#dispicable behavior!

[moonymoonbeam]

genuinely so upset about the kit conner situation. i cant even imagine having to do that. really feels like every fandom space is filled with harassment and violence right now

#forced outing is inherently violent #especially for someone so young #i dont understand how someone can claim to be a fan of something especially heartstopper and turn around and continuously harass its actors #dispicable behavior #i hate the internet. #em speaks

[eisforeidolon]

I'm sorry but the last couple of days have proven that no, all sides of fandom are NOT equally as bad. Quite a few Jared stans are out here using the anniversary of Halyna's death to spead truly dispicable lies about Jensen and make fun of his trauma over the event - picking apart his police interview for things to use out of context to attack him. They are sick and disgusting bullies who only care about MHI when it affects Jared. Jared deserves better fans.

I'd appreciate some links on this one, anon, if you have them. I don't put it past some of the stans and trolls in this fandom at this point, but I haven't seen that myself.

I agree that sort of behavior would be entirely despicable and Jared does deserve better fans than that. However you seem to be implying it makes Jared stans worse than all the other factions, which no, I still can't agree is true when hellers intermittently send messages directly to Jared telling him they wish he was dead/would die and are currently celebrating that he's sick and going to miss another convention. There is, unfortunately, plenty of despicable to go around.

#askboxery #anonymous #anti jared stans #destihellers

[carriongoat64]

Ugh j*sus. As project lead this behavior is honestly dispicable. Joke's don't need to be made at unity's expense. We need to get along in a time like this and this divisive bullcrap is NOT helping.

[straightfromthetorturedpoetsdept]

like, i do not hang out with people much anymore because just a few minutes of fatphobic conversation sends me down such a fucking spiral of triggering thoughts and desires, like every single time it just opens up a raw wound that i have to spend days if not weeks undoing the damage of.

everyone wants to talk about fat people being terrible, everyone wants to brag about cutting carbs and going for 10 mile runs every day, everyone wants to grab their belly fat and make rude comments about it, it's so exhausting all the time.

i just want to scream IM HAPPY WITH MY BODY CAN YOU JUST SHUT THE FUCK UP SHUT UP IM HAPPY WITH MY BODY IM HAPPY WITH MY BODY

and it sucks because people dont even realize it. people think its normal behavior to be so preoccupied with food and weight like this. they congratulate each other and cross your boundaries and its all so fucking normal for them.

and all u learn in therapy is how to live with the fact that you cant just fucking force feed people body satisification juice and cure their issues for them, you have to learn how to hear things you find dispicable and disgusting and gross to engage in, and you just have to cope. you gotta be a big girl and just get on with it and you cant give in because you love yourself too much damn it but fuck

if its not exhausting everytime i have to meet with people.

#fatphobia #personal #eating disorders

[batteredwarriorstillstanding]

REPLACEMENT THEORY!!!!!!!If you listen to anyone at msnbc, cnn, or any major network that is older than I, you are AWARE of the emergence of this "long time Conspiracy Theory of the "radical right"" which has now "gained a foothold among more popular conservative commentators" (Tucker Carlson, formerly of Fox News is ALWAYS mentioned here....yes, folks, it is sad to report, but the man has gone full on KKK....even subscribing to "Replacement Theory." Aren't you glad we are here to instruct you on who to blackball from your news sources? So....hold on, you may ask.... First of all, what IS Replacement Theory? Well, remember that ugly riot in Charlottesville, VA where one group composed of every type from Traditionalist Conservative to Nazi Low Rider found themselves on one side which was protesting the removal of certain historical statues to the opposition of...you guessed it, a liberal counterweight where all Dem types from Kirsten Sinema ideological clones to antifa members supported the removal of certain statues arguing that, as far as they were concerned, respect for the past does not require an apparent tolerance of racism....which is how many view the presence of certain statues...ANYWAY,though it certainly doesn't ALWAYS go this way, the right won the "who can be the source of the most dispicable behavior" contest....in fact, they'd have had it locked up even if the murdering of a left wing counterpart by an acknowledge racist had never even happened. At nightfall, a large chunk of the statue protesting bunch under the leadership of one Richard Spencer (look him up if you don't know) took a detour and began marching in another area holding torches and repeating the mantra "Jews will not replace us," repeatedly. Though not everyone in attendance likely knew what in the fuck Spencer and his flunkues were talking about, any Jew present who feared violent anti-semitism...which they had been patiently explaining was already on the rise in the U.S at this time, certainly did....and were suddenly uncomfortable at the very least. These men were asserting their truth of what is known as "the replacement theory," which simply means that America, its financial institutions, entertainment production apparatus, education, etc is controlled by a small, organized, and unbelievably powerful group of Jews...furthermore, the theory claims, these omnipotent jews are unhappy with their current underlings (white people from europe) and are in process of killing them off, replacing them with brown, yellow, and black immigrants... hence, all the craziness with the border and why Donald Trump became an instant hero when he promised to "build the wall." These white people are, in their view, fighting for their very survival. Wait... WHAAAT????Fox NEWS IS PUSHING THIS NOW????What a bunch of fucking psychos!!!

