#he says as he gets 0 girls

[kicktwine]

oh so alisaie’s exaggerated bully behavior is 80% fanon. saying this she casually picks up a large rock

#say one thing wrong to me and you will have a wonderful few days with the rock #if angry silly girls have 100 fans etc if they have 0 fans i have died #sorry i saw a YouTube meme i vehemently disliked on principle and got mad at the only child behavior- #kipspeak #she is just short tempered and uses anger to mask other more ‘shameful’ emotions!!! alphy did the same thing with just deciding not #to express them. which is still not good and I think why he breaks and ends up teary so often now #this shortness does not translate to actually being mean to people. she only uses being mean as a shield for herself and being snarky #Is just fun for her. it’s fun for Me. you have to inconsequentually tease people or they’ll never learn to laugh at themselves #the twins and thancred 🫵 do this thing where they have big emotions but they don’t want anyone to SEE they have big weird emotions #so alphy pretends he doesn’t have them under a veneer of dignity and alisaie pretends the emotions are Something Else. thancred is #just so emotionally constipated he has trouble expressing anything. he’s got enough baggage for a flatbed #anyways. alisaie is such a compassionate and kind girl and she learned how to make snarky jokes and went ham. and she hates appearing sad o #weak or vulnerable so she blocks it off with an unapproachable emotion so no one pities her and they maybe get on with the plot #it is in fact also great at getting ppl to move away from the sad or embarrassing topic. even if the tradeoff is being more offputting #she would never (grabs youtube meme) she would never seriously bully her brother. this is sibling ribbing only. Cain instinct #just leave her be she is learning how to snark humor and she loves it she loves being sharp. alphy has wit he just keeps it close #my brother didn’t learn how to tell or receive a joke until he was 14 he took everything so seriously. he can do it now though and he’s #HILARIOUS. Don’t tell him I said that. my man knows exactly where the funny points are even if he hasn’t learned when to stop yet #too many tags. Whatever. jokey snark alisaie who sometimes compliments is happy alisaie grouchy snappy angry alisaie is way too stressed #very easy way to tell between the two. even alphy can tell between the two I believe! He tends to rib back in protest if they’re having fun #and try to stop her if they’re not having fun. case in point ‘what is that supposed to mean?!’ vs ‘alisaie ryne was only trying to help.’ #I know they’re twins but that’s such an intensely older sibling thing to do that it reels me #LONG TAGS AND THREE EDITS TO ADD ON SHORT I resent this stereotype taken too far into ooc behavior. it happened with nya #It will happen again and as a postscript let me regale you with Things U Can Notice About Character Motivation and Actions— #I’m not done let me s #she and raha are friends now I decree. ‘haha you like me’ SPUTTERING PROTEST FROM BOTH

[oatbugs]

pls i need to provide updates

#basically yesterday night was chaharshanbe suri . which is a solar new yr tradition where we let go of the past suffering in our year #and like...start the new yr w fresh vigour . anyway so my friend was at the event and we were abt to leap over the fire #and she was like bro im im glad u blocked her (situationship) etc etc . and then. my phone started vibrating. and i look at it. and my f #friend looks at it. and its her. and were both like what the fuck?? i blocked her things r Over and anyway so i pick up the phone and shesl #acting like nothing happened (bc nothing DID happen for her) and she was like ohh ur doing chaharshanbe suri im not doing anything etc what #are ur new yr plans so i jusr .IDK WHY I DID THIS . but ig i didnt wanna come off as like lonely i said probably hanging out w family and #friends maybe reading poetry together . et cetera and she was like wait that sounds so fun why didnt u invite me! #LIKE WDYM YOUVE BEEN CONSISTENTLY MAKING IT CLEAR U DONT WANT TO BE IN MY PRESENCE . and i told her that after #everything i thought she didnt want to see me again and she was like you always think that 😐 . like. ?? ok anyway so she expects me to #invite her . and like. there is an above 0% but sub-5% chance she will actually show up . but the panic that gripped me #i started making calls to my friends asking them if they can come on the 23rd bc there must be an event and also i asked my mother #and she said actually yeah i am doing a thing on the 23rd :D it involves over 16 ppl (we live in a v small flat) of which like...7 are kids #so you wont have space to be in ur own room let alone invite others. which tbh like ...being around a bunch of loud kids doesnt seem fun fo #any of my friends or me etc so i thought maybe i should arrange things so that we all go out together and if she shows up she shows up 🤷‍♀️ #but . im so. WHY DID I SAY THAT . i had to panic-call my research partner and ask him to get from oxf to where i live on the 23rd #and when he heard the explanation he like. the light in his voice disappeared 💀 but he potentially agreed so idk #THE ISSUE IS. 23rd im supposed to also have . a date #w this girl that i had a huge crush on when i was 15-16 (posted abt this b4 but id get shitty black coffee in the mornings just to spend a #few more minuted w her each day and she was the cleverest girl in school and she cared abt nothing but her academics but now shes very gay #scraggly homosexual etc etc shes cute) and YEAH IDK #like id have to go there on the date come back fast meet ppl POTENTIALLY (again under 5%) meet situationship girl #like is that even doable #but the thing is it would be so so so funny bc all of my friends dislike her sooo much #.........what if i invited the girl im supposed to have a date w over to hang out w us #god that would be so hilarious and chaotic . i wont do it tho im a mature person x #but it would be soooo funny #I HAVE AN ASSIGNMENT DUE TMRW 12:30PM IT IS 10:49PM RN I HAVENT STARTED IT bc i was rotting sadly in bed #popped a ritalin pill tho so here we go x #i have found myself in a state of such sheer agony and rage and sorrow and grief over this girl that atp i feel like #its just so entertaining . like i feel vaguely over it? ik nothing will come of it so its like just . have fun . vibe

