#but i'm personally too shy to do it

[reveseke]

Headbutting bakugo feat. Bakusquad

PT. Headbutting Bakugo feat. Bakusquad. PT end

Mini headcanons about it. I just thought it was a cute idea lol.

Nonbinary!reader in general, second pov you/your & trans ftm friendly.

CW ... Just headbutting mentions, nothing more. | Fluff & affection | hint or reader being shy

DNI - Fudanashis/fujodashis, women & fem-aligned, profic/proship, anti - LGBTQ+ folk & exclusionists, anti-antis, Necro- Zoo- Pedophiles + (NO)Maps(and other terms), basic DNI criteria, kink/nude/nsfw/sh/vent/pro-ana/ed/18+ blogs

It started as an accidental gesture between the two of you as you grew comfortable with him even if he was sometimes imposing and scary in general. The only explanation you could give people question it was that it was your way of showing something that you couldn't describe deeply or, to your mind, correctly in words.

A language of love and affection one could say. Of course you did start doing it after a year or two of knowing him and his boundaries. Katsuki wasn't a big one for physical touch after all, but the brief and soft bump of a head against his arm or shoulder wasn't much he found annoying.

Although when more and more people questioned you about it, you started to doubt it. Questioning him about it to get reassurance of it being alright.

Growing more comfortable he started eventually doing it back, sometimes even against your head or cheek if you allowed him.

The squad noticed these brief interactions of course, they didn't question it. It was just declared R's way of affection, that's all. Well that was until you started doing it to the whole squad. Albeit being really careful about it and asking if it was alright.

They didn't mind of course. And it slowly started to become a reoccurring thing that they would let you headbutt them whenever you felt like it and do it back to you.

#bnha x male reader #bnha x nonbinary reader #bakugo katsuki x male reader #bakugo katsuki x nb reader #hanta sero x reader #kaminari denki x reader #mina ashido x reader #bakugo katsuki x reader #kirishima eijiro x reader #male reader #nonbinary reader #masc reader #trans reader #ftm reader #the urge to #the urge to headbutt my crush or/and friends' shoulders bc i wanna show them my appreciation #but i'm personally too shy to do it #Fandom : BNHA

[letters-of-libertas]

I'm bi and yeah your note on women not having solidarity seems sadly true. Apart from not dating men would there be anything you would suggest to improve ones life apart from stating away from those women if possible?

I love this question because this is how to start thinking: being practical.

What it takes to "improve ones life" is subjective so with that said firstly define what a better life(style) for yourself away from moids would look like. Temporarily mentally remove xy terrorist existence. What would your habits/routine be? What would you work towards & pour your energy into? What would you want to be? What would you center your life around? Take your time with these questions or anymore that come up. Have a general idea then be more specific and start breaking your life down into sectors/sections/areas, then look at where you want to be in those areas and work towards it.

For example; I divide my life into 6-7 aspects:

Physical Strength - Not just about muscle but knowing how to fight, where to hit and when to fight. Being stronger makes it easier to defend yourself in altercations (especially with other women). Some mfs will try you & you cant always rely on others coming to your rescue. Also work on building stamina to help endurance, and keeping as healthy as possible.

Emotional Strength - If you cant control your emotions they will control you. In a world of chaos being emotionally strong will let you cut through the noise and focus on what truly matters. Building emotional strength is not easy but it's worth it. Being able to rise above immediate reactions and pace yourself will allow you to assess situations more rationally & make more beneficial choices.

Finances - Get your bag up. Having money to gain resources is imperative to quality of life. I dont care what anyone says having a certain amount of money in life WILL make you happier as you're able to meet your needs better. Having more money/resources also makes it easier to support other women should you choose to do so, it also allows you to be more influential and have more control over your life. However, dont become a slave to getting money tho because that's how you get scammed.

