#i'm kidding other people are funny

[all-that-jazz-93]

I am the only funny person on Slack

#work adventures #chicago life #doggy daycare #i'm kidding other people are funny #i GUESS

[ninja-knox-ur-sox-off]

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#KNOX ART (me) #Monkie Kid #LEGO Monkie Kid #Monkey King | Sun Wukong #Six Eared Macaque #this is /lh bGKLSA;DMFAWE #drew these doodles a while ago but didn't post em cause i was busy with reposters bGKAMOFE #Anyway swk and mac is like if u had a bff that hurt all ur other friends so u cut it off with them because they won't stop and then they #started following you around and bugging ur younger sib to try and get to you and people expected u to apologize BGA;LSKEMF;AWE #k maybe I'm a little salty bG;LSKAMF;AOEW I MAINLY DREW THIS TO BE FUNNY THO

[swordheld]

hi! your blog is one of my favourites and i absolutely adore reading your thoughts. my grandfather recently passed away and it feels like i lost myself with him. how do i continue living after this? there is this constant weight on my chest and it feels like an emptiness has made a home inside of me. how do i go on when it feels like the world crashed on my shoulders?

hello, love! this is so very sweet and kind of you, and i hope you're treating yourself gently and kindly right now - there aren't words for a loss like this. that heaviness is difficult, and hard, and painful. it's okay if things don't feel okay, right now, or even soon - i think that's something that a lot of the people i know that have gone through similar grief feel: like they should be able to get back to a relative 'normal' in a [insert far too short period of time].

but it's okay if it hurts. that's where i'd like to start. you're allowed to feel that emptiness, that world-crashed feeling that goes beyond words, beyond time. don't feel like you have to rush this to feel some sort of better. things get easier with time, i promise you this, but sometimes painful feelings are important to feel, too. cry, scream, feel your emotions. they're a part of you. grieve.

it's perhaps a little silly, but when i think about death i always think about a couple of space songs: mainly drops of jupiter by train and saturn by sleeping at last. there are perhaps others that speak to the emotions better, but these two have always hit something a little deeper for me, and are popular for a wide-reaching reason.

and while personally i don't know much about grief like this, i do know a lot about love; and i think they're a lot of the same thing.

the people we love are a part of us, and this is why it takes from us so deeply when we lose them, because it does feel like we've lost a part of ourselves in the wake of it. but it's because they were so central to our experiences of living - our lives, that the separation introduces a hollowness - a place where they used to be. a home that now goes unlived in.

an emptiness, like you said.

but just because they're not here physically, doesn't mean he's not still there, in your heart, in your life, your memory. you can hold him close in smaller ways, as well: steal a sweater, or cologne/scent for something a little more physical and long lasting for remembering. hold onto the memories you cherish, the things that made you laugh, the ease of slow mornings and gentle nights. write them all down, slide a few photographs in there, go through it and add more when you miss him. keep them all close, keep them in your heart.

you're not alone, in this. he's still there, with you, it's just - in the little things.

he's with you in the way you see and go about your daily life, in doing what he liked to do, in the ways he interacted with the world that you shared with him. the memories you recall fondly when the night is late or the moment is right and something calls it into you like a melody, an old bell, laughter you'd recognize anywhere.

but i think, perhaps most importantly above all others - talk about him. with your family, your friends, his friends, strangers; stories are how we keep the people we love alive. the connections they've made, the legacies and experiences they've left behind, and so, so many stories.

how lucky, we are - to love so much it takes a piece of us when they go. grief is the other side of the coin, but it does not mean our love goes away. it lives in you. it lives in everyone who knew him, in the smallest pieces of our lives.

the people we love never really leave us, like this: they're in how we cook and the way we fold our newspapers, our laundry, in the radio stations we tune in to and the way we decorate our walls, our photo albums. they're in the way we store our mail, organize our closets, the scribbled notes in the indexes of our books. the meals we love and the drinks we mix, the way we spend time with one another. they've been passed down for generations, for longer than history - and we are all the luckier for it.

