#grow up you fucking incel. nobody cares

[br34k1ng-bl0g]

Jesse Pinkman would wear a skirt get over yourself. He's a fashion icon. Yes he would've watched the Barbie movie. Yes he would like Hello Kitty. He's progressive. He ate, he served, he slayed.

#my post #text post #breaking bad #jesse pinkman #this is based off a comment i got from my jesse pinkman in mini skirt art i did #“its official. breaking bad is ruined.” #grow tf up #yall ruined it when you started saying shit like #“walt is so me fr” #“gus is so me fr” #SHUT THE FUCK UP #you are not tyler durden #you are not Hisenberg #grow up you fucking incel. nobody cares #why would you want to aspire to be those ppl?? whats actually wrong with you

[dawsonscreekwasalwaysbad]

funniest parts of inside job pt 2

mommy likey drinky

“santa is fake! but student debt is real!” “you had to learn sometime, brayden”

“this is gonna be the most globally damaging midlife crisis since elon musk” oh that is APT

“ok boomer”

“are you poland? because that german guy straight-up owned you”

reagan saying that alex jones “looks like an orangutan fucked a fire hydrant”

“i’m the only one left who will listen to me!”

spending the whole episode confused on why oprah is back and then seeing her yell “i’m not the first oprah!”

“our missions do feel suspiciously like b-stories”

“why is my wallet on a metal leash? where would it be trying to go?”

lights being mothman’s kryptonite is a very obvious joke but it still works every time

KEANU FUCKING REEVES

“MOTHERFUCKER!” “well, he is fucking reagan’s mother, so yes. motherfucker.”

*takes out a lotus* “i don’t put these in my pocket. they grow there spontaneously.”

“i’m feeling drained from staring meaningfully into the distance”

“after dating so many billionaires, his millionaire lifestyle keeps me grounded”

the pussy posse being amazed and confounded by brett’s respect women juice

the real reason leonardo dicaprio only dates women under 25

“someone on the internet found out margot robbie is cgi” FINALLY SOMEONE WHO AGREES WITH ME

reagan accidentally imitating owen wilson

“when i’m done with you, men will look at you the way they look at me: briefly!”

gigi’s reaction to her make-under: “i wanna cyberbully myself!”

tamiko’s reaction to rand turning into a literal manchild: “way to turn subtext into text, rand”

myc’s absolutely SAVAGE comebacks at the constitution heist

“how would the founding fathers feel about this?” “probably the same way your father feels about you”

“ok, give me the word and i’ll blow the hell out of this thing” “said your ex-wife to brett’s dick”

“aliens? a woman being in charge of a team? nobody’s gonna believe this!”

“it’s a psychic union where everyone thinks the same and acts the same like fucking marvel fans” HGFHJGSDHKJHSJGH

“the last time i saw a white guy that generic, he was on a don’t walk sign!”

“fresh dirt is brought to you by blue apron. do you only care about the environment when it’s super convenient?”

INCEL STEVE

“how did he get that hoodie?”

“WE’VE BEEN FUCKED BY THE POPE!” “for the love of god, CONTEXT!”

saying “when in rome” is half the reason people come to rome

the gay dog weddings

“i now pronounce you two very good boys!”

“that’s me in the corner, losing my religion.”

reagan offending the italians (again)

“oh man, if god is real, i’m fucked”

“in the name of the father the son and the HOLY SHIT”

in a vow to make air travel as inconvenient as possible, the third wright brother invented sharing an armrest

“i deserve to be punished. i still quote borat sometimes”

“look! a woman’s ankle!”

*takes one look at hell* “those flamin’ hot cheetos commercials really nailed it.”

“i love cable news. it’s like watching the apocalypse in slow motion.”

gigi describing brett as “the comic sans of people”

andre reminding us how old millennials are now

“destroying your brother’s political legacy. what are you, a bush?”

the ayn rand tattoo

brett accidentally unionizing and legalizing sex work

“the solution just seemed so obvious”

“because faking your own death worked so well last time, reagan. redundant much?”

“maybe all conspiracies are real!” “oh, that’s not good.”

brett’s lil brett puppet

lil brett dying

lil brett going absolutely batshit crazy during the entire end credits of that episode

“you look like a white girl at burning man!”

the coughing and face-touching station

“the only way you’re associated with the number 300 is in pounds.” “you calling me fat?” “explicitly!”

“i literally have no idea what you’re going to say next!” “vagina egg.”

“i feel like we have the same interests. wanna start a podcast?” “no! this is like a siren song for straight white men!”

reagan once used cheetos as croutons

*route 96 turns into route 69* “haha, nice”

the fact that andre is just the original text of the “one fear” meme

“fun for ages six to six and a half!”

berenstain bears originally being berenstein makes SO MUCH SENSE

“and finally the rich white underdogs became the rich white ruling class. an inspirational story”

jr refusing to put his shirt back on

brett gives a tinfoil hat to the shazaam poster and it WORKS

“turns out i wasn’t pregnant, i just had way too much del taco” “i’ve been there”

“you said something nice, but it felt mean!”

mothman’s alternate timeline was a reverse of the fly

andre is canonically into tentacle hentai

lampshading the plot holes

“me? in charge of a whole workforce, like santa?”

“how many oscars is meryl streep supposed to have? three seems kinda low”

andre, just having shoved nixon back into his grave, now covered in blood and holding a shovel: “i don’t wanna talk about it”

air bud!!

“i could beat a dog in chess! probably.” same, brett, same

#inside job #mine #the queue from halfway down

[drbased]

I've had in my head for years an idea for a 'series' called 'The Misogyny in Things I Love' where I was going to go through, well, the misogyny in things I love. I had in mind:

the simpsons: in wanting to subvert the traditional wholesome family sitcom they accidentally told an entire generation of women 'wanting a kind, gentle man who will provide for you is a foolish pipe dream, in reality you're expected to be slim and desireable and the men around you will be mean, gross slobs but you'll still be attracted to them for some reason and this is biting social commentary on the state of things and - whoops now the popularity of this show has changed the entire cultural landscape and you'll be buying your husband homer simpson socks as a ''''joke'''' and all the sitcoms will have a hot wife and gross fat dad and it's not even satire, it's just funny that men are like that and nobody really cares enough to try to make things better for women'

always sunny: I've talked about this a bit actually, about how each of the men represent a different facet of misogyny. one thing I didn't mention is how as always sunny has tried to keep up with the zeitguiest, it's been harder and harder for them to make the characters realistically bad people and also funny and relatable because the political landscape is so fragmented and hostile. but misogyny still gets a free pass so the guys get grosser and grosser to dee as time goes on but they're also not realistically transphobic because that would go too far. also the liberal use of bitch, I've seen the fanbase be like 'I love how in always sunny 'bitch' is a gender neutral term' 🤮 also what's fascinating is that as the show started, dee was originally going to be the generic 'girl' character and it was entirely kaitlin olson's vision that made the show into what it is today. I genuinely think without her the show would have been truly generic and unforgettable, like it would just be a bunch of guys being horrible to each other and onto a kind woman - that would have been so uncomfortable to watch. oh also they were planning on paying her a pittance and she demanded more money so yeah

peep show: peep show is such a fascinating deep dive into the incel/chad dynamic that tears apart both roles before they ever got truly entrenched in culture. the portrayal of misogyny in the show is fascinating and criticising it is hard because someone will inevitably say 'well they're not supposed to be good people' but the show repeatedly frames the men as fools and cowards and victims of circumstance, the women are framed as sexually aggressive towards them/using them - but when you actually look at their thoughts and actions, the men are grossly misogynistic. it's not treated as aspirational misogyny, but the framing leans more towards their problem not being misogyny itself but rather that 1. Jez needs to listen less to his impulses and grow up and 2. Mark needs to gain some courage. Mark even literally says in one episode in his head that he would basically threaten Sophie sexually but then says it's 'not his style'. Are we supposed to laugh at the absurdity that the only reason he's not a rapist is because he doesn't have the courage? How many men watching would even pick up that that's what's funny? Was that even the writer's intention? That's the problem with analysing peep show - it's supposed to be dark, it's supposed to be uncomfortable, and the question of exactly what the joke is can sometimes be ambiguous. taking a 'death of the author' approach to something like peep show is really fucking hard because you'll inevitably get people saying 'you're reading too much into it' or 'you're not reading into it enough' depending on what their own personal interpretation is. I guess that's why I haven't written about it

futurama: god, fry and leela. fucking hell, fry and leela. fry is a fucking monster, in one episode (the snoo-snoo/rape joke episode - it's funny because it's women raping men, and the men love it!) has fry and zapp brannigan making so many misogynistic jokes. fry is dumb, lazy and gross, clearly a groening staple. he harasses leela throughout the series, even in one episode going full incel 'why won't you go out with me?' and leela has to make up excuses. and it's treated as cute, it's treated as a love story for the ages. god, I fucking hate how the show treats leela. and amy is one step away from being a childish airheaded asian girl, it's really uncomfortable how much she's low-key sexualised. fortunately in the later series they actually have her complete her studies so she's not a generic bimbo character anymore. but then in the same era we have the most 90s bullshit 'men are from mars, women are from venus' style episode that shows how awful men are but.... idk, women gossip and complain a lot, so I guess that's the same thing. I love futurama so much but it has such gross sexual politics