Network - The type of people you hang around can make or break who you are as a person. Aim to connect with likeminded women who will encourage & inspire you as you go on this journey. Hang around people that value & will be honest with you while giving you grace. Not all women you engage with have to be single & childfree but beware the moid crazy ones because they will bring danger to you in their quest for maIe validation. Life isn't perfect but you cant go wrong having the right people around you, valuable relationships are hard to find but it goes a long way even if it's just online. However, no company > bad company.

Spirituality/Guide - Having something bigger than yourself to guide you through the chaos in this world can offer guidance/purpose that keeps you grounded & focused. For many people generally this is religion/god. Not everyone needs or ascribes to religion/spirituality though, but at least consider sets of morals/beliefs to follow. However even that isn't for everyone. So if you feel better off without spirituality or a 'higher' guide at least be clear on it & your reasons why (for yourself).

Hobbies & Interests - As turbulent as the world is, find things to enjoy amidst the chaos. Constant work, doom, and gloom will not change anything you will only hurt yourself. Take time to indulge in things that make you happy to recharge & relax. Engage in hobbies that serve you, share your passion with other women & hear theirs out too. It goes a long way in terms of mental health.

Security - It takes privilege to decide to not get married or have children as a woman & live it out. Everyone's situation is different so what I'll generally suggest is to constantly look into how you can protect yourself, have backup methods, and stay in the loop of xy predation. Dont drown in it but moids are predators & being completely blind to them is being blind to danger. Elaborated on point 10 here.

Sounds like a lot? Great, it'll keep you busy because this isn't a vacation or destination but a lifestyle. And to be honest, some of y'all can do with the busyness as it'll let you focus on what actually matters. This not to say to overwhelm yourself in things for the sake of it but to prioritise your energy on effective things for your life. As you focus on building you'll find that you have less energy to care about insignificant stuff or stuff out of your control anyways. For example, Instead of getting wound up about user somerandomadjectivefem stirring discourse calling you an extremist or whining about how impossible it is for her & other women to live without romantic love n' whatnot (or even women irl pulling this crap), you either ignore or quickly shut down the conversation & swiftly move on.

Everything I've mentioned are just examples, you may feel differently do whatever you feel best applies. Also remember to enjoy the process along the way as you are living through it afterall :3

Long story short: Work on building resources & other aspects of your life up for yourself.

#Many tend to shy away from the single childfree lifestyle bc the traditional map/railguards aren't there but thats the fun part of it #for me is figuring it out; figuring myself & the world out; trial-and-error to carve an environment & lifestyle best for me #Few side notes bc I dont want the blog to be too long: #Regarding physical strength: I know that no amount of training will make you as strong as the average moid but it isnt in vain #as other women can also act up & there's a higher chance of taking them on successfully without weapons vs xys. #Regarding section on being busy: Personally I dont care for discourse surrounding this topic because my mind is on other things like making #sure my reps for the day are in; making sure I'm staying up-to-date with knowledge I need to do my job; building sources of income #outside of my job;engrossing myself in my interests; for example. You become productively busy enough & what other women do doesnt bother #you. That's not to say completely ignore or not criticise moid-aligned actions; but dont spend too much time wallowing in doing so. #female separatist #female separatism #blackpill feminism #blackpill feminist #wineauntmovement #wine aunt #decentering men

[remoncatto]

Various doodles from twitter

#I'm too shy to talk about him you gotta nudge me #but he has been torturing my brain and my friend suspects I have a douma DID personality which!! I don't think I do FDGFHJG #BEcause like there's been a few things that I can't really explain that's been happening in my life and I think I'm possessed or something #douma #kimentsu no yaiba #demon slayer #童磨 #鬼滅の刃 #shinobu #shinobu kocho

[honeydewtreacle]

Clips of my favorite lost puppydog! I may be endlessly saddened by this incarnation of him, but I can't ever bring myself to love him any less.

