#why bother sending me an ask

[gojonanami]

I 100% support people taking their religion and making it their whole life but i DON'T support pushing that onto other people @ that one anon who yapped about it's haram to ship fictional men.

no literally though — do not be the haram police lol — there’s no need to push your beliefs and values onto other people. especially when they were not asking for your opinion at all.

I still can’t believe people like that exist truly

#sab [asks] #sab [anons] #everyone is entitled to their opinion #but not when it advocates for hate for a marginalized group #like literally it’s so easy to block and move on #why bother sending me an ask

[tj-crochets]

this poll brought to you by a text I got from one of the other [my job title]'s contractors while I'm covering for him being gone. The contractor texted me "The answer is as always [his name] [his company ID number]" To which I could only say "what was the question?"

#the person behind the yarn #also brought to you by the many many contractors that will request I quote something for them via email #so I send the quote via email #and then they text me 'okay I'll take it' #and it's like great! thanks! Who are you? what are you taking??? #it's not as big a problem when I am only dealing with my contractors #but I am getting a reputation among other [job title]'s contractors when I cover for them #as someone who can fix paperwork problems #which means I get texts from unknown numbers saying things like #why didn't I get paid for the [city name] job?? #and I have to be like WHICH ONE we have done so much work in that city #also who are you #but when they send me the job number I can look it up and find their name so I usually don't even bother asking for their name

[spotsupstuff]

i sense how on the contrary, when moon is in Zeph’s local group the members will all go ‘omg youre actually letting us do this’ or be surprised of her leniency with almost anything(or if she gets upset she wont be yelling her ass off and will try to remain calm), because of how Zeph would usually be so strict with em and they didnt expect better

see- first you gotta understand that the chancla doesn't really Hurt the iterators. while they definitely can feel through their puppets, those things are made to be sturdy (throw a normal or singularity bomb into Pebs' chamber,he's fine, i know he just doesn't have health but worldbuilding is worldbuilding so i guess a fully functional iterator is fine with blackhole into the head). it maybe stings for a sec but it's not worse than gettin pinched (also where did you get that she yells at em, she's only exclaimed so far i think. if you check how she handled Innocence, that's how she generally goes about it- no yellin for the sake of puttin 'em in place, she's just venting out her frustrations into the air)

the Point of the chancla is to get the target's unwavering attention so she can talk some sense into them WITHOUT using the senior privilege which is far more invading since it cuts straight through their systems and forces the juniors to stop everything to pay attention. these things are giant supercomputers! they are going to have a different perspective on what counts as "too much"/"too bad" than us humans! it isn't used to limit what they are doing unless the thing they are gon do is explicitly threatening to their safety, the limiting is what the Senior Privilege does!

in that lil comic with Pebs, Suns, Nish, Inn and her, she doesn't actually even hit Nish in the last panel, the chancla is only supposed to suddenly appear from behind next to his face n he gets startled + drama queen points. i've admitted in the tags of it that i gave up on the last page so i don't blame anyone for not gettin that since i haven't put enough effort into communicating it

with what she's doin back in her own group, she Needs to be this strict if she wants her plan of keeping everyone reliably long-term safe to work

and her groupmates would undeniably miss her. they love her! they don't want some lenient stranger without constant spice to her instead of their ramshackle beloved Azzie!!!!

#Spot says stuff #rw #oc tag #remember!!!!! important point to her character that also bothered me at some point with how similar it makes her to Moon was that shes Kind #Zeph is kind almost as much as Moon but their situations- concerning all their past present and future- are strikingly different and so #their lives require them to have different approach to things. what Zeph is specifically doin different from Moon is that shes Firmer #strictness isnt wrong!!! if you arent strict on either yourself or the people around you then it is easy to breach boundaries n do- #-Terrible things. its. honestly why i got real sad when a peep asked me to tag that one post as abuse. its not that believe me Zeph would- #-Never abuse another iterator. shes specifically trying to get around that while still keepin them sensible. but ofc ill tag it as such 4 u #look where Moon's leniency got her! dead and hurt and everyone who loved her suffering! there are times when you Need to be firm and cut- #-a bad situation at its bud before it can spiral into something absolutely damning #i didnt include it cuz it isnt Funney™ but after each chancla she talks to the target about why what they did was wrong #Suns you cant send that. it can hurt him very badly. Innocence you need to respect other people. Pebbles this will Hurt me if u keep doing- #-what you are doing right now. it could *kill* me. why are you doing this in the first place? do you need to talk? need me to listen? #being strict and being cruel or dictatorial are different things

[little-whats-her-name]

