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Inbox Summary 9/29/2023

Hi peeps, so I'm going to try something new. For some of your Asks in my Inbox, instead of answering them individually, I'm going to do a combined summary post of all of them.

I'm doing this because a lot of the questions are about past stuff I've already answered. I don't have time to keep answering the same questions (Search is your friend, my friends), I don't want to take up space on my blog to answer stuff that has already been answered, and the main thing is, I'm TIRED.

I'm in one of my fandom "meh" moods. I get into fandom funks every once in a while, where I'm over it, and don't feel like posting. BUT, I love you guys, and I know the next big scoop is just around the corner. Every time, I say to myself, I'm just going to fandom retire, Cait gets engaged, Sam is seen with a new woman, Cait gets married, Sam is seen with a new woman, I get the scoop AHEAD of time that Cait is pregnant (remember when I posted MONTHS before that someone from Outlander was pregnant? and 'lo and behold, that August, Cait announced she'd had her son), Sam is seen with a new woman, Cait has her baby, etc, etc. So, I don't give up...because I know there's more stuff coming, and also, like I said, I really enjoy my Team here.

So, what I'm going to do is either on Fridays, Saturdays, or Sundays, depending on how busy I am, I'm going to do a weekly summary of answers to some of my Inbox questions. They will be short answers. And for further details, you guys can just Search my blog or Search Google.

I'll still answer some questions individually, but it will depend on the subject, and how busy I am in RL. Please keep sending me questions and DM's. I'll answer them. Some won't be answered as in depth as others, that's all.

So, here we go for this week's round up...in no particular order:

Susie Evans is in Austin with friends.

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Sam is still in the UK. Cait is in Paris.

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Sam is expected in New York next week, for the Keepers of the Quaich event ON Cait's birthday, October 4. For those gnashing "why do you think Cait wouldn't go to New York to spend her birthday with Sam?! She could?! They're friends?!" Um, yes, they're friends...but REALITY CHECK: Cait is married to Tony McGill and has a toddler son with him. Logic dictates that Cait and family aren't going to schlep from Europe to New York to be with Sam, who is simply her friend and costar, and NOTHING MORE. Cait will spend her birthday with her husband and son, and she has a TON of friends, she's not going to fly to NY expressly for Sam. Plus, he's BUSY on her birthday, remember? He's going to be at that Keepers of the Quaich event.

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No, Sam and Sophie Skelton never dated. Sam never posts who he dates (except when he went Instagram official with Mackenzie Mauzy, but that was after 2 years of a committed relationship), and he posted pics with Sophie on a motorcycle at his Glasgow home. If they were secretly dating, he would have been much more secretive about it. I mean, I hope Sam is into some kink, but da/daughter ain't one of them. Who's your daddy? hahaha.

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By now, we all know Sam's ex, Abbie Salt is fighting some type of cancer. Yes, she hasn't posted in a while. I'm worried about her too. But her sister, Charlotte Salt, has posted, and she posts on her professional design IG accounts as well. If Abbie had taken a turn for the worse, I don't think her sister would be posting. I hope Abbie makes a full recovery, wish her all the best.

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Yes, I know, Sam's ex, Anna Modler is pregnant and having a baby girl.

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Thanks for letting me know that two other of Sam's exes, Hannah James and Mackenzie Mauzy recently started following birthing, doula, and parenting accounts on IG. Looks like their next adventure is motherhood. Also wish them all the best.

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The podcast with that IG influencer that was supposedly going to have some Sam content, as far as I know, there hasn't been any Sam mention. So, that was all smoke and mirrors, trying to get some free advertisement. Nothing to see there.

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The two blonde, blue-eyed Scottish IG influencers supposedly being linked with Sam. I see no evidence of that. Again, seems to be just smoke and mirrors, and names dropped in my Inbox to see if I would post them or not. Nothing to see there.

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Asking for a cheat sheet of the women Sam has dated and what do certain initials mean. I've done plenty of posts summarizing the women Sam has dated. Please Search my blog or Search Google. As for initials, I don't use initials, I post full names. So, if you see a woman's initials, match them to the full names I've posted.