[fearmeeeee]

I’m sure you’ve probably mentioned it before- but I’m curious! Where did the original love for Sebek come from!

Always been curious about that since your style just fits him so nicely!

Thank you sm! I'm glad you think my style suits him! I think his design is pretty elegant so I try to do it justice as much as I can.

Good question!! So I had to look up my own archive bcause I didn't remember but the first time I drew him was end of december. its been.... 9 months...

I have been aware of twst a few years prior but I was never INTO it. I really liked Sebek's design from the get go though, it has many elements that appeal to me personally (AND HE'S IN THE EQUESTRIAN CLUB!!!! I LOVE HORSES!!), but since he wasn't in the main story much I really didn't know anything about him. Then Glomas happened and I ended up getting obsessed w twst, and honestly around that time sebek got A LOT of cards back to back (dorm card, glomas, new years, masterchef, birthday, harveston on en) wich made me wanna look into him more and.. BOY!!!!

He is so obsessive!!!!! SO confidently wrong!! His perception of reality is so warped!! I wanted to study him under a microscope immediately. And honestly he's so FUNNY he makes every scene hes in a treat. A moment that had stuck out to me when I was still learning about him was how important it was to him not to lose to silver at.... coffee drinking... LIKE MY GUY!!!! NOBODY CARES!!!!! His point of view is so fun to see. I need to put him in a blender. I find characters like him very interesting, devoted to one person and all of their actions and morals are dictated by that.

Of course eventually it did become apparent that he has actual reasons and deep insecurities that affect his behaviour (which I hope but doubt ch 7 will actually touch on), that make him a pretty well rounded character, very fun to analyse and see more of. And his bond with the rest of Diasomnia is super interesting too. Silver is my 2nd favourite so it's nice that they interact a lot and mirror eachother.

Heres a wip💚

#asks #moonlight-phobia #my pen pressure stopped as i was lining this #sorry for writing 3 paragraphs #did i mention hes funny hes so funny funniest lil guy #but yea slicked back hair + slit pupils + fangs + thunder eyebrows is a killer combo for me #i love drawing those #and hes a BOOKWORM #aughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh #and gets attatched to stuffed animals #and likes horses :'0 #he gets 100 points just for being a horse girl #i may delete this l8r bcause i rambled too much but like no way i can cut down the length im just very obsessed with him #addmitedly i wouldnt be that into twst if i didnt need sth to cope with how exhausting and boring uni is but now here we r #emotional support green anime boy #also hes quite tragic a lot of the time but i will stop here i just have so much to say

[griffinsboyfriend]

Idc if it’s spoilers but as a VIP user I feel I have to say. With just 2 chapters of TDG: PB still doesn’t know how to manage multiple LI.

