i got a c and a d last year and my counselor and teachers have been kind of mean to me and the situation at home isnt any better i feel like a failure and today i was considering suicide i dont really have anyone to talk to about this so im asking you guys im sorry for botehring you guys but honestly theres no point anymore and i just cant do it anymore i want to end it all but im scared that i might end up disabled and that it wont work i just want to free my parents from the burden that i am
Notice: This is something to seek help from a mental health professional from, we are not professionals, just students who care.
Response from Aurora:
First of all, you are not bothering us, and we are glad you are asking for help. You wanna know something? I’ve been in your position before. I couldn’t do well in school no matter how much I tried, my counselor and teachers didn’t seem to care, I had a bunch of family stuff… I KNOW how you feel and you are definitely not alone. Believe it or not, but things really did get better for me. And I promise you, they WILL get better for you too. Your grades won’t matter one day. You WILL have better people in your life that go out of their way to support you, and you also have us :). There’s never not a point, because every time things get bad, they will get better again. You have so many people who care about you. PLEASE talk to us. You can always make a private tumblr and message us privately, or email us at
[email protected]. I know you think you’re a burden, but we care about you so much and want nothing but for you to be alright. Please know that your life WILL get better, and that we really truly are here for you and want you to talk to someone. You deserve to be happy, and life shouldn’t be this hard. You deserve to have people be there for you, you deserve to talk to someone, and you always have us to talk to. And remember that it’s totally okay to get bad grades. You’re not the only one, and a bad grade doesn’t make you bad, and it certainly doesn’t make you a failure. You’re allowed to have rough patches, you’re allowed to struggle, you’re allowed to not be perfect, and you’re allowed to do whatever you need to make yourself happy. Please remember that you deserve to live, and that your life WILL get better, and again, please message someone (it can totally be us and we are very much here for you).
Response From Fleur:
Dear young person feeling lost,
You are not a burden, or an inconvenience, you are a person.
If your parents been telling you that you’re a burden or giving you that impression, it’s a lie. You’re a person with potential, worth, hopes, dreams, compassion for other people…etc. The cruel, thoughtless, and coldhearted opinions of the people who consider you or treat you like a burden don’t matter anywhere near as much as your health and well-being does. You matter.
When you choose to have children, you’re supposed to love on them and support them and cherish them and provide for them and respect them…etc. If that’s not happening for you, then I feel for you because you don’t deserve to be disrespected, insulted, bullied, put down, let down…etc. by the people who gave birth to you or by any other adult or child or being. You deserve respect and support and you don’t need to feel sorry for demanding that.
Your post here resonated with all of us that contribute to answering questions on realtalkTJ because mental health struggles and thoughts of suicide are common enough that we’ve all had experiences—either ourselves or watching a loved one or friend struggle with their mental health. We don’t want you to have to suffer in silence, because that’s a heck of a lot for one person to deal with alone.
I’m really glad that you wrote to us or “bothered us” as you put it because I know it can take a lot of bravery to reach out to someone and share stuff like this.
So we’ve decided that if you’re willing to let us support you, we’ll do the following:
-Talk to you through the private messaging function on tumblr
-Giv you some of our phone numbers so that you can text/call us if you’re comfortable with that because the messaging function on tumblr is frankly, pretty awful
-Arrange for one of us to go with you to counseling services at TJ
I want you to know that there is a crap load of support out there for you. You do not and will not feel this way forever. Psychological states of mind don’t last for the rest of your life. what you’re up against is something you can get past. You can be free from your parents, your teachers can be talked to about being kinder to you or you being moved to a different class can occur, you can find mental health support so that you don’t feel like there’s no escape from your struggles.
If you’re feeling sucidal, you can also do the following if your parents are reluctant to get you support for your mental wellbeing (which can and will get better, I’ve seen people overcome feeling suicidal and get to a place where they can enjoy life again hundreds of times):
-Go talk to Ms. Armstrong, or Mr. Burke. The other people I’d list who I think would help you are: Mr. Scholla, and Ms. Muir. They’re good trusted adults that have been supportive of students before. Really, if you were to go up to any teacher at TJ and tell them your situation, they’d probably help connect you with supportive adults in student services.