red dwarf: red dwarf is responsible for the first 'gender swap' episode I've ever seen and I love it with all my heart. it does not shy away from the social commentary. what I always liked about red dwarf was that despite it being all men trapped together, it wasn't laddish at all and avoided all the classic misogynistic tropes, with some early episodes, such as the gender swap episode, being incredibly progressive, even for now. and then as a time went on it got worse and worse. when they brought kochanski back, she was 1. nothing like the quietly witty and shrewd women from the original series and 2. the generic space babe in a red latex jumpsuit, who also moaned about everything like a ridiculous female stereotpe. the last season before the rebooted series, where all the crew came back, became some sort of weird generic sitcom - and there was that horrible episode where they filmed women in the bathroom and there's one of those stupid moments where the guys are like 'this is horrible and wrong but I'm going to partake in it anyway because tee hee I'm a dumb stupid male I can't help it' I despise male-written comedy that does this, guys you're just fucking telling on yourselves

frasier: the whole Niles and daphne thing is also basically another case of 'man acts really creepy but it's unrequited love so it's really cute'. I will say though when they do get together I actually love how the show handles it, the episode where daphne and niles have a proper argument to demonstrate he doesn't idolise her anymore made a real impression on me growing up and I think it genuinely influenced my approach to relationships and valuing honesty. the show's depiction of roz is... interesting, because she's clearly a 'slut' but she's given more personality than just that. I don't like that she was given a child and that was supposed to be some sort of sign that she had grown as a person. and there's the series of episodes where there was a female boss and, of course, frasier ends up fucking her, even doing so accidentally 'on air'. it isn't treated as a purely humiliating moment for her, but still it's kinda gross in hindsight. the show really wants to have its cake and eat it too, it uses classic misogynistic tropes for comedy purposes but then takes the high road and allows the female characters to be more than one note. oh and then there's the episode where we find out that frasier's piano teacher basically statutory raped him but it's treated as one of those 'she taught him how to be a Man and he should thank her' kinda deals

gavin and stacey: I'm running out of steam but when nessa gets pregnant gwen says 'this could be the making of you' which I think is probably the most insulting line in all of television history. Nessa's whole character, the main joke about her, is how despite her age she has had such a ridiclously eventful life and has ties to all sorts of famous people. she's clearly a highly competent, dynamic, interesting woman, who only still lives in the small town of barry because of her national pride and love for stacey. the idea that pregnancy is the thing that will be the 'making of her'.... it's so insanely misogynistic that I think it fucking tops everything else on this list. what a hell of an insult, dear god

I probably will go through these properly eventually, I will at least talk about peep show and the simpsons because those two have the most social commentary and therefore say a lot about both the culture and the opinios

#my writing #I found out from this post that there's a 'characters per block' limit on posts lmao

[innocentpeach777]

dragging!! venus in the signs pt 2

(i have such a migraine rn, you'll have to excuse how lazy this is!!!!!!!!!!! sorry you have to!!!!!! :p)

sagittarius - "dora dora dora the explora!!~ 🎶 🎵 🎶 🎵" yeah, dora? YEAH??????? literally problematic. lowkey racist. major jungle and yellow fever. like, nobody cares, "dora". shut the fuck up.

frigid. doesn't fuck. incels. probably named fucking casey and are ugly and worship fucking artemis or something. psycho pagan bitches. will fuck you like crazy though once you finally get bored enough to actually lay them. bad lays. too crazy, and i fucking mean. will make ugly faces and climb on top of you like animal and squeal deranged sexual things in your ear in a high pitched alvin and the chipmunks voice then start fellating your ear in a wild fervent craze. probably into chastity. and pissing themselves at random. zoophiles. will want you to pretend to be black or like a fucking lion or some shit during sex. like foh.

wants to actually fuck a dog. like y'all whack fr. foh.

i fucking literally can't with sagittarius. go back to fucking second grade. headass. 🤮 -30/10 annoying af. like y'all give me a migraine 😩 😫 😒 😭 🙄 😒 like fr get out

for anyone who has been personally victimized by sagittarius, this goes out to you, my brothers in christ, below

you all my little nyc babies!! mwah!! 💋 💋 💋 💋 💋 x○x○x○

capricorn - incels. mentally deranged. the actual devil. like, will look at you like you... like aren't even there. like actually mentally unstable. will have sex with your daughter after eating your ass, the same day, in your house. will literally dump you for your daughter. cheaters. whole mess. but love them. oh! i have to. no matter how much i want to quit them.....

will literally BEG for sex!!! like a DOG!!! its O B S C E N E. like, get tf off my porch and hop tf out my dms, you fucking whole ass headass !!! grow a brain!!! you have no brain!!!! fucking actual dumbasses. morally bankrupt. actually.

ughghhhhhhgghhgggggh!!!!!!!!! HATE THEM!!! i wanna shit on their, like, toes!!! and make them sit like a good dog and chain them in my yard!!!!! and make them stop being bad! 👿 0/10 they are actually rabid. i feel like they'd bark at me and want me to call them a good dog during sex and pet their soft, sweet little heads.... like good little doggies... oh god! i hate them!!! i would pet them though and cuddle them if they sweet, nice little babies... cuties. usually cute.. 💋 🫂

aquarius - get off me !!! damn!!! I'll sit on your face later!!! but only if you sit on mine after that!!!! ... bc im an aquarius hehe teheeehe dehee ♡ ❤ 🧡 💛 💚 💙 💜 ❤ 🧡

ok, but, to be real. they sweat a lot, and love to laze around and cuddle you, and they're usually down for whatever you're down for. so you can just pick them up and bring you with them like a sweet little kitty. they'll let you hold and cuddle them 4ever. like fr!! they're so sweet. they're actually extremely maternal(/paternal) and tend to be kind of a mommy 👩 😳 🙃

they love to smoke weed, and act like they were born on weed. smoking weed, playing video games, fucking, sleeping. they love to fuck. complete nymphomaniacs. will fuck on the first date. guaranteed.

they won't help you with anything though. they're selfish. they're like diamonds, like gods.. 💎 🔸️ 🔶️ 🔹️ 💠 🔷️ 💎 🔸️ 🔶️ 🔹️ 💠 🔷️ 💎 🔸️ 🔶️ 🔹️ 💠 🔷️ 💎 🔸️ 🔶️ 🔹️ they just wanna have fun!! and fuck you if you try to bring them down!! don't ever patronize them or try to force them to do anything. they hate being disrespected.

the golden rule: treat others how you would like to be treated.

that's all you gotta remember w aquarius, and they will surf on them mf booty waves from duck till dawn, and even be your xanny molly weed dealer :)) they love booty hairs. they also love to be dookied on just like scorpio 🦂 20/10 the best sign, god tier (they are obsessed w ass....... 😩)

pisces - foot fetish. won't stop touching your feet. piss freaks also. they're like litle creatures.... very sweet though. until you piss them off and they leave you on read for five months straight. you'll feel like you have bipolar interacting w them. on god. one minute you'll be thinking abt marrying them and two seconds later you'll be vividly fantasizing abt strangling them to literal death w your bare hands. literal monkeys. let them hang from a tree and feed them bananas. and your pee.

will drink themselves into an early grave. complete headasses. they are also completely aimless. wayward sons. 🙉 9/10 i love them

💅🏿

#text #astrology #venus #venus in the signs #moon #mars #sagittarius #capricorn #aquarius #pisces #Spotify

[jaythelay]

it's not so much that Incels lead to Trans anything, it's more so that, there's a shit ton of men who don't fit into whatever role, and they both came to different but similar in concept conclusions.

The fix to Incels is not Transgenderism, obviously, no one's really saying that, but I do think that quite literally of any and all groups that heal and accept an Incel the most of any group, it's gonna be the relatability of trans people.

Incels basically form a pity circle jerk where they criticize character roles nobody's truly forcing them into, but because of perceived or genuine social pressure, feel the need to fit these roles. Their entire point is 2-fold: We Men are expected to be Supermen, and Women are expected to be essentially cats you can fuck but not fall in love with.

For some, this will cause gender dysphoria, and for some, not the kind that transitioning would help, but moreso an existential understanding of themself.

Realistically everyone should just do what I do. Not give a shit, feel what you can, and do what they want with their fleshsacks, because none of that shit matters except how your brain be bein'. And if your body is experiencing pain, or has something like tripophobic nightmares, I imagine you too would want that fixed and changed.

Especially if you can't help being yourself but wanting to be someone else. Truth be told you really can't alter yourself after really "getting it", so I recommend calming down, waiting til your 30 to be more existential. By then you kinda figure it out, somewhat.

Really I'm just a kid who kept growing up because it seemed fun and ya'll interest me as much as you utterly horrify me. A once thought decent combo now not so much.

Ya'll are just trying to go too fast, are too apathetic, and don't believe in shit enough to try, let alone care. At some point, you need to develop a self, believe in it, and be ready to utterly change it, because that reinforces your belief, it doesn't weaken it to be corrected.

Anyways, Incels are just utterly tormented boys being mislead by utterly deplorable losers being lead by genuinely malicious clowns who all Larp their favorite DnD Campaigns on social media because they think trying is too embarrassing and waiting will surely suffice, utterly deadlocked in a spiral of continual escalations in an effort to feel anything, anything but the normal feeling that eats away at them.

And trans are people who figured it out and just stopped holding back on their true selves, usually already detached from basically every social construct and unspoken social agreement to begin with making it easier to just slide into themselves over time.

Whereas incels chase an image, a projection of what they want, that's not realistic, and usually, not their fault they can't be it. Instead of finding their true self, they just set themselves up for failure looking for literally myths. Like, the people they discuss aren't...real... Some are just exaggerations, missing contexts, these are people that refuse anything past face value initial impressions and do not challenge themselves to be wrong.

They're really not interested in different mindsets, which one would need to even begin changing one's self, they're interested in being correct. And that high can be given for free if you don't give a shit. Which is why, instead of anything else, they will double down again and again, because to them, that's their perceived Chad, when it's just a Clown.

