#aplatonic positivity

[xxcalicofemmexx]

aplatonic wallpapers!

Aplatonic: A term used to describe people who do not experience platonic attraction. Specifically, it is most commonly employed by aplatonic people to describe a lack of desire to form friendships with specific people, or difficulty forming friendships in general as a result of neurodivergence or trauma.

#aplatonic #pride #queer #aplatonic wallpaper #aplatonic pride #aplatonic positivity #apl #aspec #aspec pride #apl pride #apl positivity #aspec positivity #my wallpapers #mine

[revolutionandcake]

i love you demis i love you greys i love you aegos i love you cupios i love you fictos i love your frays i love you fluxes i love you spikes i love you lithos i love you recipros i love you quois i love you any and all aspecs <3

#aromantic #aro #asexual #ace #aplatonic #apl #aspec #aspec positivity #aro positivity #ace positivity #aplatonic positivity #im probably missing a bunch but literally all microlabels are included

[klavierpanda]

Shoutout to aplatonic people, especially platonic averse/repulsed apls. I know a lot of aro positivity posts around this time tend to focus on platonic love as something to celebrate instead and that can feel very isolating. You do not need to make up for anything today or ever.

Now, let's go set amatonormativity ablaze

#aplatonic #apl #aplatonic positivity #aplspec #panda's post

[gender-luster]

happy apl day!!

#aplatonic #apl #aspec #aplspec #aplatonic visibility day #aplatonic positivity

[freshorganicaroace]

Kicking off with my audience wanting more aplatonic posts, I decided to start kinda simple and make an aesthetic based around the flag. I went with a nature theme for it! The flag is very pretty, I can’t say I’ve seen it before.

I want to make more personal posts here, and I will, but school has been chewing me up and spitting me out. I hope y’all are understanding 😅

#britt rambles #aplatonic #apl #apples #apple #aplatonic positivity #aplatonic pride #aspec #cat #cat tw

[amethsys]

Shoutout to aroallos

Shout out to loveless aroallos

Shoutout to loveless heartless aroallos

Shoutout to aroallos who are cis and het

Shoutout to aroallos who are aplatonic

Shoutout to aroallo men

Shoutout to aroallo women

Shoutout to every single aroallo, y’all get so much shit from people in and out of the community, keep your chin up!

#lgbtq+ #lgbt pride #queer positivity #aroallo #aroamtic allosexual #aroallo positivity #aplatonic positivity #loveless #loveless positivity #tag this with acespec stuff and I’ll kill you this is strictly aroallo positivity

[entropy-sea-system]

Shoutout to nonfriending apls!!

#apl positivity #apl #aplatonic #nonfriending positivity #nonfriending #aspec #nonfriending apl #nonfriending aplatonic #aplspec #plato averse #plato aversion #actually nonfriending apl #actually nonfriending #actually apl #As usual exclus and aplphobes and terfs dni #Also if you dont know what these terms mean try looking them up (would probably show up on tumblr search) b4 asking op #aspec positivity #aplatonic positivity #positivity

[genderqueerpositivity]

(ID: two sparkly aplatonic pride flags)

#aplatonic positivity #aplatonic #op #q #genderqueerpositivity

[arominders]

Reminder to aplatonic aro/arospec people who are completely cool with their lack of platonic attraction/affection that you guys are valid and so cool! Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise 💚

Also! On that same note, reminder to aplatonic aro/arospec people that it’s okay if you wish you could feel platonic affection, it’s okay if you still want friends—you’re still apl and an important part of the community 💚

#submission #daily reminder #aromantic #aro #aromantic positivity #aplatonic positivity #aplatonic #positivity

[xxcalicofemmexx]

anyway

aplatonic people are beautiful and good and deserving. having language to express how they experience the world is not a bad thing, and should Never be framed as such.

if you are aplatonic because of a personality disorder, you belong.

if you are aplatonic because of autism, you belong.

if you are aplatonic because of trauma, you belong.

if you are aplatonic because of a fatigue disorder, you belong.

if you are aplatonic because you're just happier on your own, you belong.

if you are aplatonic because of another reason i can't think of rn, you belong.

you are real, and you matter, and you deserve to find pride in being yourself.