-You can always go to the ER and go up to the front desk and tell them that you’re suicidal (they’ll hold you for a couple of days, have you see a psychiatrist, talk to you about what’s going on, help you find resources to check up on you, and maybe send you to a local mental health facility for a week or two where you can get connected to mental health resources)
-If you can’t get to the ER, you can always call 911 and say that you’re suicidal and ask for EMS to come help you
If your parents are willing to help you with your mental health, these are the resources I’d recommend:
-Go talk to Ms. Armstrong or any of the other adults mentioned at TJ tomorrow or next week or whenever you get a chance to.
-Schedule an appointment with a therapist or psychiatrist for further down the road.
-Call Children’s Regional Crisis Response Team (available 24/7 for ages 17 and under. You can call to start the program any time and they’re amazing, they’ll come to your house over a 45 day period for FREE and talk to you daily and give you therapy and if you want to see a psychiatrist they’ll find one too).
-Go to the Merrifield Center to be evaluated for emergency mental health help (located in Fairfax Virginia, they will talk to you alone without parents present at some point so that you don’t feel pressure to have to lie in front of your parents).
-INOVA keller center partial hospitalization program is really good
-Johns Hopkins child and adolescent psychiatric unit is pretty good
-There’s also north springs behavioral health center and dominion hospital locally.
You can always anonymously call the national suicide prevention lifeline: 1-800-273-8255. they’re understanding and nice people and you can talk to them about anything really and tell them about what’s been overwhelming you and making you feel so down. They can talk to you about what you can do to deal with the situations you’re dealing with, or you can just vent to them.
I know it might seem extreme to some people to seek medical help for suicidal thoughts, but I want you to know it’s a serious thing deserving prompt medical care and it’s considered a type of mental health emergency.
You deserve help and support. You’re worthy of it. Just as much as any one of your friends and favorite people are.
Don’t give up on yourself, and if you let us, we’ll find people who won’t give up on you and will keep hoping for you when you find it hard to have hope for yourself. Please reach out and keep reaching out, don’t stop no matter what, even when you come across people that aren’t the kindest, keep reaching out, don’t give up on things getting better because that resilience to keep putting one foot in front of the other is what will help improve your life and mental health and wellbeing.
Take good care of yourself
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A teenager hit my car. He had no insurance, no license, but he was driving a relative's car that did have insurance. There is no question he is liable, everything seem to be going well. But now there insurance company is telling me they are disputing wheather or not the kid had permission to drive the car. What are the chances I'm gonna get screwed here? And what should I do?""
Alliance United Insurance?
So I just want to know all of their current plans and prices? For 2 adults and 1 minor for auto insurance.. I live in California.. Thanks!
Car insurance?
Your Open QuestionShow me another Car insurance? I have comp ins from kwik-fit ,my car was reduced to cinders at the w/end and they have told me i dont get a replacement car [apparently because it is criminal and malicious damage],does anyone know the ins/outs of this, its the first ins claim in 20 years""
Cheap Car Insurance Help.?
I am an 18 year old boy and have recently passed my driving test, i am looking around for cars but the insurance is a joke, the cheapest i have had is 5000. Anyone know what cars are cheap to insure and what insurance companies are cheap for young new drivers?""
How much would insurance be for someone like me?
i have a job that pays 1300 a month, im 23 years old, no previous record. no credit. basically it would be my first insurance for a car. i live in minnesota saint paul, how much would it be? my sis says it might be like 300 dollars or something? if u need other info ill tell it thanks guys""
How much would car insurance cost me?
IM 17, have a 3.67 gpa, the car will be a 98 van, and w/ that driver education training thing how much would it be.""
Is there a way to get cheaper car insurance in the uk?
im 17 and male im making good progress with driving lessons and have passed the theory i have always been interested in cars and then i decided to have a look at them to buy and insure. so i checked the insurance for a 1.0 polo...3400 any 17 year old will NEVER be able to pay this. ive tried 3rd party ive tried doing it through my parents ive tried getting insurance quote for my parents car 1.6 astra. so is there any companys that will do anything to help young people out? like special deals etc also is insurance this bad in usa for younger people?
Zephyr Cove Nevada Cheap car insurance quotes zip 89448
Zephyr Cove Nevada Cheap car insurance quotes zip 89448
How much (on average) is car insurance for a 16 year old?
I turned 16 a little while ago and my dad says he's gonna get me a car of my own! a nissan xterra!! (i LOVE them!) BUT... he said i have to pay all insurance and gas money... I was wondering how much, on average, that will cost? I have about 25% off because of the driver's ed i took and also another 10% or 15% off for good grades If anyone has an idea, I would greatly appreciate it!""
I am trying to get health insurance however I do not have a home base with my job?
