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[chicinsilk]

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Three male models wearing Jack Winter patterned trousers. Photo Ken Haak. QC Magazine, November 1, 1971

Trois mannequins masculins portant des pantalons à motifs Jack Winter. Photo Ken Haak. QC Magazine, 1er novembre 1971

#qc magazine #ken haak #november 1971 #seventies #fashion 70s #male models #sexies men #manly men #jack winer #mode masculine

[bernieshoot]

#mode masculine #elegance

[tswwwit]

What are some ideas you have floating around that you don't have any plans on writing but like to entertain as a thought?

Many of them, in fact! Though they sort of vanish from my memory if I don't make a record of them, here's a few ones I jotted down when they came to mind.

For a domestic one: Bill thought he'd hate a lot of being married! Even though he loves Dipper, he thought he'd rebel against the chains of domesticity - and in some ways he still does - but one major benefit he's found is not having to be 'on' all the time.

No need to be perfectly performing all the time! No shoving around for social influence, no intimidation, or clever tricks. No commanding attention or taking up the room. Hell, there's surprisingly little upkeep! Bill can undo his tie and pick his nose and bitch about his day to someone who isn't bending over backwards to agree with him on everything. Someone who doesn't give him a weird look and sneer if he, god forbid, actually wants to sit down, read a book, drop the grin for an hour or two.

The concept in question is Bill's very first moment of great surprise. That when he isn't being the most charming, terrifying, and exciting guy in the universe, and just chilling out for like, five minutes, Dipper comes over and snuggles up to him on the couch, or wraps his arms around his shoulders and kisses the top of his head. And when Bill asks 'what was that for?', Dipper shrugs and goes 'eh, just felt like it'. It's both baffling and extremely compelling.

A short where Reincarnated Dip is Definitely Sure he's Not Gay!!! Especially not for this Hot Demon Man who is getting so close and touchy with him with his big smile and horrible wiles. Yep. Just keeping an eye on him to make sure he's not up to something Nefarious ™.

A discussion between Dipper and Bill where Dipper insists that Bill should understand this, or not do that, because, like. Y'know, Bill's a guy! There are guy things! Making Bill stare at Dipper like he's an idiot. He proceeds to informs Dipper how that's stupid for multiple reasons! First, that Bill's Not Human to begin with, his gender can't be put into a little box! And frankly, he never filled out the paperwork for his original one, come to think of it. Sure, he/him's fine, but c'mon, sapling, thinking of the whole shebang like a binary is dumb as hell. Now Dipper has to do some mental readjustment re: his own issues with masculinity/gender.

#answers #None of this is very coherent I just saved this ask for a while and dumped some thoughts in #Though I do have like a whole scene in my head for the gender one #Probably it's Bill cajoling Dipper into wearing a dress for something. Which Dipper obviously rebels against. #Bill's very convincing but Dipper shoots back well. He's never seen *Bill* wear a dress. Thinking he's making a point #But Bill just gets the metaphorical equivalent of a lightbulb over his head. Hey! Good point kid it's been a while #Oh ho!!! I see! Pinching Dipper's cheek - you want us to *match!* Surprised to see any fashion sense outta you #Hold on a sec. Bill will whip up something in a jiffy. A real nice one #Now Dipper's spluttering. He thought it was a good counterargument but Bill didn't even *flinch* at the idea of wearing one himself #But like. C'mon Bill Guys Don't Wear Dresses!! You're a guy you shouldn't- #Bill stares at him like he's an idiot. DIpper shuts up. Dumb move actually now that he's thinking about it #Both because telling Bill he *shouldn't* do something absolutely means he's looking into doing it. If not already in the process #And second. Uh. Oh hell. Dipper remembers. That Bill's only wearing that body. Not human. Triangular so - Wait. Is he *not* a guy?? Uh. #Bill's perfectly fine with his human body and his pronouns. Even with the presumptions that his husband has made over the years #But Dipper having this idea that those mean Bill should STOP doing certain things annoys him a lot #Bill politely - for him anyway - reminds Dipper that he's very much *not* a guy. None of that crap applies! #As Dipper has seen! And hey the ideas Dipper's working with there are outdated even among *humans* what the hell #There's probably a mini-rant that's rather scathing but frankly that's Bill on easy mode for his husband #Dipper's well-intentioned and knows how things go but he struggles with masculinity especially regarding himself #Turns out being bullied and trying so hard to be Socially Acceptable means a lot of issues to unpack #Also re: the Domestic one #Dipper is present with Bill while he chills out for those five minutes. Just watching from across the room #Bill knows he's there. But he's not puffing up trying to be impressive. Not being dismissive. Just accepting. And now Dipper's *fascinated* #It's so rare to see Bill NOT 'on' that he couldn't help it. No big show. No big grin. Almost.... not 'vulnerable' he's terrifying always #But so so relatable. God does Dipper know the feeling of just wanting to find some peace and quiet after a hectic day. But for Bill. That's #Rare and strange and so - Dipper *knows* he's the Only Person who could ever ever see this. Being in Bill's presence for a full ten minutes #Without Bill flipping some internal switch to 'Impress or Intimidate'. This is Dipper's own little secret to watch and absorb and treasure #And. In a way. When Bill's not vibrating with potential energy for parties or violence he's even MORE handsome #He just HAS to kiss him. A little bit. On the cheek or on the top of the head. Maybe curl up next to him where it's warm and touch his ches #Bill spends hours afterward wondering where the hell that came from and WHY. And it'll take him *so much* time to figure it out

