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houstonxbreed · 2 days

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🙏🏾🙏🏾🥺🥺

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elysianmadness · 7 days

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Happy lesbian visibility week/day to every lesbian around the world! I hope you're going to have a wonderful week, wherever you are. Your lesbianism is perfect and needed in the world. In this household, we love and appreciate the diversity of the lesbian experience <3

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800-dick-pics · 10 months

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Help Me Get New Mobility Aids!!!

Happy Disability Pride Month! I initially wasnt going to make a post to try to get new mobility aids/tools, but I really need them, so what the hell.

I am a multiply disabled Black lesbian and I have been without proper supportive mobility since the start of the pandemic. I had many of my things broken or thrown away during this time period, and I thought I could go without but its been so long and I really cant anymore.

I need smart/ergonomic forearm crutches because regular forearm crutches wreck my fragile hypermobile wrists, I need braces for both legs and ankles, a shower bench and detachable showerhead. All of this combined is a bit over $550.

I REALLY need this, esp the crutches! My mobility and bodily autonomy would be GREATLY increased If I was able to get these items. I

CA: $sleepyhen

VN: wildwotko

Dm for P@ypal

TLDR?: Disabled Black Lesbian needs new mobility aids for increased mobility and autonomy.

#disability pride month #disabled poc #heds #ehlers danlos syndrome #chronic pain #black and disabled #disabled lesbian #This is really vital to my life right now bc i cant do things atm #crutches would make me doing things by myself again possible #i just want some more mobility and bodily autonomy

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androgynealienfemme · 1 year

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"Yes, it's true: I was the type of young femme who managed the girls basketball team in high school, just to be able to take in the sight of all those butches parading their muscles up and down the court. I found Girl Scout camp to be femme heaven and reveled in being able to explore my athletic self and still maintain my femmeness. And, to my horror, I have to admit pushing Tina away from my breasts in the back seat of a Buick while attending Mount Saint Mary Seminary. And then there was feminism... Although I came out as a "gay" woman before reading The Feminine Mystique, the seventies brand of white feminism had me trimming my nails and cutting off my hair. Soon I was outfitted in farmer jeans and high tops. And still I was told by my "sisters" that I didn't "look like a dyke" (read: I didn't look butch). I began to lead two lives- one as an outrageous, skirted, lipsticked femme while I worked in and traveled with carnivals, and another as an imitation butch back home in the women's community. Eventually, I pulled the pieces of my being back together and proclaimed boldly, "I am a working-class lesbian femme." So I had maybe six years reveling in unleashing my seductive femme self when, as lives go, mine changed: slowly at first and then more dramatically. Recurring back pain and limited range of mobility were finally diagnosed. Soon after came decreased mobility. No more mountain climbing. No long mall walks in search of the perfect piece of sleaze. No more standing against kitchen walls being gloriously fucked by some handsome butch. I stopped using alcohol and drugs, became ill with what is now known as CFIDS (Chronic Fatigue Immune Dysfunction Syndrome), and began to use a three-wheeled power chair. The more disabled I became, the more I mourned the ways my sexual femme self had manifested through the nondisabled me: cruising at the local lezzie bar, picking up a dyke whose eyes refuse to stray from mine, dancing seductively, moving all of me for all of her. Cooking: love and suggestion neatly tucked into the folds of a broccoli quiche. Serving my date in varying, sleazy clothing, removing layers as the meal and our passion progressed. And making love... feeling only pleasure as my hips rose and fell under the weight of her. Accomplishment and pride smirked across my face as her wrists finally submitted to the pressure of strong persistent hands. There are the ways I knew to be femme, to be the essence of me.

It's been five years now since I began using my wheelchair. I am just awakening to a new reclamation of femme. Yes. I still grieve the way I was, am still often unsure how this femme with disabilities will act out her seduction scenes. I still marvel when women find passion amidst the chrome and rubber that is now a part of me.

There have been numerous dates, lovers, relationships, sexual partners, and fliterations along the way. Cindy, Jenny, Ellie, Emma, Diane, Dorothy, Gail, June, Clove, Lenny, Cherry, Diana, Sarah I, and Sarah II. You have all reminded me in your own subtle or overt, quit or wild ways that I am desirable, passionate, exciting, wanted.