#Dante has taken up all the screen time #Farrah has 0 diamond scenes so far #in 2 chapters #Jun has 0 too but he’s part of like 1-2 Dante scenes #granted I’m set on Dante but like #tale as old as time #if you can’t manage 3 LI don’t ever do it again imo #Farrah literally has 2 non-diamond scenes thst last 1 minute #just saying for those who were interested in her and jun #Dante has around 4-5 diamond scenes in 2 chapters #I know some of y’all are advocating for multiple li books but I’m sorry #Dante has like 5 fucking scenes in 2 chapters #it’s not happening here #it’s not looking good #maybe we should stick to one LI per book #things could change its only 2 chapters but like girl #let’s be real it won’t change #pb is predictable #they don’t want to write for female LI #Farrah is absent in the introductory chapters y’all #you get to flirt with her once and that’s it #Dante has many flirt lines

[kaythefloppa]

It’s that time of year to ruin y’all’s childhoods [jk] by presenting my LK/LG Pride Headcanons!

#The lion guard #the lion king #Pride month #pride 2023 #pride headcanons #2023 #lgbtqia + #I cheated with Bunga and Anga since Bunga’s VA is bi and Anga’s is lesbian #But idgaf #Vitani’s a lesbian but I don’t see her getting a relationship or having kids for a while #Rafiki being genderfluid was based off of the Broadway musical where he was a girl. #Do I even need to say anything with Timon & Pumbaa? Lol #Baliyo x Beshte are bi4bi - I can and will elaborate why I’ll die on that hill #He and Askari are also trans idgaf #I know that the show implies that Fuli and Azaad get together but that motherfucker looks way too old for her and they leave it open-ended #So I have him as aroace and her as bi #Jasiri is also aromantic and doesn’t get with Janja [partly for that and bc she tried to fucking incinerate her and her children] #As for Janja he gets with Makucha - Spotted bfs for the win [that’s an edit btw so if you steal it then you fucking suck #Tiifu and Zuri are both lesbians who take 0 interest in Kion or Baliyo #Kion and Rani are of the same PRIDE [get it?] #Mohatu is ace and had Ahadi via surrogacy #Kovu is demiromantic and Kiara is an bi-ace queen #And the OG King and Queen are bi-cons #happy pride month #homophobes dni #transphobes dni #basically if you have an issue with the idea of TLK characters being anything but allocishet then scroll off #Also please no “But they’re different species” comments - Simba was raised by a warthog and a meerkat and these animals have human emotions #And they may not be able to have kids but they can adopt [or just choose not to have kids] #So fuck off with that “the can’t be shipped bc they’re diff species and can’t have kids” hogwash

[fbpanimations]

ykw fuck it, jeremy from be more chill shouldve been gay. he shouldve gotten with michael at the end. 2 player game exists, there was an entire plotpoint of squip blocking michael from jeremys brain because michael is the fucking link to “jeremy 1.0” (aka his true self) and michael literally had a panic attack in the bathroom because jeremy ditched him LIKE IM JUST SAYING

#*i havent been able to watch the full musical cuz i cant find a way to but ive listened to the ost a few times #and cathrine doesnt really seem to have much of a character #or at least nothing much really happened with her and jaremy and them getting together at the end didnt make much sense to me #and like yeah jeremy and michael had that reconnect in the play but michael barely did anything in more than survive reprised it wouldve- #-wouldve worked pretty well #more than survive reprised i meant voices in my head how the hell did i even fuck that up #we need more media of the dude besties getting together instead of the mc just getting with Some Girl he likes but has 0 history with #(i have these same feelings towards national treasure btw) #be more chill #EDIT DOD I SAY CATHRINE I MEANT CHRISTINE IM FUCKING STUPID LMAO #*DID #FUCK #these tags are a disaster omfao #breh #💀💀💀💀💀

[fauna-and-floraa]

pretty guy, little, usually has bottle blonde hair, australian, deep voice... am I talking about Felix or am I talking about Daniel Johns

#it'll never happen but if I could get Felix to do one cover #i'd choose a silverchair song. Like firstly would love to see felix do something grungy and hes really got that deep ass voice... #just like daniel johns..... #I think he could do it justice and I'td just be fun #i also 100% believe felix wouldnt know silverchair but thats okay i can send him Frogstomp #anyway this is a niche post for potentially 0 other people outside me #but hey ya never know. I mean Karolina and me are both runaways / joan jett girls #and we ended up skz pals so whos to say maybe theres a 90 grunge enjoyer #john was funnier than felix bc he was 15 when they did that first song and he already had that deep ass voice like how tf does a kid sound #like that 😭

[turtshell]

its almost embarrassing how much time i've dedicated to thinking about ftm 03 leo. i have so many thoughts about him

