Tumgik
#agere carer
puppys-tiny-space · 6 months
Text
🩷How to tell someone about your regression🩷
🧃This is just some tips on how to do it, aka how I usually do it. If another way works for you that's great! This is just some idea on how to do it and be comfortable with it!🧃
🩷videos and online resources, if you are shy about explaining it yourself there are some great Textposts and videos online that explain regression and what it is, I have some myself on my tik tok and Instagram (I'll link the TikTok below) and there is a short film on YouTube called "too little" that's awesome🩷
🧃explain, I like to start by explaining what agereggression is, or even ask if they know something about it already, sometimes they do and that can be a great point to work from🧃
🩷be open, be open about why you regress at least as much as you are comfortable, people are kess likely to react poorly if they know why and can understand it🩷
🧃text message, preparing a text message or letter in advance, maybe even with a friend or cg, can be super helpful, especially if you experience going nonverbal🧃
🩷be sure, do not open up to someone because you feel forced or scared, be sure you feel safe with the person and exposing such a vulnerable side to them, nobody is entitled to your safe space🩷
🧃test the water, I like to hint at regression and test the waters first, wearing jewelry with kiddo nicknames or similar on it or having merch from more well known brands, if someone recognizes them and asks about it you know there is base knowledge🧃
🩷open up, I like to let people know about my trauma and other trauma-responses first, once they are aware of certain things it helps with the talk later on as it won't be as much if a shock that you might have to cope in unconventional ways🩷
Tumblr media
Fun fact of the day: it would take 19 minutes to fall to the center of the earth
1K notes · View notes
chaoticsnowykiddo · 6 months
Text
Platonic caregivers are so underrated and under appreciated
I love you platonic caregivers
I love you platonic baby sitters
I love you all those who care for regressors without romance involed in the relationship!
913 notes · View notes
tinylullabies · 5 months
Text
“ can you breathe with mama / dada, baby? deep, deep breath in. now, a long breath out. good job, honey ! can you feel mommy’s / daddy's heartbeat, yeah? such a sweet girl / boy, doing so well listening to mama’s / dada's voice. i know how overwhelmed you feel right now, bubs, but just keep breathing with me, 'kay, little love? momma / papa is going to help, all those mean and big thoughts aren't for my tiny one, hm? let’s count how many fingers mama / dada is holding up. good girl / boy — my baby is so smart ! mommy / daddy loves you so much, baby. you’re mama's / dada's happiness and if i could i would take all of those big feelings and thoughts away in a heartbeat . . . ” — ♡
617 notes · View notes
mother-athena · 2 months
Text
Little one, what are you still doing up at this hour? It's past your bedtime now...
Oh, you were trying to finish your show? Okay. No, it's alright baby, but mommy thinks you should save the rest of the episodes for tomorrow. I don't want you to be so tired in the morning that you feel cranky. I promise, you can wake up early to watch the rest, but right now, it's time to lay down.
How about this, can you tell me what your favorite part was while I warm up some milk for you? I would love to hear about what happened in your show. Yeah? Okay, come on precious, let's go grab your sippy.
Tumblr media
347 notes · View notes
littledragon1 · 14 days
Text
Mw want this
Tumblr media
249 notes · View notes
mama-pigtails · 2 years
Text
Tumblr media
It’s okay if all you did today was play games.
It’s okay if all you did today was sleep.
It’s okay if all you did today was get dressed.
It’s okay if all you did today was wake up.
We all heal in different ways, and there are days that are harder than others. That doesn’t mean you didn’t try, or that you’re lazy, or that you’re worthless.
Everything you do on a hard day is an act of bravery. Everything you do is wonderful, and I love you for it.
Tumblr media
5K notes · View notes
Text
"Formula" baby food for ARFID age regressors 🍼🥤
I'll make a better post with progress pics next time I make some, but I wanted to post about it quickly, since it was such a success.
My small (@bunnnybcy ) has ARFID, which makes it very difficult for him to get much nutrition, and I'm always trying things to make health accessible to him. One way to make "scary" foods accessible is to make them cute or baby-like. This recipe is sort of a "base model," a warm and sweet treat that can be altered later to increase their fruit & whole grain consumption.
Equipment you'll need:
Saucepan
Stirrer
Measuring cups
Stove or hotpad
Blender
Sippy cup or reusable pouches (Link to reusable pouch example)
Refrigerator for storage
Sweet Cinnamon Formula Recipe 😋
Ingredients:
1 cup + 1 cup milk or plant milk of choice (we used vanilla soy milk) 🥛
1/2 cup plain rolled oats 🥣
1 tsp dark brown sugar, or to taste*
1 tsp honey, or to taste 🍯
Cinnamon, to taste
Vanilla extract, to taste
Steps:
🥛 Heat the first cup of milk in your saucepan on the stove. Turn the heat up to medium, or medium-high if you're impatient.