think about what you shared with him, and do it intentionally. bring him into your life, like this, again. whether it's crosswords or poetry or sports or anything else. if one doesn't help, try another. something might click.

i hope things feel a little easier for you, as they tend to do only with time. i hope you find joy in your grief, even if it is small and hard to grasp at first. know that your hurt stems from so much love that there isn't a place to put it properly, and that it is something so meaningful and hurting poets and storytellers have been struggling to put it into words and sounds that feel like the fit right for eons, and that it is also just simply yours. sometimes things don't have to make sense. sometimes they just are - unable to be put into words or neat little sentiments, as unfair and tragic as they come.

but i promise it will not feel like this forever. your love is real. and perhaps, on where to begin on from here - i think it's less on finding where to begin and just beginning. and you've already started. you've taken the most important and crucial step: the first one. wherever you go, after that, from here? you'll figure it out. you always have, and you always do. it'll come, as things always do. love leads us, as does light - and you're never alone in your hurt. in your grief, your missing something dear to you. i think if you talk about it with others, you'll find they have ways of helping you cope as well - and they have so much love of their own to spare, too.

as an aside, here is the song (northern star by dom fera) i was listening to when i wrote this, for no other reason more than it makes me think of connections, and love, and how we hold onto the people we love and how they change us, wonderfully and intrinsically. it's a little more joyous than the others i've mentioned, and plays like a story, and it made me think of what is at the core of this, love and stories and i am here with you, and maybe it'll bring you some joy, if you'd like it. wishing you all my love and ease 💛

#q&a. #birdsong. #wishing u gentle ease; the death of a loved one is near inexplicable to put into words and i hope you take care of yourself gently <3 #i hope this will make u laugh: when i was a tiny child in middle school there were times i would go outside in my tiny suburban cul de sac- #in the rain and sing along to my lil ipod nano and i only remember doing this to drops of jupiter. can you imagine going out to get the mai #after a long day of work and you just hear this kid singing train in the streets. in the RAIN.... it makes me laugh like i really. #i really thought i was so cool and deep and emotional ghjkd but i find it v funny that i only remember it w/ that one train track. #and saturn just. it's my fav s.a.l. song for a reason. that slow violin opening? the piano coming in gentle and easy? #it feels like light. like hope. like something new - a dawn after the long dark. that beautiful things can begin again even where #it hurts. and there is nothing more human than a sentiment like that. #how rare and beautiful it is to truly exist. what it is to be alive and get to be here and live with other people. with those we love. #i think your grandfather was so lucky to be able to know you. to have you in his life for the time you had together. #i'm no spiritual person; but i like to believe when you're thinking about him? he's thinking about you too. #the second law of thermodynamics (physics nerd mode) is that no energy has ever been created/destroyed since the beginning of the universe. #so it has to go somewhere - it's that carl sagan quote of 'we're all made of stardust'. because we are. we used to be stars; planets; etc. #i think it's why i think of these space songs - because they're a part of everything; once more; when they go. us and everything else.

[nightmareonpeachstreet]

sometimes I remember when people tried to use Priam as proof that Ike wasn't gay, as if Ike's intersex genderfluid half-dragon twink husband Soren wouldn't immediately start happy-crying thinking about a bunch of tiny little Ikes running around their house the minute Ike asks him if he's ever thought about having kids.

#in other news: Soren would be the most obnoxious parent in the world #he would straight up get a call from the principle saying his son got into a fight and rush to the school to ask his son ''did you win?'' #and if the answer is no he will go over his son's strategy with him that night to improve his odds of winning next time #child: mom what do I do if I'm in a headlock #Soren: you need to start biting people. also take this knife and conceal it in your boot #he also does this with his daughters. obviously #anyway I think about Ike and Soren having kids quite often because the shenanigans are very funny #Ikesoren #Ike #Soren #Priam #Fire Emblem // #FEA // #FEPoR // #FERD // #(ok my radiant dawn tag just looks like i'm talking about Ferdinand very enthusiastically gfodivgnoifdohi whoops)

[askblueandviolet]

Hey blue or mayor- I got a question.