[enchanted-day-dreams]

Just saw that poll about ST characters and spooning and the folks doing the polls were like 'Billy would hate affection, he'd sooner punch his partner than be cuddled' and 'He'd never get emotional in front of his partner unless he was in the middle of an uncontrollable breakdown'. Like, tell me you don't understand his character without telling me you don't understand his character.

His last scene with El clearly shows he's touch starved as hell and probably only gets affection from sexual encounters. He just isn't wanting a relationship with some random person who hasn't earned his trust enough for him to put his guard down. (My headcanon is that he tried a relationship at least once and let his guard down enough that he told his partner about his father's abuse, only for said partner to assume he deserved the abuse otherwise it wouldn't happen, and ever since then Billy has been even more guarded about who he trusts enough to get close to him.)

#billy hargrove #billy hargrove deserved better #he deserves some affection without folks coming in with their macho bs view of him #billy was shown to be the sweetest fucking kid and folks act like he learned toxic masculinity all on his own #he's in fucking survival mode because people in his life have repeatedly shown they care the bare minimum about his well-being #get him away from neil and around some people not afraid to show affection outside of sex and i have no doubt he'd thrive and grow

[supermen-with-black-hair]

People are always asking me why I’m called “Korean Hercules“…

Maybe it’s because I’m Korean. 

ஈ யொங்சங்/௨௩.௦௬.௨௭

#이용승 #헤라클레스 #asian muscle worship #massive pecs #herculean mass #massive masculinity #power men #bulletproof pecs #korean muscle worship #male perfection #hercules mode

[grubbyposting]

#ftm #autoandrophilia #boy hypno #forcemasc #ftm hypno #forced masculinization #autoandrophile #ftm cowboy #depeche mode #personal jesus #cowboy forcemasc #cowboy kink

[kafkaguy]

havin a gender crisis at the train station lol #epic

#reading some lesbian comics and marvelling at the butch experience.......... and then also going into Brain Explode Mode bcos #of how similar it is to the transmasc experience #understanding why so many trans dudes are like 'oh what im just butch or a very masculine woman' #and butches are like 'oh what if im a trans guy' #THE VENN DIAGRAMS BRO. INTERSECTIONS AND CONNECTIONS AND SHARED EXPERIENCES #we are FRIENDS but also its making me feel all . What If She Pronouns. What If More Nonbinary Than I Thought... #cos the thing IS as a bisexual i do feel like my sexuality and gender identity are so intertwined its sometimes annoying #so i cannot think of it as like Ah Yes I Like Men Therefore Im a Homosexual #its a like. i like EVERYONE therefore i am EVERYTHING cos ALL my attraction feels Gay with a capital G #im gay for women im gay for men im gay for everything in between and outside #but i dont see my attraction to women as attraction to the opposite gender cos i dont see women as Opposite or necessarily separate #and vice versa i dont see my attraction to guys as . excuse the outdated language - 'same sex attraction' #because i dont necessarily see myself as A Man . yknow? #the binary is fucked identity is everchanging and ever molding and i am just a little wavelength of light floating through space #THEREFORE. idk where i was going with this #i just think that queerness and humanity are so much more complicated than any of us realise #and sometimes it is so frustrating and tiring seeing other people like me and wjth the same experiences as me #being so conservative and so assuming and trying to generalise something so personal #i am not Doing Trans Wrong . there is no wrong to be trans imo #and i also think we need to be kinder to detransitioned people + transmasc lesbians / transfem gays + nonbinary bisexuals ok thanks bye

[non-un-topo]

Curious thing I've noticed is that acts of caregiving are very gender-affirming to me. Which is weird, because it should be the other way around. Caregiving is historically and globally predominantly a women's task, but when I do it I feel masculine. This also speaks to some gendered stereotypes and expectations about feeling protective or paternal, but regardless it feels good.

#my poor sweetie woke up with a fever of 102 today so i jumped into protective caregiver mode #same thing goes for when im cooking. i feel masculine. #so weird because it should be the opposite #maybe it's (gasps) ... the nicky thesis !

