when the sole purpose being on a site like tumblr to write is mainly exposure, then it just makes it ten times worse especially if it seems that these blogs are steady at the top of every. single. tag. and listen, i know how initially stupid that sounds but when you’ve picked up on patterns for as long as i have, well iykyk.

so imma be real bc no one else will, half of the posts that yall see with 25k notes have alr been done. just different characters, different words, different dialogue. And 8/10 its been done by sb who only received 100 notes. Thats the evil part. whats more is that it lacks the creativity the one post with 100-300 notes is filled with completely.

POP QUIZ! what post would readers be more inclined to read? — one that says 10k (ohhh that must be popular!) or the one with only 150 (oh i guess nb really liked that one) that no one is even willing to reblog for MORE. and BOOM. now yall wonder why so many great writers LEAVE, its a fucking joke.

so unfortunately its no longer only about or only on readers anymore. its about who you know and who you know is willing to support your fr. who is willing to REBLOG your fics for their friends and followers, so that their friends and followers can reblog. to fit in you actually have to get in these days and it makes it all less enjoyable. makes it a chore and if you aren’t ‘doing it right’ ultimately it makes you feel shitty about your writing. (Please don’t, you are doing amazing. its the platform.)

it makes people not want to jump into writing. it pushes away those who actually want to join writing communities and meet people without feeling like they have to jump thru hoops to thrive or worse—live in other ppls shadows. and then it deters those from speaking up in fear of being shut down by bigger groups. ive seen it happen time and time again.

lastly, and this is the juiciest part! you absolutely cannot say anything about any of this bc you’re complaining and a fisher just looking for attention and not someone who just want things to be fair all over. play the game, right? ( wrong. and if this is your logic, you suck! )

its no longer about making flashy banners and pretty themes. its no longer about how many clever directory links you add or how many games you initiate on your blog or whether or not you’ve reblogged your fic three times already. its about your “friends”, other mutuals, and blogs willing to support you too. not just the audience. audience gonna do what they want regardless. reblog, don’t reblog, whatever. “at least ive read it right?” but everyone knows this. duh! but it’s obvious who doesn’t care as long as they’re on top of that tag! its admirable in a way but it sucks for those wanting to break out and build some kind of readerbase and/or make friends.

TLDR; people need to stop being bias and be fair and open lol. stop picking favorites and share the love all around. you see another person writing your favorite character or trope, give them a fucking chance and reblog, regardless if they’re in your ‘circle’ / radar or not. regardless if you know them or not. hell, let them put you on to a new fandom. bc writing is writing and making new moots and finding new fics seem to be what everyone loves to showcase until its time to actually do it. no wonder people get discouraged to make friends and write, yall treat it like some kind of secret society when its supposed to be fun💀 not a competition. (yall need to dead this clique-y shit. )

#writers #writers of tumblr #WATCH EVERYONE SKIP OVER THIS DHDHDJDN #OH OH OH #and im black #LMAO THATS THE PUNCHLINE #so #all of this isnt only happening in a general writing fandom #but the little corner for my black people??#and in the corners of other minorities #IT HAPPENS HERE TOO DHGSGJG #nb is safe🙅🏾‍♀️#i thought we were escaping exclusivity?#and assumptions made about other people??#trust when i say this is NOT about anyone specific #just silly little observations #and pieces of my experiences #so any complaints #SHOVE IT SHOVE IT SHOVE IT!#will delete if this starts a revolt #or not bc i love chaos in the name of truth #i hope yall can feel the sarcasm this is kinda longer than i intended but i wanted to be as thorough as possible in my point #been working on this for a min #im not tagging as discourse bc this isn’t what this is #and if you treat is as such imma just assume you’re exactly who im talking about and keep it pushing🤷🏾‍♀️#just be better is all im saying #BYE I JUST CAUGHT SO MANY MISTAKES #the shame #i was caught up #but yall get it