I contantly move from one place to another after only a month or a few. Does anyone know if there is any company that can cover someone like me who moves from state to state? The company I have spoke to said they only cover someone in one state and when you leave the state you only would get covered for emergency situations.
Auto insurance on lease vs purchase ?
is there usually a big difference on auto insurance when financing a new car vs leasing one? thanks guys :)
How much does insurance for a motorcycle cost?
I currently don't own a motorcycle but am curious the cost of insuring it. I live in Vermont so I would only be riding it from June to September. I would probably be riding a 2002 Yamaha YZF R6.
Car insurance for young men please advise.?
Hey I'm 20 nearly 21 been driving nearly 3 years with no accidents etc . No speeding no nothing , I want a faster car ( fiesta st) 150bhp car . I can afford the car with ease , will my insurence be un affordable ? I can't pay more than 2000 on insurance. Might I add I'm from the uk i""
How much is car insurance for a jeep wrangler?
i am 18 and have a clean driving record
Why is my car insurance so high?
I'm paying about $1,800 every sixth months, and now it's increasing. I had my driver's licence since sixteen, I'm twenty-four now. And I've been clean my entire life, except a few years ago when I received a speeding ticket. Then I took its courses to deduct points, and everything's cleaned out. But why is my insurance still high?""
Why is my car insurance so expensive? Can someone who knows the facts please explain?
I am 19 I drive an old 1997 Nissan I've only been in one wreck but that was over 3 years ago. I've been driving since I was 16. My mom is now making me pay my own insurance, and she said it would be around $600. This is insane to me. I don't understand why insurance is so expensive especially if you have been a safe driver for years. I feel like you are just throwing away money for nothing. Could someone explain why car insurance is so expensive and why do you think mine is so high?""
Insurance Rate difference Between hatchback And Sedan?
hello everyone, im interested in some information regarding insurance quotes. Im in the market for a 02+ Gti, or a 02+ jetta. The gti is 2 door hatchback and jetta is a 4 door sedan. Im 16 years old but im concerned now how much higher will insurance quotes be between the 2 when i start driving. Theyre both going to be manual. If someone has any idea please let me know.""
""I am international student , i need to apply health insurance(Texas)?""
where should i go?(houston, Texas) what stuff should i prepare or anything i should biring""
How much would car insurance be for a 2002 Jaguar X-Type compared to one for a 2002 Lexus ES300?
I know the Jaguar would be more expensive but by how much?
How old dose a car/vehicle need to be for lower insurance?
I am 17 and i have been saving money for a brand new car and i started looking for one and i found the one i want and so i decided to get a quote on the insurance for it and the quote as around 350 and the car payment quote was 200 i thought that this is a little ridicules myself and i cant afford insurance that high... So i was just wondering how old a vehicle needs to be before the insurance is way lower than what it would be if it was brand new!
""Is it true that the older the car, the lower the insurance cost?""
My dad has a car that is 4 years old, it is a subaru outback, with 200,000+miles on it (not a typo, he drives it all over the eastern coast). Now would the subarus insurance cost(total) be lower than if i bought my own used car?""
What happens to money at the end of life insurance term?
As a young child and teen, I remember my mom saying on a few occasions that she bought term life insurance when I was a baby. It was a 30 year plan for 100,000. She said that the term would end when I turn 30 years old and if she doesn't die by the time it ends....then SHE would be able to collect on the plan (getting the 100k) Now, I am 30 years old..and want to by term life insurance so my child will be taken care of incase I die. I'm thinking off getting a 20 year term. MY QUESTION - is it so that in 20 years...if I don't die, then I will be able to collect all that money? I'm doing research on it and finding that with regular term life insurance, you don't get any money at the end of the term.....but I remember my mom saying different. What do you know about it? (it isn't possible to ask my mom about it)""
Where could I get some cheap but good health insurance?
We need health insurance really bad but everything seems way too expensive and when I google it a hundred different sites come up and its hard to decide which one is for real and which one is going to be a lisas of crap. my husband doesn't make but about 400 dollars a week and I am currently unemployed and In college. Help me!!!
How does the whole process of buying a car work for a teenager?
Okay i am 15 years old and i am trying to figure out now.. What i need to do to be ready to buy my own car in the next few years or when i turn 18. I have many questions.. Because i want my parents to help as little as possible because i will be leaving the house once i am 18 and going to a college that they do not want. So i need to know.. What car? How does the insurance work? How much are payments a month? how do you think i could afford them? Should i start saving now? Should i wait til i move back to california til i buy the car or should i buy it in New York and drive back to California? HELP! PLEASE! or email me and we can talk more about it.
