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prettyboyprincely · 2 months
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And, in a shocking turn of events, it turns out the “anti groomer” crowd is okay with child abuse, so long as it is a cis person doing it
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This is the world they want. A world where they can use violence to force children to conform to them.
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theballadofdrjekyll · 2 years
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Verbal abuse is just as real and hurtful as physical abuse
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I'm thinking about how Wilburs fantasy wasn't triggered by Tommy tellin Wilbur he'd been abused, it was triggered because he'd almost lost Tommy.
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orcelito · 2 years
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Going thru my phone browser tabs. I got too many open. Things I've been reading but abandoned halfway through for whatever reason, or things I set aside for later but no longer am interested in. Some things still seem good, but I'm trying to be semi-strict about it. If I have no real interest in going back to it, it's gone.
Of course, I found that one fic that kinda... fucked me up. The one that turned abusive, was tagged as such, but I thought it was a backstory thing. I still do kinda care about the story, & I'm fairly sure this is a temporary situation, but...
It was very legitimately fucking me up. I probably shouldn't go back to it.
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movedto-lichthey · 1 year
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PARENTAL ABUSE MENTIONED AHEAD. spencer has a scar on their lip from the first time their dad hit them. they were just 16, excited about something that teenagers are, but the relationship had been rocky and unstable for years. but something in their father snapped that day. be it their constant pestering in regards to being invited to a friend's family vacation. their father had pulled back and punched them in the face. the lip needed stitches, but that wasn't where he stopped. he beat bruises black, purple, and blue into their skin until spencer lay there. a shaking, sobbing mess on the floor. a messy call to their mother who they hadn't spoken to in nearly two years and spencer was out of that mess.
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undescribed1mage · 1 year
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'No one deserves what happened to him —' he broke my fucking legs. He nearly drove me to suicide. He manipulated me. He isolated me. He did so much more, as well.
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moonlit-imagines · 4 months
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Told You So
Lip Gallagher x reader
warnings: abuse ment
a/n:
prompt: anonymous: “Lip and reader are close friends who grew to have feelings for each other, but reader is in a toxic relationship (doesn’t have to be physically abusive you can write what you’re comfortable with, I don’t mind either way) . The Gallaghers already know because they’ve had to help them out a few times. Readers partner doesn’t like Lip/The Gallaghers so reader isn’t really aloud to be at the house. One day reader is having a shitty day and decides to go see Lip anyway. Maybe reader’s partner finds out or sees them together and tries to drag reader away but Lip isn’t having it. Maybe they (Lip and R’s partner) fight, ofc Lip win, and it ends in reader patching him up and they maybe they kiss🤭”
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“Fuckin’ ay…” Lip mutters loud enough for you to hear as you both sit at a standstill on the swings at a nearby park. His curse interrupts your conversation, one that was already stressing him out enough since it seemed to be the same one you always had.
“Speak of the devil, I guess…” You noticed what—or rather, who he was talking about when your boyfriend could be seen across the street, headed straight towards the two of you. “You can go, Lip. I don’t want you to have to deal with any of this.” Lip sat motionless on the swing, eyes dead locked on your boyfriend. “Lip, you hearing me? I said get out of here. He’s gonna flip.” You waved your hand in front of his face and before you knew it your boyfriend stood in front of him.
“Hey, big guy!” Lip got up, wielding a wide smile that left your boyfriend unsettled. “It’s so great to see you here, I was starting to worry that maybe that bruise on your eye was gonna prevent you from being able to, what do you always say? ‘Look after y/n.’” You and your boyfriend looked at each other in confusion and back to Lip, then your boyfriend took a step forward to intimidate. Too bad for him, Lip wasn’t one to back down.
“The hell you say to me?” Said your boyfriend, towering over Lip and ready to fight since the last time he told him to stay the hell away from you. Lip always made him feel insecure it seemed.
“Oh, I guess that bruise isn’t quite there yet.” Lip sarcastically poked the side of his face with a smirk. “You’re gonna want to ice it, though.” Suddenly, a punch was thrown by your friend and you gasped as your boyfriend nearly fell back.