(source)

#alex brightman #wicked boq #i ADORE this loser #but do not get me started on my very strong feelings when it comes to his changes between book and musical #I'm sure anyone whos read the book knows what i mean #it just makes me sad #i fear for the movie but i also risk being optimistic - that with all that extra time he might get his personality back? #that or he'll be made 1000x worse and i don't know if my little heart could handle that #sorry i love him! #im too shy to put this in the main wicked tag #brighty

[zetsubobu]

Adding right to my previous post but little funfact about myself:

The reason I got into art was because there was a certain ninjago artist that I really loved and she had very interesting ocs. Those ocs became like a huge hyperfixation to me (that I still kind of have) and I remember screenshotting so much art of them, making folders, etc. In the end, those ocs inspired me so much that I wanted to create my own (as well as do fanart for them) so that's the reason why I wanted to learn how to draw.

I have always been a huge oc artist supporter which is why I just love learning about other people's ocs because I think that's one of the things where a persons creativity can shine the most.

#it's why I post about my own ocs sometimes because I know that there will be someone interested in them #even if they don't interact (because I certainly didn't #i was too shy) #although I haven't posted too much about them yet except for maybe marvolo #most of my oc lore is hidden on my private instagram account #because I don't want to talk too much here about my ocs and drown out fanart (because that's the reason most of you are following me) #though sometimes I really do feel an urge to just lore drop because I worked very hard on them #the only oc that doesn't have a proper personality and backstory is cece and that's because she's just my persona #she's supposed to represent me #i am always open for questions though #i'm actually working on a proper profile for my characters #some of which are sort of finished but I will only share the link to the website once all of them are #which probably takes a long time due to procrastination school and other works

[sciderman]

ok I know it was like a day or two ago but whoever sent in that ask about Bojack has me rewatching it, I'm on season 4 which is my personal favourite, which seasons your favourite? Any specific episode you like?

man! i really, really need to rewatch it to tell you which seasons i liked best, but i remember i kind of really consistently liked it. i even love the first few episodes of the first season, even though i know public consensus says they're not the best - i kind of just, immediately liked the show. i like that maybe the first episodes were a little lighter and goofier so it eased you into the heavier stuff. and that - characters that seemed light and goofy get extra dimensionality and flaws and baggage and damage as the show progresses. i think just - start to finish, it was really strong, and some select episodes were complete masterpieces. complete masterpieces.

i think i especially love the more experimental episodes - i did a reanimate project for the underwater episode, which is just - a delight of visual storytelling. i love when animation forgoes dialogue and completely leans into visuals. just - i love it. i love it. not that the dialogue isn't brilliant in bojack, because it really is. but even when they don't have dialogue, it's still brilliant.

i think the episode that leapt to mind immediately though is – the stupid piece of shit episode. i just - i think about it all the time. i just - i love being in bojack's head, i love the different animation style, i love the frantic, brutal nature of it. there's just this honesty in bojack that i just - i haven't seen anywhere else. when you see mental health being tackled in other media it's so often so - so sensationalised or demonised or simplified into some evil that needs to be overcome, but bojack just - i don't know. it's so honest about the brain. and that it's not - it's not just one guy who's suffering. it's everyone. it's you, it's me. i just. man. i really loved this show and what it did. i think it's something special.

i think i love media where mental health isn't just a problem exclusive to one bad egg, but like, it's normal. we all have that voice.