Yes I am an incredibly sexual being. An outrageous, loud mouthed femme who's learning to dress, dance, cook, and seduce on wheels; finding new ways to be gloriously fucked by handsome butches and aggressive femmes. I hang out with more sexual outlaws now- you know, the motorcycle lesbians who see wheels and chrome between your legs as something exciting, the leather women whose vision of passion and sexuality doesn't exclude fat, disabled me.

Ableism tells us that lesbians with disability are asexual. (When was the last time you dated a dyke who uses a wheelchair?) Fat oppression insists that thin is in and round is repulsive. At times, these voices become very loud, and my femme, she hid quietly amidts the lists.

Now my femme is rising again. The time of doubt, fear, and retreat has passed. I have found my way out of the lies and oppression and have moved into a space of loving and honoring the new femme who has emerged. This lesbian femme with disabilities is wise, wild, wet, and wanting. Watch out.

-"Reclaiming femme... Yet again" Mary Francis Platt, The Persistent Desire (Edited by Joan Nestle) (1992)

#lesbian #lesbianism #lesbian history #disabled lesbian #lgbt history #gay history #butch femme #femme lesbian #feminism #lesbian feminism #the persistent desire #intersectionality #disability history #disability rights

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violottie · 1 month

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ahem, taps mic....

lesbianism is not a quota to fill. lesbianism is not what you do. it is innate; it is who you are.

a lesbian is a woman or lesbian aligned nonbinary person who is exclusively attracted to women and non-man aligned nonbinary people.

you fit that? you're a lesbian!

lesbian sexuality is so profoundly beautiful and diverse and powerful. it is boundless, limitless and abundant. it is joyous and overflowing with glory and strength.

take pride, lesbians. we are the best.

❤️🧡🤍🩷💖

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sapphic-sprite · 1 year

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wear a mask please! some of us will die if we catch covid or will be sent to the hospital for a cold! by wearing a mask you are making it easier for us to just exist in public places!

#very sick of being so isolated just for being immunocompromised #I can’t to ANYTHING #wearing a mask is literally so easy and would make it so I can at least go to the supermarket without fear #disabled #disabled queer #disabled lesbian #immunocompromised #immunosupressed

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sithprincex · 1 month

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tell me you don't never wanna lose me

he/they nonbinary lesbian | men and minors dni

#self #lesbian #nonbinary #femme lesbian #fat femme #fat lesbian #femme dyke #disabled femme #fat dyke #disabled dyke #femme4butch #bipoc #disabled lesbian #MEN DNI #stoner lesbian #stoner femme

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onceandfuturelesbian · 2 years

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pride month means your homies are now your homos

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twinandroids · 6 months

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Hi, I've been a very bad girl

Don't you see? So bad that I'm not even a girl anymore ✨

#watched fnaf last night #it was very fun #nyello #lesbian #nonbinary lesbian #disabled lesbian #wlw #wlw community #wlw blog #sapphic #lesbianism #femme4masc #femme4butch #butch bait #masc bait #femme lesbian #nonbinary

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wheelywlw · 9 months

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i made a pride flag/symbol for disabled lesbians! feel free to use :)

#disabled lesbian #actually disabled #lesbian #dyke pride #lesbian art #wlw post #lesbian pride #pride flag #disgaybled #wheelchair #wheelchair user #sapphic

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houstonxbreed · 3 months

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#disabled #lesbian #disability #queer and disabled #chronic disease #disabled lesbian #muscular dystrophy #wheelchair user #severe disability #friends #chronically ill #wheelchair #idk why i vent on here and not my other social media’s

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v-tired-queer · 10 months

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After years of thinking about it and having yet another seizure on public transportation this morning, I've made up my mind and am gonna get a service dog! My doctors have all already agreed that this would be a good course of action for me. I'm nervous and excited as I'm owner-training, but I have local dog trainers I'm going to reach out to who have experience with training service dogs.

I don't currently plan on using a breeder, since my local animal shelter has a couple of dogs who I think would be good fits! Their different personalities, temperament, willingness to learn, ect are all posted on the website, so I've been able to look and see what dogs I want to meet before going in. Plus, my shelter also has information on service dog training and resources for people in our area.

