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Rihanna in 2005･ﾟﾟ･｡♡

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things i found that work for me , beauty wise ! ❤︎‬

⋆ i’m not a silk press girly, however i do wear wigs. and it gives me the freedom to style it however i want, and whatever color i want. i find myself getting 13x6 or 13x8 always. i look so attractive with curls and a brown type of hair. and it gets me the most compliments!

⋆ focusing my blush on the center of my cheeks and then bringing it out. at first, i found myself putting an equal amount on the centers and sides of my cheeks. i would say i have a round face, so i found that focusing it more on the center of my cheeks, under the eye area, is adorable for my face shape.

⋆ i also use a light pink liquid blush and then go over it with a darker pink powdered blush after i set! so then i won’t have to put a large amount of powdered blush on the sides of my cheeks.

for liquid blush, i use ‘juvia’s place’ shade blush lily. and for powdered blush, i use ‘nars’ shade orgasm x.

⋆ i use concealer instead of foundation. specifically ‘too faced born this way’ in shade maple. if not a concealer then the fenty’s skin tint. foundation makes me feel cakey, however, i haven’t branched out to try more foundations so that’s probably why.

⋆ the less the contour the better, especially on my nose. i find my nose more attractive when doing my makeup using light contour. my nose bridge isn’t tall, so when i blend it, it looks a bit muddy. when rushing i found that using no or very little contour makes it way better.

⋆ instead, i use my huda beauty powder and sharply line my nose with the powder when setting my under eye. then dusting it away with a big fluffy brush. that way it can still have some type of dimension and a cute uncakey look.

⋆ i think i look more attractive with brown eyebrows v. black, and thinner v. thicker. i use a cocoa shade of lip liner for my brows to give me that perfect shade that’s not a black-brown or too light of a brown. then i use a black pomade on the ends of my brows for a nice blended look.

⋆ when it comes to lashes i like a not-too-long but full look. i love a cute fluttery look, and then i apply mascara to my bottom lashes. with bottom lashes i find it to be more “hypnotizing”.

xo , sugardolle ❤︎‬

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financial knowledge for the girlies 🤍🍓💸

Develop a budget: Creating and sticking to a budget can help you better understand your income and expenses, and learn how to prioritize your spending.

Save regularly: Saving money is crucial for achieving financial stability. You can set up automatic transfers to a savings account so you won't be tempted to spend the money.

Pay off debt: High-interest debt can hinder your financial progress. Make a plan to pay off your debts and focus on high-interest debts first.

Invest wisely: Investing can help your money grow over time. Look for low-cost index funds, which can give you broad exposure to the market at a low cost.

Understand compound interest: Compound interest is the interest you earn on interest. By investing consistently, the power of compound interest can help you build wealth over time.

Research before making big financial decisions: Before making a major decision, such as buying a house or car, research different options and weigh the costs and benefits.

Learn from your mistakes: Every failure or setback can teach you something valuable. Use these experiences to inform your future financial decisions.

Get professional advice: Seek advice from a financial advisor if you're unsure about your financial decisions. They can provide guidance on investments, retirement planning, and tax strategies.

Be aware of scams: Scammers can take advantage of financial illiteracy. Be cautious when someone offers an investment that's too good to be true.

Continuous learning: Financial knowledge is constantly changing, so stay informed by regularly reading financial news, books, and attending classes or webinars.

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building my rebrand

getting my money right

one of my main goals right now is to get my money right and save as much as i can. here are some things i am focusing on:

getting a job with lots of opportunity for growth

picking up as many shifts as i can

trying savings challenges on pay days

spread out spending on wants; want something for at least 2 weeks before considering buying

meal plan and buy groceries for those meals rather than buying random things

fill gas tank full when possible rather than filling a little at a time

sleep schedule

my sleep schedule has been off for a little while now due to stress and sickness, so i am focusing on going to sleep at a reasonable hour and around the same time every night and waking up at a reasonable hour and around the same time every morning.

healthy body, healthy mind

taking care of the physical body helps not only your physical health and wellness, but the mental as well. here are some ways i am working to take better care of my body:

some form of exercise per day, even if it’s just stretching

stay mindful of the nutrients in your food, including vitamins, protein, sugar, and fat

stay mindful of water intake and try to drink as much as possible

when sitting or lying down, do not stay in one position for too long. shift and move around regularly.

taking care of your looks

while this may be a bit controversial, it’s important to take care of your appearance, even if it’s in your own way. not only will you make a good impression on others, but you will feel more positive and confident about yourself. some ways i am doing this are:

researching good skincare products and staying consistent with a skincare routine

hair oiling at least once a week

avoid super oily or sugary foods

again, stay hydrated!

strength training and cardio

if you wear makeup, make an effort to find the best style for your face shape

know your body shape and undertones and how to dress accordingly

mindset

arguably the most important part! your mindset is everything, as having a negative mindset can ruin even the best experiences for you. constantly reminding yourself of your power and worth among other things is crucial for everything else to fall into place.

