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[winslowat3am]

Hey I’m quite new to your site. Sorry if this is annoying you can ignore. Can I req an instrumental remix non rock ver of “temples”? Music helps stim and I love your voice but the rock ver is overstimulating for me b/c all of the instruments, I can’t listen to too much rock bands 👉🏻👈🏻 Found you through astro 😸😺

Aww, of course, honey. Sorry for the delayed reply. It took a few days cause I didn't have much time at home, but I managed to do it! I remade & remixed the entire instrumental for you, changed the beat/instruments to be more suited for you. I figured it would be best to reproduce it using a computer this time. It's a little longer than the original. Hopefully this won't be too loud or overstimulating for you. 😊

Do not repost my music without my permission

#Astro thinks I'm insane lol #oh well #enjoy the music! 🖤 #ask #inbox 📬 #answered 🌹

[spacenintendogs]

listen, I know very little about HTTYD but your art is fun and your passion is palpable so

draw your favorite dragon (not toothless)

thank u so much!!! and my fave dragon (not toothless)?

meatlug :)

#i loooove her soooo much #my baby #my fucking cinnamon apple #httyd #meatlug #httyd fanart #🌹 art #doodle requests #theanoninyourinbox #rose answers #thank u sm!!!! i'm glad u enjoy my passion <3 KDNSKSMSM #httyd has been my Special Interest since i was 11 years old #edit: i made her super vibrant i think but #hjfdkkd o well

[taegularities]

Cmi!jk, your eherm *physical* relationship from when you started your fwb has been described as “animalistic”. Now that you guys are in love, what’s it like now? More gentle, soft making love or a balance of both? 😌

your eyelids are shut, your expression peaceful. when jungkook started trailing his touch along your clavicles and up your neck ten minutes ago, you were still sighing and humming in delight. but now that he's caressing your jaw, tracing your lines and curves, you've become entirely quiet.

slumbering away, letting warm fingertips draw patterns on your bare, glowing skin. jungkook thinks you're prettiest like this. natural and content, so gorgeous that it truly hurts sometimes. how did he get so lucky?

the picture of where are you now and of where you used to be is nearly impossible to grasp. over a year ago, your mid-sex conversations consisted of lewd praises, cocky teases and otherwise unintelligible sounds. moans reverberating off walls, intimacy of the most animalistic nature.

barely any kisses; lips lingering on hot skin.

even now, neither of you ever suppresses the hunger. both a writhing mess, thirsting. but… he sees so much more of you now. your moles. your smile. how your eyebrows furrow when he kisses your neck. and how soft and vulnerable you sound sometimes. how you call his name… like you've forgotten every other word in existence.

he still feels the graze of your fingers along his back. how you hold onto him, pull him closer. how you steal kisses and mix your unfading desire with all that your heart contains. all the things he says to you; and all the things you say to him.

want no one but you.

stay with me, my love.

i'm so lucky to be yours.

as jungkook's movements along your shoulder stop, your eyes start to open again. you sigh again, one more crease between your eyebrows before you slowly, surely look at him. a smile comes into view when you notice him staring; and as he basks in the beam, leaning into you with a clump in his throat, all his feeble voice allows him to say is–

"can i… kiss you, angel?"

#how many more times am i gonna use a pic from this live? the answer is yes #it fits those lazy morning/after s*x asks so well sigh <3 #notes for rid 🌹 #anon #*amc #*amc: cmi #fic: colour me in

[dragondemoness]

Send this to other blogs you think are wonderful! Keep the game going. 👽💜 (don't have to if you don't want to)

Thanks Puppeteer 😊 Right back atcha

@theantichrists-blog, @wouldyouliketoseethatgroovything, @cosmichorrorsarestillnicerthanme, @yourlocalmikankinnie, @pixelatedsunsets, @bunnyroyaltysblog, @averagetoyakinnie and @gddancefloor Keep the game going if you wish x3

#dragon speaks #answered asks 🐲🌹 #the-ultimate-puppteer

[ask-silent-death]

Aim came up behind Victor before hugging him. "Happy birthday, my love! How are you feeling? Do you have time to celebrate with me?" [@reborn-demon]

"Well, of course, babe. I always have time for you. " He smiled, turning around and hugging his husband. "So what do you have planned. I'm up for anything, really."

#aim 😈 #victor answers #the french hypnotist 🌹 #oc birthday

[five-bi-five-mind]

Am I allowed to ask for Diana Prince? 🌹

I’ve had this for awhile but whenever I get 🌹 asks I want to make sure I’m true to my word and adding 300-500 words before I answer. Finally I sat down to do that (and more) so here’s another peek at the next MTT:

“Why are you telling me all this?”

“Because, I want you to understand,” she said as her hand left yours to cup your chin. She turned your head up slowly until you finally met her eyes. “Commitment is serious where you are from, but here it’s even more so. When you promise yourself to someone it is not just for one lifetime, but for all of eternity. It is not something we take lightly.”

Her hand still held your face and you searched her eyes, trying to see where she was going with this. You had a gut feeling and you were terrified you were right.