“Lip, stop!” You shouted and jumped off the swings to distance yourself from their fight. Your boyfriend was quick to fight back and there were fists and blood flying practically everywhere. Lip made sure to get a few good licks to the eye like he promised, getting on top and landing punch after punch after punch until your boyfriend threw him off and gave up.
“Man, I don’t give a shit anymore. Have y/n, they’re not worth all this.” Your boyfriend spat blood onto the dirt and left, leaving Lip laying in the dirt and laughing dryly at the pale grey sky.
“What the hell is wrong with you?” You asked him as he continued his laughter. “Lip, you shouldn’t have done that. He’s leaving, I have to go after him!” You began to panic and as you walked by him, Lip grabbed your ankle.
“Dude, you’re crazy. Just let him leave.” Lip calmly said through light panting. “He doesn’t give a shit about you. I do.” Lip let you go and to his surprise, you actually stayed. You stared down at him and just watched him watching you. You saw all this dirt and mud and muck and blood all over his face and clothes. “Let’s just go back to my house, forget all this shit happened.”
“Yeah…you look like hell.” You replied jokingly. Well, it was true, but you said it jokingly. “But I want to fix it.”
“Don’t.” He replied bluntly. “But maybe you could fix me? I might need some stitches, that son of a bitch has some dumbass rings.”
“Oh, I can see the skull indent on your forehead.” You crouched down to look at him closer.
“Can you?” He asked, rubbing the area you were staring at.
“No.” You chuckled. “Get up. Let’s go.” You held out your hand and helped him to his feet, noticing he was a little dizzy. “Will you ever give my boyfriends a chance or will it always be like this?” You asked him, walking down the middle of the empty street.
“Will you ever give me a chance?” He replied, looking straight ahead as not to fill his head with any hope or embarrassment by your first reaction. You didn’t say anything. “I don’t just hate your boyfriend’s for no reason. And I don’t hate them out of jealousy either.”
“Then why do you hate them?” You asked him, trying to hear it in his own words.
“Why the hell do you think, y/n?” Lip’s voice raised a bit and he scoffed. You stuffed your hands in your coat pockets and continued on in silence, feeling a little hurt that he wasn’t more gentle with you. “Y/N, you know. I know you know. Everyone knows. You date these shitty guys then run to me when there’s a problem with your shitty guy and every time I sit there and I tell you he’s a shitty guy and he shows you just how shitty he is and we do it all over again. I’m a shitty guy, too, but I’m never gonna treat you like that.”
“You’re not a shitty guy.” You said quietly.
“No, I am. But I wouldn’t be to you.” Lip kicked a rock across the street and moved along, still unwilling to look at you. “You should just give me a chance. I’m tired to beating your boyfriends up when I can just be your boyfriend.”
“I’ll think about it.”
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femsolid · 10 months
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TW: Trans activists
For more than a decade now, trans activists have been harassing those who belong to a feminist philosphy we call radical feminism or the women’s liberation movement.
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Radical feminists, like most feminists, believe that men use sex to oppress women. Meaning they oppress women through sexual exploitation and by perpetuating sexist discrimination towards those who belong to the female sex. They were the first to research and expose violence against women as endemic and traumatizing, and to create shelters for rape and domestic violence victims. Those shelters are now being vandalized and defunded by trans activists.
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Because radical feminists don’t believe in gender identities, gendered souls, gender roles or any form of innate personality based on sexist stereotypes, they have been receiving rape and death threats on a daily basis. The acronym “terf” was soon invented and is now used to describe any person who doesn’t support the trans movement, even if they’re not feminists, just as long as they're women, though lesbians and feminists tend to be the primary targets.
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As a whole, the trans movement claims that its biggest enemy and threat, its most pressing matter, its most dangerous opponent is the women’s liberation movement or what they call “radfems” or “terfs”. This is where their energy and anger is directed, typically in the form of sexist and sexual harassment, intimidation techniques, violence, censorship and social isolation. So let’s talk about that.
From the book Hate Crimes in Cyberspace:
Cyber harassment involves threats of violence, privacy invasions, reputation-harming lies, calls for strangers to physically harm victims, and technological attacks.
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Victims’ in-boxes are inundated with threatening e-mails. Their employers receive anonymous e-mails accusing them of misdeeds. Even if some abuse is taken down from a site, it quickly reappears on others. Victims’ sites are forced offline with distributed-denial-of-service attacks.