"I can't hear you over the sound of the eight billion glasses and plates clinking, and the very high possibility that I'm going to lose my job, and the fact that everyone at this charity dinner hates me but we have to act nice to each other, and the weird lighting in this room, and these fucking Spanx!" - Katherine Hastings, probably

#she's autistic because i said so #the lighting in the charity dinner is so weird #it's not bad lighting but the spotlights make me think of searchlights #i remember trying on these really firm leggings that my mum has #and my mum was like “remember when you were asking about shapewear because of that show? that's what Spanx feel like.” #and i'm thinking “well that's bullshit; i can see why they made an entire cold open about them; this material is awful.” #also there's a continuity error in that cold open with katherine's sleeves #and it bothers me because when ana posted the scene on her insta; there was no continuity error #but the clips were in a different order in the actual episode #which just goes to show how many times i've watched that cold open #like i love it and i hate it #also wtf were the tight sleeve things for #do people really pay that much attention to women's arms when they're wearing tight dresses? #katherine and ana don't need spanx #and the former shouldn't feel like she needs them #i will die on this very specific hill #that scene in the commercial ep where sadie says something like “women should wear what they're comfortable in” #TELL THAT TO YOUR GIRLFRIEND #on x's insta she said that they were all wearing spanx and could barely breathe #and i'm just thinking about katherine really awkwardly asking dori for help #and dori sending a text to sadie #being like “we will all support katherine. we will all be concerned about her job and be physically uncomfortable together.” #women loving women in a non-gay way #but also in a gay way #sad that i can't tag people in hashtags #because i would love for @harrietdyker to write a fic #american auto #katherine hastings #sadie ryan #dori otis

[nyanspirals]

hello hi i appreciate you guys being on my side and also wanting to Make Me Aware but if somebody is posting bullshit about me. unless we are friends and youre dming that information to me. please don't send me asks about the situation i dont care i think theyre an idiot i dont want any part in it let those people scream at the wall by themselves DONT INVOLVE MEEEEEE

#neon.txt #there is a very clear reason why you dont ever see me saying names or singling people out when i Complain . #i just dont want to hear about it sincerely i just want to do my thing in my little corner of the fandom #those who dislike it are free to just leave me be its not like im gonna go bother them. #and i expect the same level of maturity from other adults!!!!!!! #dont post about personal drama publicly man. people online thrive on it its only gonna being you headaches #and also bring me headaches in the process because people are gonna come tell me about it when all i was doing is Chilling. #😓 TLDR i dont care about drama i think liberals are morons just leave me be #send me asks about englands pussy instead or about marxism

[goldkirk]

Patreon question

I'm focusing hard on budgeting, and one of the things I want to do more of in the coming year is support independent creators/small groups on Patreon and Substack, even if I can only do a little bit at a time. I have a few creators I already support on Patreon, and two on Substack, but I'd love to support more.

I know you've got creators that you love to support on these platforms! Tell me who you support and why you started supporting them if you have creators that are especially unique or near and dear to you. Anything and everything, across the board, I love supporting small business and I love finding new people and niches I never heard about before. There're no wrong answers here!

#I support a few freelance artists and writers and a couple of content creators like Crash Course and Jo Beckwith #I want to hear anything and anyone you've cared enough about to donate to/support! #ALSO FOR THE LOVE OF GOD. IF WE ARE MUTUALS OR FRIENDS AND YOU HAVE A KO FI OR A PATREON LET ME KNOW #THAT IS NOT A REQUEST THAT IS AN ORDER (unless you really truly don't want to. but if you just feel like it's too prideful or not a #'big enough' thing/deal or you don't want to 'bother me'. DO IT. I WANT TO HAVE YOU ON MY LIST TO SUPPORT IF I CAN #I often rotate small amounts of money to different creators every few months in a cycle so I can spread it around still even though #I can't help much. it feels so good to do and makes me feel like I do when I shop a true small or local business. direct action babyyy etc #especially if the creator is going through a health crisis like Physics Girl #2024 #to do #reply here or send me a dm or drop an ask in my inbox or make a post and tag me #whatever #i want to hear why you love what you love #i want to hear what you care about so much you already do or want to in the future financially support it #the world is full of so much amazing work and inspiring creativity and massive efforts #i love learning about them so i get to acknowledge and witness and support them too #i love GitHub for the same reason lol

[singsweetmelodies]

Wait so you love Lando but hate Carlos? but you post Carlando? girl how do you justify that

"wait so you love lando but hate carlos" <- absolutely correct anon, you got it!!