[lostboysoflondon]

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#if you didn't fully condemn the rioting and violence that occurred this past summer then you have no moral highground to stand on in regards #happening at the Capitol building right now #i already see the blatant hypocrisy and cognitive dissonance and that's more dangerous than the actual situation at hand #call a spade a spade #either be principled always or don't pretend to be a saint #recognizethat this kind of behavior is embarrassing and wrong ALWAYS and don't ignore it when your own political base is the one perpetuati #objectivity and logic have gone completely down the drain and it's disgusting #and this goes both ways #there isn't an argument. strong enough to claim that it doesn't #what happened this summer was dispicable and embarrassing and so is this #*despicable #i'm tired of the one sidedness and the bullshit where people can't fucking tell the truth

[ramehare]

I have this old idea I forgot bits of and really really want someone to talk to about, involving dreambur modern setting!

It was ecensially I believe, Wilbur having been cut off by his family do to his destructive behavior after he was forced to sell his failing business to Schlatt and work under him as he tries everything to get his business back when one day he gets into a fatal car crash and only survived because someone happened to be there at the right time to help.

This person being Dream who stayed at the hospital and visited often to make sure Wilbur was okay, the two eventually began talking more and developing a friendship. Wilbur seeing Dream as his new light, his savior and second chance.

It starts small at first, learning Dream's schedule, his likes and dislikes. Wilbur wants to know everything about Dream, wanted to get closer with him, until he learns something shattering. Dream is the son of the man he hates most, Schlatt.

He struggles with this newfound information, wondering how someone so wonderful, so amazing, his shining light! Could be related to someone so dispicable. Wilbur decides it doesn't matter, Dream is still his beloved, and he won't let his family relations let him see otherwise, but it also makes him more determined to take Schlatt down and reclaim what was rightfully his, Dream included.

Wilbur sees himself and Dream getting closer when he finds out that Dream is friends with his Brother Techno and on good terms with the rest of his 'traitorous' family and thats when he snaps.

The fear of them taking Dream away from him, filling his head with lies and making him turn on him too, Wilbur can't stand it, so he devises a plan.

After setting up an old cabin home his family use to go to reguarly that now he owns, he sets up the basement that was nolonger in use and all but forgotten, as the new home for his beloved, so he could probably care for him and keep him safe from everyone else who wishes to ruin him.

This is where what I remember for the idea is muggy. Quackity was definetly hired by Wilbur to keep an eye on the place while he was gone, Sam as well I think, and Foolish, Dream's brother, becomes suspicious of them after Dreams dissapearance. I think it was of Quackity and he goes after him, but I forget the reasons for his suspiciouns of him.

#dreambur

[jechristine]

Prince Harry, he who dressed up as a Nazi, being awarded by the NAACP? I mean I'm not a conspiracist but I guess this just made me one. How Americans have fallen for him is beyond my little brain's understanding as a Commonwealth subject. He is NOT a woke prince istg.