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While some attackers confine abuse to networked technologies, others use all available tools to harass victims, including real-space contact. Offline harassment or stalking often includes abusive phone calls, vandalism, threatening mail, and physical assault.
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The Internet extends the life of destructive posts. Harassing letters are eventually thrown away, and memories fade in time. The web, however, can make it impossible to forget about malicious posts. And posts that go viral attract hundreds of thousands of readers.
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Online harassment can quickly become a team sport, with posters trying to outdo each other. Posters compete to be the most offensive, the most abusive. An accurate name for such online groups is cyber mobs. The term captures both the destructive potential of online groups and the shaming dynamic at the heart of the abuse.
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Cyber harassment disproportionately impacts women. The U.S. National Violence Against Women Survey reports that 60 percent of cyber stalking victims are women, and the National Center for Victims of Crimes estimates that the rate is 70 percent. Of the 3,393 individuals reporting cyber harass-ment to WHOA from 2000 to 2011, 72.5 percent were female. The most recent Bureau of Justice Statistics report found that 74 percent of individuals who were stalked on or offline were female, and 26 percent were male.
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Researchers found that users with female names received on average one hundred “malicious private messages,” which the study defined as “sexually explicit or threatening language,” for every four received by male users.
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According to the study, “Male human users specifically targeted female users.” By contrast, men are more often attacked for their ideas and actions. John Scalzi, a science fiction author and popular blogger, has found online invective typically situational. When he writes something that annoys people, they tell him so. People do not make a “hobby” out of attacking his appearance and existence as they do female bloggers.
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The nature of the attacks similarly attests to bigotry’s presence. Hate expresses something uniquely damaging. It labels members of a group as inhuman “others” who do not possess equal worth. It says that group members are inferior and damaged. Bigotry conveys the message that group members are objects that can be destroyed because they have no shared humanity to consider.
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Cyber harassment exploits these features by exposing victims’ sexuality in humiliating ways. Victims are equated with their sexual organs, often described as diseased.
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Once cyber harassment victims are sexually exposed, posters penetrate them virtually with messages that say “I will fuck your ass to death you filthy fucking whore, your only worth on this planet is as a warm hole to stick my cock in.” 
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Rape threats profoundly impact women: over 86 percent of rape victims are female. Virtual elimination may follow the imagined penetration: “First I’ll rape you, then I’ll kill you.”
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One woman who faced online abuse noted, “Someone who writes ‘You’re just a cunt’ is not trying to convince me of anything but my own worthlessness.” Despite the gravity of their predicaments, cyber harassment victims are often told that nothing can or should be done about online abuse. Journalists, bloggers, lay observers, and law enforcement officials urge them to ignore it. Victims are called “whiny baby girl[s]” who are overreacting to “a few text messages.” Often victims are blamed for the abuse. They are scolded for sharing their nude images with loved ones or for blogging about controversial topics. They are told that they could have avoided the abuse had they been more careful.
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A related message sent to victims is that the benefits of online opportunities are available only to those who are willing to face the Internet’s risks. They are advised not to expect anything different if they want to make a name for themselves online. The choice is theirs: they can toughen up or go offline.
The Internet is governed by society’s rules. Life online bleeds into life offline and vice versa. The notion that more aggression should be tolerated in cyberspace than in real space presumes that virtual spaces are cordoned off from physical ones.
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Most victims do not report cyber harassment to the police because they assume that nothing will be done about it. Sadly, they are right. Law enforcement frequently fails to act on victims’ complaints even though criminal law would punish some of the behavior. Victims are told to turn off their computers because “boys will be boys.” Online harassment victims are told that nothing can be done; they are advised to ignore rape and death threats. During the summer of 2013, high-profile women were subjected to a torrent of online threats. The feminist activist Caroline Criado Perez received hundreds of graphic rape threats via Twitter after her successful campaign to feature more female images on British banknotes.
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Members of Parliament and female writers who publicly supported Criado-Perez faced the same, including bomb threats. One tweet featured a picture of a masked man holding a knife with the message, “I’m gonna be the first thing u see when u wake up.”