“I want you to understand, little dove,” her thumb stroked your cheek, “the significance of what I’m about to ask.”

#aubrie answers #anon #sneak peek #diana prince x you #diana prince x reader #wonder woman x reader #aubrie does a lil ask game #🌹 asks

[melobin]

i need to ride sungchan like asap 😭 - 🌹

!! riding sungchan is one of my biggest headcanons for him .. feel like he’d love having you riding him, fingers digging into your skin, lips parted letting out groans each time you sink down on his cock. wouldn’t take long for his feet to be planted on the mattress and his hips to be bucking up against yours, fucking up into you, letting you collapse into his chest whilst he fucks you. a dream

#✧ melody answers #✧ hard hours ✧ #✧ 🌹 anon

[i-wasnt-ready-for-this]

Help me out pls! Which flower do you associate Bojan with and why?

🥀❤️‍🔥

#Every answer is appreciated #Even if you write a flower without explaining #Thanks in advance! 🎀 #joker out #bojan cvjetićanin #🌻🌺💐🌸💮🌷🪻🪷🏵️🌹🥀

[many-but-one]

i understand if you don’t answer questions like this and it won’t hurt my feelings if you need to delete this.

i feel like my smaller parts have been coming out a lot lately, but the problem is that they are so overwhelmed and so sad all the time, and so fearful of anyone and everyone close to us, that i feel like i’m drowning in an ocean of sadness and hurt and depression. everything is so hard and nothing brings me true joy and i feel like it will never get better. my partner gets overwhelmed when i get like this and tries to talk to me like i’m one singular person and he can’t spot my little ones unless i tell him they’re there. i know that that makes sense intellectually, but in the moment it feels like he doesn’t see me/us and i’m just reliving my childhood and teen experiences of not being okay and begging for help and never being believed.

i do have a therapist, and she helps some, but sometimes it just feels like all i get is “do yoga and meditation and that’ll help.” she’s been through a lot herself and i know intellectually it probably works and i really should do it, but i just can’t bring myself to, and i don’t feel like it’ll fix the hole in my heart. maybe nothing ever will, i don’t know.

if you have any advice i’d be happy to listen but i also understand if this is too heavy or sad to talk about. i know it’s probably just a matter of having to grit my teeth and try to take care of the kids and get over myself anyway.

Oh luv🥺 I am so sorry this is happening to you.

I can absolutely understand why the feeling of being ignored or unseen can make parts feel like they are reliving aspects of their childhood. Young parts often hold so much pain, it can be hard for lesser knowing parts to even fathom such deep depths of emotions like that until they’re right next to you and you’re feeling them.

My suggestion to you is twofold:

1) communicate with your partner and your therapist that while you know they’re trying to help, their help is just…not helpful. You are allowed to tell someone their help isn’t helping, especially a therapist that you pay to see. A question you will likely get from them is “How can I help you better, then?” And that’s something you’ll need to figure out. What would help you best in that moment? Comfort? Talking about the emotions? Expressing them in some way with your partner? (Such as making art or listening to a music playlist these parts make to help get these feelings out? Both can also double as a way for your partner to see the intensity of the pain externally in ways that perhaps words or explanation just can’t describe. Art is a powerful mode of communication, feel free to use it!)

2) Find out what YOU yourself can do to help these child alters feel better too. Unfortunately we cannot always rely on external people to be the miracle validators we need, we also have to rely on ourselves. Would your child alters want to be known by you or others externally better? Why are they scared of those around you? What can YOU do to help them feel comforted in this moment? Some other good skills to learn are grounding in the present (as these things you are feeling are likely emotional flashbacks—feelings your child self was feeling during times of trauma), something called “unblending” which is recognizing when emotions are not your own and working to unblend from that child self whose emotions are leaking into you, and widening your window of tolerance. These things can be hard! They are skills that requires practice, especially since folks with CDDs tend to be pretty “all or nothing” when it comes to emotions. Either you feel ALL OF IT or you dissociate it all away. Boon, Steele, and Van der Hart talk about this in the book “Coping with Trauma Related Dissociation” which is a fantastic resource available here.

Here is an excerpt that talks a bit about emotional avoidance or lack of reflection on emotions and learning how to widen your window of tolerance that may be useful:

In addition to all the things suggested, if you have child alters who are flooding the front with so much emotion that it seems nigh uncontrollable, it’s probably best that they not be fronting at that time. Learning how to communicate with them and say things like “hey, I am at work right now, we cannot be having these sorts of emotions at this time. I am not ignoring you, we will address them later when we are in a safe place at home. Can you please go inside to a safe place until we can address these emotions safely?” To which you then must address those parts later on, or they will end up not trusting you when you communicate this and will be less likely to leave front when you ask. Directing them to a safe alter (like a caretaker, protector, or gatekeeper) or asking them to go to a safe inner place internally can provide a bit of relief. If you don’t have an inner safe place or don’t know if you do, here’s some ideas on inner safe places for parts:

To create an inner safe place, try this visualization. We did this with our therapist and we still have the store in our inner world. Granted, it’s much bigger and more complex now to fit all the needs of all parts, but it’s still there!

