#this infuriated me

[babyspacebatclone]

I saw a post about something, and it’s been ruminating in my head.

It hurts most for me because of my chronic conditions - especially those that aggressively my Executive Functioning Disorder.

But it’s such a fucking horrible message for just - everyone.

No-one can ever be too busy - if they care, they would make time.

Just. No.

Fucking no.

Imagine a typical United States nuclear family, two working parents, two kids.

It’s flu season, the eldest child is in basketball, the younger child has to go to an after school learning center because of general help.

How many things can go wrong with this family in December?

What if one of the parents is fired because of job complications related to the breakdown of Twitter, Meta et al., because those disasters are going to affect public relations in every industry in a ripple effect that is already being felt throughout Silicon Valley.

Who does what if one of the kids is sick, the other still had commitments, but both parents are still working but with mandatory overtime.

And the grandparents have work of their own, because they’re still not approaching the distancing retirement age.

Where does this family find the hours to reconnect with family across the continent, their church, their hunting buddies, their book club?

How many commitments is the average modern adult expected to maintain???

This lie of “if you cared, you’d make time” fucking hurts regular physically and neurologically typical individuals overwhelmed in a society that has systematically removed supports and blamed them for it.

How does it harm those who needed additional supports anyway?

We care.

We fucking care.

But we are overwhelmed.

Physically abused on a cellular level by exhaustion, unending cycles of illness we cannot take time off to recover from, and the very support institutions we previously relied upon to maintain connections burning before our eyes.

We fucking care.

But we don’t have any time left to use, let alone make.

#executive functioning disorder #exhaustion #this just #this infuriated me #victim blaming #tw babybat swears #tw victim blaming

[panakina]

The gall of Bruce to say ‘they don’t know the dark like i do’ about Dick and Jason. Like, buddy, both of these adult men have been fighting for their lives on Gothams streets since before they hit double digits. You toured Asia in your twenties. One of them swallowed the literal embodiment of darkness. The other one crawled out of his own grave. They have both gotten their own training under specialist mentors besides you, after they learned everything you had to teach. The patronising bullshit of this man.

#Gotham war doing its level best to infuriate me #There’s arrogance and then there delusion #not even touching on him supposedly overcoming cass with one hit #get out of here with that #jason todd #red hood #bruce wayne #batman #dc #dick grayson #nightwing #batfam

[featheredadora]

#art #fat positivity #body positivity #positivity #birblr #canary #doodle #Sorry I'm a bit all over the place at the moment guys #Had to spend time with my partner's fatphobic family #And I know I'm a thin guy so I am not like directly hurt by the things they believe #But it still was just an awful experience and I'm still kinda feeling that #And it infuriates me that me standing up for what's right is always framed as me being a delicate sensitive anorexic #You should treat fat people nice because they are people and deserve basic decency #I am not being overly sensitive by not wanting to hear your fatphobic crap #You're just not nice people #/rant over #Sorry for my little outburst guys! I am usually an easy going guy #I just get really riled up about this stuff #Fat people are wonderful and it is such a blessing to live in a world with such a huge range of different bodies!

[deadbutnostink]

Kissy（￣ε￣ʃƪ）

Sorry for any confusion, this is updated now since i realised i fucked up with Azis lines and had a random line in the frame xD

Details:

#gomens #aziracrow #ineffable husbands #aziraphale #crowley #good omens #good omens 2 #ineffable spouses #ineffable idiots #aziraphale kissing crowley #bible fanart lol #i colored this mess on my laptop with a mouse call me a hero #just hate when you start a drawing and cant finish it bc youre not home #so infuriating #ID available #my art

[wonderlandmoonrose7]

Infinitely grateful that the FHJY finale validated my hatred of Kipperlily. She’s an interesting character and all, but she’s not some misunderstood, overlooked student that a lot of people make her out to be. She’s a self-centered, arrogant, obsessive murderer who willingly chose rage (and seemingly forced her friends into it) instead of actually putting effort in who thinks she should get everything she wants by virtue of existing

#also irl kipperlily would oppose affirmative action #fhjy spoilers #fantasy high #dimension 20 #kipperlilly copperkettle #she just infuriates me so much

[seaofdaydreams]

"You're the princess, daddy! Lie down, go to sleep and we'll save you!"

Inspired by this lovely dadstarion fic by @wilteddreamsofbaldursgate ✨

I got sick and was for all intents and purpose dead but this was so good I came back to life briefly to do this sketch. Y'all should check it out!

Also, it made me think of the song "King" by Lauren Aquilina and now I'm drowning in the feels.

