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hollymarlow · 1 year
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Dinnertime with the boy on my lap, because he was feeling overtired and emotional. Honestly, I was so touched out, I initially wanted to say "no, you need to sit on your own chair," but I'm glad I didn't. He's a snuggly little thing, and I'm lucky I get to be his Mum. I know everyone says it, but it's going too fast. ❤️ . #grateful #honestparenting #honestparenthood #parentingstruggles #parentingrealities #sensoryoverload #gentleparenting #gentleparent #therapeuticparenting #therapeuticparent #wecouldhavemissedthis #livingmybestlife https://www.instagram.com/p/Cp5xlijMKGN/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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hanamaulida · 5 months
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Akhir2 ini sempet beberapa kali liat video dengan nuansa sama. Judulnya "PoV anak rewel suami marah2 tapi saldo ATM 5M". Ada beberapa versi yang dibuat sama orang2. Pesannya sama, bedanya paling ada di angka M nya ; ada yang 5M, 2M, 3M, dll.
Singkat cerita video itu memperlihatkan ibu2 lagi gendong/nemenin anak yang lagi tantrum. Sambil full senyum tanpa jeda. Nah yang menarik, di kolom komentar hampir semua sepakat sama PoV tersebut.
Di awal mungkin kita juga secara refleks membenarkan hal tersebut ya. Termasuk saya. Sempet ketawa juga. Apalagi di kondisi yang lagi benar2 sulit dalam hal finansial. Merasa relate dan ada temennya.
Sampai saya tertegun oleh salah satu komentar "Akhirnya terkuak ya rahasia gentle parentingnya Nikita Willy"
Saya nggak tau... Apa sayanya aja terlalu nganggep serius konten yang niatnya mungkin hanya guyon ini?
Tapi di lubuk hati terdalam.... kok saya merasa direndahkan ya sebagai perempuan.
Mengasuh dan mendidik anak dengan penuh kesabaran itu kan sebuah keharusan. Karena anak adalah amanah dari Allah yang harus dijaga sebaik mungkin. Lagipula, Allah juga telah menciptakan fitrah seorang perempuan itu penuh kasih sayang. Ssetidaknya kadar/potensi kelembutan perempuan terbukti lebih besar daripada laki2.
Tapi dengan adanya konten seperti itu --dan banyak yang setuju, maka sama saja dengan perempuan mengkerdilkan dirinya sendiri.
Padahal seorang ibu, terlepas dari kondisinya (ekonomi) seperti apa selalu bisa menjadi mulia karena tugas yang diembannya.
Padahal seorang ibu, atas segala pengorbanan dan jasanya, tak kan bisa terbayar oleh saldo rekening berapa-M pun!
Baru sanggup lemah lembut ketika segalanya melimpah.
Baru bisa bersabar ketika rekening unlimited.
Baru mau senyum ketika punya semuanya.
Seriously, ini sama sekali tidak lucu :( emang boleh hubungan ibu-anak setransaksional itu?
Jujur yang saya khawatirkan, banyak ibu2 yang seolah mendapatkan validasi atas sikapnya yang kurang patut pada anak dengan dalih "Ya iyalah, gw kan bukan Nikita Willy yang gak mikir besok mau makan apa"
Semoga memang hanya saya yang terlalu serius terhadap konten bercandaan ini.
Semoga ibu2 yang menonton konten tersebut paham bahwa kaya raya bukanlah syarat untuk menjalankan peran terbaik sebagai ibu.
Karena apapun dan bagaimanapun kondisinya, naluri seorang ibu, selalu ingin melakukan dan memberikan yang terbaik untuk anak2nya.
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livingthatmomlife · 2 years
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kindtokidz-toys · 1 year
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Powerful words by @australianpsychologist 🙌 #selfhealers #gentleparenting #innerchild #positiveparenting #consciousparenting #childhood #consciousfamily #unschooling #unschool #homeschool #homeschooling #reparenting #kidswellness #montessori #montessorifrombirth #montessoriaustralia #montessoritoddler #reggioinspired #reggiokids #rieparenting #empathy #attachmentparenting #healing #melbournemum #sydneymum #brisbanemums #perthmumsandbubs #tasmaniamums #adelaidemums https://www.instagram.com/p/CnrK0TJS7B8/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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anxiousinternetfox · 1 year
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Currently binge rewatching old Jenna and Julien videos and watching Jenna gentle parent her dogs makes me feel so safe and happy tbh
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What is something that you intentionally model for your child/ren?⁣ ⁣ Swipe to see @mombrain.therapist's original post and my inspo.⁣ ⁣ •⁣ •⁣ •⁣ ⁣ #parenting #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #coparenting #caregivers #caregiversupport #guardians #stepparenting (at Bearly Articulating) https://www.instagram.com/p/CpAGnz-udSq/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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kestrel-tree · 2 years
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Me trying to gentle parent the weather:
I'm really proud of you for showing how you feel with all the colours on the trees! That's so special to share with us. We just have to remember that when we make it very cold outside that can hurt our friends. What if we try blowing around some of these leaves that are already on the ground instead of ripping them off the branches?