All this to say, there's connections, they're worth discussing and exploring, but I cannot stress enough how bloated the entire community is becoming. LGBT+ don't cover it, it's an entirely different, humanity exploring cultural movement and mindset that while absolutely fantastic and of course who else would be the front runners, Desperately needs to be it's own thing for cohesion and honest to god just simplifying dialogue and perspectives.

It's practically a religion that's in every way not a religion. Like, Please, let's establish a Humanitary Psychological Explorative Movement or some god damn shit, just don't make it gay, please, as far from LGBT as possible, it needs to be something EVERYONE can be apart of, not just the half-culturally labeled "others" you have to make a perceived plunge for.

We can't expect everyone to be accepting of LGBT when an entire culture of mindset is locked behind LGBT, that INHERENTLY makes you accepting of LGBT. As it is, it's just like locking an entire portion of the library behind the "girl section" of walmart, like bro not even I go down that dark aisle.

All I'm saying is, you can give Incels a home that isn't each other, you can get the average hillbilly to understand "others", and you can spread the good word of "being a decent human fucking being" without it being tied to a religion, a company, a politician or political party, no "big pharmer bibe gee", just us making a new cultural movement that isn't tied behind the oldschool still prevelant mode of thought of LGBT as the pink aisle in walmart.

Idunno I'm tired as shit.

#incels #lgbt #trans #lgbt+

[socially-anxious-wizard]

In relation to that ask post you reblogged and because I blame you for making me break and start watching it lol, what are some things you like about MHA amidst all the bad stuff?

I love social commentary on Superheroes that ultimately still has a hopeful edge, it's why despite how good The Boys looks, I still haven't had the energy to watch it. Because it looks so grim.

MHA, despite it's many problems and how Hero Culture is handled, it's hopeful. Izuku is a truly kind boy, and he cares. And there's so many truly good characters. Some of the most heroic characters are in it for money or frame, Mt. Lady? In it for money, helped save Bakugou and did her best in the Warr Arc because she's a Hero.

I love the Art and character language, it's incredibly dynamic and I've learnt a lot from studying it.

I love the kids, I love their friendships and how they grow together, I love their struggles and how they can grow past them.

I love Quirks and how they work, how they evolve, how they change the entire perception of this world, almost everyone has evolved past basic human, what about the world changes? That's the type of stuff I love. I love that Quirks are an everyday type of thing in their lives, I love that you can see all different types of Quirks and how they all contribute to how this world looks and feels.

I love Tsu and Ochako, I love Yaomomo and Jirou, I love all the girls, I love how badass they are and yet how sweet and good they are despite everything.

I love Aizawa, Hizashi, and Kayama, I love their friendship and their past, I love what could have been. I love the fact any body can be a Hero in this world, whether it's a nobody kid with a power that wasn't his, or a young girl holding up the weight of the world.

I like Izuku as the main character, I like that he cries and how his friends tell him it's okay for him to cry. I like that he's thoughtful and determined, he isn't blinded by forgiveness but he is compassionate.

I love the Villains, I love that Shigaraki is a loser Incel for the first couple of seasons and then he deletes LOL and gets buff, grows into a real Leader who cares for the League. I think the fact one of the most wanted Villains in the world is a 17 age old girl who never finished school because she drank a kid's blood with a fucking straw, who runs around wearing a cute Schoolgirl Outfit is inspired. I love that Dabi's whole speech and dance is just Eggman's announcement. I love Mr. Compress and his silly showman tricks, how he's very fatherly to Toga and carries around clean clothes for her, he calls her my dear and explains the Yakuza to her because it was before her time.

There's so much to love about this story and it's characters, I will always do them justice in my Art and writing. God, I could go on.

#imperium of dawn #ask #mha

[violetsystems]

#personal

I've been steadily filling out applications and sending out resumes. I would say I average about five or six a week. Seeing as how I've been looking for a job since 2020 after being forcibly retired, there's been enough learning through error to know how to apply. It also helps to have a resume though it seems mine gets ignored more than often. Last night I got hit with a question for the second time that seemed fucked up. They asked my sexual orientation. Incels can rest assured asexual is on there but you would think heterosexuals would love to brag about it. This question came after pronouns which I don't mind answering as he/him/his. But gender is a motherfucker and sexuality is nobody's business when it comes to putting a roof over your head. Neither is a governor in Florida trying to pass a law that targets bloggers with fines for writing about him on the internet. Him and his buddies have a lot of money involved in the Chicago election. There's even no cap for political spending so people can be on TV all days in commercials trashing each other. But growing up in a forgotten generation because Boomers and Zoomers rhyme together makes me feel a little more invisible than usual. You read all this shit in the news about how people who lost their jobs just recently are already bouncing back. And the news in America is largely paid for by special interests. I guess that's what don't say gay guy considers bloggers under his proposed laws. We're lobbyists. Except people like me don't influence anything at all. People like to think I do. Like to think that I'm the closet mastermind of some communist revolution. But I'm just some guy that knows how to read iron clad contracts. I went to a cybersecurity conference last summer to network and the key note was given by a lawyer. Not a tech luminary. A fucking lawyer. It seems you are only represented in America in terms of constitutional rights if you get a lawyer. And nobody really has 20k to defend themselves. Bloggers like me you can guess can't even get a lawyers attention. So good luck proving you are being discriminated against in the job market. If your basic rights are protected by the constitution most of the time, it means you have to defend it. Mostly against lawyers, developers of property, outside shadow pacs that donate infinite money to influence the democratic process your country brags about being superior for on the world stage. All the world's a stage, especially when I lock the gate behind me so the meter reader goes away.

That stage really hasn't got much to do with me. It gets in the way of the things I want to focus on like my career and the people I really deeply care about. But it does seem when you have more reason to counter sue they just pretend you disappeared altogether entirely. They'll focus on dirty tricks they can get away with with no fear of retaliation. Which is why Tumblr blaze I guess makes so much money. I wouldn't know I'm ad free for another year. And I don't really use this site for anything other than to communicate with my friends. I don't think anyone understands my life in reality. They just tiptoe around the perimeter. And for years when I tried to be more combative they probably stalked this blog looking for clues. Which seems to be par for the course going forward in America. Even I think it's gotten to be scary, pathetic and depressing. The guy at the DOJ who was supposed to save women's rights and abortion just took a trip to the Ukraine. Our rights that politicians start wars for around the world have disappeared and they're still tap dancing on the ashes. But really all of that is so far removed from reality on the ground. You never really had any rights to begin with. And I live in a weird gray zone of statement shirt hangovers from a bygone era. Everybody still thinks I'm undercover. And I've aged gracefully into the aesthetic and out of all the movements. I have far less to prove except for the fact I feel I'm being blacklisted in the job market. And even then I wake up and face the grim reality that if I didn't have my friends on here I would go fundamentally insane from all the targeting, hate, and subliminal communication everyone in this city wants to have with me. I did my taxes. And I do have a tax lawyer. So communication lines on that are blocked. But everything else? People seem to think it's alright to haze, roast, and terrorize me because they seem to know more about my relationships than I do. This platform has always been fairly anonymous. It really depends how you use it. And people have spent years comparing their basic ass shit to me without ever interacting with me. And I get why that happens by now. And I get that trying to be part of anything other than a job that pays me in the interim while we figure things out is in my best interest. Nobody else around here seems to.

I guess over time some of the people I share property with have grown to understand the nuance. And even then, we like to think of America as a place that respects your right to your own business. Especially when things are complicated and you aren't being represented by Congress or a lawyer. Strategic ambiguity is always in play on the high seas where countries like to play pirates of the Caribbean. If anything I learned it from watching you dad. But after all these years on the catwalk of the post apocalyptic political landscape I can handle myself out there. I just don't think anyone should really put themselves out there. Even applying for jobs and offering data like who you like to fuck is abused. Your bank information and what stocks you choose. Who has billions of dollars to use that information against you? The people buying our next mayor. Around here pope Francis is more in control and I'm not even Catholic. I've travelled all over the world. Even to China by myself. People act like I never left this block. Like they're so much more informed by the internet than me. And this is where I've had to learn to be ok with tuning out. Just like I've had to be ok with reading between the lines. My life sucks don't get me wrong. But being able to devote the time, energy and love to someone you care about is a great feeling. And it's a feeling people think they have an opinion about. Which is nothing new. All America out here has ever tried to do is bully me like basic training in the army. In fact, I wonder if it's learned abusive behavior from all this military service and chauvinistic attitudes passed down from generation to generation. My dad was a sargeant. A military cop auditor. Like if you armed the IRS. I dislike authority but I never hated my dad. My dad never really imparted on me anything in terms of toxic masculinity. But we lived in a matriarchal household. I am also a child of divorce. I'm not a normal person to compare yourself to if you are looking for some political fight. I don't even have instagram, TikTok or Facebook. Next thing you know they'll be asking for that on your resume. The boundaries of the fourth wall that I maintain are for your protection out there. You may think you know what you are reading but you don't wake up with me in my dash. So if you've read this far looking for a lawsuit? Maybe start with a suit coat for that statement shirt so I don't have to read into your bullshit anymore. For the rest of us? They don't call it a long march for nothing. <3 Tim

[cult-of-artemis-and-athena]

What the fuck is "femininity", anyway? Pt. 2

I was watching a video a few months ago about Evangelical Christians complaining about what they perceived as androgyny - women wearing pants and not having long hair, men not going fishing or wearing beards - and then said something to the effect of "These people are straying from God's design!"