What's your favorite ice cream flavor? Mine is chocolate.

Also here have this *put flower crown on his head*

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#lego monkie kid #lego monkie kid fanart #monkie kid #monkie kid fanart #lmk #lmk fanart #lmk mayor #monkie kid mayor #lmk macaque #monkie kid macaque #blue and violet #I just remembered that there is actually a valid reason as to why I decided the Mayor would like pears #pear is a autumn/winter fruit #I'm so silly that I forgot that this was an actual reason for my logic behind this #mayor likes pear because its a winter fruit #and its a bit dull but the pears I have eatten are a little sweet so eh #citrus fruits are also winter fruits #this guy could probably eat a lemon whole and not even flinch #or maybe they would and their face would actually just scrunch up in the modt horrifying way #I don't know which one is funnier #anyways- the mayor likes pear flavoured ice cream/milk ice #I personally like chocolate flavoured ice cream too 👍 #I actually just love icecream in general so I think I'm jusy projecting onto the Mayor at this point #they love ice cream/milk ice #Macaque has intense mixed feelings about this #he doesn't understand the appeal of a good pear other than the fact that its a good fruit to wash down something you just ate beforehand #he likes banana and banana flavoured ice cream #y'know its funny because people assume Mayor likes blueberries because its blue and Macaque likes plums because its purple

[drawnecromancy]

Random sillies from snooping around in the goblin camp. Veldren does flirt as a hobby so they're having a lot of fun with Astarion so far.

Bonus under the cut :

Shadowheart and Lae'zel don't agree on many things except the fact that these two are So Fucking Tiring because they're Like That all the fucking time.

#martin plays bg3 #bg3 spoilers #(maybe ? idk) #astarion #bg3 fanart #real talk. Veldren is not the Cliché Bard That Fucks Around All The Time. It's just incredibly funny to flirt to them #and like. idk so far when astarion hasn't been telling me horrible things that happened to him in his past like it's a tuesday #he's been real funny in the flirty sense + he doesn't feel particularly serious #so i think that would 100% make Veldren bounce off of that #it's just fun man #like i'm definitely going to try to romance astarion there's no question here #it's just funny to do it as i rp a character who generally just flirts for fun and WOULD be surprised if it resulted in anything #my art #sketches #there's other fun tidbits about Veldren like #they didn't believe vampires were real for a long time. #in fact they didn't believe vampires were real UNTIL they met astarion. #they weren't phased by the red eyes or whatever like look. Vel's a drow. with red eyes. why would he assume Astarion having red eyes is wei #weird* #the scar on their face is a burn. they fell face first into a fire as a kid. they make shit up when people ask though #because it's funny #they WILL be kind of a dick if it's funny + there's no real consequences #should i tag lae'zel and shadowheart here ? hm. they're #a bonus so probably not.

[cinnamon-phrog]

Girls when the character they hated in their childhood is on the cusp of becoming an f/o for the exact reasons you hated them

#pr*ship dni pls #i hate him.......... i want him dieded................ #he's a jealous little prick with an attitude then reduced over the years to a sopping wet people-pleaser. he's pathetic #he overcompensates for his past snark by bending over backwards for people. gets treated like shit and goes on with it #because perhaps he thinks he deserves it #HE DOESN'T #and btw uh. um. small detail. he's kind of a pullstring cowboy doll from a famous animated franchise and yes i'm mad about that #why couldn't my brain focus on something useful wtf is a 🤠 #no but as a little kid i fucking hated him for no reason. #but who sobbed her eyes out when he left in the last movie? me. because i'd rather he be a prick than treated bad for NO reason #it's better when he's an ass and THEN treated bad if he's just treated bad with no consequence it's just unfair and sad #let him do something that makes him DESERVE to be treated harshly because that's funny. when he's just a sweetie and everyones' mean to hi #makes me kinda sour in the mouth tbh #👢🐍 #f/o #fictional other #selfship #selfshipper #selfshipping

[emile-hides]

I’m so obsessed with the Mario family and while I’m a very hard Uncle Tony stan I’m also insanely obsessed with Auntie Marie and her daughter. I want to know all about them.