#definitely a 'splinter (who was a normal pet rat and doesnt really comprehend gender as identity) assumes all the turtles are male' #everything he knows is from his master yoshi parenting books and television - so thats really all the turtles know too #leo is aware that hes biologically different from his brothers from a young enough age and just. kind of hides it because he doesnt want to #'be a girl' #meanwhile donny is kind of piecing shit together and is like 'oh no what if leo doesn't know he could be a girl and we're forcing him to be #a boy against his will?' #and its a whole comedy of errors. miscommunication all the way around #donny digging up any and all info about being a trans male in new york in the late 90s #and doing everything to get the terminology correct #and leo's just 'i'm a male man guy dude i dont care if i'm a transsexual one' #in the end it literally just doesn't matter. he's a mutated turtle who lives in a sewer it makes 0 difference that hes not genetic #(which is such a fun old term for cis) #i need that old badge that says ~better dead than genetic~ #<- unrelated #leo just wants to train with swords and read books #i need to stop #theres more but i have to cut myself off #tmnt #mine #trans leo #trans hc #03 leo #tmnt 2003

[totsunits]

you know what bothers me? alexia not receiving at least 1million even after winning 2 ballon d'ors and a world cup. meanwhile lewandowski isn't doing much and he's still making a ton of money lol i know ale is waiting to recover before renewing and she'll stay with barça but this whole drama from the men's team this season has me reflecting on how unfair it is.

#that’s so fucked up #and i'm saying this because i'm annoyed that xavi and lewandowski supposedly didn't get along #but you know what? xavi being a true culé knew that many there didn't understand what it means to be a barcelona player #and im sorry but gavi was the ONLY one who knew #he was the only one who cried bc we lost the first el classico of the season #he always gave his life on the field so his word saying that he’s with xavi until death make me wonder who’s wrong here #anyways. #that’s just my opinion #oh and the girls won 6-0 today just wanted to let you know :) #maria talks #barça

[sweetsuenos]

Some people only like Moonyoung once she becomes more tame but not me...I love evil women. If a hot evil coded lady was obsessed with me I would simply marry her...

#gang tae is such a liar he's like 'oh no she tricked me into living with her :0' #and then immediately after he's jealous and gets upset when she says he isn't her boyfriend... #like girl what 😭 #he was daydreaming about her from day one!!!! #thats why i dont get ppl who act like hes some poor innocent baby that gets tricked by her #he gets accidently stabbed by her and he daydreams about it!!! #he sighs fondly while looking at the scar later!!!! #yes im a ko moonyoung did nothing wrong truther...and? #ko moon young #고문영 #moon gang tae #문강태 #it's okay to not be okay #사이코지만 괜찮아

[justsomeweirdbandkid]

Ok I'm going to like. Infodump abt my crush in the tags bc like. Yeah <:)

#ok SO #he's another trumpet player n obviously we met through marching band #he's a music ed major. bless his soul #he's LITERALLY one of the funniest fuckers in the band #I put my bottle next to his for band? he makes sure to consistently keep it in that spot so I won't put it somewhere else #after practice I give him his bottle and he goes 'thank you Rex <:)' WITH GLEE IN HIS VOICE #for football games our team is Awful so he leans over and shows me tiktoks he finds #(<and one of my love languages is sharing things that make you smile) #I make a lot of excuses to hang out with him and he always willingly comes!!! #he shows. so much. interest. in ANY events I go to. I mentioned a dance recital I wanted to go to and he went 'I should check that out :)' #(<we're going on sunday btw. I v much so talked him into coming with me <3) #I posted on snap earlier before our 3 hour trip home 'wish us luck on the road' and he was the only one who asked if we made it safe 🥺 #and RELATED TO THAT. he's ushering an opera rn. he's not supposed to be on his phone but he got a text from me and texted me back ASAP #he's also??? so fucking relatable and I think that's why I fell #'you good?' 'yeah. just tired. when I get back to the dorm I'll probably make some Chef Boyardee and put on Rick and Morty' #like GIRL you are so right. that's the ideal night and ily #mutuals if you'd like to see him after I put a pie in his face for his frat fundraiser. lmk #and I'm saying all these AMAZING things about him. and what's even better!!! he seems?? like he might feel the same way 😳 #idk I've never really been properly flirted with but he always seems like he wants to hang out <:0 #but like!!! from a respectful distance!! guys who respect space while also keeping interest these days is hard to find ESP in college #if I ever have the guts to tell him I like him I will do so IMMEDIATELY because jfc I really do #maybe? somehow someway he might do it first 🙏 manifest it ✊ #anyways yeah :) infodump over I just really really wanted to spill about him #I wanna tell Batz about it all but he doesn't care much for that kind of stuff so I don't wanna bother him with it 😔 #But!!!!! I can tell tumblr dot com. and you can throw all the tomatoes at me you want but I never shut up here <3