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Cait's dad's funeral. And do I have questions about Sam being there? Um, that's all Extreme Shipper bullshit, lies, spin, deception, and now they've sold it as shipper canon. NO, I don't have any questions because WHO was at Cait's father's funeral is VERY clear. Again, Search what I've posted. There are pic, video of Cait sitting next to her mother, and the "Sam is sitting next to Cait but he's wearing a wig" is her brother. NOT Sam. Tony is sitting in the rows behind, holding baby BalfeMcGill, as are other spouses. NO ONE from Outlander went to Cait's dad's funeral. Please THINK. Cait has a big family and she has a TON of friends, some she has known for YEARS. If anyone was going to go all the way to Ireland for her father's funeral, it would be her immediate and LARGE extended family, all the family's friends in Ireland, and then Cait's close friends. Sam and Outlander people aren't even in the first few rungs of WHO would get invited to the funeral. And yes, that includes, Sam Heughan. Besides, Sam was in Las Vegas during the funeral, and there are lots of posts showing that.

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I know the TRUTH about Cait and Sam never dating, and Cait being with Tony since 2014. I know this thru verifiable and identifiable sources who directly and personally know Cait, Sam, and Tony. So, there are NO questions for me, because I've known the TRUTH for 9 years. It's that simple.

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As, for my little frothy pet troll who sends me weekly rants about Sam. You can keep going, but all I do is laugh and laugh at how pathetic you are. What you write doesn't upset me because I'm not personally invested in Sam. I'm really not. I post about him because I get info about him, and people are interested in it. But I don't care one way or the other. My IP tracker tells me where the basement is from where you gnash and froth so desperately. So, go ahead, make my day, but I'm NEVER going to post what you send me. You'll never get that satisfaction. Never. Try me.

Okay, peeps, that's it for the summary. I may do more on Sunday. And like I said, I'll still answer individual questions, depending on what they are. If you ever want to know something from the past, please just Search my blog. If you can't find it there, then go to Google and Search p-redux and names or words you're looking for, and all my past posts will pop up.

Thanks for reading!

#samheughan #sam heughan #caitrionabalfe #caitriona balfe #tony mcgill #tonymcgill #tait #mackenziemauzy #mackenzie mauzy #hannahjames #hannah james #abbiesalt #abbie salt #cancer #charlottesalt #charlotte salt #annamodler #anna modler #jimbalfe #jim balfe #funeral #susie evans #susie nicole evans #austin #sophieskelton #whos your daddy #troll #frothy #pet #extremeshippers

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From Anons and I also was alerted in DM. New/old pic of Cait, Tony, and Baby McGill at Cait's dad's funeral in August 2022.

Here is the pic. 👇

Here's a link to the article.👇

I have a copy of the pic of Baby McGill not blurred out, but I'm not going to post it publicly. I can show anyone interested privately. And no, his face doesn't look like Sam at all for the inevitable babygaters still clinging on to that idiocy. He looks like exactly what he is--a mix between Cait and Tony. Cait looks so so sad. 😞

#caitrionabalfe #tonymcgill #samheughan #babybalfemcgill #babymcgill #jimbalfe #funeral

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Since I was offline this weekend, I'm a little late posting this. But here are screenshots from another blogger showing Cait and Tony at her dad's one month memorial Mass. The video of the Mass is PUBLIC.

Cait and Tony are sitting RIGHT next to each other. But I can't wait to see what fantasy Extreme Shippers came up with to explain this away...and where "faux" Sam is hiding in the church hahaha. Lord, it never ends. 🤦‍♀️

Anyhoo, here are the screencaps CLEARLY showing Cait and Tony...NOT Cait and Sam. 👇

Here's the link to the public video. 👇

Extreme Shipppers: you've been duped by shipper leaders for years. There is NO SamCait, never was, never will be. THE TRUTH.

#Youtube #samheughan #caitrionabalfe #tonymcgill #extremeshipperlies #extremeshippers #jimbalfe #memorialmass #video

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So, while Sam was posting about his trip to Vegas, sadly, Caitriona and her family were burying her father....and NO, ya dopey tinhatters, Sam was NOT there. FACT.

