#requiteromantic

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Requiteromantic (updated)- A romantic orientation characterized by the need for feelings to be mutual in order for romantic feelings to persist or deepen.

while recipromantic is defined that its a requirement for the person to like them first (to reciprocate), a requiteromantic will like the person first, but immediately does not like the person romantically anymore when their romantic attraction cannot be requited or is not requited.

Like, seriously, the romantic attraction will suddenly disappear. no more romantic desire at all. could still have other lingering feelings like emotional attraction, but no more drive for romance.

Etymology - Requiteromantics are not unrequited romantics as romantic feeligns disappear once unrequitedness is evident to them.

For some, feelings are still considered unrequited even if the person likes them back if they do not or cannot like them in the same depth as they have

Flag explanation:

Gray - Stable, calm, detachment (after rejection/unrequitedness). It is also because this label is closer to grayromanticism than pure aro since it initiates instead of starting off as none Lighter blue - tranquility and peace with unrequitedness/rejection Deeper blue - True feelings, even if its not apparent to some due to how easy it is moving on if someone does not like them

Blue could also represent logic, as requiteromantics will not be attracted to people that logically cannot like them back at all like people that are not attracted to their gender.

pattern is derived from the recipromantic flag but reversed because its kind of like recipromantic but in reversed order, not the opposite.

Why I believe it counts as aromantic/aspec

It is a greyspec identity since the person feels attraction only in specific circumstances.

little to no desire for a romantic relationship with specific people because you will kinda just stop caring at the end of the day since you also GENUINELY cannot be into people that are not into you <- i know that is very uncommon and similar to recipromantic people's experiences as well

It is similar to Frayromantic, as feelings disappear when a condition is met (a person not liking them)

Requite- flag (base flag can be used or modified for every attraction type forgot to include them again my bad)

#yes i know it looks like a crappier version IM SORRY i only have access to MSPAINT hearts rn #so it looks like that #Requiteromantic flag #greyromantic identity #mogai coining #romantic orientation coining #Requiteromantic #Recipromantic #mogai flag #mogai label #aspec identity #aromantic #arospec #previous version in reblogs #flag comparison also in reblogs

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As for 01/12/2023, this is what feels best for me!

Gender!

Demiboy:a gender that is partially a boy or man and partially any other gender(s)!

Demivoid: (first is defintion of gender void): gender identity based on feeling nothing where a gender should be; gender in which one is partially but not fully gendervoid

Orientation!

Reciprosexual: Someone who will not experience sexual attraction unless they know someone is attracted to them.

Requiteromantic: A romantic orientation characterized by the need for feelings to be mutual in order for romantic feelings to persist or deepen.

Pronouns: Void/Voidself/Hy/Hym

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Requiteromantic

dont kill me please this is just a placeholder flag i will make a new one

while recipromantic is defined that its a requirement for the person to like them first (to reciprocate), a requiteromantic will like the person first, but immediately does not like the person romantically anymore when their romantic attraction cannot be requited or is not requited.

Like, seriously, the romantic attraction will suddenly disappear. no more romantic desire at all. could still have other lingering feelings like emotional attraction, but no more drive for romance

of course, this could work too for the sexual counterpart (and all other attraction types. im just too lazy to edit)

any better term suggestions to fit this definition? please do comment/reblog with it! thank you :)

actual flag coming someday I KNOW PEOPLE LIKE POSTS WITH FLAGS MORE IM SORRY I DONT HAVE ONE RIGHT NOW

updated

#aromantic #mogai #coined aromantic tag #coined label #coined term #power-labels #aromantic labels #aplatonic #asexual #asexual labels #aspec #Recipromantic #RELATED TO RECIPROMANTIC but its not really that