#Mario Movie #I know I know she's called Mario and Luigi's 'Neice' but come on #This is a family of 9 we have two different full group scenes with them #there's no way there's a 10th family member we haven't seen who's this kid's parents #And she looks a LOT like Marie brown eyes and lighter reddish hair than everyone else's dark brown #She's their cousin but she's like 11 years younger than them so she's more like a niece do you understand #I've been calling her Louisianna in reference to their Super Show cousin Marianna #Because we already have too many Ma names in this family lets get another Lou #I would also be down for calling her Marilyn sense that's their Niece from the super Show #Whatever whatever I just adore them both to no end you don't understand #I'm also mental about the flower on the back of her hat is it a Daisy reference? Why?? #It's 4am I'm trying not to go too insane about this whole thing #I ALSO love Uncle Arthur btw don't get me wrong he's INCREDIBLE #I love the stupid lean he does at the beginning of the scene I want him to fall out of his chair #I love that he and Tony play off each other SO hard they're SO mean #idk how people thought Arthur and Pa Mario were twins when Tony and Arthur are Right There being clearly stupid close knit #This entire family is so funny never change and also tell me everything about you #Give me the Super Show reboot Nintendo I am BEGGING

[yardsards]

thinking about the fact that i was so socially awkward as a teen that the school wanted to me out of class to attend "social skills classes" once a week (to which i attended one and demanded i be removed from the program cuz it was just me and about a dozen equally uncomfortable probably-autistic kids who also probably did not want to be there, being forced to do icebreaker activities by deeply condescending special education teachers)

how did i not receive an autism diagnosis til i was nearly an adult and specifically advocated for myself to be taken to a professional to get checked out for autism and adhd???

#eliot posts #i'm really curious whose call it was to put me in there #it wasn't my parents because my mother was Outraged that her kid got put in a special ed type class and signed the papers so i could leave #so like. what teacher made that call. #and what exactly sparked that #was it my general being a loner or was there An Incident #i don't remember exactly what grade i was in. probably 8th or 9th? #so still kind of stuck in my ''convinced myself i was just Better than my peers and that's why i didn't have many friends'' phase #following that was a phase where i got over myself but was kinda just shy #and then a phase where i went okay fuck it we ball and acted weird but in a way intended to be funny #that annoyed some people but some people enjoyed. by then i figured ''eh i aint seeing most of these ppl ever again after graduation'' #i had some friends in high school bc of marching band but they were all in different grades than me #tho even then i was only close w like 2 of them and the rest all seemed closer to each other than to me #edit: dug through my blog and it was 7th grade (yeah ive been on here that long) #so this was before i even had my marching band friends. but probably after my singular friend from elementary school moved away? #i forget if he left in 6th or 7th grade #(im still friends with that friend. he's great we love him)

[somecunttookmyurl]

non-queer/gender boyfriend content incoming

rhys: *showing me an image on his fb feed that says 'autistic play is not inappropriate play'* what does this mean? inappropriate play?

me: autistic children will often play or interact with things differently to their neurotypical peers like... instead of building something with lego just sorting the blocks into size and colour or what have you and non-autistic adults see this as doing it "wrong" or not "appropriately" and try to stop it and force you to "play" how you are "supposed to". but there is nothing wrong with engaging in play differently as long as it isn't hurting someone, you're simply having fun in a way they don't understand. repeatedly trying to force autistic children to "play properly" isn't going to work it's just shitty and will make them feel bad because they don't understand what they're doing "wrong"

rhys: ohhhhh! is that why my mum would get frustrated with me for just posing my action figures on a shelf in cool ways and would try to get me to like. bash them together

me: yep! the "normal" way of playing with action figures is to act out scenes and make them interact with each other. but you had more fun arranging them nicely and looking at them.