[aeide-thea]

unfortunately i do not have a good setup for photographing myself (and also obviously have developed something of an allergy to it), so you guys are just going to have to take my word for it that the oversized cargos i ordered recently really are remarkably good?? they have a long enough rise i've been wearing them at my Actual Waist for once in my life, along with a hefty belt i bought on a gay little 'wandering around filson' outing with @elucubrare years ago [i use 'gay' advisedly here—the sales clerks very clearly thought we were in the world's most adorable little relaysh, which in fairness was an impression we pretty universally gave for decades, & possibly still do] and woolen long underwear-style tops, and the effect is like. very extremely Retro Military in a way i'm having queer trans fun with :D

#always torn abt tucking shirts in bc like. my hips are not enormously wide but they're a little wide on the cis dude scale #but on the other hand it does add a sense of maturity that helps convey yr masculinity isn't just sloppiness #(though 2 be clear that's also a perfectly valid approach and mode!) #but rather a thing yr doing deliberately‚ which is an energy i appreciate? #anyway i went for a miles-long Walk in the frigid gloaming very geared up with tea thermos and mitts and headlamp and whatnot #and now i'm back in the poäng with an interesting sour ale and a blissful toasty sandbag of a catte on my lap #much 2 be grateful for really!! #sartorial #journaling

[degendad]

Seeing wearing women’s clothing as cross dressing has stripped all the negative energy from it. It’s so fun knowing I’m a guy who has a whole secret coquette closet. Sorta delusional since my body is actually extremley feminine if I’m not taking extra steps to block my silloete or pose in a certain way but my brain is running on reverse dysphoria settings where I see a man no matter what. Even in frilly tops that show off my hourglass, I look in the mirror and think “that dude has a feminine waist”

#gone full circle #so in dude mode that wearing girls clothing is exciting in the wrong way #cross dressing is hot #when I get super masculine I’m doing it more often

[nikosasaki]

oc halloween challenge 2022 ⛧ day fourteen; the final girl

“The image of the distressed female most likely to linger in the memory is the image of the one who did not die: the survivor, or Final Girl. She is the one who encounters the mutilated bodies of her friends and perceives the full extent of the preceding horror and of her own peril; who is chased, cornered, wounded; whom we see scream, stagger, fall, rise, and scream again. She is abject terror personified.” — Carol J. Clover, Men, Women, and Chainsaws

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#ohc2022 #ocappreciation #ochub #demigodsocs #pjo oc #ch: matty #ch: matty ellis #my edits #we're in full carol clover mode now #also theres a whole bit about giving final girls masculine names etc its sooo perfect for matty

[everythingissomewhatrepaired]

Here is a comic about The Worst Man. My posting schedule is all messed up rn sorry. Thanks as ever to the glorious patrons. You can join them at pat re on dot com slash tomor Judy. - - - - - - -   Everything is somewhat Repaired: Worst Man cw: weird masculinities, burial.

We were at a bar watching people play darts. One guy was taking up a lot of space, grabbing the others, yelling, throwing the darts aggressively to make up for his bad aim. He made me nervous at first. (alt: Man with a rough beard, arms raised, pint in one hand. wearing a shirt that says "sport game team ball".)

Until I realised he was trying really hard to be "that guy" and his awkward performance of masculinity was suddenly so sad. This is a girl pretending to be a man and she's a terrible actor. (alt: Self portrait looking dismayed, hand held to chest, tears welling.)

Now every time I see the "worst man" in a group of people, my brain is suddenly flooded with sympathy as if they're a closeted trans girl, buried alive and digging in the wrong direction.   (alt: cross section of earth, tomb stone on the surface. Person having broken out of buried coffin, but heading downwards.)

I need to reset this part of my brain. (alt: Pink brain with eyeballs on stalks. out of the brain are a series of flags which read "Not everyone needs saving.", "My experience of gender is not universal." and "Some men are just really annoying men.")

Footnote: I feel like this totally falls into the "all vicious homophobes are actually gay" mode of thinking, which only blames marginalised people for their/our oppression while letting straight people off the hook.

#Queer #Queer Comics #Trans #Transgender #Trans Woman #Trans Comics #LGBT Comics #LGBT #LGBTQIA #Masculinity #Toxic Masculinity #Sport Game Team Ball #Empathy #Closeted #Egg Mode #Buried Alive #Buried Treasure #Brain #Eyeballs #homophobia #transphobia #Straight People

[pochapal]

they went and put gender in umineko i can't believe it

#umineko liveblog #ep1 reread #my nonbinary slay jessica shitpost will become real in 15 minutes #in more seriousness her masculine mode of speech is interesting as that act of nonconformity and rebellion #especially as a foil to natsuhi who is desperate for assimilation as the lady of the ushiromiya household #jessica over here is rejecting that identity with every inch of her being all of the time #the theme of assimilation vs rebellion is definitely one worth tracking #and will again be seen with kanon and shannon in a more complicated way