I suppose the Bible does have some parts that can be construed as saying that women should have long hair, men should have short hair, and they should both look different and do different things. However, wearing certain clothes or hairstyles, or doing the majority of tasks don't have a biological component. If men were naturally, biologically, by-God supposed to have short hair, it should grow to be an inch long and stop, right? I've seen some Christians rebut the "only men can wear pants" argument on the basis that the stereotypical Christian man wouldn't like, nor properly fit into a pair of women's pants. I would take that a step further, because I think it's hilarious, and say that if women wearing pants were a 100%, by-God biological impossibility, they would have one leg, or be like nagas or mermaids and it would be physically impossible to make pants for them.

Another example: musical instruments are assigned gender stereotypes for some fucking reason. A friend from middle school said she wanted to play the trumpet, but was given a clarinet because it was a "feminine" instrument. Conversely, I've seen boys who started school band on a flute or clarinet either switch instruments, or quit band altogether. Perhaps small hands make it easier to play the piccolo, and it's less annoying for a strong person to carry around a tuba, upright bass, or bari sax, but there's no reason for the player's genitals to enter the equation. During the 18th century, the acceptability of an instrument for women was based on whether the player had to spread their legs to play it. Pianos, violins/violas, and flutes were allowed, but a cello was indecent. I'm not sure, then, how harps became stereotyped as "feminine instruments" when they're both gigantic and require the player to straddle them...but here I am trying to make sense of nonsense again...

Finally - and this is the big one - there is the downright schizophrenic relationship some male communities have with female attractiveness and things women do, or have done to them, to change how they look in pictures and videos.

I feel I must preface the rest of this point with something: "men" and "women" are not hive minds, and it's important to not strawman half the population based on a conglomeration of the worst representatives you have experienced. If you go outside, in real life, and think about the couples you see, it becomes very obvious that the majority of men you will see are attracted to women who aren't skinny blondes with big boobs/asses and the majority of women you see are attracted to men who aren't 6-/7-figure earners. People who seem to express that they are totally alone and perpetually shit-on by a world of "Chads" and "Staceys" feels like the same type of mindset school kids have, where they obsess over not being included by the popular kids while they're befriended and included just fine by kids they actually have more in common with. It's not a healthy mindset to have, but excusable in school kids because kids are immature by nature and they mostly grow out of it; however, to be an adult and still think like this is a good sign to get help.

I'm talking primarily about the incel community and perhaps some of the groups that this mentality spills into.

A post was going around several years ago and I think the photos were taken from a clickbait which was taken from a makeup artist's portfolio. The MUA might actually have been Goar Avetisyan (https://www.goaronline.com/courses) but the before and after pictures resembled the ones on the link above -- one with absolutely no makeup or hair styling, and then the other with full glam, special occasion makeup and styled hair, a wig, extensions, etc. The way it was presented was "LOOK! HERE'S PROOF W*MEN AREN'T ACTUALLY HOT! WAKE UP SHEEPLE! THEY'RE LYING TO YOU! ILLUMINATI EXPOSED!!!!"

I can see why they're mad, because the dishonesty surrounding makeup, but especially photoshop, plastic surgery, posing, and airbrushing can get toxic. I'm old enough to remember the old-fashioned mindset where women were supposed to hide their "beauty secrets". Don't apply makeup in public, keep your roots touched up so nobody knows they're dyed, and if you have any treatments or surgery always deny having them. Wear your makeup to bed, then wake up early and fix it before your guy sees you.

I couldn't imagine how awful I would feel if I had Instagram or TikTok when I was growing up. I had enough moments of feeling frustrated because I didn't naturally look how other people looked, and I didn't realize that people in TV and movies were wearing makeup, that magazine ads were photoshopped, etc. Just being an extremely average-looking human being with no concept of basic grooming, comparing myself to other kids at school was hard enough without the rapist-run media adding another layer of bullshit.

When I realized the layers of lies, it was like...how long have I been wasting my time and money on this totally made-up problem? How much did I actually improve my life and happiness chasing it? Or, did it actually make me more miserable? How much could I have accomplished if I put the same amount of angst into a different pursuit -- instead of fixing my face, I could have been fixing my art...When it comes to pursuing an unattainable ideal, there is no end to the horror.

So, I suppose, when a group of men (...boys, whatever) realize that "hot women" are a spook, and the the ethereal creature they've been told by society to put on a pedestal is actually not far removed from them, and it shits and farts, it seems very reasonable to feel angry and like you've been taken for a ride by "the system". It can be easy to blame women for this, and hate them. And it's probably easy to get stuck here.

Instead of being perpetually angry, they have to mourn the death of this ethereal spook-woman, and move on with an acceptance of reality as it is. Women, too, have to kill and mourn the spook-woman as part of self-acceptance.

One positive evolution of the makeup fandom is that while the makeup has gotten more intense and elaborate, makeup tutorials have demystified makeup. When tutorials started to become popular, there was a lot of "Excuse my eye-circles, excuse my pimple, excuse my skin, excuse my hair, excuse my lighting, excuse my room, excuse my, excuse my, excuse, excuse, excexcexcexCEXEXEXEXEXEX- *boom*" and thankfully someone eventually came along ($10 says it was a drag queen) and said, "SHUT THE FUCK UP, NOBODY CARES," and eventually the makeup fandom became okay with letting a bare face be a bare face. You wear the makeup, you don't wear the makeup. It doesn't matter. It's just a hobby.

To refer back to my original point, the confusion of makeup (something culturally feminine) with biological femininity has really fucked up both men and women. Everyone is better off extracting the two from one another, and it seems like many people are in the process of doing that. It helps women hate themselves less, and it helps men humanize women and have better relationships.

However, the image of the spook-woman, "10/10 model" is so ingrained in some parts of the culture, as the apex of the vertex of femininity, that despite complaints about how makeup is a lie, discarding that in favor of just a healthy, bare-faced woman feels like embracing post-modernity and a slippery slope to embracing ugliness as beauty. I think the lack of exaggerated femininity that spook-woman makeup provides feels threatening because the woman's face looks more masculine in a purely relative sense. The exaggerated femininity of the spook-woman, as it is for the Evangelical Christians who follow strict gender roles, provides additional separation between the sexes which serves to reassure men who are A) preoccupied with their level of masculinity and B) hyper-aware of their standing toward the bottom of this hierarchy of masculinity. I think the entire hierarchy benefits from them being placated by more separation from women, because if the bottom whatever percent of men are too dissatisfied with their standing, they may start punching upwards or wanting to attack the hierarchy itself. The men at the top don't want that because of the benefits they receive for being at the top.

MGTOW and the incel movement really kicked off after Gamergate, and intensified with subsequent "waves" of feminism. The discontent men direct their frustration at women, but they also direct their frustration at the men not troubled by what women do. There's suddenly a lot of interest in whether you're an alpha, a beta, a gamma, omega, a sigma, a ligma male, etc. and which one is the better type of male to be. There's a lot of hatred for "Chads" and I see a lot of jealousy directed toward men who are married and have families, usually in the form of "She's just gonna divorce you, take half your shit, and then manipulate your kids to hate you. You'll see...you'll realize you should have spent your whole life banging whores."

This all seems like the result of the ol' spending money we don't have to buy things we don't need to impress people we don't like. This is undoubtedly the idealist in me, men and women would be better off to cut each other some slack. We could see one another as fellow tragic, flawed individuals instead of fleshlights and ATMs, escape the Matrix and spit in the faces of our rapist, media elite overlords.

#femininity #performative femininity #mgtow #mass media #makeup #spooks #traditional gender roles #women don't exist #gender roles are a spook #hollywood rapists #jordan peterson #stop putting women on pedestals

[silver-wield]

‪I’m a massive Tifa stan and I don’t care that some people dislike her, like live your best life or whatever. But what gets me and ticks me the fuck off is that they feel the need to let their opinions known on posts that celebrate her. Like wtf bro just scroll away. It’s not hard. Mute her name or something so you’re never subjected to the sight of her. Those posts are spaces to show Tifa love. They are NOT the place to state your (wrong) opnion. We don’t want you here. Go away and stay away.‬

As much as I don't like Aerith, you'll never see me in a post about her going "Tifa's better and I think Aerith is..." because nobody gives a fuck if I don't like Aerith. But morons seem to think it's open season whenever Tifa's mentioned. Like, no, dumdum, we don't wanna hear your 16 tweet rant about why you hate her. Just stfu and keep it in your diary, you sad little neckbeard incels.

Nobody asked for my opinion on Aerith and if I wanna complain about Aerith then I'll make my own damn posts. I actually have Aerith muted because most of what people say about her annoys me. Even a lot of her fans don't understand her character, so that makes me wanna correct them, but as I already said, nobody asked for my opinion, so I mute. It's really not hard to ignore stuff you don't wanna see. People act like such babies on twitter, expecting everyone else to tailor to them. Just grow tf up and sort your tags outs. Because if you're choosing to see stuff about Tifa when you hate her then you're the problem.

#Ship war #For our girl

[knightimehopes]

The Conversation.

Ult Dirk: …

Ult Dirk: I know you’re here, and listening.

Ult Dirk: You have no choice but to listen to this, so save yourself the trouble and show yourself.

Ult Dirk: We need to talk, and I’m not interested in you being a whiny, adamant little shit about it.

Ult Dirk: There you go, the young Prince finally got his ass in gear.

Ult Dirk: It took you long enough, I had thought I’d needed to taunt you out like one of those seductive pole dancers that old Earth apparently liked. Of course, nobody actually cares about that.

Ult Dirk: The web of realities finally connect to bring us to this very moment, tying together into a tapestry of universes showing off our huge ass face as if we needed a huge display of our collective ego any more than we did.

Ult Dirk: Which I did of course.

Ult Dirk: We were meant to speak again, in order to get to the true fucking culspe of our narrative importance.

Dirk: (Jesus fucking Christ.)