I have an appointment with SSI coming up on July 20th to apply for benefits, and I'm praying that they approve my application on the first go so I don't have to lawyer up. My seizures are just getting in the way too much for me to maintain a job. I've known that for years, hence why I keep switching jobs in hopes of finding something that will work for me. I just felt like if I applied for SSI then I would be "throwing in the towel". It almost felt like I was giving up on myself. But the more I go on, the more I realize that sometimes the best thing to do is take a step back. I'm not mooching off of anyone. I'm still going to go to college. I'm still taking steps to better my life while living with a disability. Working right now just isn't feasible for me (why yes, I am still convincing myself of all of this, how did you know? It's a back and forth game over guilt, honestly).

Since adoption fees are affordable, I should, in theory, be able to adopt with in the first couple of SSI payments after I get approved.

Here's hoping that it all goes well!! 🙏🦮🍀✨️

#prayers and positive energy and thoughts would be greatly appreciated right now!! 🙏🍀✨️#might do a lil' manifestation ritual later #service dog #service dog in training #shelter dogs #ssi #disability #disabled #seizures #non epileptic seizures #psychogenic non epileptic seizures #pnes #disabled lesbian #disabled nonbinary #disabled queer #kit's diary 1 🖊

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dyke-vamp-femme · 29 days

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if my vibrator dies on me i’m gonna be on the news

#something bad will happen #lesbian nsft #femme lesbian #femme4butch #femme pride #lesbian #disabled lesbian

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lxvendermxnace · 6 months

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🚨call for mutual aid !!! 🚨

hey besties, i really despise asking for money but i’m in a pretty tough spot rn. i’ve had a really rough time moving and adjusting (i moved cross country completely on my own), and even though i’m busting my ass working two jobs, things haven’t leveled out yet and i’m really anxious about making rent in a week. mental illness and disability have been making this shit so much harder. plus of course my cat had to get fleas that will not go away no matter what i try, so that’s been an aggravating expense. if anybody has literally anything to spare, it would be so so helpful!

i need about $400 total but literally anything helps, even just a reblog to get the word out! my venmo is @gideonchristene for those who can spare thank u sm bbs! 💕

#boost #signal boost #mutual aid #disabled lesbian #autistic #lesbian #mine #my posts #crowdfunding #black lesbian #black lives matter

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violottie · 2 months

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there is no greater joy in this world than that of being a lesbian. to exist as a lesbian is pure and complete perfection.

our community is woven and unshaking, our love for one another as fellow lesbians is indestructible, and our love for and exclusive attraction to women is the most profound in all the universe.

lesbianism makes the definition of love impotent because it is, and we are, so much more vastly, eonically, exquisite.

all lesbians, of every race and age, whether we are trans or nonbinary or cis or identify our gender as lesbian also, butch or femme or stud or stone or dont take on any of those titles, partnered or not, les4les or not, reclaimed dyke or not, disabled or not, aromantic or asexual or both or neither, no matter our body shape, no matter whether we are out and proud or we cant come out or dont want to come out...

we lesbians.... we are multitudes, we are divine, we are the essence of beauty and indescribable wonder. lesbianism is who we are, not what we do. simply being is enough, your sexuality is enough, your attraction is enough, you are enough.

lesbians, my darlings, i implore you: you are valuable, you are wonderful, you are a magnificent, multidimensional person who is worthy of life and freedom and joy and celebration.

i have abundant overflowing love for you because you are a lesbian, and you have community here with every other lesbian on the planet who has been, who is and who will be. i cannot put into such limited finite words how much and how deeply i adore you for being here.

take pride in who you are, and who we are. we have always been here. we do not need to include men in our lives and relationships to be enough or valued, we do not expand or rename our exclusive sexuality to be enough or valued, and even if no one else, even others in the wider community, accept you for the unchanging, unbending reality who you are and who you love...

i see you, i understand you, i am here with you, and i am so happy you are here.

i love you for being here ❤️🧡🤍🩷💖

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dykepuppy · 1 year

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Happy Pride!!

Please consider donating to your favorite disabled Jewish Lesbian!

My commissions are also open if you're interested!

#anne.txt #commissions #lesbian #disabled lesbian #pride month #lesbian commissions #pride commissions #lgbt #lgbt commissions

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