✨️ Tag Game Tuesday ✨️
Guess who, guys? I know, it's been ages. I was tagged by @celestialmickey and @tanktopgallavich to participate in this tag game, thank you my dears! I was also tagged in many others in my absence, which I feel too overwhelmed to complete but want you all to know I appreciate it so, so much! 💖
Name: Lyds 🌿
Age: 30s
Pronouns: She/her
Your sun sign, MBTI type, and enneagram type (google them if you’re not sure!): Taurus, INFJ-T and 5w4
How tall are you? 5'9, which I feel is gigantic around these parts
What color are your eyes? Brown
The last time you saw a movie in theaters (bonus: what was it?): The Banshees of Inisherin a few months back
Favorite dessert: Oof, this is hard. Perhaps chocolate lava cake, I like them decadent and chocolaty 🤎
Outer space or the ocean? Ocean, space is too intimidating to me
You’re in a McDonald’s drive thru, what are you ordering? Those nuggets stuffed with brie they sometimes carry
Are you good with plants? Not in the slightest, my place does not get enough light and I forget someone gifted me with one most of the time
Would your current self and high school self get along? I think so, I'm a pretty consistent person
A food you can’t stand: Tofu, the texture is just bleh
Something you’d do if money were no object: Travel all over the world
The last app you opened on your phone (tumblr doesn’t count!): Spotify 🎵
And finally, compliment yourself! You're emotionally intelligent, a talented writer and have good ideas.
I’m super out of the loop, but tagging @look-i-love-u, @howlinchickhowl, @mishervellous, @metalheadmickey, @ian-galagher , @francesrose3, @juliakayyy, @thepupperino, @gallawitchxx, @heymrspatel, @lizelandre and anyone who sees this and would like to play! Love to all 💙✨️
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Yes, I’m alive. And I’m back. Just too tired to explain everything.
But I’m happy as I haven’t been in a long while.
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love when men cry about body hair bc "it's hygiene" and yet 15% of cis men leave the bathroom without washing their hands at all and an additional 35% only just wet their hands without using soap. that is nearly half of all men. that means statistically you have probably shaken hands with or been in direct contact with one of these people.
love when men say that women "only want money" when it turns out that even in equal-earning homes, women are actually adding caregiver burdens and housework from previous years, whereas men have been expanding leisure time and hobbies. in equal-earning households, men spend an average of 3.5 hours extra in leisure time per week, which is 182 hours per year - a little over a week of paid vacation time that the other partner does not receive. kinda sounds like he wants her money.
love that men have decided women are frail and weak and annoying when we scream in surprise but it turns out it's actually women who are more reliable in an emergency because men need to be convinced to actually take action and respond to the threat. like, actually, for-real: men experience such a strong sense of pride about their pre-supposed abilities that it gets them and their families killed. they are so used to dismissing women that it literally kills them.
love it. told my father this and he said there's lies, damned lies, and statistics. a year ago i tried to get him to evacuate the house during a flash flood. he ignored me and got injured. he has told me, laughing, that he never washes his hands. he has said in the last week that women are just happier when we're cooking or cleaning.
maybe i'm overly nostalgic. but it didn't used to feel so fucking bleak. it used to feel like at least a little shameful to consider women to be sheep. it just feels like the earth is round and we are still having conversations about it being flat - except these conversations are about the most obvious forms of patriarchy. like, we know about this stuff. we've known since well before the 50's.
recently andrew tate tried to justify cheating on his partner as being the "male prerogative." i don't know what the prerogative for the rest of us would be. just sitting at home, watching the slow erosion of our humanity.
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a trans woman gets wrongfully deleted, falsely accused of making threats and is harassed by automattic's ceo, after years of trans women talking about how they are constantly having to deal with things like this, and days later, someone pedojackets another trans woman because they failed to read her website rules in their entirety, and less that a month after that, someone pedojackets yet another trans woman because of a months-old comment replying to a stranger, which she has already addressed repeatedly. not a fucking thing has been learned.
respect trans women. support trans women. actually treat them like human beings deserving of compassion and reflect on how public accusations of wrongdoings do not accomplish anything good, and are especially harmful to trans women, whether they're true or not (and most of the time, they're not true). and yes, love trans women too, but that goal cannot be reached without everything else.
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