Looking for affordable health insurance?
My employer does not offer health insurance. Does anyone know of a private health insurance company? I was with Blue-Cross Blue Shield and they kept raising the rates. I don't qualify for any assistance due to low income. Also some coverage for dental.
Did you see the left/right coalition letter against the health insurance mandate?
March 19, 2010 Dear Member of Congress: On behalf of our organizations and the millions of people we represent, we strongly encourage you to oppose the individual mandate in the Patient Protection and Affordable Health Care Act of 2009. Our groups and members may disagree on what are the best solutions to our health care problems, but this unprecedented coalition of organizations from across the political spectrum agrees that forcing individuals to buy insurance from private companies under the threat of fines or jail is not the reform we need. The individual mandate is a section of the bill that requires every single American to buy health insurance-whether or not they want it or feel they can afford it-or break the law and face penalties and fines. Consequently, the bill does not actually cover 30 million more Americans-instead it makes them criminals if they do not buy insurance from private companies. We hope you agree that it is unconscionable to force people to buy a product from a private insurer. This would effectively be a tax-and a huge one-paid directly to a private industry. Enacting this mandate would be a major victory for the insurance companies at the expense of the American people. It should be no surprise they support the government forcing everyone to buy their product. Imagine how the hamburger industry would respond if the government forced everyone to have hamburgers for lunch or pay fines? According to the President's Council of Economic Advisers, the average annual premium for single coverage is $4,321. If the 46 million uninsured are forced to purchase private health insurance at that price, then the insurance industry stands to bring in up to $200 billion in new insurance premiums per year. The Senate bill also includes an estimated $630 billion in corporate welfare for private insurance companies in the form of subsidies over the next 10 years, creating even less incentive than currently exists for private insurance premiums to be lowered. To make matters worse, the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services estimates that 19 million Americans would not buy insurance and as a result would be forced to pay $29 billion in taxes/fines. The Joint Committee on Taxation has made it clear that failure to pay these fines could result in jail time. Thirty-six states have passed or are considering measures that would allow their residents to opt out, including Virginia, Utah, Pennsylvania, Florida, Minnesota, Michigan, Georgia and Ohio. Given these fact, it is not surprising that a recent NBC News poll finds 57 percent of Americans do not want the government to create a law that requires everyone to have health insurance coverage and that only 38% of Americans favor the mandate, making it the least popular part of the bill. The American people stand in firm opposition to the individual mandate. We stand with them. We hope you will, too. Sincerely, Americans for Tax Reform, Grover Norquist, President Democrats.com, Bob Fertik, President Healthcare-NOW!, Katie Robbins, National Organizer FreedomWorks, Matt Kibbe, President and CEO Progressive Democrats of America (PDA), Tim Carpenter, Director Campaign for Liberty, John Tate, President 60 Plus Association, Jim Martin, President Liberty Tree Foundation, Ben Manski, Executive Director Hector Barreto, Chairman, The Latino Coalition National Taxpayers Union, Duane Parde, President National Coalition of Organized Women, Consuela Sylvester, Ohio Director Citizens for Health, Jim Turner, Chairman Competitive Enterprise Institute, Gregory Conko, Senior Fellow American Association of Small Property Owners, F. Patricia Callahan, President U.S. Bill of Rights Foundation, Dane vonBreichenruchardt, President Institute for Liberty, Andrew Langer, President Santa Monicans for Safe Drinking Water Coalition, Gene Burke, Founder, Director Alliance for Natural Health USA, Gretchen DuBeau, Executive Director Association of American Physicians and Surgeons, Dr. Jane Orient, Executive Director Fairfax County Privacy Council, Mike Stollenwerk, Chairman The Rutherford Institute, John W. Whitehead, President Pain Relief Network, Siobhan Reynolds, Executive Director American Policy Center, Tom DeWeese, President Justice Through Music, Brett Kimberlin, Director Velvet Revolution, Brad Friedman, Co-Founder After Downing Street, David Swanson, Co-Founder Project Vote Smart, Mark A. Adams, Founder Democracy in Action (DIA), Dorothy Reilly, Organizer Squadron13.com, Gordon Sturrock, Founder Democracy for America - Tucson Chapter, Richard Kaiser, Co-chair DownWithTyranny.com, Howie Klein, Publisher Center for Financial Privacy and Human Rights, J. Bradley Jansen, Director DownsizeDC.org, Inc., Jim Babka, President Cyber Privacy Project, Richard Sobel, Director Citizens For Legitimate Government, Lori R. Price, Managing Editor Republican National Hispanic Assembly, Minnesota Chapter, Rick Agui""
Best medical insurance for gastric bypass?