- sincerely, an aroacespec

#aplatonic #aplatonic pride #apl pride #apl positivity #aplatonic positivity #aspec #aspec pride #aspec positivity #that person got me riled up #ugh #i speak

[arostellar]

is it normal that i feel so uncomfortable when people try so hard to be my friend and being special to me? because there's this one person, i already talked about him here and... he just- he started saying he might be aroace because he resonated with me? kind of? and like i'm happy for him, but at the same time he keep pushing this "i want us to be something in the future" and it makes me.. feel bad, because i don't want that with him and ah, i think i'm too aplatonic for this.

#aplspec #apl #aplatonic #aplatonic spectrum #aplatonic positivity #apl positivity #apl spectrum #struggles of aroace folks #aroace

[awkward-aro-ace-princess-76]

I love villains that are the reverse of the idea that the absence of love makes you evil. Villains that love to the point of paranoia and obsession. Villains whose love for someone corrupts them. Love being used for awful, evil things. Using love to justify horrific actions. Anything that breaks down the toxic idea that people who don’t feel love are monsters and those who feel love are always pure and heroic and morally right.

#love isn’t always positive and heartwarming #loveless doesn’t mean evil #amatonormativity #loveless #aromantic #aplatonic #love doesn’t make us human #love doesn’t make us morally good

[gender-luster]

aplatonic people are cool as fuck and deserve the world

#if you're apl i adore you. you are literally so cool <2 #aplatonic #aplspec #aplatonic positivity

[monstrousparalysis]

Fuck it, on this Valentine's Day, here's a post devoted to every single aromantic who fits the negative stereotypes!

Every aroallo, no matter what other labels they use!

Loveless aromantics, especially ones who are loud about not feeling love and refuse to listen to the countless "but what about"s!

Aromantics who don't feel other, even more "universal" attractions, like platonic or familial ones!

Aromantics who lack empathy, who are "cold", who prefer logic over emotion!

Nonhuman aromantics, especially the loveless ones, for whom "Love is what makes us human" is a dismissal in both directions!

Aromantics with trauma, trust issues, or fears of intimacy!

And of course: the aromantics with personality disorders, especially the narcissistic or antisocial aromantics!

If you meet one or more of the above criteria, you are entitled to keep being who the fuck you are and to do so with pride!

Arophobia is not our fault, it is the fault of the arophobes who use our image to justify attacking others. We are hurting nobody just by existing as we are.

No matter what you want in terms of relationships, be that friends with benefits, queerplatonic partners, multiple partners, or no partners at all, ever, I hope you get it!

#rem's ramblings #aromantic #aromanticism #aro #aro pride #aro positivity #aromantic pride #aromantic positivity #aroallo #aromantic allosexual #lovelessness #loveless aro #loveless aromantic #aplatonic #afamilial

[klugpuuo]

loveless aros, heartless aros, aplatonic people, and anyone whose low empathy or entire lack of empathy influence their aspec-ness (or vice versa) are all amazing. giving yall a respectful nod and/or high five

#aspec positivity #aplatonic #arospec

[3scapethevoid]

A dose of validation for a-spec identities!

You're valid if you're aplatonic and don't have friends!

You're valid if you're aplatonic and do have friends!

You're valid if you're afamilial and aren't close with your family and/or familial figures OR don't have any!

You're valid if you're afamilial and are close with your family and/or familial figures if you have any!

You're valid if you're aqueerplatonic and don't engage in queerplatonic relationships!

You're valid if you're aqueerplatonic and do engage in queerplatonic relationships!

You're valid if you're aromantic and don't engage in romantic relationships!

You're valid if you're aromantic and do engage in romantic relationships!

You're valid if you're asexual and don't engage in sexual relationships/intercourse!

You're valid if you're asexual and do engage in sexual relationships/intercourse!

You're valid if you're the 'stereotype' of your label!

You're valid if you have any label that 'contradicts' with your actions/feelings!

You're valid if you aren't a-spec or don't consider yourself a-spec or don't use labels but are still attraction-repulsed, ambivalent, or whatever!

You can't control what you do and don't feel and no one else should either, be proud of who you are, no matter how 'absurd' or 'unnatural' it is to others. You are all valid! <3

#lgbtq #mogai friendly #aspectrum #aspec #aspec positivity #asexual #aplatonic #aromantic #afamilial #aqueerplatonic #ace #aroace #aro #arospec #aro pride #acespec #ace pride #aplatonic pride #aplatonispec #aquaspec #afamspec #lgbtqiia+ #lgbtqplus #lgbtq community #lgbt pride #lgbtqia #mogai pride #mogai #liom pride #liom