#sci speaks #i've kind of had a resounding response from a lot of people about my writing in that #oh i must hate these characters because why would i make them do bad things and say bad things if it wasn't because #oh i want to make them the bad guy #people hate that i make spider-man and deadpool be assholes and do asshole things that hurt people. but #i don't know. bojack is like #one of my favourite pieces of media of all time. i love this sincere #honest kind of writing #that doesn't shy from ugly truths. #and it's funny how it's one of my favourite pieces of media #but i'm afraid to recommend it to people because it's not easy to enjoy. #i guess it's with my writing too. i can't fault people for not liking it #because sometimes it's not easy to enjoy. #but i don't know - this is the kind of writing i love and the kind of thing that stays with me #and i love it so much more than anything sugary-sweet and simplified and easily palatable #i know that's personal tastes. i've apologised for it before #but - it's what i'm interested in writing and it's what i'm interested in reading. #that's just what i'm into. and i should always be honest about that #i think bojack has more merit than most media i've seen #even if i know it's difficult to recommend #and i know the majority of people won't enjoy it. #i want to see more ugly brains that aren't wicked or evil #but just - we all have self-destructive tendencies and... #and we can talk about it. because talking about it might be the only way to recognise those faults in yourself #and understand them #and forgive yourself for them #and make a step towards something better.

[moon9931]

uhm uh I wanted to give my opinion s

on pt ships- uh-

as you can see im not necessarily judgmental when it comes to the majority of pt ships, uh...........uhm......sorry? ig???

#not using the pt tag haha #because ion wan people to get mad at me #do y'all hate me now or............ #idk....... #I find some ships funny #and some cute #some both #and some idk #does that make me a bad person #I'm so paranoid I'm so so so so sorry but y'all gotta tell me if this makes me problematic or not #aaaaaaaaaAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHH #damn it!!!!!!!!! #<HJUHKHUGHUIYU #*hyperventilates* #*chokes* #*gasp cough wheeze* #*more choking* #*death* #euughhhhhhhhhh X-X #dat shit really hurt man ow #dis might my last day on tumblr my ass might get canceled /hj maybe #if you've scrolled down here then let me tell you this #bruh I'm too shy to say this out loud but I need more pepstavo art #its been my fav ship since March 2023 and I just- #*sobbing* #without them I will DIE /hj /silly #bruh the pepstavo nation is dying very slowly and I cant do anything about it because. my ship art has gotten extremely horrendous that- #-its not even funny it's actually just- #UGGGGGGGGH EWWWWWWWWWW WHY DOES IT LOOK LIKE THAT!!!!!!!!!! /neg #that's what it is

[illithidhost]

Like this post and I'll scurry over to ur blog and send in one of ur rp memes 🥰❤️

#😈;; the tadpole speaks ( ooc ) #(I'm a shy and snervous person that doesnt wanna be too much or a bother) #(so if u wanna interact like i do.. this gives me the boost of confidence to waddle my ass into actually doing something) #(kisses and much love to u all)

[catboii]

there are things in daves cupboards that have a best before date from last year

but " theyre still good until theyre not "

#((ic post)) #(( #food waste;; #unsanitary;; #ask to tag. #disordered eating;; #not really but. it's an iffy subject. like I always say; if you need something my muse has posted/rbed tagged PLEASE let me know!! #you can anon if you're too shy or just don't wanna out yourself!! #personally I'm iffy on food topics and I feel silly abt it so I know the feel bbs!! #if you don't want me to post the anon message but just make an OOC post acknowledging “I saw the TW request and will do that!” then lmk too #ooc in tags. #))

[keeps-ache]

look into my eyes

look !!

☯.☯

#just me hi #thinking about people hfvsh #they're pretty cool !! :> #there's like one person on this planet i'm not too shy to just Say that to. but if you are reading this and i've ever seen your url in my #life there's a 99.99% chance i. need you to just look into my eyeballs #no i don't know how that translates to admiration or appreciation. but it Does mean that hfvhsh #so like. eyestaring contest /extremely positive #//hm you know what whoever called me a cat that one time was right #i keep getting assigned animals (otter poodle goldfish bird(small) and a couple others idr hfvhs) but i think the cat one was closest loll #i get excited and bc people do not like it when you get Excited at them (rip my sibling but they get it. kicking them <3) i like to just #aggressively obtain eye-contact hvfsh #it's very effective! #//look into my eyes boy [you see a frog wearing a wizard hat spinning in the gloss of my eyes] #//funny tho cuz nobody knows what i'm doing when i do that. like dude what are you doin over there. why the periodic whale-eye #i am saying i care about you. look into mine EYES mothertrucker #//okay i'm going now hfhvs #i wanna try to finish this page today.. that would be cool :D #if not. well then i have something to do tomorrow!! #so bbbbyye i'll prolly be back in like. 10 seconds hfbsh

[scorchieart]

PSA from a tired server technician

If you're on a website, or an application, or some hum-dum-diggory 64-bit program and you're clicking a button and it doesn't respond after the first couple of times...