"girl how do you justify that" <- easily: i do what i want here on tumblr dot com.

hope this clears it up for you anon ❤️

#asks & answers #anon #insane anons #like...... WHAT is the point of sending a message like this. genuinely what on earth #what are you trying to achieve bestie?? #if you're trying to get me to like carlos and/or carlando more then this sure is NOT the way to go about it #the hell... #and yeah i know i could easily have deleted this one and not bothered to interact with it at all #i almost did #but there has been such an upsurge in absolutely insane and entitled/demanding and just bizarre behaviour in this fandom as of late?? #and so i WANTED to address this in the most matter of fact way possible #because here's the thing anon: in sports - and in ANY fandom really - we are all allowed to like who we like #and hate who we hate #and the idea of justifying that is already absurd #but GOING TO SOMEONE AND *ASKING THEM* to justify why they like or dislike something???? #what the actual HELL... #go outside... touch some grass... have a good long think #would you ask someone who doesn't like apples 'why don't you like the taste of apples' #'I DONT KNOW STEPHEN. WHY DON'T *YOU* LIKE THE TASTE OF TOMATOES' #honestly like.... #what is UP with people lately??? #JUST BE FUCKING NORMAL AND SANE. please!!! #okay rant over 😅❤️ #(P.S. - anon; don't bother replying; i WILL delete it. i just wanted to say this much xD)

[haxxydraws]

um... haxxy birthday to me

#psst... if people maybe want to send some asks about my ocs or art stuff or whatever... that might be cool #haxxy stop #2022 #eye strain // #1) it's been so long since ive drawn a chibi of anything #2) why am i posting this in the asscrack of night instead of just waiting for the morning? impatience #3) why do i bother doing a birthday doodle? it gives me an excuse to draw cake)

[melishade]

Yo! As a TF and AoT fan, I have been enjoying your fanfic. Hope you are doing well. In the meantime I can’t help but getting 2005 IDW’s, Earthspark’s, and Machinima‘s Combiner Wars’ vibes on your version of Megatron. Being a retired supervillain/sarcastic characterization is well written here on the ol Buckethead

I am 90% sure that I have talked about my writing for Post-War TFP Megatron in the past...Imma do it again anyway.

So Predacon's Rising...was a terrible way to end the TFP series. Season 3, despite it being half the amount of episodes as season 1 and 2 and having questionable writing choices due to the time crunch, wasn't a bad ending. It's just when you hear 'Predacon's Rising' you would think that Predaking is the next big bad trying to take over Cybertron. But you bring back Megatron, you bring back Unicron, you bring back dark energon, and then you do this!

Because if you read Transformers Exodus, Covenant of Primus, or whatever, Megatron knew what oppression was! He knew what violence was! But after a few hours, maybe a week at best under Unicron and you just decide to say fuck it and leave?! It's not helped by the fact that when Starscream tries to get Megatron back into his mojo, he just yells at him! Oh, and in the Covenant of Primus, Megatron makes an active threat to Starscream's life! You know, someone who's been on the receiving end of Megatron's bullshit half the time!

Where was I going with this

Okay, the point is that Megatron's statement in the movie is no indication that Megatron has become a better person. It's either A: he's a coward, or B: it's him unlearning everything that he's ever done. It feels like both can apply.

And just because of one bad day under Unicron, it's not going to lead to a complete turn around in his character and morality. He's lived in violence, and has done so over four million years. Not to mention the dude is extremely xenophobic (Yes, he still hates humans). And he's just so...selfish.

So applying that to Attack on Prime, I have to think about someone who does want to make amends, and ultimately wants to be better, but not knowing how to, and constantly reacting with violence and attitude because it's all he knows, and it's his safeguard. He's treated with fear, caution, and even anger as a result. Change doesn't happen overnight. It takes time and work, and the more time Megatron spends on the AOT world, the more time he acts as a human being, the more he comes to understand the good and the bad of humanity, what that means for himself, and how Megatron grows to ultimately become a better person.

#attack on prime #transformers prime #tfp #attack on titan #snk #aot #shingeki no kyojin #send me asks #asks #ao3 #tfp megatron #megatron #predacons rising #it's hard to write a redemption arc for someone that doesn't deserve it but I'm doing it. #let's be clear #Megatron deserves nothing #the crimes he's committed are more egregious than the Eldian Empire #Knowing this #Megatron has to answer the question #why bother with any of it at all?