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ninpheta111 · 1 month

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#Black Pussy 🖤🙅🏾‍♀️🔥😋

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kittykatninja321 · 2 months

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Telling people to watch under the red hood after I accidentally get them into Jason via constantly posting about him feels lowkey misleading like yes under the red hood is The post resurrection Jason story and is very accessible but actually for full context you need to read his original Robin run and then you need to read red hood lost days and then actually you do need to read under the red hood the comic because the movie changed stuff and then

#STOP RIGHT NOW ✋🛑 Do NOT get interested in a comic book character you will DIE 🙅🏾‍♀️❌#Jason Todd #dc #But for realsies watch under the red hood it’s a fun time #I wish the death in the family interactive was on digital. Girl who the fuck has a dvd player nowadays -_-

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babybrotherism · 5 months

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sam lightly making fun of how janky dean's emf meter looks being treated like he hate crimed him will never not make me laugh

#no jokes at dean's expense allowed 🙅🏾‍♀️🙅🏾‍♀️🙅🏾‍♀️#a.txt

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grimmbunniee · 10 months

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Hobie brown Fr

#hobie brown #hobie brown x y/n #hobie x you #hobie brown x reader #hobie brown x black!reader #black queens forever 👸🏽👸🏾👸🏿 snow bunnies neva 🙅🏽‍♀️🙅🏾‍♀️🙅🏿‍♀️#hobie brown loves black women he told me himself #I’m going to piss of a lot of people but if you get upset about this then your big ole baby 🤷🏽‍♀️#hobie brown says “the blacker the berry the sweeter the juice

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mcondance · 3 months

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fontaine tear it up in my big ass avengers shirt

#[fontaine]#lingerie 🙅🏾‍♀️ shorts and big shirt 😍

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paisholotus · 1 year

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Is this all do you do? Fucking complain about blacks not getting enough of recognition and representation. Don't you people have enough?

A broke college student that writes "stories" on a fuck ass app. You not a real author! Lol

🥱 WHEW! Chile Hollon!

Wow, you seem irritated. But first, let's unpack a few things.

1) For one thing, it's "black people", not "blacks." Lets show some respect, you Neanderthal! Black people are deserving of all the Love, Recognition, and Representation that we are denied on a daily basis!

I DON'T EXPECT YOUR KIND OF MUTATION TO UNDERSTAND THAT! BECAUSE EVERYWHERE YOU LOOK, WHITE PEOPLE ARE HONORED AND PRAISED FOR THINGS THAT BLACK PEOPLE DO BETTER AND HAVE DONE BETTER SINCE THE BEGINNING OF TIME!

so I'll keep praising Black Women and Black Men because we DESERVE THAT SHIT!

"Don't you people have enough?" LOL Lawd.

2) According to many Black Professionals attempting to build and sustain a career in film and TV, the industry has been a relatively hostile workplace. While some progress has been made in recent years with on-screen talent, and while several entertainment companies are beginning to make strides toward diversity, inequity persists and is deeply entrenched across the film and TV ecosystem.

Furthermore 67% of Americans across political ideologies and ethnicities believe there is a greater need for on-screen representation of, Black men, Black Women, Black teenagers, Black gay women, Black gay men, Black transgender women and men, and Black non-binary or genderqueer individuals, and finally Black men and Women with disabilities.

Any Black person working in ANY FIELD. It don't got to be just the flim industry. It's Black doctors, Lawyers, Teachers, Musicians, and Entertainers, etc etc. Any recognition given to Black People is the BARE FUCKING MINIMUM!

Because Black young girls and boys should not think, "WHAT A MIRACLE! THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO LOOK LIKE ME DOING THINGS THAT WHITE PEOPLE BE DOING!" Because it's something we SHOULD HAVE ALWAYS BEEN SEEING! BLACK PEOPLE DAMN NEAR CREATED EVERY FUCKING THING AND DON'T GET NOT A LICK OF PRAISE FOR IT!

