overwhelmedwanderer

[overwhelmedwanderer]

eating a girl out for the first time? as someone with a couple of decades' experience (i started young, ok?), can i offer some advice?

take your time. your aim isn't to make her come as fast as possible, it's to make sure she enjoys every moment. slow down, revel in the process of finding out what she likes.

tell her how beautiful she is, how tempting her cunt looks, how intoxicating it smells, how sweet she tastes. she might be feeling vulnerable, especially if she's inexperienced too - it's your job to make her feel safe and adored.

enjoy the journey - i know you just want to feel your tongue on her clit NOW, but exploring her thighs, working your way slowly to her folds, trailing all the way up her cunt, drinking her juices, letting her feel your breath before she feels your touch...it'll be worth it. for both of you.

learn to read her body with all of your senses. she might be vocal but she might prefer to bite her lip or enjoy being gagged. you don't need to hear her words to know what to do. you'll feel her muscles twitch and relax - learn what it means when she lifts her hips, squirms or sinks into you. she might taste and smell differently when she is close to coming for you. pay close attention to her clit - if you're lucky and you've done a particularly good job, you might see it twitch as she recovers from the perfect orgasm. enjoy it.

you can be vocal though. moan into her. use every sensation you can. light flicks to determined, long, slow licks. blow gently on her wetness. how does she react to your lip piercing? your teeth?

build and add to the experience until she's completely overwhelmed. play with her nipples. run your nails over her skin. lift her legs and spank her.

chances are, she'll get to the point where she really needs you to fuck her. slip your tongue all the way down and inside her. if you can't breathe, you're doing it right. that means you probably won't be able to keep it up for hours, so save this move for when she's right on the edge and you're ready to let her tip over.

if you're especially lucky and she's a squirter, you will get absolutely soaked. enjoy it. show her you're enjoying it. moan into her cunt; she'll come even harder.

if she needs to be fucked harder, slip your fingers inside her cunt and curl them up towards your tongue as it circles her clit. all of her most sensitive nerves will be between your tongue and your fingers. you'll be able to feel every tiny twitch inside her; it's the most beautiful place in the world to be.

when she can truly take no more, stay close to her as you drift away from her cunt. kiss your way up her tummy and her chest, let her taste herself on your lips as you hold her and let her ride out the aftershocks. trail your fingertips over her back. whisper in her ear. tell her everything you loved about eating her out.

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an imagining of me and my love 🫶🏻🥹

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[overwhelmedwanderer]

So many of y'all clearly don't know that top/verse/bottom is a different thing than dom/switch/sub and it shows with the tags and language you use.

Top/Verse/Bottom is generally in reference to those who enjoy giving/giving and receiving/receiving penetration.

Dom/Switch and Sub is in reference to the role one has/enjoys having in terms of a power dynamic.

These two sets of terms are not interchangeable and while I'm at it they are also not defined in any way by someone's gender or how masculine or feminine presenting they are. That being said people can be bottom + dom (regardless of their gender or how masculine/feminine they may appear/tall or short they are/etc. You get the point) and vice versa for people who are tops + subs. Y'all keep treating terms like top and dom as well as the others like they're synonyms, they are not .

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Tree of Sight by Andres Rios

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The Lake

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i see bisexuality in everything as god intended

#same

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their love language is quality time

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*picks up a book that is described as The Song of Achilles meets Mulan*

362 pages later: FISTING???????

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[Image ID: a black and white typography edit that reads "don't want to see transsexuality? pluck out your eyes!" in the right bottom corner is a medical model of teeth. between the teeth is a single eyeball. the entire image is textured to look aged and photocopied. /End ID]

inspired by matthew 5:29

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