🍯 Stir in the brown sugar and honey, and continue to stir frequently until the milk starts to lightly boil.
🥣 Stir in the 1/2 cup of rolled oats, and turn down the heat to medium, if it isn't already there.
🥄 Stir frequently until the liquid is mostly absorbed, about 5-8 minutes. (The longer you cook it, the smoother your end product will be, which is important for ARFID smalls.)
🆒️ Take off the heat, and let cool for a bit, until you're confident that it won't melt your blender lol.
Pour the oatmeal into your blender, add 1/4 cup milk🥛, and blend until smooth. Check the consistency, and continue adding milk in 1/4 cup amounts until your small approves of the texture. This would also be a convenient time to add more cinnamon, vanilla, honey🍯, or sugar, if they feel the taste is lacking.
Pour into pouches or sippy cups.
You can store leftover formula in the fridge for 3-5 days.
Other formula flavor ideas:
Strawberry 🍓
Banana🍌
Blueberry 🫐
Peach 🍑
Chocolate 🍫
Peanut butter 🥜
Apple pie 🍎
Pumpkin pie 🥧
Sweet potato 🍠
Notes for other carers of little ones with ARFID:
If your small one will tolerate it, adding nuts or seeds during step 1 will yield a more nutritious result, but some may not blend down. Chia seeds, for example, will remain visible and will feel like poppyseeds, which may be off-putting to someone with ARFID, even though they don't taste like anything.
Always remember to introduce new tastes and textures slowly, and allow them to try a new thing multiple times on different days if they're unsure about it. Unsure may just mean unfamiliar, and it'll take them a number of attempts to acquire a taste for it. Uncertainty is a good sign of a future "yes", but don't push them to finish a serving of something they're on the fence about; the pressure may turn it into a "no". Instead, give them the option of putting the rest away for later, and after some time, when they're ready, encourage them to try it again.
675 notes · View notes
glitzyglamdolly · 7 months
Text
Tumblr media
imagine baking cookies with your little for halloween!! helping them make the batter and roll it out, picking out fun shaped cookie cutters, and helping them stamp out the different halloween themed shapes into the dough. putting them in the oven and waiting for them to bake, mixing different colors of icing for when they’re done. decorating them once they’ve cooled down and telling your baby how proud you are of them for making such pretty designs!! kissing their nose and giggling as you finish icing the rest. pouring yourself a glass of milk and filling a bottle or sippy cup for your baby for you both to enjoy with your freshly baked spooky goodies!! ♡
Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media
223 notes · View notes
pupsplaypen · 2 months
Text
i <3 being an age regressor
i <3 getting taking care of
i <3 being babied and allowed to be little
i <3 bottles and pacis and stuffies
i <3 my mommy
i <3 that she accepts me
i <3 being an age regressor
==================================
i <3 being a caregiver
i <3 my princess and babying her
i <3 giving her everything she wants
i <3 that she trusts me
i <3 cuddling and holding her
i <3 telling everything will be okay and helping her
i <3 being a caregiver
88 notes · View notes
papabearsspace · 8 months
Text
Remember kiddos you are amazing no matter who says otherwise. I want anyone who sees this to heart it because it's true. Drink plenty of water eat your meals and get your rest. Someone out there loves you and needs you around.
Tumblr media Tumblr media
172 notes · View notes
adollchild · 2 years
Note
What's a babysitter in the agere community and what tips can they use.?
Tumblr media
A babysitter in agere is a type of caregiver who babysit regressors, and they are generally a lot like "regular" babysitters.
They might look after the regressor while their caregiver is away or busy, assist caregivers who sometimes need help taking care of their little one, or care for regressors who don't have a cg. It is possible to be a babysitter for more than one regressor, and some babysitters also look after multiple at once.
In a lot of cases, the babysitter will act as a secondary caregiver for the regressor.
Since babysitters are a subtype of caregivers, they will be able to use a lot of the same tips. Here are some posts that might be useful to babysitters (and caregivers in general):
The Ultimate Padding Guide!
tips for cgs of littles that have sensory issues
Caregiver Resource Masterpost
How to help your babie on their time of the month
Not-So-Sweet Dreams
A Starter Guide for New Caregivers
Signs your little age regressor is hungry
Tips for CGs with POC(Specifically Black) Littles
🧑🏽‍🍼 Caregiving 101: The Basics 🧑🏽‍🍼
How to care for a sick baby
☂️caring for a sick kiddo!☂️
“Littles With” Masterpost
SFW Resource List for Caregivers
Pointers for Caregivers of Goth/Alt babies!