[shrews-things]

There's one cashier at the local store who knows about my transition stuff and he wished me luck today and always asks how I am and it made me tear up a little and I can't phrase things well rn but there's something about strangers genuinely wanting things to go well for you that makes me incredibly emotional about humanity

#the reason why he knows is a bit of a weird story but anyway #stopped by the store on my way to pre-surgery exams to get some snacks and red fruit juice #bc I have a history of passing out after blood tests #and we had a nice chat #he says that he had wanted to be a girl too but then accepted that he has to live his life the way he is #I think that's kinda sad and I think it's never too late to transition but ah well #also he's like 20 something!!!! barely 5 years older than me!! that's far from too old #anyway please send thoughts and well wishes my way :0 this is the last round of tests and permissions before my surgery #I'm so excited #mom is increasingly scared tho dkdhdkdgjd she was so chill about it at the start but now is big time freaking out #I mean I understand why #I just feel bad for making her worry

[lucy-ghoul]

SO close to strangling my dad for what he's saying about berluconi... what a deeply ignorant little man he is at heart

#also he's sprouting a lot of catholic perbenismo that's making me nauseous #and my mom parroting him because she's got no actual opinions of her own...... (i'm sure she'd be parroring ME if i ever breached #the silvio discourse with him) #the thing about my dad is that i don't like him. i love him to death and he and my mom and siblings are the most important people in my life #and idk how i'd live without him #but i don't like him as a person. i don't like his opinions or temperament. i hate how he practically forced my brother in the closet #~to not hurt his DeLiCaTe sensibilities (aka homophobia) while my brother has to swallow his fascist nostalgia/apologia #and all the bs he says. i hate how he NEVER takes me seriously and laughs at me whenever i get angry with him #and treats me like a china doll/a misguided 15-year-old just because of my mental condition even when he claims i'm an intelligent person #i hate how he finds an opportunity to belittle my mom and mock her and never treat her as an equal at every turn #and she has to bear with all of this + his untreated anger issues (ever since i was a little girl i remember i promised myself i would NEVER #end up in a marriage like theirs and since then i've always been highly sceptical of marriage as an institution) #i hate that he always thinks he's right even when he makes 0 efforts to research a subject my brother is infinitely more knowledgeable about #because apparently he's ~suspicious of even basic stuff like reading the wiki or a fucking book and gets his Superior Knowledge #from the Heavens/God Almighty/his famously Big Brain etc. #i hate how he thinks he's the pinnacle of morality even if he's just a mean-spirited 'mussolini ha fatto anche cose buone' #kind of ~uomo perbene. he's just an unpleasant person i'd normally never associate with (no wonder he has no friends) except he's my dad. #val speaks #txt

[mrfoox]

me: noooo haha, i’m so embarrassed, im dying, be nice to meee thiihii

also me: -says risky things around people to either make them laugh or make them take it as flirting or a secret third thing-

#miranda talking shit #i think it's my asd vs adhd mind but so many times.... in friendships especially i'll say a dirty joke or something out of nowhere #and if they respond back with a ttype of flirting i die and get embarrassed but if they laugh im like (: yeah we did it #for someone who's affected by everyone and cant handle anything i sure do throw matches around flamable objects often #the shit i have started.... is crazy. only like a couple of times i had 0 intentions to do so #still im shook and embarrassed when someone responds back like girl.... you started this why are you now stettering and blushing #probably bc i still cant see or imagine anyone flirting back or responding in that way back so i get flustered #but my god i've said some SHIT and then had to pay for it bc others responded without missing a beat and i get embarrassed #remember that time i literally told my crush i'd suck his dck/owe himm a bj? yeah i said that and he was like 'oh shit nice!' #and then i died and i could never live it down. i am the person who start shit but i need people to finish but my god i'll be on the floor #dying unfortunatey. i have rare moments of intense self comfidence and ive heard its hot but its usually like 30sec to a few mins then its #like oh no what am i doing aaaaaaa

[iloveyouitisruiningmylife]

today is the first time in like forever that i kept my hair open for the whole day without hating them by the end of the day and they're so soft and i tried on dark maroon purple lipstick yesterday with my bestfriend and she was like whoa. you look like. hot. and Mature. and i told her i love her because i kept using pink because it's cute pretty girly and i wanna feel pretty but it didn't really suit me but this this dark shade it's perfect i feel so confident and sexy and i hung out with my cousin little sister rn we used to be closest bestfriends but we drifted apart because of papa-chachu drama in childhood but