[ichigosoju]

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#umm he couldnt even be bothered to react to my messages with emojis?!?!? #like he said that he isnt up for talking and i respect that #i asked him if it's still ok for me to message him and he said 'ofc' #so i did.... i had to push myself bc im feeling like he hates me and doesnt wanna hear from me #all of my disorders saying that haha #so i pushed myself to message him when i wanted to #but.... ok i didnt expect him to reply #but he read it and didnt even give me an emoji #im aware that i sound crazy #this is just how im FEELING #i feel stupid and ashamed for thinking he even wants to listen to me yap about nonsense #i hate myself for being so stupid and sending him pics and a video of the crow i saw #like shut up dumb bitch nobody cares!!!!!!!! shut up #no wonder he cant be in love with me #im pathetic and stupid #his ex that he actually loves is probably smart and witty and cool #and would never be such a fkn loser like i an #am* #god... genuinely hate myself #why dont i know how to shut up?? #definitely wont be messaging him anymore now jesus christ im so embarrassing #im still hurt tho like couldnt he at least have reacted with an emoji #is that too much to ask for...... #i mean listen in any relationship #where u have disorders.. communication and BOTH ppl making an effort is needed #the only way our 'friendship' is even working is bc im just allowing him to do whatever #and im just dealing with the emotional suffering lol #he doesnt even make an effort to reassure me or anything #so yes i cant force him or ask anything of him. but i FEEL hurt by how im not worthy of anything to him #while im over here allowing him to hurt me constantly sksksk

[seiwas]

Did Gojou and Col lose their v cards together then? I've fallen 100 foot deep in this story already I'm so grateful you wrote all this!! 😭🤌💗💗

hello nonie!! thank u for enjoying col so far!! ❣️🥹 so grateful to you for reading it!!! i find the way u’ve asked this question so cute hahah 😭😭😭

just so we don’t confuse ppl also ! col is not the name of the reader hehe col -> conversations on love, but i just call the reader: col reader, to specify that it’s the reader from the col universe!

anyway!!!

as much as i want to say no (because i think it’s a bit cliche if they did 😭), i’m leaning towards yes, they probably did!

there’s a gap between their 18’s to late 20’s that i think could have opened opportunities for them to date other people but with having to watch over megumi and tsumiki + balance sorcerer work, it’s unlikely that they really had time for other serious relationships!

i don’t think either of them are the type for flings either 😭 col reader does go on a few dates though!! but it doesn’t really progress into anything (cos she’s in love with satoru lol but it’s ultimately just the drawbacks of the job), and as much as col gojo’s a pretty boy, i don’t see him being very interested in the dating scene either (he has too many other things to think abt 🤧)

i hope this answers ur question nonie!! thank u for being so immersed into col ❣️

#i feel like gojo’s very no fuss like if u wont be impt in his life in the future why keep u around typa thing #or like if he doesnt see u as impt he wont rlly bother n its coldhearted but he kinda is when u think abt it 😭 esp when he was younger haha #this is all just to say that i think !! attraction ~~ intimacy ~~ things like that aren’t rlly things that come natural to him ? #at least how i see him in this universe !!! #i think the attraction n intimacy must come after some sort of establishment of purpose like #how do u fit in his life kinda thing #which is why it works w col reader ! cos she is literally his only other friend 😭😭😭 #but this is all rlly just how i see him for this universe <3 he can be diff everywhere else !!! #anon #ask #rep #col tag #i think abt this way too much omg 😭😭😭 #i love it tho ….. pls send me more ! i love talking abt them helP ! #love mail

[fingertipsmp3]

Living in a small town for pretty much all your life is like being in a sitcom that’s been going on for way too long

#you end up being like ‘it’s season 27. why are we now bringing back a character who hasn’t been seen since season 16’ #aka guy i had a crush on in secondary school’s mom is in my pilates class #ya girl never forgets a face so as soon as she walked in i was like ‘i Know her. i swear to god i know her’ my mom was like ‘you don’t know #anything’ i was like ‘hush. it’ll come to me’ #it bothered me throughout the whole class but then at the end i walked out into the church car park and literally laughed #she has a personalised number plate with her surname and first initial. i turned to my mom and was like ‘don’t ever tell me i don’t know #something ever again’ she’s like ‘what’ because she’s not even familiar with this person as a concept #so i have to explain about the time this boy turned up at my house unannounced and was like ‘do you want to go for a walk’ and i was like #‘hell yeah’ so we went back to his house and his three dogs jumped all over me and his mom asked me about a bazillion questions #that was 11 years ago #i have not seen her since that day but i swear to you i remembered her. i just couldn’t figure out from where until i saw the car #anyway he’s doing like a postgrad in geology now somewhere. i bet she’s mad. she was one of those parents who hires like a billion tutors #and hopes their kid will become a doctor. babe your first mistake was sending him to a state comprehensive with a bad ofsted rating 👍🏻 #literally just pretending to be catholic long enough to get him into the catholic school would’ve done way more than hiring tutors #and it would’ve been free! no one can tell me lying to the church gets you nothing #my best friend from primary school went there and got to do free violin lessons and learn german; japanese and french AND they had macs #meanwhile i was playing cricket without a bat because our school couldn’t afford bats. life isn’t fair #personal