First I’ll just say that I acknowledge and appreciate this viewpoint, and I’m open to hearing/reading more of it from anyone but especially from a Commonwealth subject. Harry made a terrible decision in 2005, there’s no way around that.

I do disagree, however, about Harry’s overall deserving of this award. I’ve written about something similar re: Mark Wahlberg, coming to the opposite conclusion. HERE’S the link to the whole post, but this is the relevant part:

Given that our system failed, I wish Mark as an adult had done far, far more to repent and make our society whole. He could certainly have used his platform to support racial justice, and he still can. I think it’s pretty dispicable that when he was fully mature and sober he still opted to basically shrug his shoulders. It’s gross, entitled behavior. (I believe as an adult he even sought a pardon but then dropped it because he was shamed. Ugh.)

Harry, by contrast, both apologized when the backlash first hit for his choice of costumes and has spent nearly a decade now correcting his record on race. He’s used his biggest platform to call out the institutionalized and explicit racism within British society, the monarchy, and his own family. He’s now putting his name (and his foundation’s money) behind a NAACP honor to inspire others to keep up the work. Word is he will grapple with his earlier mistakes in his memoir and also detail the ways his biracial wife has helped him along as he’s educated himself. I hope he does both of those things.

#duke and duchess of sussex #prince harry #meghan markle #sussex squad #naacp image awards

[violencebian]

calling out tumblr user @catgirlakemi . please block her for being so problematic.

1. shinnie

angel kins shin tsukimi. what the fuck. didnt he literally manipulate children and get toe jazuna killed ??? what r u hiding tumblr user catgirlakemi. r u trying to manipulate ur followers 🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨 also i kin sara and so uhhm we have to fight

2. height

ur literally taller than me what the fuck. how come u get to be 5'3 but im only 5'2?? thats so fucked up and problematic what the hell. how much milk do u drink ????? stop drinking milk. stop being tall its offensive to me as someone who's 5'2

3. supporting problematic people (very real i promise)

flame supports flames mutuals that were EXPOSED for being HOMOPHOBIC and TRANSPHOBIC for calling saiou.ma ship art PLATONIC !!!!!!!!!! what the hell !!!!!!!!! thats so evil and fucked up !!!!!!!!!1

so yeah please block tumblr user @catgirlakemi for this behavior. literally so fucked up im unfollowing rn. now you know the truth

disclaimer: this post is a joke im not actually calling out aki's horrible evil dispicable sins (because angels perfect).

#♡.txt #JSJSJ IM SORRY SHUIGFBUIHFKHD

[cherryprincejin]

what did she do this time ._.

basically there are receipts/screenshots where she’s saying she really wants to beat him up (which she says not only once, but twice and adds like a dog at that!!) and how he is ungrateful, dumb and a psychopath and they date back to like almost a year ago

#it’s disgusting and she’s so gross #idk how anyone can follow her and support her like #that’s not love that’s toxic as fuck #asks #jungkook deserves better than that #EVERYONE deserves better than that #how can you claim to love someone and act like this #it’s gross and dispicable behavior like that’s so fucking disgusting #like just leave him alone you’re too much and it’s honestly disturbing #like to say you wanna beat someone like a dog??? #also the fact that he literally owes her nothing

[marcsmarquez]

How do you deal with the Marc hate online especially since rossi is retiring all i can see is “rossi is the goat marc is actually shit” aghh im so done with rossi retiring just LEAVE like he didn’t win a single title since marc joined im also mad he talked shit about marc so often rossi was great definitely but marc is superior i cant wait marc to have more world championships than rossi

Sorry for the rant literally noone i know watches motogp or understands my love for marc

oh bestie i feel you :(( not going to lie it used to really really bother me but now i am kinda used to the hate? the more hes on top, the more people hate, and the more people hate, the better is he likely doing.

all of last year his instagram comments were fully of “i hope you come back crash again and d**” “i wish you broke yourself sooner” and other horrible things like that. it broke my heart knowing that he was struggling at home both physically and emotionally and there were people saying stuff like this.

at the end of the day i feel like those comments just come from a dispicable place of jealousy. the man is darn good at what he does, even with a broken arm he’s faster than half the field. people are mad and he stays winning and thats all that matters.