Do not spam click it.

Trust me, it will not fix your problem. It'll only make it worse. I understand it can be frustrating to wait, but patience is a virtue.

#too shy to say this in person so I'll say it here in the hopes it helps someone understand #servers have wait times and priority lists and overwhelming them with more requests than they have ports to process them will freeze 'em up #then no one gets to do anything #did I log onto tumblr on my work computer just to post this? #yes. yes I did #who's going to stop me? I.T.? #I AM I.T. #I'm just gonna hide under my desk for the next 5 hours and hope nothing bad happens #local bird yells at cloud

[dootznbootz]

...It's kind of wild when the terf that you got into a fight with and had to write an essay on "Why violence is wrong" back in high school now works at the pharmacy where you get your medication from...

#I'm sorry for the vent I just am mad that she could be in a PHARMACY. I hope she's at least changed her ways. #she should not be working in health if she still thinks this way. #She definitely remembered me too. I don't think she could forget honestly. neither of us was injured btw. #It wasn't a “fight” in the way you think most fights are. she called this sweet trans boy the word rhymes with maggot (that's what she is) #a maggot. #while she was moving around a lot and idk. rage took over and I twisted her arm and she happened to fall and then I cussed her out #I probably over did it but moving her arms around while ranting and then calling him that just pushed me over. I WAS calm at first. #He was a shy and quiet kid and he “didn't want to make a big deal about it” so I tried to follow his request but... you know. #it was in theatre behind the curtains during rehearsal and everyone heard/saw so yea. I got into trouble. no detention surprisingly #it was a long time coming. she would constantly harass him with shit about how “You still look like a girl”. and using wrong pronouns #and teachers were told but they didnt' do shit. She also was just a mean person. This guy wasn't the only person she bullied #I only wrote on why VIOLENCE was wrong. not about what I did. The only thing I feel bad about is that I scared the poor guy I was defending #I don't remember what I said (I was that mad) but apparently I "picked her personality apart like a bunch of lego bricks and then told her #why the “lego brick” is fucked up“ He was just 14-15 and she was 18 btw😒literally harrassing a sweet KID. #was convenient though because all I had to do was give her a look and she would immediately back down. idk what I said when I yelled #at her but it was nice that I could do that whenever she would start shit #Mad rambles #idk y'all I'm scared that she's in HEALTH. if I know anything I'll see if I can report her because while I hope she wouldn't fuck with tran #folks medications idk for sure. she was really cruel back in high school. #vent #rant #I try not to post shit like this but I'm worried you know?

[neverpending]

OUGH

I wish I could post more but I'm so disorganised that I can never do more than sketches when it comes to art. Maybe I should say fuck it and start posting my more messy stuff, the couple people I share my art with do say that it looks great regardless

#I'm just so damn nervous when it comes to posting my art Online hrghhgn. I'm too self concious and critical of my work #need someone to personally threaten to kick my ass if i dont Post Content #It also doesn't help I'm so OC fixated. I do cringe and then get too shy to Post Cringe #sighs

[bluebellthesponge]

imagining outfit ideas i saved on pinterest on some guy from a band i enjoy is weirdly such a helpful way for me to be more confident and try the outfit