Cait's father's funeral Mass was announced PUBLICLY and livestreamed PUBLICLY earlier today, August 10, 2022. I'm not going to post the video (everyone already found it, so it's out there, and again, it's PUBLIC). BUT, I am going to post screencaps from the video. The quality of the livestream was super choppy and at times, pixelated, but if you pay close attention, you can see Cait's mother there, her siblings, and Cait's HUSBAND, Tony McGill there, as well as their baby boy. And not a Sam Heughan in sight.

If you watch the video, Cait, her mother and a few of her siblings are sitting in the front pew to the right. Tony, the baby (sitting on Tony's lap), and other spouses are right behind them in the second pew. Tony and the baby are on the aisle in the second row.

Below, is a panoramic view of everyone walking into the ceremony. Cait and her siblings and mom are in the front, followed by spouses, grandchildren, etc. You can see the back of Tony and he's carrying Baby McGill (he's blurred out, so don't come at me or you'll get blocked). 👇

Here is a screencap from toward the end of the video 👇 you can see the back of Cait's head, next to her mom. And you can see where Tony and Baby McGill are.

Here is a moment when Tony lifts the baby up a little to see the service better and you can see his little arm come around Tony's neck. 👇

It's super blurry, but here's a closeup. 👇 Tony's head is to the left and the baby to the right, his hand on the back of Tony's neck.

And as Cait and her siblings walk out with their hands on the casket (I'm not posting any casket pics because that's not what this is about, but in the video, you can clearly see Cait walking behind her father's casket 😥), Tony, wearing a black mask, walks out holding Baby McGill in front of him. Again, the baby's face is blurred out. 👇

I KNOW Extreme Shipper tinhatters are already explaining the TRUTH away and me posting FACTS won't change their puny minds. But, I'm still posting it because DOCUMENTING the truth and facts is important.

DOCUMENTED: Marriage Certificate where Tony's name is printed in black and white as Cait's husband. Cait announced she and Tony had a baby boy. Cait's father's death announcement--Tony is listed as a son-in-law, also on print, in black and white. And today, we get video proof of Tony McGill at Cait's father's funeral, holding he and Cait's son. TRUTH--there is only one.

Soooo, if you still believe that ALL of the above is orchestrated by the powers that be or by Cait and Sam to "hide their epic love and 5 kids," (btw where are the other alleged 4 kids? Hiding with their "Da" Sam?) 🤦‍♀️YOU ARE BATSHIT CRAZY and should seek immediate medical attention. I'm not kidding. This is a 911 situation for you at this point.

PS. You know the drill...if you don't like what I post, don't look at my blog. Love it or leave it. Simple as that.

#caitrionabalfe #tonymcgill #samheughan #babymcgill #jimbalfe #funeral #livestream #truth #facts #funeralmass #loveitorleaveit #simple as that #extremeshippers #tinhatters #batshitcrazy #911 #tptb

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Most of the time you make a point that you double check all your sources and tips that you get via Dm. KE is an example. You like Sam Heughan. You seem to defend Caitriona and Tony marriage. But you post a manip newspaper article about her child at a funeral. Any research to prove real? Blurring face. Why? Show the baby’s face. You will show it to anyone that asks. Is it so one of your fans will post the picture so you won’t have to? Can you verify that the baby is her child. What if it’s not her baby. What do your sources say. Is it even legal. You are in the media. Not the same as wedding pictures but maybe I’m wrong and in your country you can post pictures of children. Not done in Europe.

Oh hi, Extreme Shipper. I know you're mad that a pic of Cait WITH her real husband, Tony. AND THEIR real son was posted by the Daily Mirror. And that's why you're making NO sense.

You're accusing me of not verifying sources and that the pic of Cait and Tony's baby at her father's funeral back in August 2022 is photoshopped. Yet in the same breath you're mad I'm only showing the unblurred pic to friends. And also accusing me of posting a pic of a child, which isn't done in other parts of the world.

Well, which is it? Is the pic fake? In that case, what does it matter? Is the pic real? Then you need to accept the fact that Cait understandably went to her father's funeral WITH her real husband and real child.