rhys: i don't think she meant anything bad by it

me: not intentionally, no. she just didn't understand that is how you played and thought you just didn't know what you were doing and were confused

#i'm adhd not autistic #so forgive me if i'm incorrect on anything #but he's never been part of an accepting or informative neurodivergent community #so he's autistic but doesn't have any understanding or connection to that really you know? #only that he was in a special class at school with other kids who were autistic and he didn't like them #because they were loud and 'weird' and he didn't want to be that #he did not even know the term 'stim' until we started dating #and his ex of 7 years has an autistic brother like... #anyway again apologies if i mess this up at any point i am doing my best i'm just more connected than he is because of tumblr #i know adhd/asd is like 'well that venn diagram is basically a circle' but you know #also as a result of all this he has NO 'nd radar' which is funny #bc naturally everyone irl he vibes with is nd and i notice immediately like #you think you don't like other autistic people but i have news for you my love

[magentagalaxies]

just realized how fucking funny it is that like. yeah scott thompson's gonna be doing an event on campus next semester and i've already accepted that most students don't know who he is (yet). however. it only just dawned on me that like. a significantly large percentage of the people who recognize the name scott thompson at my college aren't gonna be like "oh the comedian from kids in the hall" but instead be like "oh that's jessamine's guy!"

#like yeah there's some air of legitimacy here but for a significant number of people this is me celebrating take-your-blorbo-to-school day #shoutout to my roommate last year who has never seen a kids in the hall sketch but knows too much about bruce and scott and paul #just from me talking about them like they're my uncles #but yeah like i'm the only one bringing up scott ever in my comedy classes rn #and he's obviously gonna get more recognition now that the school knows they have to get people interested in this event #but even still. all this is specifically tied to me. so in the minds of all these gen z college students #they know scott as being JESSAMINE'S friend and not the other way around like it would be almost anywhere else #this is gonna be such a funny dynamic i'm so excited

[mushroom-for-art]

My mew oc Mud recently kind of redesigned by @lotusmew thank you I adore hims this is his new look (just credit where credit is due) meeting @phlurrii 's lovely ancient mew Meau

It was pleasantly cool under the treeline but still distinctly warm, the ancient mew roamed in search of berries to nibble upon, modern fruits didn't explode with an array of flavors like they used to having evolved to be mostly just one, but collecting enough and taking quick bites of all of them nearly replicated the same taste.

They glided effortlessly around a large tree with vines beginning to crawl up along the trunk half wondering if they should perhaps pull the vines off if the plant was parasitic in nature..

Meau pondered before their attention was brought to the sudden awareness of a psychic pattern, they stopped suddenly staring upon the, creature in front of them. It could have been some previously unseen psychic Marowak variant were the skull it wore clearly not its own, it smelt of houndoom smoke and dirt as it dropped some psychic held berries in shock at seeing her. She blinked quickly at them confused before their ears went back and a low but deep growl rumbled in the back of the others throat.

Meau quickly felt a snarl growing from her own throat in response to the aggression her own ears going back in response, the others hands bent in claw like emphasis held out in threat and Meaus own paws sharpened ready to strike if necessary. Both parties snarled growling and hissing digits flexing in emphasis, Meaus fur puffed out and the others hackles raised.

They continued to growl, muscles tensing ends of tails flicking in agitation, ready to see who struck first, leaves russeled with patches of light passing through gaps in the treeline as-

"mmmhhyyyaaa"

Meau quietened as her ears flicked upright at the quiet sound, a yawn, a kitten yawn for sure, the others hands relaxed slowly as they too stopped growling. Tiny blue ears popped out from the side of the others body as Meau stared in wonder, a mew kit poked their head out to look blinking large pink eyes at her and making a soft mewing as they crawled around from where they must have been clinging to this others back. A purple muddy paw caught the kitten as they attempted to float forward gently stopping and pulling them back holding the kitten to their chest, a second set of mews began.