I have struggled with being overweight my whole life and I have decided I want gastric bypass. I currently do not have insurance and I want to buy insurance to cover the surgery. I'm not really sure how to go about purchasing insurance and which ones deny weight loss surgeries. I am 22 and in perfect other then being overweight, so I figure getting health insurance shouldn't be too hard to get approved for. Like I said just wondering which insurance is best for the surgery and any suggestions you have for purchasing health insurance would be great. Thanks!""
When will a 1989 Mustang GT Convertible become a classic?
The car is in good shape, runs great, new top and no dents. Should I sell it or keep it?""
Is this why women have better car insurance rates then men?
http://video.yahoo.com/network/100284668?v=4533761&l=3774753
Cheapest car insurance for a young driver?
im 20..i own a car. no tickets and no accidents i have had my license for a yr and half where can i find the cheapest car insurance?
What is some really good but not exspensive auto insurance?
my daddy is with progressive and its really high on him and he is looking for a better and less exspensive auto insurance any suggestions.
Re saga insurance?
has anybody had a bad experience with saga insurance [over 50s only]
""As a 16 year old male, how much will I pay for auto insurance?""
I am a 16 year old male (and I already know what statistics show, unfortunately), soon to be 17 years old in October. I will be paying auto insurance pretty soon and I am trying to get an estimate of how much I will be paying monthly/yearly. I obtain a 3.5 GPA and reside in Dayton, Ohio. My mother will be adding me to her insurance plan and I drive a 1999 Chevy Camaro (this is the car that will be insured, and thankfully it does not have a Z28 engine). I'm not sure whether or not the insurance agency will consider this a sports car either, so I'm pretty nervous! Please help me! Thank you!""
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Zephyr Cove Nevada Cheap car insurance quotes zip 89448
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My Best Friend ☼
In this blog I refer to my best friend as “Sun”, Which is an interesting term and seems like an extreme amount of endearment for this person. Well. There is.
After being hurt so badly, and finding myself unable to commit to a friendship. Even struggling with friends I’ve had before you got hurt. Isolating myself, and then by this off chance I find this amazing person who starts to build trust and is supporting me with this love and care that I haven’t felt from anyone in years...It becomes hard.
It becomes hard not to be dependent. I wanted her to share her happiness and to make me happy, its easy. Its hard not to think of her as the light in my life for what she has brought to me, and what she has shown me. Even with myself, I want to improve because I’ve witnessed how hard shes worked and how far she’s come. I want to do this so that I can really truly be her friend. Without the messed up head.
Now you’re thinking “Well if theres nothing wrong between you two, why didn’t you just stay friends during all of this?” The answer is long and complicated..
I had just gotten out of my abusive relationship. Like JUST. It had been maybe two months.
She was awesome. She still is. An incredibly interesting person, and incredibly nice person! All around easy to talk to, genuine and interested in anything you have to say.
Her niceness became her pain. She was trapped in an abusive friendship, and had another toxic one tagging along.
I won’t delve deep into it. She was in pain, and I forced her out of it. It hurt both of us deeply. We both fought about it. It hurt so bad seeing her go through it all, and it still does hurt when she brings up those recent pains.
For me, Forcing anyone or being firm or feeling controlling of people in any way is an extremely painful feeling. When I dealt with my ex this is how I felt all the time. It was so toxic. It was the only way I could get her to help herself.
When situations arise with people being abused theres a flip that switches in me that has to FORCE them away. Because that is the only way I know how to help them. My Ex wouldn't leave when I was being nice.
Sun also wouldn’t leave or listen when I was being nice. There is something that abuse does to people that ties them so closely you have to sever it with a knife. Unfortunately that knife has no handles, and if you’re going to wield it you’ll be in pain too.
It hurts. It hurt me. It hurt her. It hurt us.
I got her away from him. I thought.
I never thought she’d lie to me.