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#miss cherí ❤︎

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SOMETHING “BAD” HAPPENED & YOU CANT GET OVER IT?

we know everything is neutral but sometimes we get attached to experiences we label as “bad” and that gets annoying. anytime something "bad" happens and i find myself attached to it / replaying it or dwelling in being that version of me who experienced that "bad" thing, i think about my future self, the one 5-10 years into her dream career, living her dream stress-free life with her dream house. would she care about this moment? will she even remember what i now labeled as a "bad" moment? no.

this helps me:

a) get rid of the attachment to that “negative” experience

b) shift to a better version of me who has good things happening

like seriously…in 10 years would i give a fuck about this “bad”experience? i doubt so. now that “bad” situation seems so small.

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another thing you can do it just accept that negative event happened. okay and now what? let yourself know: that was old me. im choosing to be a better version of me now. i dont have to be limited by that “bad” event. that thing does not define me. i can move on. yes it happened and now im over it.

you can use techniques to help reimagine another event if just moving on doesnt help you much. visualize or script your desired outcome (aka revise) and know from that point on, that what you visualized/scripted is true. decide to move forward as that version of you who experienced your desired outcome.

+ know that attachment is temporary. you may feel shitty today but know that when you wake up tomorrow, you may feel more relaxed about the “bad” situation. dont limit yourself to a “bad” event or define yourself based on “bad” experiences. you are self. you are greater than that and know that whatever bullshit you are dealing with now, you can and will move on from it.

kisses, jani ☆

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Rihanna in 2006｡⊹ ♡.*࿐ ｡ ₊ ·

#rihanna #muse #fashion

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Beyoncé in 2006‧₊˚ 𓂃౨ৎ

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sexy little things ❤︎︎

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starting a video diary⋆.ೃ࿔*:･☁️

the concept of a video diary is the same as a normal diary, except your filming instead of writing. think of vlogging, its basically the same thing. video diaries are SO much fun to have, video diaries ;

help u to romanticize ur life

give you something to do (simply a fun project that u can try)

make memories that u can go back to and reminisce on

ESTABLISHING THEME ;

whats the theme of ur video diary gonna be? mine is pink ofc! but ur theme doesn't have to be a color. it can also be an aesthetic, whatever u want basically. its YOUR video diary, its your art.

WHAT TO FILM ;

film important dates in ur life such as graduation, first date or simply just days that ur doing something fun with ur friends. my video diary is mostly from school and what my high school years are like.

WHAT I LIKE TO DO ;

as a super talkative person, a lot of my video diary entries are just me yapping about whatever flies into my mind. sometimes i'll jot down a couple things i wanna talk about (like my own personal podcast 🎀) but most of the time i just do it freely and its lots of fun to see how my mind wanders sometimes

get ready with me's are so FUN to do omg. i see them ALL over my tiktok and i've grown to love watching them. if u like watching them then you'll probably like making them too. u dont have to post ur video diary or anything btw, a video diary is something personal, its a DIARY after all.

talk about what songs you're listening to these days, what shows ur watching etc

FOOD FOR THOUGHT -> formulate and talk about ur own opinions on difficult topics and whats going on in the world

and what i do the most...

i talk SO much about my crushes 💀 and i admit, that some of the stuff i say is a bit "unhinged" but im just a girl at the end of the day, its fun to look back on how i used to talk or who i used to like

basically all the fun about a video diary is to DO AND SAY WHATEVER U WANT its supposed to be FUN. i hope u enjoy ur video diary ✨

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Babyphat05’s Bougie Guide 101

1. Persona

- Why do you want to change/reinvent yourself? Whether it’s to gain more confidence, to be a better version of yourself or to be happy with yourself, write a list of reasons as to why you want to make a change. I highly recommend journaling, it is important to journal your intentions and in this situation, journaling how you envision your future self to be is important. Write down where you see yourself in the next couple of years, months, days, or even weeks down to the T. Writing how you see your future self is a guideline, it causes you to want to keep going and keep striving. I forgot where I got this from, but it’s a good visualization technique. Earlier last year, I wrote down four of my idols and listed all the characteristics of each of them (Example: Kimora Lee Simmons/Confident, bold, unapologetic, bougie, knows what she wants) and I eventually studied their characteristics and obtained them. 

