trans asks gimme the trans asks
1. How did you choose your name?
trial and error
2. What gives you the most dysphoria? (Acknowledging that not all trans people experience dysphoria)
having to shave
3. Do you have more physical dysphoria or more social dysphoria?
social
4. What do you do to perform self-care when you’re feeling dysphoric?
talk to friends who see me as myself
5. What was the first time you suspected you were transgender?
idk i was probably in college
6. When did you realize you were transgender?
i don’t think it really set in until i was 20 or 21
7. What is your favorite part of being transgender?
being sexy and epic
8. How would you explain your gender identity to others?
i’m girl but i also have no gender. but i have all the genders. and i’m baby.
9. How did you come out? If you didn’t come out, why do you stay in the closet? Or what happened when you were outed?
i think i mainly used social media to come out
10. What have your experiences with packing or wearing breast forms been?
haven’t tried
11. What are your experiences with binding or tucking?
haven’t tried. i’ve worn binders, but i’m amab. i just like how they feel
12. Do you pass?
god no
13. What (if any) steps do you want to take to medically transition?
i’m still not sure, i don’t know if i’ll medically transition at all tbh. can’t get over my fears of surgery and pills
14. How long have you been out?
a couple years i think?
15. What labels have you used before you’ve settled on your current set?
basically all of them. mlm, genderfluid, demiboy, nonbinary, lesbian, bi/pan, aroace.... yeehaw.
16. Have you ever experienced transphobia?
probably, but i’m very naïve
17. What do you do when you have to go to the bathroom in public?
usually i go to the boys’ bathroom because i don’t wanna get beat up. if there’s a gender-neutral bathroom i will use it about 80% of the time
18. How does your family feel about your trans identity?
i think they’re slowly accepting it, but they really suck at using my pronouns
19. Would you ever go stealth, and if you are stealth, why do you choose to be stealth?
no, i don’t want to
20. What do you wish you could have shared with your younger self about being trans?
it’s okay to be a girl
21. Why do you use the pronouns you use?
comforble
22. Do your neurodivergencies affect your gender?
yeah
23. What’s your biggest trans-related fear?
other than like straight-up getting murdered, probably just not being able to transition
24. What medical, social, or personal steps have you already taken to start your transition?
i’ve come out to most people in my life, but medically i haven’t done anything.
25. What do you wish cis people understood?
how much their words can hurt
26. What impact has being trans affected your life?
helped me make a lot of nice friends
27. What do you do to validate yourself?
i save things on tumblr to look at later
28. How do you feel about trans representation in media?
shrugs. i don’t consume a lot of media but i think it would be cool to have more trans rep
29. Who is your favorite trans celebrity?
nat /@/ puff aka left at london
30. Who is the transgender person who has influenced you the most?
probably like, my fiancé tbh (does olives is out their bf????)
31. How are you involved with the trans community, IRL or online?
i mostly just try to be a good role model and mentor to younger trans folks.
32. How do you see yourself identifying and presenting in 5 years?
probably similar to how i am now, i’d like to try wearing more dresses and skirts and like. fishnets and ripped jeans and the whole punk look,,,, but realistically i will probably just be sitting here in a t-shirt, boxer briefs, and sweatpants
33. What trans issue are you most passionate about?
it should be easier to legally change your name, and also trans fucking rights babey
34. What advice would you give to other trans people, or what message would you like to share with them?
you’re valid and beautiful and i want to give you lots of hugs
35. How do you feel your gender interacts with your race, disability, class, weight, etc. from the perspective of intersectionality?
hm. i’m fairly privileged so i guess i can’t speak for some of these, but i do consider myself disabled. i dunno how they interact though *shrugs*
36. What, if any, is the difference between your gender identity and your gender expression?
i identify as nonbinary, but i would like to express myself more femininely. androgyny would be good too though
37. Do you feel more masculine, feminine, or neither?
feminine
38. What is your sexual and romantic orientation, and what are your thoughts on it?
i just use queer at this point tbh
39. Is your ideal partner also trans, or do you not have a preference?
t4t gang babey
40. How did/do you manage waiting to transition?
i simply sit here and vibe
41. What is the place (blog, website, forum, IRL space) you get most of your info on being trans or on trans related things?
@transgenderteensurvivalguide is good
42. Do you interact with other trans people IRL?
yes but not enough of them. want more trans friends
43. Are you involved in any trans-related activism?
kinda casually, but yeah
44. Free space! Answer any question you want, or make up your own question to answer.
my bonus question is uhhhhh i love u @literally-an-envelope will u marry me
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