‘relationships are work’ means ‘you have to put effort into loving each other intentionally & learning how to love each other and communicating properly’ not ‘your relationship makes you feel stressed and sad most of the time & the other person disrespects you and treats you bad but you stay anyway’
From earlier today, I need to learn how to tire myself by sundown, to be in bed drifting out of consciousness before 4 in the morning, I need to maybe get back on Zoloft, I need to make a habit of starting assignments earlier,