- Being Selfish with Your Time. When you make a decision to reinvent yourself and to go on a mental detox, cleansing your circle is extremely important. I read an article that says you should determine your current friends by asking yourself;

What kind of people surrounds me?

How are they acting towards me?

What are they doing for me?

Are they useful for my development and my personality?

If all of these answers are negative, you should drop them. The moment you detect someone doesn’t have good intentions, you should remove their access to you. In order to be confident, you should look at yourself as a luxury, not everyone should have the advantage to talk to you. Be stingy with your time and who you associate with. If you are surrounding yourself with people who aren’t doing anything productive and who are negative, it’s causing you to have the same mindset as them. Your inner circle should be full of same-minded individuals who are dedicated, smart, and genuine. It’s important to drop people who don’t match these criteria. Know your worth. Don’t give others second chances. People should only mess you over ONCE!! You have to let people know that they can’t treat you less than what you deserve. 

3. Being Confidence and Self Assured. It takes months or even years to reach a good amount of confidence. If you constantly work on your self every day and even “fake” the confidence, you will eventually obtain that ideal confident, self-assured persona. From Kimora herself, she says “confidence is what will get you noticed, it will give you credibility, it’s what will provide you with status.” Being passive, quiet and assertive is not helping you grow. You have to show more aggression, stick up for yourself and let others know you’re not the one to mess with. When you walk in a room, others should automatically straighten their posture and get intimidated by your presence. People should always talk to you with respect, and if they have the nerve to disrespect you, you should take it upon yourself to not allow it. Ask for what you want unapologetically. Practice talking in a loud, bold, clear tone and practice sitting up straight. Do little things like holding your head high and give others DIRECT eye contact. If you talk quiet voice, slouch, and have a persona that screams insecure, you can’t possibly expect others to respect you. Be assertive when you send your communication across. Know your worth. You should not tolerate games and disrespect. You should never mope around and get depressed. Like Naomi said herself, “when I feel an attack, I withdraw. I disappear, replenish, and then come back.” Work on your confidence everyday until you perfect it.

4. Moving in Silence. I’ve mentioned this sooo many times on my blog, so I’m going to be brief. Don’t tell others your goals. Don’t tell others nothing, tell others enough information so that they think they know what you’re up to. Even your closest friends. You never know who has hidden intentions. Promise to keep your goals between yourself and ONLY yourself. Don’t be the type to post subs on social media. No classy woman does this. They don’t even think to do something childish like that. Really think before communicating with others. Words are extremely powerful. Put yourself first while you’re on this “boss up mentality” journey. You don’t have to associate with others on an everyday basis. Get in tune with yourself and focus on your development.

5. Independence. This is so important! I learned a long time ago to not count on anyone for anything. Rely on yourself and only yourself. Open your own doors in life, resolve your own problems. Learn to do things on your own, learn to solve your own problems. Don’t rely on anyone to help you with anything in life. You got this, you should have the mindset that you don’t need anyone’s help.

2. Lifestyle: LOA and Manifesting

1. Start Being in Tune with your Mind/Thoughts. We often think negative without even knowing it. Start eliminating phrases like I can’t and exchange them with I will. This will obvi take time, but sooner or later you will subconsciously always think positive without having to correct your negative thoughts. You can’t begin manifesting if you’re negative. If you start to think negative please catch yourself and get out of that mindset. You should remain to have a positive mindset at all times. Turn every situation you encounter into a positive, flip a bad situation into a good situation.

2. Begin Journaling. Writing down your goals on paper lets the universe know your intentions. Journal about how you envision your future self to be down to the T. Not even that, but journaling about your feelings is ten times better than ranting to someone. Vent about your day, your future goals, and what you want to do better the following week. Set yourself goals every month and as you begin to accomplish them one by one, you’ll feel satisfied.