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Because the Internet serves as people’s workspaces, professional networks, résumés, social clubs, and zones of public conversation, it deserves the same protection as offline speech. No more, no less.
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Without doubt, the free speech interests at stake are weighty. Free expression is crucial to our ability to govern ourselves, to express our thoughts, and to discover truths. For that reason, government cannot censor ideas because society finds them offensive. Truthful speech must not be banned just because it makes people uncomfortable.
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But credible threats, certain defamatory falsehoods, social security numbers, and nude images posted without consent contribute little to discourse essential for citizens to govern themselves and discover truths. Their net effect is the silencing of victims. Victims could blog, post videos, and engage on social networks without fear of destructive cyber harassment. They could raise money using networked tools unencumbered by rape threats, reputation-harming lies, and distributed- denial- of- service attacks. They could take advantage of all of the expressive opportunities available online. Protecting against online harassment would secure the necessary preconditions for victims’ free expression.
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With the help of law and the voluntary efforts of Internet intermediaries, parents, and teachers, we might someday achieve a free and equal Internet. We need to take action before cyber harassment becomes a normal feature of online interactions. A hostile online environment is neither inevitable nor desirable. We should not squander this chance to combat discriminatory online abuse; it is early enough in our use of networked tools to introduce equality of opportunity as a baseline norm of interaction.
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nonamegirlxsturniolo · 4 months
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Only you can stop it..
Warnings: Past trauma with an alcoholic mum,anxiety and a bit of a mention of physical abuse.
Matt Sturniolo x Reader
(This is based on my own experience! Writing is how I deal with this sort of stuff! I will be writing other stories that aren’t as sad 😃)
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As my shaking hands press button by button on my ice cold phone screen, the melancholic and pathetic feel gets worse as the memories take over my brain.. my body..
I type and type away trying to reach Matt..he’s not answering calls. Why is he so busy.. ? He always answers.. It’s 2:33 am. That’s why.
I decided to give him one last call, it’s like the shameful and crestfallen feeling has been lifted. The sound of his voice brings me so much comfort.. making me forget about the horrible memories of my mother..the alcoholic,the screaming,the sirens..the blood stains I had to clean when I was 13
The weary exhausted voice answers from the other side of the line.. “Hello..?”
I’n in such a state I can’t even form a coherent sentence.. “Matt! P-panic..flashbacks!” I say quickly with incoherent crying, knowing he knows what I ment..
I hear him on the other side of the line jump up from his bed and the sound of his closet opening “Oh honey..breathe for me okay.. and stay on the line” I hear him say whiles the ruffles sound of him grabbing his keys is in the background
I clutch my hand to my chest trying my best to breath.. “I’m sorry! I’m sorry Matt I’m so sorry!” I apologise for waking him and putting all this pressure of my panic on him..
“Hey! Don’t be.. I’m your boyfriend..I’m supposed to look after you..I’m here to help you, you’re not alone anymore..” he says this in such a softly spoken way .. I feel so safe just listening to him.. “I’ll be there soon my love..”
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AH! Sorry it was short! But like.. was that okay..? It’s my first time writing and putting it on the internet..
PLEASE GIVE ME IDEAS 😭🙏🙏
Also let me know if you want a pt.2
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system-hottakes · 2 months
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(Quick abuse ment. //) Hot take (and before I say this, source trauma is valid) but you cannot compare source trauma to irl trauma.
You can be traumatized from your source, yes, but if you got beat up in your source, you cannot compare it to the body getting beat up irl. You cannot say you experienced physical abuse if the body has not experienced physical abuse.
Again, can you be traumatized from your source? Yes. I know quite a few alters (including ones insys) who are and freak out over it. But you cannot claim to have experienced it if the body didn't, at the *very* least not in the same way.
yeah. Usually source trauma / memories can be based off of the systems actual trauma too, but if it isn't then it's wrong to say you experienced it. You can say you have source trauma but you shouldn't claim to have that trauma as a bodily experience. (If that makes sense)
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uninformedartist · 9 months
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Tis a bit too late to explain all this Viv (again posting on twitter things that should've happened in show) and also doesn't help that the episodes weren't in chronological order, its all a mess now. Also there is no clear timeline in helluva boss I just realized, when do things happen? Is it episodic where there's no set time line or is every episode a follow up to the next I have no idea and it seems like Viv doesn't too since helluva jumps around timeline wise, post a season 1 episode halfway into season 2. If that beelzebub ep was just a simple story (the hell hound party) and was ment for purly spectical that end scene of Loona and Blitz seemed a helluva lot important, adding to the lore not so since Viv is making this tweet . Again fans are having to explain her lore for her and Viv just goes "yep yep thats what I meant" like what is going on with that no serious wtf.