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bean-galleria · 2 years
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If I ever adopt children, I’m going to only give them toys that I horribly mutilate into some terrifying Toy Story Sid creation
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responsiveparenting · 2 years
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“How your child treats you will not determine how they treat the rest of the world. Instead, how you treat your child will determine how they treat the rest of the world and themselves.” J. Milburn⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ We are their safe place. Children don’t typically act the same with other authority figures, as they do with their parents. There is a connection and trust there that allows them to feel safe enough to crumble into our arms. They throw dirt at us because they know we are the only one’s who care to know what’s hidden in the debris. Disrespectful behaviour is usually misunderstood behaviour. It’s usually communication. It’s not a character defining moment when your child is emotionally dysregulated. We all become dysregulated at times. It’s important to normalize those feelings and model how to process emotions and offer grace. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I discuss this further in my latest e-book 👇⁣⁣ ⁣ Finding Your Calm: A Responsive Parents Guide to Self-Regulation and Co-Regulation⁣ ⁣ Link in bio @responsive_parenting or on the Website: responsiveparentinginspirations.com⁣ ⁣ #ResponsiveParenting #JMilburn #ParentMentalHealth #MaternalMentalHealth #PostPartum #MensMentalHealth #ParentingLife #HealingJourney #GentleParenting #AttachmentParenting #Attachment #AttachmentTheory #Parenthood #SelfHealing #SelfCompassion #EarlyChildhood #ChildDevelopment #PTSD #CPTSD #ChildhoodMemories #Triggers #HoldingSpace #SelfRegulation #Empathy #UnconditionalLove #Parent #KidLife #AlwaysLearning #PTSDAwareness https://www.instagram.com/p/Cg2Zz38p298/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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nftmarket2050 · 2 years
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#162 , DOGS COLOR NFT , gentle doggy , gentle guard dog , gentle police dog , gentle dog
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hollymarlow · 1 year
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We've been enjoying "choose your own adventure" stories lately (spoiler alert - I'm writing one for 8-12 year olds, which has rekindled my love for this type of book). Zoe and Jake picked the same bedtime storybook ("Sandcastle" by R. A. Montgomery), then they each had a turn at making the choices, so they ended up with quite different stories! I love seeing what choices they make! It's a fun way to help children to practise making decisions and thinking about the consequences of their choices. 😊 . #choices #consequences #gentleparenting #gentleparent #chooseyourownadventure #bedtimestory #bedtime #writing #reading #storytime #storytelling #storytellingweek #readingweek #nationalreadingweek #nationalstorytellingweek https://www.instagram.com/p/CoNoMrGMKZx/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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sppc2016 · 5 months
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livingthatmomlife · 2 years
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I want you to stay little, and I want to watch you grow.
And I want to remember your song, drifting down the hallway,
even the one at night.
Accompanied by the pitter patter of feet before I lift you into our bed.
And when I need a moment,
I’ll still keep you near, before this moment disappears.
So stay little, will you?
But please grow, and grow.
So one day, as you tower above me, I may rest my head on your chest instead.
I wonder what that will be like.
How that could even be possible when right now we play ice cream trucks, and your bottom lip still drops.
Will I remember the days I stood up even when I fell short?
Will I remember how hard and beautiful they were?
Can you stay little a bit longer?
But I love watching you grow.
Yes you can help me with the washing,
it’s OK you dropped it, let’s dust it off.
Yes you are a great helper, more than you’ll ever know.
I’ll read that book again, and again.
I’ll watch the expressions you make before you’re able to choose them.
I’ve never smiled in the morning so much until we met.
And you can walk with me before our path splits in two.
You can hold my hand before you let it go.
I’ll always remember you this little.
But I can’t wait to watch you grow.
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Words: @jessurlichs_writer
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kindtokidz-toys · 2 years
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An important reminder via @biglifejournal. Swipe to read all the slides 🤗 The way we speak to our kids becomes their inner voice 💕 #awareparenting #gentleparenting #innerchild #positiveparenting #consciousparenting #childhood #consciousfamily #unschooling #unschool #homeschool #homeschooling #reparenting #kidswellness #montessori #montessorifrombirth #montessoriaustralia #montessoritoddler #reggioinspired #reggiokids #rieparenting #empathy #attachmentparenting #healing #melbournemum #sydneymum #brisbanemums #perthmumsandbubs #tasmaniamums #adelaidemums https://www.instagram.com/p/CgMea_FPvgB/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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