Ult Dirk: Look, I’ll get to the point.

Dirk: That’s a first.

Dirk: Thought you were going to suck off your own dick of infinite splinters for fifty hours so you can spout shit about random philosophy I’m pretty sure you don’t actually give a flying fuck about.

Ult Dirk: Do you really want to go down the road of selfcest?

Ult Dirk: I know you hate me, but let’s have mercy on the both of us and not bring that topic into this.

Ult Dirk: I’m not a fan.

Dirk: Aren’t you the motherfucker who said, and I quote;

Dirk: “I had thought I’d needed to taunt you out like one of those seductive pole dancers that old Earth apparently liked.”?

Dirk: I wasn’t the one who began to say the creepiest shit to a sixteen year old version of myself.

Dirk: So grow the fuck up and get to the point.

Ult Dirk: I won’t fall for your childish insults, because you clearly have no idea about the importance of this conversation.

Ult Dirk: I’m pretty sure this is the only point you’ll actually find any relevance in any timeline, and even that is a stretch.

Ult Dirk: You’re not something of worth because of your own actions, and you should honestly be thanking me that I brought you here.

Ult Dirk: Limelight finally shines upon your insignificant self, for the third time mind you.

Ult Dirk: This is your last chance to accept my offer, and I will tell you one. Last. Time.

Ult Dirk: I want you to allow me to use your body as my vessel in your universe.

Ult Dirk: I have my limits on where my influence can get to, as you know. I actually only cared about this timeline having my control dominationg it, at first.

Ult Dirk: But I had an epiphany.

Ult Dirk: Your timeline, among others, is within the Alpha timeline, as surprising as I’m sure you think it is.

Ult Dirk: A gleaming beacon shining through the god damn garbage of dumbass timelines that have no bearing on anyone or anything.

Ult Dirk: So I thought this;

Ult Dirk: You can help me bring your timeline, and universe along with it, to true narrative supremacy alongside mine.

Ult Dirk: Disagree with me if you want, go on ahead, but consider my offer before you decide to make yourself a fucking waste.

Ult Dirk: Everyone benefits from an actual point for existing, Dirk. Your friends are hellbound towards meaninglessness and redundancy, repeating the same old actions and the same old routine. You’ll get sick of it eventually, all of you will.

Ult Dirk: This cannot be stressed enough, you just can’t give up my chance to attain continuous relevancy. People won’t watch a story without enlarged stakes, and my supreme domination with thousands of stories to come will keep us in the public eye for a long, long while.

Ult Dirk: Make your choice wise-

Dirk: Okay, shut the everloving fuck up, please.

Dirk: I’ve had my patience with you the first two times.

Dirk: But it’s worn thin.

Dirk: Nobody is interested in an out of character incel who’s decided that the only way he’ll look appealing is if he cosplays in the worst Kamina cosplay anyone’s seen in decades.

Dirk: No one, and I mean no one, is going to give a fuck about what some random pompous poofy pants asshole says in his psychotic ramblings about some “Narrative” or whatever the fuck you keep spouting on and on with.

Dirk: Speaking of, what the fuck even is this long winded metaphor of yours that you keep on mentioning with readers and stories anyways? It’s gotten old after the first fucking mention of it.

Dirk: There is no goddamn point to anything you’re even saying with it, at least I have a method to the shitty fucking madness that is my life that I put all my friends through.

Dirk: You’re just spouting shit and acting out without even understanding the ramifications or even acknowledging how much of a shithead you come off as instead of how you want to be seen.

Dirk: Everybody knows you’re just putting on the act of being an all knowing holier than thou smug prick, but the only thing you are is a coward who can’t come to terms with anything.

Dirk: We’ve talked too many times, and you told me everything you did, and the only thing you accomplished is disgusting me more and more.

Dirk: I don’t know what got you to this point, how you got so far off the path we promised for ourselves.

Dirk: To be frank, I stopped giving a fuck when you told me what you did to our friends.

Dirk: You turned Jane into a facist Republican propaganda piece with your absolutely deplorable bullshit “narration” powers, you reduced Jake to a goddamn manchild who can’t even stand in front of a crowd without shitting himself.

Dirk: And I don’t even know if this is your fault or Roxy somehow was forced to lose brain cells, but for your Roxy, they’ve been essentially simplified into pink Dave at this goddamn point, not to mention that you’ve insulted them by not even dignifying their identity.

Dirk: That’s not even the beginning, mind you. But the fact that you decided that the people we loved for years deserved to be riduculed, infantalized, demonized, and reduced to imbeciles by your hand is something that you remotely deemed okay? That’s a transgression I can’t be anything but disgusted with you for.

Ult Dirk: You clearly misunderstand how inconsequential all you just criticized me for was and still is.

Ult Dirk: Dirk, misgendering and manipulation means nothing compared to what I have in store.

Ult Dirk: You don’t even have any proof to show that I did it in any case, all everyone knows is that I left on some mission that nobody fucking knows jack on.

Ult Dirk: How bad can I truly be, with just those as my only crimes?

Dirk: Perfect segway into how you kidnapped Rose, corrupted her, and manipulated her wife into believing everything I just stated and more was fucking okay by her when she clearly didn’t, and now she wants to fucking murder you, and so on.

Dirk: Not to mention, John Egbert.

Ult Dirk: I didn’t do anything to John.

Ult Dirk: Bare in mind that it still was useful for getting the Seer of Mind on my side, regardless of the blame for his death. Seriously, how the hell did I do anything to a guy far out of my reach?

Dirk: Sure, because you totally didn’t bullshit the concept of “Cherub Poison” that essentially one shot kills god tiers and completely bypasses our complete bullshit deus ex machina known as conditional immortality.

Dirk: Either way, doesn’t excuse that you used his death to manipulate a grieving woman either. I can go on, but seriously.

Dirk: It baffles me that you think any of this fucking shit is remotely excuseable. We’re done here.

Dirk: Get a life, you sorry sack of shit. You don’t even deserve any of the similes turned defemations or symbolic insults I can come up with right now.

Ult Dirk: You go when I say you go.

Ult Dirk: You want to play a game?

Ult Dirk: Fine.

Ult Dirk: I’ll humor you.

Ult Dirk: I want to-

Dirk: -Play a game in which I’m still a piece of shit trying to manipulate another person around him into his twisted schemes.

Dirk: That’s what you should have gone on to end it with. Because we know it’s the truth.

Dirk: Real fucking original line, by the way. Want to pull out the bro vs. bro strife drama out of your ass to add on to the shitty callback cake? Just sprinkle that shit on there?

Ult Dirk: You’ll never understand, will you?

Dirk: I could honestly say the same to you, especially when you try to look like the king of the weaboo neckbeards.

Ult Dirk: Don’t compare me to Tegiri Kalbur.

Dirk: Who the hell even is that? You know what, don’t care.

Dirk: What I’m saying is that despite your reasoning of this being all important because you’re suddenly the villain now out of left field, doesn’t explain how this has remotely any point to even happen in the first place.

Dirk: If you wanted relevance through this Sburb session you’re trying to set up, then think about it. Would anyone have complained about you going off to make some new alien species on a new planet? I doubt they actually would have, if you didn’t go off and specifically piss off everyone in your five hundred thousand mile vicinity.

Dirk: Hell, I guarantee some people would have wanted to help you out with some of this shit, it probably would have been an entertaining experience for some of the more scientifically minded folks in our social circle.

Dirk: Not that you care, you’ve made that pretty evident.

Ult Dirk: I’m not letting you leave.

Ult Dirk: This decision has long left your capability to effect it. I gave you your chances to assimilate with me willingly, and you chose to shit on my offers time and time again.

Ult Dirk: So you’ve left me no choice but to beat you down myself, and make sure you finally understand your place, and your role in the frameworks of my greatest masterpiece.

Ult Dirk: My words explaining to you how you don’t understand weren’t me flexing the muscles of my ego in your face, Dirk. It was an explanation on how futile your resistance truly is.

Ult Dirk: Come at me bro. We’ll make this happen.

Dirk: Finally, some words we can agree on.

Ult Dirk: And I’ll cut this off for the dumbass posting this to Tumblr of all places with a nice, shoddily made callback.

Seriously, Tumblr? You have a fanfic you can just as easily post all this to on AO3, you could have made your own website, but you chose Tumblr. This is what I get when I let a sixteen year old have the reigns.

If you want some context on this motherfucker, too bad. I’m not promoting shit for this child who thinks that my work is child’s play written by a band of idiots. They can do it themselves.

The next page will be up soon, so you can truly see who’s in charge here.

Until this bastard finishes the art, Dirk Strider, signing off. (God, that was the most moronic sentence I’ve had the displeasure to say. Of course they need me to sign off this way.)

Pg 1. You are Here

Pg 2. Coming Soon

Divergent Reality so far:

#hs2 #hs2 negativity #hsadr #homestuck act divergent reality #hsadr upd8 #this is more of a side project related to hsadr #it’s not fully relevant to the story #hence being here! #myart #homestuck #dirk strider #ult dirk #ultimate dirk

[curvedroygbiv]

JK Rowling is dominating my dash right now. And not that any one cares about my 2 cents, but -

JK Rowling is an excellent case study of authorial intent, changing social tides, and the debate between bad representation vs good representation. 

But I think there’s one other thing that get’s lost in there, I dunno if there’s a real term for it, but it’s how people grow and evolve over time, and how the internet makes that both harder and easier. 

I didn’t grow up in an ultra conservative or overly bigoted environment, but it’s easy to absorb a lot of those values and ideas just from the background radiation that is mainstream media. I wouldn’t be who I am today with out the internet, and all the people on it, who laid down the foundation of education, activism, and really just sharing stories of their own lives as real people who are impacted by oppression and injustice so I can be exposed to experiences outside my own bubble. I know “keyboard activist” is thrown around like it’s an insult these days, but I’ll never not be aware that online discourse and tumblr specifically has shaped my political and world views more than anything else. 