So that's why I "complain" and "moan" and "bitch" about something BLACK PEOPLE SHOULD HAVE ALWAYS FUCKING GOTTEN, BUT INSTEAD WE GET THE MEASLY "here you go here's your flowers since you keep complaining." BY ENTITLED WHITE SALT SETTLERS.

AND FINALLY 😂😂😂 "a broke college student who writes 'stories' on a fuck ass app. Not a real author."

3) I am currently pursuing my Bachelor's degree while attending college on a 10k scholarship in order to become a certified English Teacher. As well learning to become a published Author. This Tumblr and wattpad shit is just a hobby, okay? It isn't apart of my every day life. It's something I do to escape and communicate with people.

I was Valedictorian of my whole grade, maintaining a 4.5 GPA which got me my scholarship. AND THAT'S ON WHAT? MUTHERFUCKING BLACK EXCELLENCE 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 BITCH DON'T YOU EVER PLAY WITH ME!

AND THAT GOES FOR THE REST OF YOU RACIST IGNORANT SEE THROUGH AMPHIBIANS. BECAUSE Y'ALL BE PLAYING WITH ME SIDEWAYS AND FRONTWAYS.

but it's my pleasure to read you people to FILTH! Because I'm on winter break, I GOT TIME!

And to my Boos that follow me how your day been? Hope it was great!

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comraderoscoes · 9 months

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icl ladies feeling incredibly nervous hehe

#also though. absolutely refuse to be disappointed by anything that happens today 🙅🏾‍♀️ so it’s good nerves . happy nerves #(someone tell my tummy that)

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conniesrockstargf · 7 months

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Rant of 9/27/23

Y'know one of the best things about being 19 is? The limbo of leaving the teens to being a starter adult.

It's the age where people 25+ constantly tell you that you're too young for A, too young to feel B, too young to know about C. It's so demeaning and invalidating.

I'll say, that as a girl who worked 3 jobs in her first semester of college, freshly 18, I'm fucking exhausted. I'm the oldest daughter of my family (which is a whole cause for therapy in its fucking self) which means that I've spent literally my whole life up to now, taking care of family. When i was 3, my grandmother kicked me and my 3 month old little brother out of her residence because she got into a spat with my mom. Even before that i was taking care of my younger siblings. When on family vacations, i am involuntarily designated babysitter (for children and (drunk) adults).

I work two jobs. One in a hospital kitchen, full time and the other as a barista part time. I am constantly on my feet for 7+ hours a day, tending to people who could care less about me.

When i was 16, i almost committed suicide in my bathroom. Still haven't been to therapy. 🩷

As a person having been through the bulllshit of life, it's really fucking frustrating when "older" adults try to disqualify my experiences because I'm young. Age has nothing to do with it! We all experience things differently and at different times, but that doesn't mean that anyone's journey is invalid.

I am a black, queer girl. I've got ENOUGH problems 😭. I don't need some millennials and oldheads in my face trying to tell me that I can't be tired or feel overwhelmed.

If i have every right to be grateful then i have every right to fucking complain. If i say I'm tired, I'm tired. If i say my feet fucking hurt, they hurt. If i say that i like Hello Kitty, i fucking like Hello Kitty. These older generations need to get through their heads that this generation is still human. Regardless of any technological advances or any other bs that our species comes up with, at the end of the day, nothing can make us more or less of a human than the next person. We have been beaten down by society forcing heteronormative, gender-biased, and eurocentric stereotypes and roles on us, which only hinder the true experience of being a human. We're surviving instead of living. It's truly a cruel world.

We're on a floating rock in the middle of fucking space and you're trying to argue about work ethic?! Please stfu.

Just enjoy the time that you have here and spread kindness. I don't understand why we can't do this 😞😭.

THIS PLACE FUCKING BLOWS 👎🏾

^^^ i do make them for fun, so if you wanna send an idea for any, my asks are always open.

I'll do anything I'm familiar with,

; tv shows, movies, characters, music, art, fashion, etc.

#archive of the eccentric ⚰️#hobiesrockstargf #donnie's archive: 🗣️ rants 🙅🏾‍♀️🚫

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