as for rossi, my own father is a huge italian rossi stan and every weekend he texts me to tell me marc is the scum of the earth and deserves to be banned for life which is just so sweet!!! i am sick and tired of the rossi dude bros and of how rossi has enabled this behavior for years. i could go on and on about this (and happy to dm if you want) but i don’t want to piss off all my followers lol but yeah marc is ALWAYS in their mouth. nothing he does will ever be okay in their eyes. listen im not saying marc is perfect or without faults, but like if the world went accoring to rossi, marc would be a felon with a long ass criminal history, which is just a tad extreme. ALSO they live in whatever made up scenario they have created about 2015 cause they have no actual good reality to cling to, it’s sad!!

as for the goat debate, reasonable people can disagree, and i am obviously biased, but pretending marc isnt up there after having won 8 world championships in 10 years is a tad idiotic. marc already owns so many motogp records and hemd gonna break many more, but apparently he’s too old and will only fail from here on out? and yet these same people still somehow believe that vale could have won his 10th at 40??? hypocritical much??

anyway, i am so grateful that marc is so mentally strong and has a good group of people around him. i cannot wait for him to get back to smiling on the podium every week again because he deserves the world and more.

#ask #anon

[thedeviousdo]

Hi there, I want to preface this by saying this is not an attack on you, but after that last anon I feel like this has to be said again. Can we all please stop talking like KEXOLs are the bad side of the fandom? Whenever something negative happens I always see people attacking KEXOLs for it, or asking if it was KEXOLs that were behind it. It's not just KEXOLs who behave dispicably when it comes to the members, CEXOLS, JEXOLS, IEXOLS, and everything in between have had their fair share of disgusting behaviour, and I've seen how the constant blame for everything over recent years have made some good KEXOLs either leave the fandom or stop posting as much because they keep getting branded with the same hate stick that people have for the bad EXOLs, unable to or unwilling to distinguish the difference. We need to label the bad EXOLs what they are, haters, bullies, antis, not shove them all under the KEXOL banner when there are just as many EXOLs from other countries spreading hate about or bullying the members. Just because someone speaks Korean, doesn't mean they are Korean. Sorry for the rant, and again, this is not an attack on you as I haven't seen you do it. But I feel it needs to be said because it's hurtful to see people blaming KEXOLs for everything.

I get what you're saying anon, and you're right. It should be seen instead for what they are, not true fans. Yes, there have been certain instances where there was a more obvious area the hate was coming from. I said something about that in an ask a bit ago. As crappy as the behavior was, there was an understanding why they reacted certain ways bc its more cultural. It's how the kpop world is viewed and received there (and other places) that is problematic at times. It also doesn't mean the international fans aren't as bad a lot of the times too. I, in no way think of it as all Asian speaking or Asian descent that is the crappy ExoL (truly if I ever came off that way I apologize bc that was not my intent, I know you said it wasn't but I'd feel horrible if I did). The so called fans that bully, degrade, show entitlement, that are invasive and hateful are the bad ExoL, actually I don't even associate them as an one of us. They are the rot of the fandom. I also don't believe at all times they are ExoLs that are doing this crap, but other sick individuals from other groups trying to start things. That is more common than not in any fandom. We create these dumbass wars with other fandoms and then go cause havoc.

#im just really tired of how so many are acting #i wish the good outweighed the bad more than it does #idk why its hard to be kind and respectful #one day it will change and get better #all the love anon

[saffronia-archive]

Nico Palaye Callout

Hi im saffronia. as many of you know one of my best friends on tumblr is user palaye. Howevee, lately hes been displaying some dispicable and also racist behaviors that i feel cannot be ignored any longer. I went under cover pretending to get all of this out of him.... please dont bemean to me for going along with all of this..

nico admitting that he thinks all black people are nazis

nico wanting to go back to the 1700s to own slaves

nico being disappointed about the abolition of slavery

thanks

[isitandwonder]

I knew it would get ugly but I truly thought it would just stay in the fandom. That people take these things to Tim’s IG account shocks me. I believe he’s a grown man but I’m not sure how prepared he was for this shit storm. But he showed with the WA issue that he can weather storms. Only, that didn’t refer to his private life. I hope he knows that this is just a dispicable fraction of his fandom.