It didn’t happen overnight. It wasn’t pretty. Shedding layer after layer of what I know now are mainstream anti-feminism and bigotry was a long and awkward process. I can put my foot in my mouth easily and often talking about everyday topics; trying to wade through forums and blogs and comments was always going to have me opening my big mouth to say something I’m not proud of. But you know what? I learned. I grew. And most of those conversations exist now only in my memories, an anonymous nobody drowned in obscurity, lost to time, sometimes bombed from orbit as a site shuts down or is wiped out. No big loss, to be honest. 

But what if they weren’t? What if I was a celebrity? What if everything I wrote or typed was immortalized and canonized and put on display for the world to see? What if my words, good or bad, existed forever and ever, for people to dig up and use as “proof” that this is what I said and believed then, so It must be what I believe now?

In short, What if i was JK Rowling?

Joanne Katherine Rowling has never been a perfect person or a perfect author. Her books were always flawed. She never did enough, never did it right, never created anything that wasn’t problematic somehow. Her works are a reflection of who she was and what she believed in the moment. But am I supposed to think that they are a reflection of who she is today? 13 years ago she wrote a redemption arc for an incel, retconned a straight character gay after the fact, flubbed an aids metaphor, flubbed a slavery metaphor, and tied off a series about anti-fascism with “and then they did nothing about any of the underlying causes and had babies ever after the end”. 13 years ago I was a dumbass voicing my dumbass opinions on representation, affirmative action, religion, and really really wanted to make sure that I “wasn’t like other girls”. Oh, god, the fanfiction, the homophobia in my fan fiction, cackling as I pwned the yaoi fangirls for having such dumb opinions about /my/ favorite characters. 

Am I a bad person? Are those long-forgotten footprints an indelible mark on my character?

Intent isn’t magic. “But I’m different now” is the empty rancid promise of every fan-favorite character that gets an undeserved redemption arc. “oh, it was different time, that’s just how things were” is wrong for straight white men and it’s wrong for everyone else. But if change is worth doing then it has to have some value somewhere. If someone interacted with me or my online presence they would have a very different picture of what I believe and who I am, compared to what they would have gotten 13 years ago. It would be almost impossible to dig up my old comments and indiscretions and link them back to me. I would almost appear to have been born full formed at the exact level of “woke” that I am today. Ironically as a internationally renowned celebrity and millionaire this is one luxury JK Rowling can never have.

I’m not going to pretend that contributing to the ugliness in the word is something the perpetrators can put behind them when they fell like they, personally, have moved beyond that. And just because people change doesn’t mean they always change for the better. But 13 years is  a long time to be absorbing and studying and evolving, and the internet makes it easier every day to interact with tens of thousands of people who’s lives and testimonies you never would have encountered if you were just meeting them in person one by one. A lot has happened in 13 years too. We take for granted that “woke” media has a chance to get published, for one thing. We seem to have forgotten that once upon a time her books were already so controversial as to be banned over and over. 

So yeah. She wrote a lot of fat characters as being evil and slovenly, compared to thin characters being, if not good, at least intelligent and worthwhile. She had every last Slytherin, right down to the first years, slink off instead of fighting in the final fight. She had Voldemort be “born evil” because of something his parents were on when he was conceived. She had Ron/Hermione as endgame and then said that she regretted it and they would probably never work out long term. She named a child Albus Severus and expected people to be good with that. Why the fuck did she think we needed to know about wizard toilets? She is, and continues to be, an imperfect person and problematic writer. But to pretend that she, in 2020, can’t possibly be sympathetic to LGB issues, well-informed on trans activism, and more committed than ever to feminism and the liberation of women, just because 13 years ago she didn’t have the foresight to put more empty performative sjw talking points into an already bloated manuscript? 

I’m standing /right here/. 

[littlebabycrybtch]

bro..... im sooo tired of ppl being whiny freaks about ppl liking fictional shit ‘~too much~’. like bitches are literally fully convinced if you prefer acting out certain ideas in fiction but not irl, thats not your normal preferential boundaries but rather your brain is a mental illness BOMB and you need to be fucking hospitalized for being imaginative and having autonomy. like yall if its not taboo or smth shut uuuuhp man you’re not ‘concerned for their health’ or w/e you’re fully just tryna get away with being a nihilistic asshole who lacks sympathetic reasoning skills. listen to me. fiction is valuable. the thoughts we have on it are important. the personal lack of value you happen to put on a media is next to worthless. its not a fuckin waste of time dude, creators are people, who live in the real world, they experience it and have ideas through it and about it, they form and tweak their ideas while still definitely existing in the real world, and then put that back into the world with a new angle and new perspective, to share with other people definitely encountering it in , you guessed it , the real world. thats not disconnected. its not nothing. these things do not magically appear from fairytale land, they are created. stories mean smth, people tell them for a reason, its ok to feel smth for any story, why would we even tell them if not with the intention to impact others emotionally somehow i mean??? fiction does not Just affect reality, it is valuable to real life society, it is a functioning thriving part OF reality. 

humans have told stories since the dawn of our existence. it is literally all but an inherent species trait for us to imagine things, its tied to each and every one of us, and to reject ‘fantasy’ as smth worthless to human life is frankly just fuckin wrong and weird of you. bitch we are Supposed to get outside the box, the fandom ppl you cringe your pants over arent thinking abt fake shit too much, you guys very often just arent exercising abstract thought and imagination enough, which actually hurts your ability to engage with it critically in all the ways its meant to be. if you dont see the value in fiction its because you put in no effort to form the analysis skills. in other words, you idiots dont get the hype bc you’re too stupid to get how you're supposed to compare a book to the real world it came from. ‘uu but cmon not everythings valuable what about [tumblr designated cringe media]-’ 1. ok! somehow you havent come to this conclusion yourself yet but thats not real, whatever ppl get to enjoy is not all abt you, your bias means less than dirt to others outside of hivemind social medias, you can keep it to yourself, ppl shouldnt care about it bc it means nothing outside of ur own space, its literally funny to me that you’re so elitist you want me to cater my interests to you, Your Standard Of Quality Isnt Universal, 2. ranking the values of fiction is the waste of time here, if you compare mlp to pride and prejudice ill dissect your teeth, different emotional impacts from tragic to funny to Just A Vibe are all able to be assessed as ‘valuable to somebody else so leave well enough alone’ if you dont have 2010+ funnyman brainrot disease that makes you incapable of reflecting on anything you can find a way to joke abt first.

i mean seriously like. whenever randos start engaging with medias you ppl dont like or in ways you dont get, the strawmans yall make up to get to be cringe culture vultures abt such benign shit, and almost Always at the expense of neurodivergent people with a deeply rooted undertone of extreme ableism might i add..... its just so selfish. u have a brain ok, you’re manipulative but we both know you dont Actually think ppl automatically default to being a waifu obsessed incel rotting away at their basement computer, stagnating their social skills and straying further and further from reality with each passing day, a poor disturbed wretch that you just HAVE to save from themselves, all bc they say they. prefer fictional porn or w/e to having sex irl. buddy thats not a big deal, theyre normal, just different from you. theyre fine, you’re just uncomfortable. as a functioning adult you’re gonna have to try and recognize that sometimes that feelings gonna be 100% on you, and you cant always just lie abt the validity of it to make ppl feel obligated into agreeing with you. this is gonna be one fragment of their personhood and your self obsessed brain imploding over how unrelatable that is doesnt fucking matter, grow up bitch like. how detached do you have to be to think thats so unstable or morally wrong.... its just a completely inconsequential preferential decision that only affects them and isnt a wrong choice at all cuz nobody has to get their dick wet if they dont wanna for any reason ever and thats gotta be that tbh.... and it kills me cuz they still inherently experience the real world and are capable of thinking abt it critically,,, even tho they... masturbate to drawings or w/e the fuck ppl think is unhealthy ???? like? imagination is just fun we dont need to moderate it anymore than we moderate other fun activities i mean lol ksdjfsd this is the DEFINITION of ‘just vibing’ no one FUCKING cares and it deosnt fucking matter the way you desperately try to make ppl think it does just so u get to be loud abt ur shortcomings as a decent understanding person. 