Also creating time in your day or week for younger parts to come out and be in a safe place and enjoy things they like can work wonders on them feeling more comfortable in the present. Maybe at first you do not involve your partner in this. You can color in a coloring book, read a children’s book to your parts, eat a tasty snack with them, or any number of other things. Helping young parts feel safe and adjusted in the present space is helpful. Something we often have to do with young parts is a “house tour” which is going around the house and pointing out all the things that are different than the old places. “See how the walls are [color] and not [color]? Look at this decoration, we didn’t have that back then. Look at our [pet if you have one] we didn’t have them back then. Look at this furniture and these clothes, we didn’t have these things back then, because it is [insert this year] and not back then, we are safe now in this space.” Eventually adding your partner in with these activities will also help them feel safer around your partner.

Additionally, encouraging parts to express themselves with words or pictures rather than emotions can be important. Putting emotions into something like words, drawings, a gallery of photos you find on the internet, etc, can be a good way to help de-escalate emotions and make them not so intense. I know saying “putting words to emotions makes the emotions not so intense” feels fake, but trust me, it works. Yes, it pisses us off every time we do what our therapist says will help and it actually helps. Yes, we still do it begrudgingly even though it helps. If parts are not allowed to talk about what happened to them (your gatekeeper or protector parts do not allow them to disclose trauma) then have them not write about the experience itself, but the emotions behind the experience. Encourage parts to use their words when communicating rather than emotions or flashbacks.

I hope some of these suggestions helped? Good luck and take care anon!

-Dori🌹 (she/he/they)

#dori🌹 #anon ask #answered asks #did osdd #did alters #dissociative identity disorder #manybutone #did system #child alters #advice

[coeluvr]

Stole this from an infamous ask but which of the male ROs has the sluttiest waist?

Is this ask just being forwarded like this 😭

Hmm, I would say Helios, maybe. Vincent too.

#coe answers #helios is like 🌹🌹🌹 #vincent has broad shoulders so like inverted triangle shape okay

[spacenintendogs]

rose if ur doing requests I’d actually die to see more toothless I ADORE how you draw dragons (toothless doing a silly art project)

K love u bye bye

hiccup: that doesn't look ANYTHING like me

#rose answers #midoristeashop #hi hannah!!!!!!! #ough u are one of my fave artists on here so this ask like. #i ascended KDNSKDKSK #httyd #toothless #httyd fanart #i used the scene in httyd 2 in the snow as ref lsndkskdks #THANK U!! i'm so happy u like how i draw the dragons 😭😭 #i put WAY more effort into them than the humans i draw #doodle requests #apolocheese for this taking so long!!! #did this during my lunch break at work!! #also ignore that toothless' stick doesn't actually line up with the drawing #and that the drawing goes through the sfick #ily too!!!!!!! #🌹 art

[taegularities]

what’s your favorite series/oneshot that you’ve written?

AH i love questions like these, tysm for being interested in that!! 🥺 hmm.. obviously, the colour me in babies are my everything. but other than that, there are a few i would want everyone to read and love:

tales of broken hearts (kth) — ex2l. all the pain in the world.

love me better (pjm) — took me 7 months to finish and used up all of my brainpower. it's just ❤️‍🩹

stars behind waves (jjk) — it was so easy to tackle and i love everything about it :')

silk & stones (kth)— not a lot of people know that one, but i think i'll never write a fic again the way i wrote this one 🤍

if you ever want to dig into these.. i'd smooch 🤍

#also!! don't know if anyone will answer but!! what's your favourite fic (series or oneshot) of mine? 🤍 #notes for rid 🌹 #anon

[dragondemoness]

Aple

Ornge

#dragon speaks #answered asks 🐲🌹 #wouldyouliketoseethatgroovything

[five-bi-five-mind]

🌹 Diana Prince please

How about a little snippet for the next part to MTT 👀

“Can you promise me something?” You mumbled into the otherwise peaceful silence of the room. Diana’s fingers paused their patterned movement on your back. She simply hummed a response, waiting for you to continue. “If they come looking for me,” your voice was barely a whisper, “let me go.”

You felt Diana’s other hand grip you around your waist a little tighter. The muscles of her arm, still wrapped around your body, tightened. For a moment, as you lay on her chest, you swore you heard her heart rate increase.

“It won’t come to that, little dove.” Her tone was gentle, but beneath it you heard the severity in her conviction.

#aubrie answers #anon #aubrie does a lil ask game #sneak peek #maybe this time series #wonder woman x reader #diana prince x reader #🌹asks

[melobin]

i would literally slurp up sungchan's abs like you don't understand - 🌹

his body is so nice …,,. thinking so hard about kneeling in front of him, licking up his abs before sucking him off. i think he’d lose his mind at having you touch his body like that … thinking even harder about riding him and scratching your nails down his abs whilst you do ohhh i couldn’t imagine them being a sensitive spot for him ..

#✧ melody answers #✧ 🌹 anon #✧ hard hours ✧ #✧ sungchan hours