When I found out she was still interacting with her abuser it hurt bad. The big problem was that it wasn’t her just keeping it a secret, she kept it a secret through repetitive lies. Over and over about doing something with a friend. I thought it was weird she suddenly started doing that, but she was getting over her whole situation so I didn’t mention it for drama’s sake. When it turned out to be him.. I was so defeated. Those lies broke my trust into splinters. Rebuilding that... Seemed almost impossible. I feel like it would have been different had she just been silent about it. The excuses and constancy of the lying during that time made it hard to trust her now. It hurts. It hurts so much. I want to trust her but part of me is still scared. “It Hurt so bad, Why would you give her your trust again!?”
I think a source of my pain is that I was never completely comfortable with talking to her about how the whole situation hurt me. Nor was she completely comfortable talking about the situation either or answering things I might have been curious about. I know she said she knew him for 6 months, but I also recall her saying she knew him for years. I don’t know which is which, but both are too long and one is far too long and painful. I can’t even tell her how much I hate that she continues to say she will never forget him. Fuck him. He is worth spiting and forgetting!
Continuing...
She’s still recovering. Sun has a very stressful life, and a history of abuse. So after we got through everything with cutting out the abuser and cutting off a toxic person.. I felt numb. I was exhausted. Spent. I wasn’t sure how to continue the friendship. It took a bit of time for me to allow myself back in.
When I was able to return, I realized I was being overwhelming. Maybe a part of me thought that if I shared with her enough happiness I could bring her back to being happy again, maybe I could learn to trust her again once I saw her happy and sharing brightly. This sharing I did was something I started before all the drama. Sure sharing with someone you don’t get to talk to often and leaving them a lot of stuff to look at could be similar to a penpal..but it was one way. It felt off. Especially after everything that happened. I did it more than I did before afterwards, and I realized I was completely and utterly overwhelming her. It wasn’t a healthy way of sharing. Its something I will work on in the future, with friends and future relationships.
In a sense I was unintentionally “Lovebombing” her.
It wasn’t intentional, so maybe it wasn’t love bombing, but I feel like we may struggle to return to our friendship because of this. I don’t know if she will entirely believe I plan to stick around when I return…
I would spam her with so many things to do I dont think she ever got the chance to completely enjoy one before I pushed her to the next.
Continuing on from that. I had stopped trusting her. Almost completely. I was so suspicious of anything she was doing. I couldn’t believe myself. Theres a mention of her sharing something I thought was just for the two of us in another post. That happened more than once, and it was followed by intense jealousy and annoyance. That. is. bad.
Other times she was being weird about hanging out, and I understand shes shy etc, but my brain was just like “ooooh boi shes up to something!”
I didn’t pressure. I tried to just leave it. Sometimes my anxiety got the best of me. I started realizing I was no longer healthy for her.
We had a lot of deep conversations about all of this, and what had happened. I can only hope she has been taking good care of herself.
I think that with the abusers we’ve both encountered I have been hurt deeply. Its not that I don’t trust her, its just that the scar of when she lied to me cut me deeply. I had seen her so brightly, she had been so amazing compared to the person I most recently shared with (My ex). She engaged me. It was an incredible feeling, but.. She lied. She hurt me. She was no better than my ex to me at that moment. That connection hurts. I know she isn’t like that, she was just trying to make everyone happy, but she hurt herself and she hurt me in doing so. Its scary to consider.
She’s promised never to lie again, and what made me really know that I needed a break was when she was explaining herself to me when I didn’t ask her to. She knew I wasn’t trusting her. It hurt again.
I knew I needed this break. I will work on myself. I know the solution to my jealously, too.
Confidence. I will work on my confidence in my best friend, and in myself. I will know that we are true to each other, and that is what it is ! If things happen and I get hurt again, I will be okay. Because I am confident in myself and in my friend. If she does something that hurts me, Its not because she intends it to be that way.
During our friendship there has been a lot of confiding in each other, and I have taken a lot of it to heart. I had become too protective, she needs room to grow. I can’t burden people anymore. No one is my past. No one needs to be micromanaged. I can be there for advice, but I sincerely need to back off about treating everything so seriously. I am just worried about her. I do not want her to get hurt anymore.
I am confident in my sun to keep shining.
In the end, I realized I was taking care of her problems more than I was focusing on my own. I became obsessed about being there for her when she needed me, and I didn’t even realize. I would anxiously have skype up all day just in case she needed me. This break is to force me to finally confront my problems that I never faced after getting out of my relations with my ex. Having skype closed has done magic for my anxiety, even though I am still so worried about my sun regardless.
This whole post is a mess, But this is for me.
I am confident. I will get through this.
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