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elvenlace · 5 days
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reblog to sniff the armpit of the person you reblogged this from
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elvenlace · 5 days
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I’m a queer physically/mentally disabled person with no help/family and I’m going to be on the streets. Literally anything will help.
Even just reblogging helps me reach a wider audience.
cashapp $strawbabiez / venmo @ ajg2001 / kofi @ strawbabiez / dm for paypal
amazon wishlist for necessities to help me if you don’t want to send money: link
me eternal thanks to everyone who helps in any way<3
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elvenlace · 5 days
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elvenlace · 5 days
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elvenlace · 6 days
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THANK YOU! Yes, this is exactly how I believe, but I am just terrified to speak out and be ostracized, and called a bad person! Literally, thank you very much as I could not have put it any better.
Trans misogyny is a misnomer and so very weird as is. Misogyny is misogyny, and anybody can do it, but trans people are extremely less likely to and this is such a toxic and attacking word that needs to never have existed in the first place. Argue that they do, fine but, I never said there aren't any trans people who are misogynistic. Not only that but, the way this phrase is used, is literal minority shaming.
the thing i keep coming back to us that it's just agreed-upon that The Bad Trans Women are out there. people disagree about which ones they are and how you can tell but nobody questions that they exist just as imagined
for trans women it becomes about proving that you aren't one of them. for avowed bigots it's about arguing that we're all like that. but for the third and most subtly dangerous category, which i tend to think of as liberals who haven't done the real work, whose politics is correct when things are easy and reactionary when they are not -- to these people, trans women in general are not automatically bad, but they also haven't questioned their axiomatic belief that The Bad Trans Women are out there. and so they can be relied upon to turn on any trans woman on whom the least suspicion falls.
this is one of the Bad Ones, you see, and in order to be a Good Ally they have to protect the reputation and good name of abstract, general trans women by unpersoning this literal, actual trans woman. never mind that the abstract people never benefit, or that the real individual is socially murdered. bring a Good Ally means helping judge which trans women are Bad, see?
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elvenlace · 6 days
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If you like the word “queer” reblog.
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elvenlace · 6 days
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Okay, but what if you're genuinely just confused and ask if the bad trans women do exist? I don't think I've ever ran into one, and I tend to stay away from drama, and I will never ever do anything like that or be judgemental. Ever. I'm just genuinely confused about TME and TMA and how it has affected others, and am scared to share my stance.
The secound reblog genuinely feels like an attempt to silence any conversation to have on this, and that's not good to do especially when so many other trans people don't understand nor agree with TME and TMA.
I feel as tho it is another thing that divides our already small and isolated community, splintering it into good and bad, and silencing any conversation on it because otherwise "you're a bad minority" which is already confusing in of itself.
the thing i keep coming back to us that it's just agreed-upon that The Bad Trans Women are out there. people disagree about which ones they are and how you can tell but nobody questions that they exist just as imagined
for trans women it becomes about proving that you aren't one of them. for avowed bigots it's about arguing that we're all like that. but for the third and most subtly dangerous category, which i tend to think of as liberals who haven't done the real work, whose politics is correct when things are easy and reactionary when they are not -- to these people, trans women in general are not automatically bad, but they also haven't questioned their axiomatic belief that The Bad Trans Women are out there. and so they can be relied upon to turn on any trans woman on whom the least suspicion falls.
this is one of the Bad Ones, you see, and in order to be a Good Ally they have to protect the reputation and good name of abstract, general trans women by unpersoning this literal, actual trans woman. never mind that the abstract people never benefit, or that the real individual is socially murdered. bring a Good Ally means helping judge which trans women are Bad, see?
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elvenlace · 6 days
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i hope yall know im dead serious about universal trans family. normalize trans people greeting each other in public bc of nothing other than both being trans. normalize taking care of one another like brothers and sisters. normalize loving one another unconditionally and treating one another with unconditional positive regard. this community needs to get stronger. every trans person is family. even if i don’t fucking like you i love you like family.
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elvenlace · 6 days
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Reblog this to give the person you reblogged from a heart shaped cookie
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elvenlace · 6 days
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Hi, all, mothboy here.
I'm in a bit of a financial pickle.
I'm 6 months behind on rent thanks to my job refusing to give me hours, and I just got into a hit and run today. I've been trying to make money by participating in a lot of research surveys, but it's just not enough right now. As it is, I can barely afford groceries.
If you are very kind and charitable and just want to support me, I will be putting my Kofi in a reblog. Otherwise, I come here today to ask if anyone would be willing to pay me on commission.
[I am also offering commissions on my art and poetry blog, @copper-buttercups]
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elvenlace · 7 days
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oh, oh! I wouldn't mind getting hit with the gender escapade.
What if i just start assigning genders to people? Would there be a market for that?
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elvenlace · 10 days
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Confession: My heart is sad today. I once prided myself on being independent, loving periods of being alone; solitary, without unnecessary attachment to anyone or anything. I suppose I learned how to do it as a child. Then I met her. She melted the walls and boundaries that built over time. We had a powerful mutual effect upon each other. We made each other laugh, brought out each other’s inner child, and we enriched each other’s lives. Our love grew and our relationship was tremendous, even with some ups and downs common to all. We had a good ride. We made the best of it. She is my one and only love. I still love her, and this will never change. She’s always in my thoughts; the last before I go to sleep and the first when I wake up. I always wish her all the best. I send positive vibes her way on the regular. Without getting into things, as it’s private, in the end I learned that true love exists, yet faerie tale endings are rare. I recently read something to this effect; it rings true for me. A faerie tale ending was not something in the cards for us. Though our memories warm me, for some reason my heart hangs low on days like this one. A painful, bitter loneliness smacked me in the face this morning, when I woke up to ready myself for work. Today, I mourn her loss. I mourn us. The heartache cuts so very deep. I suppose it reminds me that I am still alive. Writing about it somehow helps to get the junk out of my head. Nevermind me…
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elvenlace · 10 days
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Reblog if you want anon smut in your inbox
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elvenlace · 14 days
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My Human is Not
Written by Jackson Lanzing and Collin Kelly
Art by Sonny Liew
Star Trek: Waypoint Special #1
High Res Version
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elvenlace · 26 days
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the trans girl estrogenized puffy nips are some of the hottest things to ever fucking exist and you will never convince me otherwise
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elvenlace · 28 days
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(can't drive, don't have a car, don't have money for a bus pass, don't have money to get myself anything. So, hangouts would primarily be you buying stuff for me and picking me up, or just picking me up and we talk abd chill put wherever.)
Yo so, can those living in Vegas hit me up? I need real life interactions that don't drive me crazy, and I prefer trans people but, cis peeps who behave such as ally's are allowed to interact with me. I'm not necessarily looking to date or a sucralose parental figure.
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elvenlace · 1 month
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casual survey: reblog if you want to kiss a girl right now
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