#ok back into the coffin I go #astarion please take care of me #astarion #dadstarion #astarion headcanons #bg3 astarion #i think I'm finally getting a hang of drawing this infuriating man #art #wip #miri

[inquisitor-apologist]

Every time I remember this I go incandescent with rage. Like, yeah, Jeffrey, that’s the fundamentals of storytelling right there. What do you MEAN you forgot a plan????

#sorry I’ve been silent so long #but GOOD GOD does this infuriate me #star wars #jj abrams #Star Wars sequels #is this the original post tag

[theabigailthorn]

Thanks to all my patrons for supporting me!

Turns out when you actually do your own research and writing [AHEM!] it takes time to make good content. These awesome names and plenty of generous people like them help make that happen. Their pledges give me the time to research the show PROPERLY and also go towards paying the crew, who make the show look spectacular.

If you can, and you wanna support what I do, sign up and join them :)

#philosophytube #philosophy chube #seriously though it makes me so mad that guy made so much money stealing other people's words #like I put so much flippin work into Philosophy Tube #and this a-hole just read out books and scammed his patrons #infuriating #but what are you gonna do jake? It's ContentTown #I hope my patrons see their money going on the screen #oh also in case you were wondering the patreon pledges go into a separate bank account that's for Philosophy Tube #they don't go into my personal accounts #and if there's anything left over at the end of an episode it rolls over into the budget for the next one

[concerto-roblox]

i love g1 but i'm actually getting so sick of g1 purists like it's not enough for them that g1 existed and was popular, it has to exist now and continue forever even though that's just not how toy companies work. i have yet to see a post that even mentions g3 that doesn't have 10 billion "bring back g1!!" comments. like today i saw a comment under a post about the g3 show possibly being cancelled saying "hoping this mean we'll get a g1 comeback" girl get a grip!! like please step back and remind yourself you are not the target audience for a children's toy and let the g1 ghouls rest in peace.

#i need to know better than to read comments on instagram reels/tiktoks but here we are #the current attitudes to nostalgia these days actually infuriates me like something can't just have existed and been good #people want it to come back and drag its corpse round forever even if it's run its course #and i'm saying this as someone who's special interests are things i'm nostalgic for #anyways #monster high #monster high g3 #monster high gen 3 #how to be cringe 101

[angelsdean]

the way that nick spell in 14x17 makes it canonically SO easy to open a portal to the empty. it drives me insane. dean literally HAD cas's blood. on his jacket. it was all right there. it was set up perfectly. why show us nick opening a portal to the empty and specifically showing that the main ingredient was BLOOD then. not using that. dean was meant to rescue cas!!!!! full circle moment. i'm the one who gripped you tight a raised you from perdition. what's the matter, cas? you don't think you deserve to be saved? i love you, too. of course i love you. SMOOCH. anyways.

#anyways working on fic plotting things and the friggin nick spell making it so easy to open a portal to the empty is infuriating me #i need it to be more complicated. for plot reasons. so now i need to conjure up some Lore as to why it won't work in this scenario #like if all you needed is some blood from the person in the empty or a relative then. so many angels and demons could've been pulled out #i think the fact that nick was a former vessel might be a good requirement #also just how the hell did NICK of all people find this spell and execute it???

[sophsicle]

i love it when rich people get all pouty and are like "well what if we said eat the poor huh? you wouldn't like that very much would you?" like babe. you're already eating us. sucking up our life force like a 9000 dollar goop smoothie.

#infuriates me that vampires are used so often for cheesy romance and so rarely for the metaphor they were made for #the parasitic relationship between the aristocracy and the working class #soph rambles

[fictionadventurer]

Maybe the problem with Christian fiction is that it's non-denominational. People are just "Christian", with no effort put into showing what practicing that religion looks like for them specifically. No indication that there are other Christians who could have different beliefs. No wrestling with differing ideas and the struggle of how one should live out their Christian faith. And that makes it unrealistic and unrelatable.