Meau leaned her body to the side to look without approaching as the purple other twisted slightly to reach their long arm around their back to scoop and hold a second kitten, darker blue in color with bits of yellow with more curly fur. This one seemed less curious of her burying their face into the fluff on the others chest as they mewed, they leant their head down and chirped making various soothing kitten calls to comfort the youngling, Meau recalled herself making such sound when her own child was born.

The other regarded Meau again before they slowly turned, the berries lifted by psychic energy once more, Meau watched their tail unwrap from around boney protrusions along their spine stretching out into a significantly longer tail and tilted her head as she regarded them again. They didn't notice, looking over their shoulder and gave a warning growl that clearly meant not to follow as they flew away quickly.

Meau blinked after them in pause.

She pondered.

And she followed.

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None mask version cause god dammit I drew a good face I wanna use it

#my art #my oc #Other people's oc #My writing #Oc Mud #@phlurrii Meau #So context Mud doesn't realise Meau is a mew and since he's taking care of his adopted kids immediately goes on the defence #Meau probably can't tell immediately he's a mew because of his mask and odd appearance/probably strange aura vibes #Basically cats dont realise they're meeting another cat and nearly get into fisticuffs over it XD #Mud: *growls for Meau to not follow*. Meau absolutely understanding that social cue: huh wonder who that's for #Meau like Oh? You think I'm not gonna follow for babies?? You think I will simply let you take the babies out of sight?? Absolutely not #Time line wise this is probably like during mews away time so Meau is empty nested #Mud is a single dad trying his best lmao just growls in the face of a god because he's gon protect his mf kids #They weren't originally gonna have beef but brain said wouldn't it be funny tho and lmao I think it's funny #There was an attempt at a background lmao #Those kittens are lmao just velcro strapped to his tail and yes he wraps it around his deformed bone spine to give them a comfortable spot #It's probably very uncomfortable for him #They basically just end up in an aggression loop until baby distraction #Meau upon hearing this other make mew calls and comforting mew kittens: wait a minute #When u thought it was two babies but turns out there's threeeee #Regrettably Mud has mew mommy issues and will likely not accept mothering #AH! HECK! FORGOT THE WHITES ON HER PAWSIES I'M AN IDIOT AND A FOOL!! SORRY

[shopcat]

it was essentially i will recreate it for us all. us talking normally in the middle of an hour long convo at this point -> me: yeah i like those au's where shigaraki becomes a hero student i think it's cute it's pretty interesting how he was only 19 in season 1 and UA seniors are 18 and all ^_^ -> This user does not accept DMs.

#🐾 #AAAAIIIIIYEYEHEJWHSKS no i don't care anymore it was like 3 years ago ... i think they were like 16/17 too like sure #i'm still right though i was just talking about this w jupiter ... people can be weird about ANYTHING but be so serious this is a shounen #it is not war 😭 Oh gosh #people have done this to me a bunch actually which honestly is just funny still like ah do whatever you want ive blocked people for petty #stuff too. not mutuals i'm actively friends with but still. #i shrimply do not think it is the end of the world to say i like the idea of the kid who got groomed as a child to you know. not be #without people being like WOOOOAH. you support COPS NOW? #LIKE HAH. WHAT? WHERE DID WE GET THIS.. WHERE DID THIS COME FROM!!!! #2021 discourse was crazy i tell ya what #i think it's cute i think his quirk would be a fun rescue quirk and be actually similar to how ochaco does hero stuff #they could team up... cute ... #now i think DABI being a hero is a whole other thing depending on the person but also at it's core is not fundamentally ''problematic'' #like omfg. take 600 steps back guys. #delegitimising his abuse / feelings towards hero society / his parents / getting rid of his scarring are not inherent to it like just don't #be silly about it and it's fine. i don't think he'd be a hero anyway even with that i think he was born to work at a convenience store #i don't mean that sorry. he could be a firefighter