Let’s see how he’ll react to fans at his next public appearance.

I also vividly remember that the same people insulting and ridiculing Tim were all over a friend of mine when she fell out of love with AH. They told her to fuck off over and over for daring to say critical things about him, they ridiculed her, belittled her, tried to ostracise her. Well, I won’t sink to your level but how about you take your own advice and pack it in when Tim is such a shitshow for you now? Move on. Go away. Your hate is pathetic.

I also notice that some BNF blogs are staying awefully quiet. Are you afraid of losing followers if you take a side? Silence can be seen as acceptance. How about you tell your followers what you think about people commenting on Tim’s IG that he’s a disappointment and cancelled for daring to have a private life? Do you support such actions? No? Then why don’t you say so? Some of you try so hard to be popular it makes me sick.

I’m so glad I burned a lot of bridges over the past few weeks. Seeing people I called mutuals once now behaving like bitches is still disappointing as fuck. You don’t have to like recent developments but sending hate to someone you professed to love or gloating about people doing so is very poor behavior. If you need to vent keep it within fandom because I’m pretty sure that Tim really doesn’t care about what you think who he should fuck. So stop embarrassing yourself by trying to tell him your mean little thoughts about how he should lead his life.

#it always ends in tears doesn't it #I'm laughing and swearing at the same time

[rametarin]

‘fujoshi’ when used by westerners.

The term, its use, nor its name is ‘cultural appropriation.’ For starters, it’s yaoi fangirls that started calling themselves that. And it was more succinct, more telling, more specific than just saying, ‘yaoi fangirl.’ It was a box these people put themselves in.

And 99% of said yaoi fans were, indeed, cis women. You can be mad about that all you want, but it was a title the girls gave themselves, a reputation that they made for themselves.

Just the same way that every unwashed, smelly male fan that lives with his family/in his mother’s basement “earned” that title, just the same way every “chivalrous” dork with a trilby, porkpie or fedora hat earned the recognizable label of “fedoralord”, just the way every gym rat jock that smells of axe bodyspray and gets lumped in with the misogynists gets disregarded as a Dudebro,

every obnoxious and unhealthily obsessed chick that tries to talk your ear off about gay men sex or gay men relationships or gay men gay men gay men, is a fucking western fujoshi.

1.) It’s not cultural appropriation.

This is the desperate hill that they want to die on. The idea that if they can make it taboo or unacceptable to use the word, that recognition of the pattern will either go away, or become taboo to even recognize. That they’ll be invisible. That what they are will be the 800 pound gorilla in the room you’re not allowed to call out or recognize. They don’t want the bad reputation, the stigma, to be disregarded for the bad behaviors, actions, patterns or habits of the girls before them. And so, they’ve chosen to try and get it made foul and against the “rules” to use it, because it’s a foreign word. And it deviates in use from how Japan uses it.

Loan words are not ‘cultural appropriation.’ And if you insist, we can simply dub them “Western Fujoshi.” Because unless you’re willing to accept that Japanese Fujoshi are the same obnoxious tarts, then you acknowledge that the fucking dispicable behaviors, entitlement, attitudes and creepy voyeuristic treatment of gay men, their relationships and the very concept and idea of being a gay men are characteristic of Western Fujoshi. Whom are more aggressive about it, by far, than their Japanese counterparts.

2.) It’s not sexist.

Again, the western Yaoi Fangirls in their weeb phase named themselves. Everybody else thought that was just fine, since the distinction between, “a girl that just likes man/man sex” and a Fujoshi is several layers of entitlement, obsession and creepy infatuation with someone for their sex and sexuality. They were spoiled princesses with very little access to the actual LGBT community, and existed in their little bubbles as spoiled princesses who did what they wanted. Something referring to the behavior most common in girls does not make something sexist.