And again 🤌 Blitz talked about replacing Loona as the receptionist not as a daughter just as a 🤌receptionist🤌 like my soul it was clear as day what he meant and then she went on to abuse him the whole episode long. Viv really by the looks of it defending Loona's abusive behavior towards Blitz. She went from disgruntled, annoyed but still caring towards Blitz in so1 to physically abusing him in so2 because he told Loona she has an attitude problem as their receptionist and might look for another receptionist. Nah Viv ya never fail to surprise me.
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burgundybmw · 2 years
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Red: A Stranger Things SMAU
MASTERLIST
Paring: Eddie Munson x Mayfield!Reader
Warnings: Mentions assault (Billy sucks), Abusive sibling relationship (Not physical), and unfortunately we haven't seen the last of him in this series...
Summary: Y/N Mayfield likes her life, she has good friends, an amazing sister (a not so amazing step brother), and an intense love for music. The only thing missing in her life is a love life, but that could all change soon.
Author’s Note: I swear y'all have no faith in me hahahaha ENJOY!! ❤️❤️❤️
Part Twenty Two
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Eddie:
Hey...
Y/N:
Oh thank God, Eddie I've been trying to call you for the past 15 minutes!!
Eddie:
I was driving. Stopped for gas.
Y/N:
Oh... I thought you were mad at me.
Eddie:
Why would I be mad at you?
Y/N:
Because of the Billy thing. Steve told me some stuff and it freaked me out.
Eddie:
What did he tell you??
Y/N:
That you think, that I think you mean nothing to me. Which is so far from the truth it's insane. I mean, Christ Eddie, you're my best friend!!
Eddie:
No, I know that...
Y/N:
Then why would you say that to Steve??
Eddie:
It's not what you think it is...
Y/N:
Okay? Then what is it?
Eddie:
...
Y/N:
Eddie?
Eddie:
Sorry... Yea I'm here.
Y/N:
Can you tell me what this is about?
Eddie:
The kiss Red.
Y/N:
Oh...
Eddie:
Yea, I don't know... I was just hurt that it meant nothing to you. That you could kiss me like that just for a dare. I know you don't like me like that, but we're still friends? It's kind of a big deal.
Y/N:
It is a big deal, and I'm so sorry I hurt you. You need to trust me when I tell you that you mean the world to me. What I said to Billy, it was just because I'm afraid of him.
Eddie:
What do you mean?
Y/N:
Billy has made it his life goal to make Max and I's life a living hell. He's... he's hurt guys who got too close to me in the past... I don't want that to happen to you.
Eddie:
You don't need to protect me Red, I'm a big boy I can take care of myself.
Y/N:
He almost put Steve in the hospital, and he beat the shit out of my first boyfriend so badly he broke his nose. He knows he can't touch Max and I, so he goes after people we love to hurt us. He was gonna hurt Lucas before I ripped him a new one, and the only reason I won that one was because I got Neil to agree with me. Billy can't stand you, I had to lie to him so he wouldn't go after you.
Eddie:
If he hates me so much why did he trade me his Metallica tickets?
Y/N:
What?
Eddie:
Shit.
Y/N:
What did you trade?
Eddie:
Nothing worth more than the experience of going to see our favorite band together Red.
Y/N:
Don't avoid the question.
Eddie:
...I traded my B.C. Rich.
Y/N:
YOU TRADED YOUR GUITAR?!
Eddie:
This is why I didn't tell you...
Y/N:
Why would you do that?! You love that guitar more than anything else in the world!!!
Eddie:
Not as much as I love you!
Y/N:
What...
Eddie:
I gotta go.
Y/N:
Eddie? Eddie! Don't you dare hang up on me right-
End.
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