‘uuuuuu im sorry but thats unhealthy :///’ you sound like a goddamn maniac dude stories are not unhealthy having feelings abt them is not unhealthy thinking some anime bitch that was DRAWN TO BE HOT , IS HOT, is not UNHEALTHY and you clowns arent convincing anybody you ‘care’ abt that concept anyways !! im losign my mind here skdlsdfsd medias are literally DESIGNED TO DO THIS TO PEOPLE... WE’RE SUPPOSED TO FEEL THINGS FOR IT.... IT IS WHAT MAKES THE ART WE’VE TAKEN PART IN FOR CENTURIES, “ART”.... ITS JUST... HAVING IDEAS AND EXPERIENCING IMAGINATION..... whats wildly unhealthy actually is yalls toxic obsession with ‘harsh truth’ and validating your stupid ass cwinge feewings to the point where everything that gives your underdeveloped selfish ass hives has to be a matter of health and morals and whats ‘best’ for everyone. u dont know that shit!!!! ur a petty brat and im not ur mommy ok i wont baby you so u dont feel like the shitty whiny person you are, you need to grow and do better and think outside urself already, dont put the responsibility of making u feel right for judging somebodies benign hobbies on me. i wont bc its wrong and unnecessary. you’re not a savior no ones falling for that lmao you’re just a bitch girl xoxo get over it shit truly does not matter. let them write nsfw self insert fics instead of banging !! 

to make it real do yall really not Get that basic consent kinda doesnt just mean ‘no when im not in the mood at the time’ but it means ‘no if i just dont fuckin feel like having sex ever for literally any reason at all bc i choose what i do’ and pressuring them, even with what your warped brain translates as the best of intentions, is inherently disgusting? especially with the ‘i know how to help you’ attitude like......... ohhh die soonly ew lmao! lay off this nasty shit already please it doesnt matter! stop trying to make it matter!! its not hurting you or them you stupid tumblr phd ass!! and like again yeah some media shits just truly gross but tbr now its like even That kind of shit, the Real social issues caused by Actually problematic media that ppl should discuss Genuinely without ulterior motives, is being used more and more rampantly as just a stepping stone to get to the needless mockery of other harmless things in the media they want an excuse to bag on.......... like a bitch cant just be grown and talk about problems at face value without getting a bully jab in. smhhhhh you all fuckin suck please just stop talking already. so anyways yeah being attracted to fictional characters instead of real people or w/e IS funny, funny how many boyfriends they have when u have none xoxo theyre having fun and you can die sad abt it they get to die 5 times in an angsty fantasy fic and be brought back with mouth to mouth by fuckin kakashi every time and then they go get lunch irl while ur updating tinder bitch ... different fucking strokes ig !

#long post// #i would like one free ticket to pop off please. thank you #can i cash it in immediately if you dont mind

[coinofstone]

Mint Condition 14x04

If you follow me on the tweety you’ll know that I made a pathetic attempt at a full season re-watch starting in like… September. I got as far as the end of S5 before S15 began, but given my severe case of swiss cheese brain I decided to pause the full series re-watch there and pick up at 14x01. I figured it’ll be faster to get through S14 for a refresher and then go back to S6. Shut up my logic makes sense to me.  ANYwho, Mint Condition is probably my second favorite episode of S14 and definitely an overall series stand out for me - even tho I did have terrible nightmares after the first time I watched it. That fuckin dummy was goddamn terrifying and my subconscious was REALLY GODDAMNED SURE he was going to kill me in my sleep. I’m happy to report i had zero issues sleeping after watching it this time. :) Altho watch I just jinxed myself, since I am gonna watch again as I write this to pull quotes and screens.  You can tell I’ve been looking up recipes cuz theres a massive intro nobody gives a shit about before I get to the point of the post. NEVER FEAR! The good bits are under the cut. 

Let me just start by pointing out that while I do believe that Stuart is a mirror for Cas, The whole toxic fanboy/incel/chan troll shtick isnt reflective of Cas as a person in the way we (I) would normally judge someone like that.  I’m not sure if it’s because Davy actually sympathizes with and sees no harms in humanizing those people, or if it was for the fun of playing with a character like that, but there certainly are some parallels there - in the sense that even within his own community he’s  a misfit, rebellious, and argumentative. either way, the trench coat is pretty damning. 

Girl Sam comments that the store had been left to her and Dirk, but Stuart had been fired twice, the previous owner kept catching him stealing. But they hired him back because “he’s my friend”. That forgiveness, Stuart’s bad choices and lack of ‘impulse control’ it’s all reflective of Cas, even though it paints Cas in an unnecessarily negative light, on the surface it’s arguable but not entirely wrong. When Stuart pulls out the Panthro toy, his response is: “so angry, so handsome” and damn if that doesnt describe Dean lol.The fact that the first thing we see him do is steal this handsome, angry figure from the place it was sent is just another Dean detail. 

Hey you know who else got stabbed in the gut like that and almost died?

These two are the strongest mirror in the ep. Bonding over candy, shared fashion sense and a love of horror flicks, Dirk tells Dean (those names) that he wants to ‘watch over’ Stuart while he is unconscious, and that despite his rough edges, Stuart has been there for him, giving him a place to crash and escape his shitty father. Which, I mean, this is heavy handed as fuck, presumably to make sure the GA doesn’t miss it, but seriously all this kid needs is an American classic muscle car and a love of Led Zeppelin. 

This where I 

curse my inability to gif because it’s the sublest of moments here but when Dirk asks Dean which of the All Saints Day movies is his favorite, Dean throws a quick glance over his shoulder, as if to make sure nobody is listening. He’s so used to hiding this side of himself, the nerd, the fanboy, that even though he’s a grown ass man that regularly kills supernatural evils, he instinctively looks around real quick to make sure he won’t get caught having this conversation. It’s heartbreaking, and I think, attributable entirely to Jensen - but that’s entirely spec on my part. He does this three times in this scene, before finally getting comfortable and enjoying Dirk’s company. Jesus you’d think he was engaging in some kind of elicit trade the way he’s got his head on a swivel. Poor thing. 

“growing up it was always nice to check out for while… I like to watch movies where I know the bad guys’s gonna lose.” Dean’s preferred method of escapism is relatable, sure, but  he’s also point blank telling us right here, WHY he’s been hiding out in his room watching these movies, he’s self-soothing. He’s just revealed that he was awake and drowning the entire time he was possessed by Michael, he doesn’t know why he was ‘released’ but he knows he came home to find a ‘house full of strangers’. The fact that his self care at this point is pizza, beer and movies the way he did as a kid rather than cheap whiskey, the way we’ve seen him do as an adult, probably speaks volumes to how actually affected he really is.  

Dean being the one to wrestle with the father figure - the owner of the store who taught them everything they know before his death, leaving them the business to run and then possessing the lifesize figure of a mechanic who’d been literally burned in order to get revenge on the one who’d been stealing from them - I hate the idea of a John vs Cas parallel and I don’t think it was intended to go that deep, but there’s no denying a paralell between the ghost of Jordan and John.  

The thread on these two, in my opinion, is a little thin. Beyond the ‘ha ha Sam’s a girl’ joke, and their shared science nerd bit here, the main thing really is that even though the store was left to Sam AND Dirk, it seems like Sam is the defacto leader. She’s the one we see dealing with the incoming delivery, she’s the one behind the counter, and she’s the one who called Stuart to call him out on their one star yelp review. At this point in the season, Sam Winchester is the defacto leader of the new hunter collective he’s inadvertently assembled by way of rescue hunters from Apocalypse World. She also demonstrates Sam’s usual ‘lore’ skills, figuring out that it’s the keys that the ghost is most likely tied to, and finding a chemical in the morgue to use as an accelerant to help rescue Dean. That’s literally all I’ve got on them two. 

This is random, but the significance of that poster has been bugging me since the live airing of this ep. I do not understand that reference and it’s driving me bonkers, so if anyone does, PLEASE TELL ME. 

🙃 I really hope I don’t have nightmares tonight. That mask on the dummy is fucking horrible. 

#supernatural #spn meta #spn 14x04 #spn mint condition #spn s14 #destiel positive #spn spoilers #spn #i really fucking hate tags #supernatural 14x04 #not proofread #a year late but still good #ok i give up #fuck tags #character parallels #MetaCoin

[dirtmound]

@rabiesgender IN THAT FIC THEOLOGICAL MAGIC IS CONFIRMED FOR REAL TOO!!!

and stigmata is like a thing that has dubiously happened to people IRL because human bodies are weird but NOBODY JUST COUGHS UP FLOWERS. THATS NOT A THING. People can get unexplained medical conditions just fine and Catholicism is, like, a real thing that exists, as does a whole plethora of Catholicism-based horror media wherein the devil and spirits and exorcists and blah blah are all like… Really Real Shit. Just because its bandom fanfic doesn’t mean it doesn’t belong to a well-established genre or that it doesnt have both internal and external consistency!!! It has precedent!

Hanahaki is PURELY fanfiction trope and ITS NOT EVEN INTERESTING. Oh your crush doesnt love you back so now you either have to not love them (AS IF FEELINGS COULD BE SURGICALLY REMOVED!) or just fucking die???????????? What??????? (Or take your chances and hope they confess – because somehow fate knows that your love is unrequited, but not when its… not? IS HANAHAKI JUST IN YOUR HEAD? IS IT LIKE WHEN YOU RLY BELIEVE UR PREGNANT SO UR BODY STARTS DOING PREGNANCY STUFF BUT INSTEAD YOU THINK UR AN INCEL?)

I would accept this if in hanahaki AUs humans were like more plant-entwined creatures. Like, are we linked to flowers in some tangible way – hell, some metaphysical way??? Are there ANY OTHER human illnesses that result in some form of manifestation of plants? Why, why not? (Whichever you pick better have a good explanation!!!!) HOW DO FLOWERS GROW IN A HUMANS LUNGS. HEY. HOW DO THEY DO THAT.

Flowers and disease arent esoteric things closely associated with things we can’t be entirely sure are real like destiny or magic! Flowers and disease are well-studied, documented things in our world, we know how they work! “Humans are marked with their soulmate in some way” is fine to me because soul mates aren’t #Confirmed in real life, and ARE something tied to destiny and/or magic (as is every trope involving souls)! Flowers need dirt and light and carbon dioxide. NONE OF THOSE ARE IN YOUR LUNGS! Unless these flowers are made of flesh (WONDERFUL TAKE) then its just too silly. Its just too silly. Unless you go the extra mile and say humans also bleed flowers or that we are born from flowers or that when we’re born our souls are linked to a flower and we must take care of it because if it gets sick so do we and if it dies we die or that humans actually just grow flowers in their lungs normally and thats just part of how we function (still: why. how) and coughing them up is SERIOUSLY INCORRECT HUMAN FUNCTIONING then its just cmmexuakrbxijwfusoj3coedhxhwk because i can accept “because its fate” “because god wills it” “etc as answers for a LOT of tropes but neither fate nor god compel you to cough up flowers it just doesnt make any sense fate and god are very logical agents of creation and universe managing

Its a fanfic trope that was created entirely to facilitate needlessly drawn out angst fics (unrequieted pining is not a trope i enjoy on its own, admittedly, which im sure affects my opinion on this flavor of unrequited pining…) and cliche sad-boy-coughing-up-flowers fanart. Im sorry.