#this sounds soooo insane but i will think #oooh i like this outfit idea i found on pinterest now i am gonna imagine #joey nsync wearing this outfit and oughhh ok ok i like it even more now #and it's insane too considering i KNOW most of these outfits will not be actually caught #being worn on any of these guys but still it's weirdly helpful #to make me even me less shy to try it out in the future #i'm just some transmasc loser trying to live out my imaginary wardrobe if i wasn't a coward ok #also yeah imagining band guys in these outfits does also kind of help my gender #sometimes i do worry that i feel like i am fake or that i am not a real transmasc non binary person #but then i realize that shouldn't fucking matter and that i should be happy with how i want to present myself #and that those who love me will respect my identity no matter what and see me how i want to be #but anyways but also just imagining joe fababoi in a cool outfit idea i found on pinterest #makes me giggle and lowkey gender envy even though it's fucking made up in my mind with what he is actually wearing lmao #and that me getting literal envy from an imaginary outfit idea on a band guy then maybe i do actually like the outfit and should just try i #bluebell talks

[non-un-topo]

Nicolò’s doctor was giving him that look again 👀👀👀👀👀👀👀

Hello, Rae! <3 I titled this file with the first line of the fic because it just doesn't have a title yet ghfdsgf. But it is the sequel for my (1) modern au, 'stuck on you' and starts with a flashback. Have a snippet of baby-trans Nicky's first T shot: **CW for needles/injections!!**

“Don’t kick me if this hurts,” Andy warned when they were both in the bathroom, all supplies laid out on the sink and ready to go.

Nicolò, who was sitting on the edge of the tub, crossed his fingers and promised he wouldn’t. He’d already filled the syringe, switched the needle and swabbed his thigh. The only thing Andy had to do was the actual injection, which… okay, he was a little nervous.

“You ever thought about becoming a nurse?” Andy asked as she watched him flick the syringe. He snorted, though he didn’t hate that idea.

“Okay, kiddo.” Andy hovered the needle over his thigh, and Nicolò resisted the urge to look away. He had to make sure she was putting it in the right place. “I’ll do it on three. Count for me?”

Nicolò gulped. “One…”

Andy poked the needle in, and Nicolò hissed, trying not to move. “Ow!”

“I lied.” Andy smiled deviously, but she had that sappy look in her eyes. Nicolò couldn’t be mad at her. “Okay, for real this time.”

Nicolò had to squeeze his eyes shut for the rest of the injection, but he counted for her. And if a few rapturous tears slipped out when he opened his eyes, Andy would just hug him tight and tell him how proud of him she was.

Also this, just because:

“Jean-Pierre is eight,” Nicky reminded, “and has ADHD.”

“I’ll keep an eye on him. I’m the buff uncle, he’s not gonna mess with me when he sees these.” Nicky turned around in time to see Joe flex his biceps.

Needles to say, Nicky barked a laugh. “What am I then, a noodle?”

“You’re the fuck-around-and-find-out uncle. One look, and those kids will behave.”

#ty rae <3 #i am super super shy about this fic and this au tbh. i'm not an au writer so i have lots to learn #also just an unnecessary disclaimer: nicky is plenty buff too lol. joe said this for the Bit. #god this wip has been slow-going #but i miss writing nurse nicky ;_; and this au is very personal to me so ig it's okay it's taking so long #this one's gonna have a lot to do with parenthood (or specifically NOT parenthood) #sage writes

[cloudbells]

I've literally never drawn a portrait before in my life and I just attempted to draw Steve and on one hand I'm like, "Who is this man." but on the other hand, "Not too bad for a first try."

#me my mine #SEXY ART CHRONICLES #i'm too nervous and shy and ashamed to share imperfect attempts as if i'm proud of mediocre work #but then i think “THEN HOW WILL I EVER GET CRITIQUE TO GET BETTER?!” #i do not know #maybe i'll post it on ao3 under anon and request help? #idc if anyone knows it's me anon just FEELS less personal and I like that #help what should i do dfgjkdsahfjds