3. Create Mood Boards/Vision boards!! This is something I personally love to do. Having pictures of how you envision your future self is important!! Especially vision boards, it’s helpful to outline how you want the following year to be. Looking at your vision board is used as inspiration and causes you to keep going. Examples of my mood boards:

4. Gather Some Affirmatives. Example: money is flowing into my life easily and effortlessly. You should come with at least five or six. Saying affirmative out loud the beginning of the morning sets the tone for the rest of the day. This is extremely important!! You can not begin manifesting if you do not have some affirmatives that apply for your future goals. You can even look up positive affirmative on YouTube to listen to throughout the day. Set reminders every morning in your phone to remind you to read your affirmatives. Mind you, affirmatives and manifesting doesn’t work automatically. You have to continue working hard towards your goals every second of the day in order to accomplish them! Then, you will see results. The universe will NOT present you with abundance if you are just saying affirmative but not doing anything to make a change! Here are some of my favorites affirmatives on YouTube:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HmjrC-A5l7o&t=685s (wealth affirmatives)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_5HGdD5tttg (positivity affirmatives)

5. Start Meditating. I can’t stress this enough, this is one of the main factors of manifesting (and why it works for me). Take 10-25 minutes out of your day to relax and meditate. Say your affirmative in your mind while doing so for a more positive effect. Meditation is also great for stress and anxiety. Take time out of your day to do this.

6. Get a Hobby. This is so important for everyone to do. In order to be the ultimate bougie, high-maintenance girl, you need to have a hobby. You need to be constantly busy with yourself so that you’re not sitting around with nothing to do. Don’t make yourself too available to people. Take yoga classes, take dance classes, take art classes; something so that you can focus on your own craft and have fun while doing so! Even if it’s something simple like learning a new language, having something to do during your freetime is fulfilling.

7. Ditch the Social Media. I know this is random, but like I said on my blog, scrolling through Instagram and twitter and tapping through Snapchat is a waste of time. This distracts yourself from your own reality when you could be focused on yourself. Ditch the gossip blogs. Stop worrying about celebrity drama and focus on your mental health and glowing up to your full potential. Seeing people’s ignorance on social media could have a huge influence on you, try to limit yourself on social media outlets. I find that this is helpful if you’re trying to level up.

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self concept & the law!

having a strong self concept is one of the most important things you can have for yourself. the law will become so much simpler and you won’t find yourself stressing in people’s inboxes because you’re confused.

the key will always be— to change everything that’s within, this has been preached for years at this point, and somehow many people are still lost because they have poor self concept. like yes, things may conform in your favor ( sometimes ) but if you don’t love yourself down is that shit really important? guarantee you’ll most likely never be truly satisfied because you aren’t satisfied with yourself.

notice how you always hear the word “self” “self” “self” in the law, that’s because it’s the key. and many of y’all refuse to use it. if you can’t build a strong sense of self, abuse “self”, and ignore “self”, it’s only harder up from there. you love looking at the 3d but rarely look at self, when self is the key. the 3d isn’t your friend, self is. the world isn’t in desire, you are.

xo , kaydolle. 💋

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self concept & the law!

having a strong self concept is one of the most important things you can have for yourself. the law will become so much simpler and you won’t find yourself stressing in people’s inboxes because you’re confused.

the key will always be— to change everything that’s within, this has been preached for years at this point, and somehow many people are still lost because they have poor self concept. like yes, things may conform in your favor ( sometimes ) but if you don’t love yourself down is that shit really important? guarantee you’ll most likely never be truly satisfied because you aren’t satisfied with yourself.

notice how you always hear the word “self” “self” “self” in the law, that’s because it’s the key. and many of y’all refuse to use it. if you can’t build a strong sense of self, abuse “self”, and ignore “self”, it’s only harder up from there. you love looking at the 3d but rarely look at self, when self is the key. the 3d isn’t your friend, self is. the world isn’t in desire, you are.

xo , kaydolle. 💋

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is it really a time crunch?

if you already had it would it be a time crunch? no it would not be. i feel like it’s unnecessary to call it a time crunch when you been manifesting to have it now. if you have it, you have it. and i feel like to some it’s an unnecessary pressure since you’re scrambling for something to work. when in reality it’s been there since yesterday. “i need this by the end of this month,” girl it should’ve been there yesterday.

xo , kaydolle. 💋

#kaydolle. 🎀 #girlblogger #law of assumption #loa blog #manifesting #manifesting tips #manifestation #spirituality #self care #it girl diary #neville goddard #dream girl #dream life #self concept