A version i’d be more willing to accept but one i rarely see is "Hanahaki is olden folklore and people think of it the same way they think of vampires” so someone actually gets it and its like shit this is a real thing? But then we cant have the medical procedure because there isnt vampire healthcare either. VAMPIRES STILL MAKE MORE SENSE THAN HANAHAKI THOUGH!!!

#NOTE I DONT CARE LIKE WHAT YOU LIKE

[blackswallowtailbutterfly]

I unfriended someone on Facebutt several weeks ago and it’s still bugging me. Not losing her, we weren’t that close, but just the attitude that led to it. That so many people have it in one way or another.

Like, there are so many people who claim to be against sexual assault and to care about true consent and if you asked they would say no one is entitled to sex. 

But then you dig deep (or they bring it up on their own). You say you’re against the sex industry because it exploits and abuses women and children and somewhere down that conversation, if it goes on long enough, they’ll say some disabled men can’t get sex any other way. You say there’s nothing wrong with people choosing to only date people who are sexually compatible with them and at some point they’ll say that one partner should be willing to try and teach the other partner before deciding it’s a no-go. You say it’s understandable that some people only want to date people who share certain lifetime experiences specific to an aspect they were born with with them, and eventually they’ll say homosexual people who only want to date other homosexual people are being unfair. You say people’s preferences when it comes to the people they want to be sexual with are no nobody’s business but their own and that preferences can widen or change over time as the person grows and changes, and they’ll say this is ableist, lookist, racist, heightist, etc.. You say sexual orientation is immutable and no one should attempt to alter it and they say it’s just a preference based on “misconceptions of sex and gender” and that it’s bigoted not to try and unlearn it. You say personalities are nice and compatible personalities are all that’s needed for friendship but that romantic relationships should have physical attraction to, and they’ll say that’s shallow and to think of all the nice people that might never get to have romantic relationships just because they aren’t attractive. You say it’s perfectly fine if someone never ever gets to have sex at all with anyone in any form via any media, and they lose their mind.

Because, clearly, they don’t totally believe no one is entitled to sex. They don’t actually support affirmative consent. What they support is that any man who could get consensual sex if he made the effort should do that and has no excuse to sexually assault someone. That’s what they believe, that’s why they’re against incels, it’s why they agree bosses and teachers should never hit on their subordinates, it’s why they agree rape is rape no matter what the woman was wearing or what time she was out, it’s why they agree it’s not acceptable to take advantage of a drunk woman, and they agree that prostituted women should be taken seriously when they report rape.

But in every situation where the sex-seeker has a prized Marginalized IdentityTM, there’s wiggle room (often at the expense of other marginalized people, but they’re not important of course). Because it’s not fair that a wheel-chair-bound man with no arms can’t masturbate. It’s not fair that an inexperienced man who genuinely wants to learn how to be a good lover was turned down for another date by the woman he fingered badly on the last one. How is he going to learn? Don’t you know that’s your responsibility? And as for incels - nobody likes them - what’s their problem anyway? Why can’t they just hire a prostituted woman? Because prostituted women should be subjected to these creeps, obviously. Well someone has to do it. If men don’t have pornography and prostituted women, they’ll just rape! The ones who do it anyway? Well they have no excuse. Not that there’s an excuse! It’s just that...rape is rape, except when it isn’t, and then what is coercion really? And don’t minimum wage jobs suck too? And no means no, of course, but really you should examine why you’re saying no, and since so many people claim to have examined and are still saying no, that definitely means they haven’t examined enough. And look, if you already have a small dating pool, how DARE you exclude anyone even if they actually have a larger dating pool and are much more likely to end up with someone not in your dating pool, and that’s your fault, you see. How are they to end up otherwise if you won’t date them?

I’m rambling, but fuck. No one, not one single person, is entitled to sex, ever. I don’t care what the situation is. I don’t care if there no other options open to you, that the alternative to not coercing or guilting or bribing someone into sex is that you get no sex at all. You not getting sex is a you problem, only a you problem. No one else is obligated to help you with that.

[loyoo391]

Bitter butthurt black women who hate interracial dating (especially from my kar-jenner queens) need to suck a fucking dick and get over it. I love the girls even though their pr team suckssssss and need to step it up to protect my girls lmao. But back to the point. Woke black women are some of the most bitter and disgusting girls i have ever seen ever in life and have spewed some of the most hateful rhetoric i have ever seen. And this is coming from a black women. But here’s my main complaints

• The whole “they only fuck you and fetishize you but won’t love you” is a woke version of the nice guy syndrome. You want a cookie and demand to be wifed because you don’t have any biases against black men? Seriously? Whats the difference between that mentality and the nice guy syndrome? Nobody owes you shit. And this whole “they will never love you so stay on this side and dont go anywhere” is the same rhetoric abusive men use to make sure their abused wives don’t leave.

• Why do yall INSIST that yall will love and raise mixed kids better than the white women that give birth to them? There is SO much that goes into parenting- more than just race issues. You’re literally responcible for bringing a whole human being into this world and raising them to become a functioning member of society. And here’s the truth: white women do NOT need permission slips from the black community to have black kids. Literally there are millions of checklists that go into parenting. The only difference when it comes to raising a chuld of a different race is: don’t be racist, learn to do hair (every race has to learn to do that tbh), and be there for them if they discuss racism (tbh every parent is supposed to be there for their kids if theu discuss a tough time). That’s it.

• If the same amount of races found us attractive we would be with the interracial dating shit. Don’t lie. (And tbh they probably do, we (especially me) just have work harder to get that attention). It’s so easy to get caught up in incel culture and create a victim complex. But lets be real, its a setback but i feel like if we work hard and present ourselves well...then we’ll be fine. Soon as i lose this weight i’m back in the game baby. 😎

• Yall actually just hate interracial dating and just want to hide a “woke” reason behind it to seem justified. Periodt.

• BLACK WOMEN FETISHIZE BLACK MEN AS MUCH AS WHITE WOMEN DO. Literally what’s wrong with thinking black guys are hot? All the reasons yall say yall hate white women for are shit YALL do. Yall sit there and say yall hate when they say they love black dick but YALL say yall love black dick soooooo what is the issue???? Yall will sit there and THIRST over lance gross and odell beckums brown skin but if a white girl does the SAME shit yall call foul play? And don’t sit there and say “okay well we actually LOVE and CARE and RESPECT our black men”. What? People love others on an individual basis. You can’t come and convince a white wife that black women love and respect her black husband MORE than the white wife will. You just can’t do that. Oh and stop demanding to be shown love from married black men in interracial relationships. Someone who’s married doesn’t owe you shit.

• The reasons yall give black men to not date outside their race are just as blantabtly stupid and the reasons people use to give for not dating black women. “Don’t date them bc they cant season their food or do black hair!!!” This is a LEARNED trait. Yall acting like they literally couldn’t just get up at any given moment and time and learn how to season their food or do black hair. Also, black women didn’t come out of the womb knowing all the things they know about seasoning food and doing hair. They learned. And white woman can equally learn too. Just because they didnt grow up doing it doesn’t mean they won’t learn. And you see all those youtube videos on how to do black hairstyles? You reslly think its majority white women watching this? NO its majorty black women. So idk why yall call out white women for not being able to do black hair when yall cant do it either. Did YALL black women do every single hairstyle on your black child? No. You took them to a salon because you didn’t know how to do it yourself. So why do white women of mixed kids who can’t do hair get more slander when black women with black kids can’t do black hair either. Garunteed, black girls obviously have more experience due to dealing with their own hair but my point still stands. These generic ass reason are just as stupid as the people who used to say “dont date black girls bc they don’t wear their natural hair out and they wear wigs” or “you cant go swimming with black girls” or dumb shit. As if them wearing protective hairstyles is the be-all, end-all, dealbreaker. Such a stupid reason. Stop convincing people to be afraid of love.

• also the whole “the non-black family wont accept you” shit is dumb. Whose to say the black family will accept me? There could be a plethora of reasons a family couldnt accept me, from me being buddhist instead of catholic or for my job profession or my personality or just cultural differences or mannerisms in general. This could happen in any family of any race. The only difference is in a black family, the only thing you won’t have to worry about is racism. Not to say that racism is a small thing bc racism is a big deal. But like...you’re not automatically going to be accepted by a family because yall are the same race. Wtf.

• Yall actually do just hate interracial dating. Its not for a justified reason. I know this because there are black men who actually have never said or done a single harmful thing to black women or the black comunity (dwayne the rock johnson, and other men) and yall STILL hate them. So clearly yall just hate just to hate.

• i love the last part of the post. Its not white womens fault that black men bash black girls. They aren’t at fault for that. And tbh i have seen lots of white women say nice things about my hair meanwhile james and kyles dumbass from burger king bashed me. Thats why you can’t convince me that cultural appropriation is inheritly a bad thing bc i went my whole life being seen as ugly. Now people love me and my hair and people wanna convince me that’s a bad thing? And i get the whole “they praise it on them and bash it on us” mentality. Bc that sucks. But Like we can call out the people bashing black women for it. Not the white girls who think is pretty.

White women, continue to date and fuck whoever. Honestly nobody cares. There is zero difference between black women wanting to fuck black guys bc they think they’re hot and white women wanting to fuck black guys bc they think they’re hot.

#loyooreddit