[drewsaturday]

get to see my bby cousins next week <3

#txt #dying trying to be a person that goes out and does things despite the horrors but i m trying #which is helped by how that aunt is Going Through It and i feel better about putting myself thru physical detriment #if it helps other people #also i rly do need all the help i can get at remembering how to write toddlers #so i think it will be funny for me to whip out my phone to take notes on how kids act #like i'm the host of a nature documentary #anyway actually going out and seeing ppl the other day was too beneficial for me so now i unfortunately want to do that more #this is either gonna be good for me or very bad! we'll see! <3

[randamir]

"found family" isn't a literal term and does not necessarily mean the characters see each other as parents/siblings/children etc. sometimes it just means they are so close they are more than friends and they would trust each other with anything. family but with no specified roles or relationship. yknow like. family friends. 'you are not related to me but you are a part of this' type friends.

#it's not always that deep #I'll probably delete later I'm just getting a little tired of people disliking the term when they're just taking it too literally #also funny to complain about this in one fandom when #the characters themselves are frequently referring to each other as family but not ahead as brothers or kids or parents or whatever #posts for the modren era

[vulpinesaint]

absolutely unreasonable over this coworker that i rlly like rn. thank god i don't like men or i would have fucking Lost it by now! as it is i don't even know what has me so dkfjghsdf about him i'm just sitting there with my head in my hands going "he's so normal about trans people..."

#he's a like. fr nerd guy which i don't know if i have a value judgment for but! it gets me points cause i can pull out nerd shit too #thought he was Significantly older than me but he is only four years older than me and not the estimated six. so it's not that bad #once i'm twenty in like three months it really will not be that weird for me to be friends with people in their twenties. #YOU KNOW WHAT IT IS. HE'S NOT NERDY HE'S GEEKY. DIFFERENT VIBE BUT DEFINITELY MORE LIKE ME #like. ordered a working spiderman mask online but also likes my alt radio station. y'know #and he wants to be my friend too!!! we talk nd have similar senses of humor #and he says hi + bye to me every time he sees me AND says my name every time which i think is a like. positive sign #when people take the time to say 'hi [name]!' i think that's a like. 'i'm invested in being friendly with you' thing #AND AGAIN!!! HEAD IN MY HANDS!!!! HE'S SO NORMAL ABOUT TRANS PEOPLE!!!!!! #went 'wow. it's the ignorance' when one of the kids asked about my dead name (kid obviously did not know what being trans entailed) #and when i went 'i mean adults ask me that too' he went 'what??? fr??? people are so uneducated :/' like a little disgusted ab it #which. dude. what a fucking world. so normal about trans people that like. not being normal about trans people is a foreign concept #not EVEN transphobia just not being educated on what's decent to ask a trans person!!! NOBODY knows that stuff!!!! #except for skye my best friend skye apparently. this dude is so fucking normal about trans people #laughs at my jokes about being trans!!! consistently!!!!! is rlly cool about it!!!!!!! #made a joke about using my dual citizenship to go check on the girls who were taking a really long time in the bathroom #and he found it as funny as i did and like. that's a kind of joke u'd usually have to share with other trans/queer people... idk... #would also make that joke with my coworker who is gay. but he's also really chill about me being trans haha #anywayyyyyy i don't know if he's queer or anything (strikes me as straight) but it's. god. world-changing #AND HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND. WHO HE TALKS ABOUT A NORMAL AMOUNT. VERY POSITIVE THING #so i don't have to worry about things being weird at all :D #and he knows for sure i'm 19 and is chill about it. which. i was the only one making that a big deal but it's a relief all the same haha #asked how old i was (talking about graduating from college in a year nd a half) and gave me a FIST BUMP when i told him. #A FIST BUMP. WHO DOES THAT. #straight people. that's who. guys who are just guys. #guys who make me go 'oh so i DO want guy friends who are my friends in a 'we're both guys' way. those other guys just suck' #which i don't really want but ALSO. he's normal about trans people! so he recognizes me as a guy no matter what i look/sound like!! #my like. supervisor's supervisor made a joke about him being childish and like. girl. #idc frankly that's skye my best friend skye you can't tell me shit about him we listened to the radio while driving the kids to the beach #valentine notes