#me reading any christian historical fiction set in england: why are none of these gentry anglican?? #they ARE all anglican and if they are not it is extremely plot and character relevant you can't just have them using evangelical buzzwords #but i'm also thinking of this because i started another charlotte yonge book #that is by far my favorite of the things of hers that i've read #because it has characters who have different upbringings and religious opinions #instead of just 'here's a bunch of high church anglicans judging people who don't live up to their victorian standard' #you have the very high church anglican rector whose wife is worldly but still a very good person #the girl raised in a very strict protestant family who is more scrupulous than the anglicans but is still recognized as a good person #you have people who are trying to work out the nuances of different issues #and that makes it so much more realistic and so much easier to integrate into the story #(the politics though are hilarious) #(most of the classics that survive are the ones that were 'ahead of their time' in politics) #(so it's equally fascinating and refreshing and a bit infuriating to see one that is very very of its time with regards to women's rights) #('why did this woman get up at the meeting and explain her very good ideas for rebuilding after the fire? she should have had a man do it') #(meanwhile i'm just screaming 'why on earth SHOULDN'T she???') #(it's almost enough to make a feminist of me)

[crippleprophet]

i don’t understand how people can be so fucking cruel about people who can’t read much (including people who aren’t literate, though this post is from my experience with chronic illness). like, one of my main motivations behind posting excerpts of butch+femme writing on my main (@campgender ; it’s fine to go through my bookshelf tag but please only followers age 18+ on that blog!) is that it is fucking hard to read a full book!!

my reading comprehension & stamina decreased drastically when i developed ME, & while i’m overjoyed that i’ve recently regained a lot of that particular ability since getting blackout curtains, there are absolutely still texts i can’t even begin to parse that i once would’ve loved digging into — texts that it would be actively dangerous for me to attempt to struggle through because it would break pacing.

idk i’m not trying to be self-congratulatory here or whatever but like. the second i could access information through this means again, the focus of my (very fucking limited!!) energy has been giving it back to my people. my life has been unquestionably, deeply shaped by tumblr users who share excerpts of theory & memoir & poetry because they were providing labor of which i was in need & incapable.

finding, selecting, transcribing, formatting, & at times contextualizing passages takes a lot of fucking time & energy, but in order for me to encounter certain concepts, experiences, & histories, it’s work somebody else had to do, because i couldn’t read 200 pages of research or anthology in order to encounter the 10 that would change my life — but posted 2 or 3 pages at a time, i could save that in my drafts to get through on a good day, & quotes that were only a couple lines i could usually read right when i encountered them.

so, in memory of the years i spent unable to access theory through anything other than excerpts & secondhand summaries,

and in anticipation of the years to come where i will live the same,

and in acceptance that the brain is a muscle, in love of we the exercise-intolerant,

to you, dear reader — whatever form & frequency & duration that reading may take, even if it’s no further than this post — i make my motherfucking covenant: the issues i discuss around pulling quotes will be about the political act of the ellipse and the ethics of transcription, not shaming people for the methods of accessing information that are available to them. as often & as long as i am able, people can ask me to explain something or summarize in plain language and i will meet them with respect, interest, & effort. if someone’s looking for information on a particular topic, identity, experience & doesn’t have the energy to find it, i’m gonna give what i have towards filtering through the bullshit for the gems.

according to our abilities. according to our needs.

and the next time somebody tells you it’s not ableist to say everyone has to read [whatever work], tell them to go put their precious ability to better use in making it more accessible.

#mac.txt #continuing my trend of showing up on this blog once every couple months with an infuriated rant & then fucking off back to bed #me/cfs #reading #chronic illness #ableism

[tasteofyourblood]

we're going to slowly morph into a world where ppl forget that sunscreen is to prevent skin cancer & burns NOT STUPID WRINKLES SHUT UP ABOUT AGING AND 'GETTING OLD' SHUT UP OH MY GOD SHUT UPPPPPP

#im watching a video and it literally infuriates me so much ouhhhhhhh

[juniperhillpatient]

the way some of y'all speak so condescendingly to & about vegans & vegetarians or just people trying to recycle or do a little better for the world is sick actually. sorry corporations are the real problem & everything is hopeless but I'm a receptionist lmao I won't fix that in my lifetime but I can minimize the animal products I buy & recyle & try not to buy aersol products & be nice to people. sorry the idea of doing the bare minimum infuriates some of u guys to ur cores but like. get fucked

#this is about a specific post condescending to vegans & vegetarians about how animal products are natural but also #this is a WHOLE culture on here that has always & will always infuriate me to my core #the world is ending & big corps & billionaires are behind it #i get that i'm not stupid #but i can do the very bare minimum to not make things worse where i can avoid it #sorry not fucking sorry

[coockie8]

It pisses me off so much when people try to hold older queer media to today's standards.

Oh, is The Rocky Horror Picture Show "PrObLeMaTiQuE"????

Homosexuality was only taken out of the DSM 2 years prior to that movie's release. Shut the fuck up.

#queer community #lgbtq #shit infuriates me #time period context matters actually