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aroaceacacia · 3 years

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Man, all these asks really do bring up some memories huh! I was especially involved in all the discourse (which was absolutely not healthy for me but eh, I was a kid who romanticised the whole thing like it was some cinematic war) and I definetly recall some notable details that I might be the only active hermitblr to remember at this point

For example, I personally knew the person who wrote the fanfic people cancelled Cleo over, and they actually wrote it as a vent because they were trans themselves and feared the stuff they wrote about happening to them

And there was a talk with M on a private server, idk Coffee might remember it if I recall correctly?? Or maybe not? But it was when me and a bunch of related people actually sat down and talked to M about how what he has done was hurtful. And he actually was really nice about the whole thing and gave us a heartfelt apology, and explained some details that... really made it feel like his relationship with H wasn't very healthy at all. But it's not my place to be the judge of that.

And then he posted an apology on his blog as well, which was worded less than addmitting his mistakes and actually apologizing, and more like shifting the blame away from himself. Even more, ironically, he posted a drawing of his friend group, most of which were exactly the people that did the most harm in the fandom, on the next day after the convo. On the same server we used to confront him JSGHSDLSDGHJG but yeah maybe the excessive hate on M was not deserved, but he still leaves a bitter feeling when I see him.

I also was very active in hermitshipping circles at the time, so I know some details from there, but idk if you would be alright or even want to talk that much about the shipping itself. But I guess a fun detail was how the whole disaster started with me an my friends deciding that we're going to make shipping sideblogs that haters could block if they wanted and where we could post freely, and also allowed ourselves to use the main tag because we felt it was unfair that no other fandom had a problem with shipping in the main tag and it was just regular content like anything else.

I think my "favorite" (/neg) story that I sometimes tell like both a horror story and a funny incident is the whole pisszloy thing, where the same blog that drew piss all over minor's shipart... called out Zloy. For liking a post on Twitter. Needless to say, ironic. Pretty sure it's the same person that told Scar that Zloy wanted him dead.

I also remember very clearly how, at least in my circles, there was A LOT of hate directed at RST, which I actually haven't seen mentioned here yet (maybe it's because they/[whatever pronouns RST uses these days] have since decided to disengage with the discourse, which, good for them). Basically RST made tons of callouts for shippers, outing those that did not want to be known as shippers. And that landed them into getting doxxed, which was absolutely not deserved and way too extreme, so much that the entire hermitshipblr started posting about how they did not support this, but it remains a fact).

A lot of this stuff ended up leaving a mark, so much that for a while I could not look at anything related to SMPL/LC, Schlatt, even some meme formats, and certain artstyles still cause me to be wary, but these days I feel like not only am I healing myself, but the entire fandom has moved on and has become a very chill and stable place :D All these years, even in the worst of moments, I still had friends that supported me (Hippiecraft, Doomcraft, Zloy gang, etc., I love you all so much) and I think the good times alone were worth it :')

By the way, please take care of your own mental health! You've been getting a lot of very heavy asks lately, including this one that you don't have to asnwer, so if you need to take a break, this is your reminder that it's okay to do that! <3

thank you for the kind words, and for sharing your perspective! I'm glad you're doing well, and that you can still find the positives in the entire situation.

oh god dont remind me of the zloy-scar incident that was SO out of line NotLikeThis

#asks #long post #2019 talk #discourse

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pearlrebs · 7 years

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I have 0 stake in this, don't follow your blog and don't know who the previous owner was but I don't understand why everyone is so mad? You have t even posted anything offensive you've just published asks. Like if you had done something horrific I might understand the hate but from what I can see the worst you've done is take a URL after the previous owner deleted. Idk. Idc. Lol watch me get hate even though I ship johnlock and believe(d?) in tjlc

Thank you for your message!

Honestly, please don’t follow unless you like seeing a bunch of hate asks, that’s really all I’m ever going to contribute. Which is weird, because I have over 100 followers now, like 80% of whom seemed to have spewed hate at me in one way or another. Just… why are they following? Don’t like, just block, ignore.

As I posted earlier, I announced I had this URL on a post, on another blog, that didn’t even tag any of that tj/lc jxhnlock stuff (which the previous owner of this blog was a large part of), and yet, five minutes after the announcement, I got hate. Meaning someone was just watching that blog and all the reblogs for something to get mad at. Which, I reiterate, I had no plans for this blog until that. And now responding to the hate (or polite) messages is all I’m going to do.

To answer your confusion, I don’t think anyone is actually reading my blog lol I think they’re just looking to be mad at someone. And apparently they’re just circulating posts that I’m being homophobic, transphobic, misogynistic, advocating for harming children etc. Meanwhile, they’re saying really derogatory things about me, a irl trans poc. Well, tbh that bunch has never been much for actual LGBT people unless they think exactly how they do (see, re: attacking other homosexual/bisexual ship fandoms in Sherlock & Mark Gatiss, going so far as to mispronounce his name and call he and Ian “friends” or “an honorary straight”)

They’re accusing me of harassment, but they’re the ones that won’t stop messaging me. Ignore me, don’t send hate, and I won’t post anything. It’s that simple. Theres even a bunch of posts encouraging each other not to feed the troll, as it were. Yes. Good, do that!

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