As for me, I'm not part of the media. I'm simply a Tumblr blogger. I do this in my spare time for free. I chose not to post Cait and Tony's son's full face but in the US, minors don't have to be blurred out the way they do in Europe. So, I'm not breaking any laws if I did choose to. It's simply a matter of what I feel comfortable doing. And I don't feel comfortable publicly posting an unblurred pic of Cait and Tony's child, so I didn't and won't.

But if you still have any doubts about the validity of the pic of Cait with Tony and their son, and the rest of her family at her father's funeral, here's the link with the unblurred pic. 👇 It's YOUR choice if you want to click on the link and see the TRUTH for yourself. 🤷‍♀️

#caitrionabalfe #tonymcgill #babymcgill #babybalfemcgill #jimbalfe #funeral #pressreader #dailymirror #daily mirror #extremeshippers

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Cait's beautiful tribute to her dad made me tear up. 😥

We know she got her height from him...and it seems like a lot of her confidence as well. A girl well loved by her dad has such a big impact. ❤️

The funeral is tomorrow, which sadly is also Cait and Tony's third wedding anniversary. August will be a bittersweet month for Cait from now on: her wedding anniversary, her son's birthday, but also her father's passing. But I guess that's life. I'll be in the corner, crying into my morning coffee.😓 ☕️

#caitrionabalfe #jimbalfe #funeral

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I bet the believers of Sam and Cait being married will be crazy. The mortuary lists Tony as a son in law. Oh, wait a minute, I bet the funeral home is involved in the scam too! I was unsure at first about SC, but for crying out loud, how much proof do people need? Hope your eyes are improving.

I wasn't going to post the death announcement but I've gotten so many Anons and DMs about it, that it seems the info is out there everywhere, and news of Cait's dad passing is even being posted in Irish outlets 👇

Soooo, I won't post the full death and full funeral info, only this snippet, showing TONY as one of Mr. Balfe's sons-in-law. 👇

Anyone with half a brain and an ounce of common sense would realize that TONY is indeed Cait's REAL husband. Especially now that he's been NAMED in 2 official documents: a marriage certificate and a death announcement.

But, NOPE Extreme Shippers aka Tinhatters aka Delusionals never met a truth their pretzel brains couldn't twist, and predictably, they're already explaining it away. 👇

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Gee, do ya think the grandchildren's names were left off on purpose so psychos like these ☝️wouldn't find out Baby McGill's name? That's why there's no kids names, ya dopes. 🤦‍♀️ Cait KNOWS the info will get out, just like the marriage certificate did, she made sure her son was protected. That's all.

Anyhoo, this fandom is still the shitshow it's always been...and not even death will deter ES and their BS. SMH.

OK, my eyes hate me again, gotta go compress and eye drop.

#caitrionabalfe #samheughan #tonymcgill #babymcgill #jimbalfe #mrbalfe #caitsparents #auburncurlslass #extremeshipperlies #extremeshippers #rip #tptb #tinhatters #delusionals

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You circkeled a white shirt, when the comment were he was wearing a Black shirt in the pick. I'm not a shipper, just saying.

Um, this isn't a white shirt. 👇 It's Tony walking with his back to the camera and the white that you see is Baby McGill hanging from the back of his father's shoulder. Tony is carrying him into his father-in-law's funeral. You say you're not a shipper, but you're just as blind. 🤷‍♀️

Now quit bugging me. Cait and Tony and THEIR son attended her father's funeral back in August 2022, no matter how many "weird sunglasses, white shirts, black shirts, fake baby, Sam was there in a dark wig" DELUSIONS you all spew. 🙄 End of.

#samheughan #caitrionabalfe #tonymcgill #babymcgill #babybalfemcgill #jimbalfe #funeral #extremeshippers #delusional #endof

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Caitriona's sun glasset look very uniqe in the funural pick. Different glasses right and letft? Tony in Black shirt in photo, white in picture from the funural Very strange?

Speaking of glasses...I think you need go take off your shipper goggles, rub your eyes, put in a fresh pair of contact lenses, remove your tinhat and then you will see REALITY CLEARLY.

Cait is not wearing different glasses left and right---it's simply the way the sunlight is hitting them. Tony was wearing all black in the pic of him next to Cait and their son outiside the funeral service for her dad. And he is wearing all black inside the funeral service. Notice the baby is wearing the same outfit in both pics.