#she came over and she was like i don't have company to smoke with come on smoke with me #and i was like aaah okay #and she's so cute she's like okay have this vape after the cig to like remove the bad taste #and i gave her change for auto cause she didn't have any and she was like ill pay you back and i was like girl please shut up #choti behen hai meri itna toh kar hi sakti hu and she laughed and was lke arre aise hai fir toh main itne mein nahi maanungi aur do #so i was like bade hoke pakka abhi itni hi aukat hai #it's nice i feel happy #i also leaned my head on my office wali senior ka shoulder cause i was superrrr sleepyyyy today #only for like a minute but she was like aww are you sleepy it's okay so ja i understand this and she patted my head gently #like you know side face pe they pat🥺🥺🥺0 #and like i was like do you need help what do i do when she was working and she was like kuch nahi i just need you to sit here next to me #and keep chattering #it's so 🥺🥺🥺 #like this is big okay she's kinda very cool and smart and like real focused and serious okay she doesn't like disturbances #and i love her brain i want to be curious and sorted like her i love the way she understands things slowly but completely #like just work wise i aspire to be her everyone gets so impressed by her i do too the sir was like {her name} ko ab bank audit acche se aa #gaya hai ab wo apne aap bhi kar sakfi hai sign kar sakti hai #WHICH IS SOOOOOO COOL like bhai he's a very good ca okay crazy intelligent and to have him say that. just wow #and i was whining to her ki everyone sucks my relatives suck nobody even appreciates that im killing myself trying to make a career here #all my mami cares about is that why couldn't i take ek din ki leave and show up at her fucking dance practice😭😭 #so she was like aww it's okay leave them ill say it you're doing very good {my real name} im proud of you #i literally said awww thank you out loud itna sweet tha na #wow a happy vent post this is a first

[faultsofyouth]

Also I may be cranky but I find it insanely frustrating that day 2 of getting billy, I told my parents how to take care of her and then they totally ignored me once I was out of the house.

And Then today I started feeding dust in the hall outside of her room to start the Jackson galaxy introduction method, and my mom came out of her room 10 minutes later to be like "I don't think it's a good idea to put his food there, you should have them eat separate" (NOT how the JG method, which I explained to her, works) because her room is within eyesight of Billy's door, so now when the dogs try to steal dusts food, she can actually See them doing that and feels obligated to stop them.

Even though no matter where I put his bowl, if either dog can reach it, they will steal from it. and they Do that every day. And I'm the only one who gets onto them. Like it's an ongoing issue but it doesn't bother her that her dogs steal food, it bothers her that She has to intervene to stop it now.

#i told her i cant really feasibly move billy to any other room in the house (i could keep her in mine except my mom wont accept that #bc if i keep my door closed at night then dust will scream and that annoys her) #and she was like 'im not saying you should move billy im just saying you should feed dust somewhere else' #like literally 20 minutes before this i walked her through the JG steps to introducing cats #and then her very next request was ''can you do the complete opposite of this plan now'' #its so fucking annoying like she will take 0 responsibility for her animals bad behavior and try to be like #'its all my husbands fault cuz he spoils them'' and she is totally full of shit cuz she will actively enable bad animal behavior #and especially with cats like she has never owned a cat before in her life before getting dust for me #she has No Idea how to socialize a cat (part of why dust doesnt like her very much) but for some reason she won't defer to Anybody elses #opinion on how to do it. she is like Surely these creatures that i have never understood or gotten along with will respond well #to trial by fire and blatant disrespect for their boundaries :) #whats the most annoying is i didnt even ask her to do Anything aside from feed billy when im out of the house #she doesnt have to clean the litter boxes or give her medicine or even help hold her down while i do those things #and all she fucking had to do to stop the dogs from stealing was close her own bedroom door #but noooooo she would much rather insert herself into this situation that she has no idea how to navigate #because she knows SHE doesnt have to deal with the consequences of a poorly socialized cat #i told her i was going to cut off visual contact between billy and dust and she was like 'that seems like too much' #GIRL I GOT PEED ON 3 TIMES LAST NIGHT. DID YOU??? #like who the fuck does she think she is? first ignore my instructions outright and then refuse to accommodate my new plan after her idea #clearly failed