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billionairesitgirl · 1 year
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When guys ask for my number at work should I give it to them or tell em to give me theirs instead?
This is a double edged sword... but before I answer I need context... what do you do for work? What sort of environment is it?
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sortagolddigger · 3 months
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Always remember it’s not about being head over heels in love, that’s how you get hurt and walked on.
It’s about how he treats you and does he make you feel safe asking for things.
Is he a provider that fits your life goals?
That’s your man.
I’m not saying date an ugly man, I am saying date a man you don’t mind growing old with because he makes you feel safe and pays the bills
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brownsugar-dreams · 1 year
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This Is Your Sign
A quick note to the ladies who are on their level up, metamorphic hypergamous journey: Please trust yourself. If things aren’t moving as quick as you thought, don’t regress. I promise going back to that broke low vibe little boy is not better than being alone. Please date multiple men and don’t limit yourself.
You cannot convince a man who isn’t capable of providing why you deserve to be provided for. It’s not you, it’s him. Let that frustration go. You’ll feel so much lighter. Walk away from that cycle, and you’ll be amazed at how prosperity gravitates towards you. Wealth, health, and happiness can’t reach you when you’re intertwined with energy that repels the things you want to attract. Friends with benefits is a joke, invest in a vibrator. Every time you go back, you shift the energy away from your break through. Cut off all contact & move forward gracefully. I didn’t find success in sugar dating/hypergamy until I was about 1.5 years free of my ex. And now I’ll be graduating med school almost (if not fully) debt free with contacts I met through networking while dating. I’ve traveled to places I never dreamed of visiting and learned things that people pay money and spend years trying to learn. Date lawyers, finance/tech guys, business moguls. You’ll learn so much about money & how to invest. Don’t block your blessings, you’re so so close ✨
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I live in Florida and have no children. I enjoy going to the movies and restaurants, walking along the beach, and swimming when the weather is nice. I hope to do all these things with my beloved one day.
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chichiscloset · 2 years
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Choosing the right colours for your skin tone
Did you know that there are different clothing colours for your skin tone? Just like choosing jewelry, you can complement your complexion with the colours you wear! This process involves looking at your undertone, hair colour, and eye colour.
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Typically, most people are placed into four different seasons or colour palettes. Check out this picture below to find colour palettes that can accentuate your skin tone.
Cool Hues
Summer Wardrobe Colors
If you got summer as your season, chances are you have blue veins or light-coloured eyes. It can be a bit confusing because we relate tanned skin to summertime. However, when it comes to wearing a summer colour palette, clothing looks best on those that contain cool undertones! You probably burn easily when out in the sun. Summer wardrobe colour palette that will feel the most vibrant will be muted colours with a cool hue. You will look great in Rosey-pink lipstick and may often wear sky blue.
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Winter Wardrobe Colors
On the other hand, if you are a winter, you will have dark hair, dark eyes, and a cool undertone. This undertone must not be mistaken for being fair-skinned, but rather, your skin and hair often contrast harmoniously. Winters look best in sharp, contrasting colours. They will feel the most vibrant when wearing bright colours with a cool hue. You will look good in firecracker red lipstick. Wearing a navy blue will also look great on a winter-toned person.
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Warm Hues
Spring Wardrobe Colors
In contrast to the seasons above, if you are a spring, you will have a warm skin undertone and will see your veins as green. Similar to Summer, you will have light hair and light eyes (this does not refer to the colour, but rather the brightness and dimension of your hair and eyes). Spring's tend to tan easily and have a 'yellow hue' or golden look' to them. True Springs look the most vibrant in bright colours with a warm hue. You will look good in orangey-red lipstick and may often wear aqua blue.
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Autumn Wardrobe Colors
Autumns will also have warm skin undertones. Unlike springs, Autumns tend to have darker hair and eyes. They will also tan easily. True Autumns look the most vibrant in muted colours with a warm hue. You will look good in cranberry red lipstick and often wear teal blue. After taking the quiz I found out I’m a mix of autumn and spring Colours!
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dianneking · 1 year
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Sooo, dear Tumblr, hear me out. I think my boss is trying to sugar mommy me (?)
Lemme present my evidence:
-She mentioned multiple times how her husband is now living in their summer home five hours of driving away and she's been living all alone.
- Our customers often bring her presents (mainly food) and we'd usually split them, but lately she's giving them all to me "so you'll think of me while you enjoy it."
- Last week she had an issue with her car, so I chauffeured her around for a day and she kept telling me that she'll "have to invite me for lunch at her place to thank me properly".
- And, cherry on the top, today she kinda brought me grocery shopping with her? Like we had to go someplace together for work and she was like "Oh, I need to drop by the supermarket real quick." And so I found myself there carrying her grocery bags and helping her to find baking powder like a Very Good Kid™ because I am a courteous human being, and the cashier is giving us a weird look (because he knows she's my boss) and my boss is like "If they keep being so nice to me, I'll have to keep *Name* as my assistant outside of work as well...I'm already addicted to their help."
So yeah. That is what happened Your Honor.
Is this some level of fruity or am I seeing things?
EDIT: There's some updates, check this out
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thefemmation · 2 years
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Stop being so worried about if a man will love you. Do you love yourself? I know it's natural to want to a partner and i'm NOT shaming you for that but a line needs to be drawn.
When was the last time you looked yourself in the mirror and said "I love you"? Truly give yourself the love you desire, like become OBSESSED with yourself.