Tumblr media
654 notes · View notes
puppys-tiny-space · 4 months
Text
🖍️Tips for tinies that struggle with hypersexuality🖍️
First of all it is completely valid and fine to struggle with hypersexuality while regressed or before regressing. This can be for any number of reasons and all of them are okay! It does not make you any less valid or precious. You deserve healing, love and gentleness. I will also be making a post for affirmations to deal with impure regression and hypersexuality.
🧮stop regressing if you need to, if intrusive thoughts or feelings get too much stop regressing, take a break from it, clear your head and calm down🧮
🧃do affirmations, remind yourself that you are precious, your regression is healing, you are clean and deserving of love🧃
🖍️avoid triggers, if you know what triggers hypersexuality try to avoid them extra hard while small, if it is not having close skin contact, not wearing tight close or whatever🖍️
🧮don't be shy to cope, cope however you need to, let out your painful feelings, scream, break things, run or write whatever helps you let it out do it🧮
🧃do not act on it, do not act on intrusive thoughts or feelings no matter how much you think it might help it won't, it won't make them go away it will make it worse🧃
🖍️journal, journal about your feelings, about what hurts and what helps, build skills that work for you, they don't have to be what other people do, it is your healing and nobody else's🖍️
🧃talk it trough, talk about your feelings with somebody, be it a therapist or somebody you trust, you deserve a safe space🧃
🧮teach yourself, teach yourself you do not need to do sexual things to deserve love and kindness, you have a right to gentleness and to being fragile, you don't have to be pure to be loved🧮
🖍️don't compare yourself, comparing yourself with others is never a good idea especially not with this, it might feel like you are alone with this issue but you are not, others struggle with it but most regressors don't talk about it as it's a very personal thing🖍️
Tumblr media
Fun fact of the day: you can tell the difference between rocks and fossils by licking them
730 notes · View notes
twisted-dad · 5 months
Text
Tumblr media
come here baby. daddy’s got you. how about we get your sippy from the fridge? i prepared some milk for you before woke up from your nap. everything is okay, sweetheart. just sip on your drink and lay in dads arms. how about we watch some cartoons? you can babble all about your favorite characters, and ill ask tons of questions. after that we could color some? im sure you’d love to color daddy a pretty picture, yeah? alright. come and snuggle up, lets pick out a cartoon.
Tumblr media
100 notes · View notes
tinylullabies · 5 months
Text
my baby being so tiny and nonverbal, resting on me after a long day of being big or masking their regression, listening to their soft breathing as i gently rub / pat the tiny one's back— lulling them to sleep with sweet murmurs and coos, brushing their hair out of their face so i could kiss their forehead . . . “mama's here, she'll protect her little angel from any nightmares, sweet dreams, mama’s sweet dove.” — ♡
728 notes · View notes
mother-athena · 2 months
Text
- A Day at the Fair with Mama 🎡 -
🍭 Here, angel, drink some water for me, okay? I think if you eat any more of that cotton candy today, you're gonna turn into a sugar stuffie!
🎪 Do you want to ride the ferris wheel with me? Yeah, it is super tall, but you don't have to worry. I promise to hold your hand the entire way up there.
🍿You were so good at the go-karts today, sweetie! You went so fast, nobody could even catch up to us! You could be the world's best racer if you wanted to.
🎠 It's alright to pet the animals, angel. They won't bite. You've just got to be very gentle when you brush them. Here, mama will show you and then you can try whenever you're ready.
🌭 Let's ride the carousel together! You pick out a horse for us to sit on, but make sure it's the very best one. Oh, that's a very good choice, little one! That horse looks super fast! Come on, let mama help you up so I can sit with you.
🧸 Woah, that ride went super duper fast, huh? Yeah, it did feel like we almost went to outer space! And you were so brave, especially when it started going up higher and higher. I think you were even braver than mama was!
🎡 Mm, seems like somebody's getting sleepy... It's alright if you are, baby. It has been a long day. Do you want me to carry you back to the car then? We can still stop by the gift stand on our way out to pick out a new toy, since you've been so good today.
260 notes · View notes
littledragon1 · 26 days
Text
Names for your stuffy forest theme
Sage
Acorn
Bean
Twig
Sunny
Rosie
Lili
Daisy
Buggy
Glitter bug
Pixie
123 notes · View notes