[buriesitsteeth]

I was having a good day today for the first time since like…august and then someone said something and I’ve spiralled into anxiety grip ‘imworriedimworriedimworriedimworried’ brain and I’ve spoiled my night fr

#I’m just exhausted of existing this way #I’ve asked for advice and everyone tells me I need therapy or a doctor or something but I can’t make myself book an appointment #I need someone to *care* enough to help me do it but there’s no one who’s bothered and that just fucks me up more #*more #I physically can’t ask for help. I fill out the web form and then delete it before I send it. I start the conversation and then cant explain #how I feel or what help I need or I downplay it or joke my way out of it #and none of it is on purpose I just can’t ask for help #never have been able to #even when I was at school if I didn’t understand something I’d just…sit there and not understand instead of asking for help #idk I just #it’s like barriers come down in my brain that say NO SHARING NO #if I’m mid convo trying to talk about my feelings my tongue physically cannot handle the words #it feels like it swells up or something and I can’t get the words out or make the noise to talk and it sucks #I do agree yes talking therapy might be good for me but again like #where do I go? How do I find the right person to listen who will hear me out? how do I afford it? why would anyone want to listen to me? #thorn screams into the void

[caecilians]

taiwan is a part of china btw

everybody laugh at the unprompted anon on tumblr.com who thinks i care about their opinion regarding taiwanese independence !

#who are you and why did you bother sending me this. did you just send this to every person who rb'd that post? thats so horribly sad. #asks #mine

[ivyloveheart]

Yeah idk I guess I’m just gonna go back to just reblogging things idk. Not really too in the UTMV fandom anymore and I still can’t get many interactions.

#I still love Error and Fresh don’t get me wrong but like. that’s really all I care about now + I’m focused on other fandoms now #like Sparklecare and Pizza Tower #I tried the best I could here to get interactions #but people barely reblogged my art or sent asks/practiced reblog karma or anything #and not only that is kinda demotivating but the fact that the interactions basically came to a screeching halt bc one mutual had to leave #like. it was nice when I got interactions. but I’m kinda disappointed to see how they suddenly stopped because one person left it’s like. ok #and I don’t really know how or even if I can even bring them back. because I try to go out of my way to send asks n stuff #but like. I’ve rarely gotten it reciprocated #and it’s not always easy for me to answer asks because I’m slow at drawing #it’s also pretty disheartening to see how many meaningful interactions I’ve already gotten on Twitter when I haven’t even posted any of my a #art to Twitter yet but here I’ve been posting so much art and stuff and sending asks and everything but barely get anything. #in return. #like it’s just frustrating #why even bother with this anymore #like I’ll probably still occasionally post some of what I draw here but I think I might just switch to being mostly active on Twitter. which #is sad because I know how bad that place can get and I never wanted to move there in the first place #but art gets better traction and interactions there and people actually commission artists there #Ivy can speak

[sonknuxadow]

will always be wild to me how proship/anti anti/whatever types are always going "oh im just anti harassment :) i dont think people should be harassed over fictional characters thats all :)" but then the second they see someone say something they dont like they suddenly have no problem with harassing people over fictional characters

#and then theyll call the person theyre harassing chronically online. #like idk youre the one screaming and crying and shitting your pants because you saw a stranger say they dont like your favorite ship #or something #like youre not anti harassment. youre anti people criticizing you for anything and pro harassing anyone you dont like #sorry i dont wanna get into discourse right now but ive been seeing a lot of this kind of behavior recently #as in. proshippers and similar people sending hate to anyone who disagrees with them #and its getting on my nerves #like if youre sooo anti harassment and letting people ship what they want and ignoring posts you dont like #why cant you just keep scrolling. thats what you tell anyone who doesnt like you to do. #anyway i think the person who was sending me a bunch of anon hate a couple weeks ago is back but bothering somebody else now #reason i think its the same guy is because some of their posts were like. almost word for word repeats of the asks i got #making the same arguments getting mad over the same things using the same insults #and they were spending hours bothering the same person. which they did with me. #if this really is the same person. GET A LIFE !!! my god #at least this time theyre doing it publicly instead of hiding behind the anon button so people can block/report them. get fucked