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Be obsessed with the current you. Not the you after you lose 30 pounds. Not the you after you graduate. Not the you after you get the dream job. Not the you after you move to a new city. STOP training yourself for conditional love...
The current you deserves and NEEDS you to become obsessed and give her unconditional love! You set the standards for how others love you and you cannot let others to love you conditionally.
You are worth unconditional love.
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acearohippo · 6 months
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Ugh, this is what I was afraid of
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Why am I being portrayed as some weakling to spice?? All the answers were trash. Why wasn't there an option in favour of the spice?? I can't even be excited that the preview message is here, because I've been taken out of the experience.
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Hi philanthropist’s wife :) I was wondering what you think some of the differences in approaching the spoiled girlfriend vs sugar baby lifestyles are? I’m more interested in the spoiled gf route since I’m looking for something more long term but I know a lot of advice for all flavors of sw/hypergamy/blah blah gets mixed in together often times. I hope you’re well! x
Hi Honey,
The main difference imo between a sugar baby and spoiled girlfriend is what you already mentioned: the length of the relationship. Now that’s not to say some sugar babies don’t have long lasting arrangements with their daddies but it’s not the main goal.
The next important distinction is when you’re a spoiled gf that man is your bf so he’d better be someone you can tolerate actually enjoy being with. When you’re a sugar baby you can get what you want relatively quickly and upfront vs spoiled gf you’re taking the time to flesh out a whole relationship to get what you want.
In this day and age sugaring is done lol it’s become so mainstream it’s mostly salt daddies and scammers in the bowl. There are still some successful sugar babies but the ones I know are vets/part time escorts.
There’s a reason all the advice sounds similar when it comes to getting into this game. You can call it whatever you want but at the end of the day it’s all different iterations of the same thing. You’d be wise to learn as much as you can from high end escorts and sugar babies and never mention it to your future bf.
Happy hunting sis and good luck! Send me an update once you’ve snagged your whale 🎣
Xoxo
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billionairesitgirl · 1 year
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Should I go for an elite college even if it's expensive? I heard networking there can bring good opportunities
Forgive my asking... how old are you?
However for anyone of age asking...
If you have your plan right, An elite college could be one of the best head starts you have in moving around certain circles... just remember to smooze, socialize and keep your eye on the goal for social climbing... do not take your eyes off it for obvious reason.
For those who can't do elite university...
Make sure to go to college in a big city with an affluent population. (Granted you can meet wealth anywhere these days, but I like the higher probability of being located where the population is larger)
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sortagolddigger · 5 months
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Learn to recognize when you can do better.
If he makes you feel guilty for wanting to be taken care of, you deserve better. Since the 1700’s women have only survived because they chose men who were capable of providing and protecting
Don’t let these new age dusties gaslight you into accepting the poverty love they offer
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Hello am looking for a relationship
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diamondluxesugar · 9 months
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Hi so I’m really going through it atm and would appreciate some input/advice please💕 so i just found out that the guy I was talking to for a year long distance has had a gf all this time...the girl reached out to me calling my phone and I knew immediately it was weird that a Miami number was calling me...anyway she was wondering who I was because she said she saw my number on her boyfriends phone...I told her everything then sent her screenshots to confirm. While I was sending her them, the guy was texting me and then I called him and was like “you have a girlfriend” and he goes “you had a dating app” then hung up and blocked me...I don’t understand this because why would he cheat with me for a year just to block me when the girlfriend found out?? She said they broke up too...I’m just so hurt. She also blocked me after telling her everything so I can’t ask her if they are actually broken up or not...I tried calling him many times a weeks after from No Caller ID and he texts me “stop fucking calling, how it’s clearly over, to move on, stop being so obsessed” I denied it but I was just so hurt especially because he’s lied to me and led me on for what?? Why do this to me when we’re long distance why hurt me like that? Anyway, like 2 weeks later called me many times kept telling me to call him so did he goes “just wanted to apologize clear the air sorry you had to go through all that” and I was like “ok” then before I could say more he hung up and blocked me....then like 2 weeks after that messaged me “yo, kept calling me and I told him I couldn’t talk that I was at work at he goes “right” and I was like “I am” and he goes “bet” and I was like “what” and he goes “forget it” and I was like “?” Then he emphasized it...then I said I could talk later and he liked the text then I sent him “If you’re going to be rude and upset me then we don’t need to talk. You’ve really hurt me a lot. I didn’t know you had a girlfriend all this time so would have never even come to Miami to begin with to see you...that is gross. you putting me in the middle hasn’t been fair especially being that you’ve lied to me so much, made my anxiety way worse we’ve just hookup and you’ve left me every time being blacked out and all and could have died..... I really don’t understand why you would do that to me...or this girl really. You’ve wasted my time and money and don’t know why you would think that is okay....” then he emphasized that we would talk later but then when I tried to call him blocked again....why is he doing this?? Then I just stopped calling him for 2 weeks then this last Monday he calls me 3 times in a row, texts me “yo” then within 15 minutes blocked me before I could answer him..why is he doing this? I don’t understand and then blocking me....I left him alone so I’m really not understanding I’m also not understanding why he blocked me when the gf found out but would do this to me for a year....
My question is, why haven't you blocked him? He's getting off on being able to contact you. You need to completely remove him from your life. Block him on everything. All social media platforms, his phone number, everything. Whenever a phone call from an unrecognized number comes in, immediately block and delete it from your call log.
I agree with him, you're obsessing over him, KNOWING that he was intentionally hurting you for more than a year at this point. You're only going to keep hurting yourself by interacting with him and by entertaining the thought of him and this girl.
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