Nothing strange about it. The only thing strange is that despite Cait and Tony being together since 2014 (I told the fandom this way back when), an engagement confirmed by Cait's mother herself, a wedding confirmed by all her family and friends, plus a public marriage license, Cait introducing us to her son herself, and then Cait, Tony, and their son together at her father's funeral, despite ALL of that, plus the hundreds of other confirmations of Cait and Tony being a real couple, and Sam dating NOT Cait, Extreme Shippers STRANGELY continue to DENY REALITY. 🤷‍♀️🧐

#samheughan #caitrionabalfe #tonymcgill #babymcgill #babybalfemcgill #jimbalfe #funeral #extremeshippers #tinhat #shippergoggles #strange

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Cait's sister is private on IG. Very insensitive to post a pic from a private account.

It wasn't from a private account, you dope. It was posted PUBLICLY by Cait's brother, David, on HIS Facebook. 👇

Outlander fans have been leaving condolences on the funeral home's site, on Cait's family's social media accounts, they are all aware now that the fandom knows about her dad's passing. If David didn't want the pics shared, he would make his FB private, but he hasn't. So, you are wrong NO ONE is posting anything from a private account. Capisce?

PS. Anyone who has followed me long enough knows I don't take kindly to being "scolded" for what I post. I'm a grown woman and when I post something, I've made a conscious decision to post it. If YOU don't like it, that's on you. No one is forcing you to read my blog. But, don't come here telling me what to post or not post...or you'll get blasted...and if I haven't had my coffee yet...or have had my wine, depending on the time of day---you'll get blocked. Capisce, capisce? Love it or leave it.

#caitrionabalfe #lorrainecoughlan #davidcoughlan #jimbalfe #capisce #loveitorleaveit

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apparently cait's wedding was an important day for her father.

Thanks, Anon. I had already noticed that one of the family pics posted to honor Cait's father was from Cait's wedding. It was August 10, 2019, btw.

So, OF COURSE, Cait's wedding day to her HUSBAND, Tony McGill, was an important day for her FATHER...who I'm sure walked her down the aisle. I love that he didn't wear formal shoes. So cute. Looks like Cait and TONY's wedding day was a very fun day. Very sad that their 3 year wedding anniversary is right after her father dies. Her dad seems like an incredible man from all the comments I've seen from people who knew him. ❤️

#caitrionabalfe #tonymcgill #jimbalfe #lorrainecoughlan #tait #rip

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Not a shipper. But Tony’s hair looks shorter? And where are his glasses?

Um, he got a haircut? And he doesn't always wear glasses. There's this handy dandy modern invention called contact lenses. 😊👇

Were you implying that wasn't Tony holding he and Cait's baby at her dad's funeral, and what, some other random man? C'mon now. If you don't want to be accused of being a shipper...then don't talk like one. 🤷‍♀️

#caitrionabalfe #tonymcgill #babymcgill #funeralmass #funeral #jimbalfe #glasses #contactlenses #extremeshippers #shippers #haircut

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Was I not clear when I said that if you don't like what I post, then don't look at my blog...and that any negative comments or Asks would be BLOCKED?

And yes, you CAN block Anon Asks.

I'm not posting the 3 I got chastising me for posting screencaps from the funeral, and I won't block you...but send me anymore and you WILL BE BLOCKED.

If I needed advice about what to post, I would ask for it. Soooo, when I post something, assume I am making a conscious decision to post it. If YOU don't like it, that's YOUR problem. Go somewhere else then. Love it or leave it.

#caitrionabalfe #jimbalfe #funeral #funeralmass #livestream #loveitorleaveit

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Why are the funeral photos poor quality?

Where can I watch the full video?

As I ALREADY stated in my previous post, those aren't photos, they're screencaps. And they're taken from the livestream, which was glitchy, poor quality, and was pixelated a lot. That's why the quality is so bad. As for where you can watch it, I'm not posting the link, but it's PUBLIC, I'm sure you can find it elsewhere.

#caitrionabalfe #tonymcgill #babymcgill #jimbalfe #funeralmass #funeral #livestream