Unless you are willing to admit that Fedoralords, Dudebros, Manbabies, and Neckbeards “do not exist,” because those are all “dog whistles” for kinds of men, often based on wild exaggerations and stereotypes that are only apparent in the most extreme of circumstances, don’t even try and discount the validity of Western Fujoshi as a term. You want to eat the Fujoshi word and make people stop acting like it’s real, those people exist? Then you’re going to have to never use the above terms, or any term that refers to a particular group of annoying people by the association to men and masculinity, ever again.

The same characteristics that you argue allow you to be on the look out for patterns of behavior, thought, dress or expression also exist among women. Subject to the same group and patterns of actions enabling people to associate them with negative shit. Don’t like it? Too bad. I upload a pictue of myself in a trilby, anything I say will get disregarded as “from a fedoralord,” because you bitches trained yourselves into thinking any dude in a stupid hat is gonna tip it and say, “M’lady!”

3.) It’s not misogynist

This leap, that calling out a bunch of women for being assholes, is misogyny, is hilarious. The next step after this is calling a teacher a misogynist for putting a girl that misbehaves in class in a time out chair, because “punishing a girl is sexist.”

You weren’t so worried about sexism when you lumped all those ass-crack showing, unwashed men that still live with mommy into the recognizable category and title of “manbaby.” You weren’t worried about the negative connotations unfairly stigmatizing a persons viewpoint when some sadsack dudes started hawing about chivalry, posting photographs of themselves with swords and wearing stupid hats. You went right on and made that a Thing, despite the fact it was at maximum, like, 50 guys across the US.  The rest were just guys fond of silly/stupid hats. But Fedoralord became the, “nice guy” stereotype, and anyone wearing a hat became subject to being treated like shit because other men wore a goofy hat AND said some dumb shit. You didn’t similarly do this to women. You made examples out of the men and created a negative stigma made up of the worst, most toxic presumptions.

And now you think a label and title that accurately lumps a bunch of annoying bitches into the same barrel is somehow anti-woman because it accurately labels them. Every yaoi paddle swinging one of you. Every one of you that has at some point thought, “I know more about being a gay MAN than many of my gay male friends do!”

So. Here’s what we’re gonna do.

We’re going to differentiate the obnoxious culture of glomping, stalking, gay fanfic shipping, projecting, mpreg obsessed, “give Edward and Al Elric’s voice actors yaoi fanfic to autograph” as “Western Fujoshi.”

Since fujoshi is no more ‘culturally appropriating’ than OTAKU, and OTAKU was never contested (but was known about) as wrong in Japan, you have no leg to stand on when we differentiate WESTERN Fujoshi from JAPANESE Fujoshi, whom allegedly do not engage in the same obnoxious behaviors and level of entitlement. We now validate the difference between you crazy bitches and the otherwise normal, original version the term was meant to embody.

What we’re not going to do is act like the toxic culture that spawned them does not exist, never existed, and doesn’t continue to exist, without a name. You shit in your bed and now you sleep in it.

[jechristine]

What do you think of Mark Wahlberg? I see you like tom Holland’s work, and I think we’re both excited for the Uncharted movie, but mark’s presence really blocked my interest to watch it

As I understand it, Mark Wahlberg committed several heinous, racist assaults when he was a teenager who was using drugs pretty heavily. They were hate crimes, and, while I don’t know the specifics of his cases, I do think people, even juveniles, who commit hate crimes ought to serve significant prison sentences for the damage their actions inflict on the whole society, and then we should rehabilitate them.

I don’t think any of us are the worst thing we’ve ever done, especially things we’ve done as teenagers and as addicts. But there does need to be a reckoning and rehabilitation, too, because we as a society cannot tolerate racial hatred and racial violence. Unfortunately our American criminal justice system is not up to the task, to put it extremely mildly. The inequities around who gets punished and how much are sickening, and Mark for sure benefited from his white/rich privilege as a teenager and still, tremendously. That’s a fact.

Given that our system failed, I wish Mark as an adult had done far, far more to repent and make our society whole. He could certainly have used his platform to support racial justice, and he still can. I think it’s pretty dispicable that when he was fully mature and sober he still opted to basically shrug his shoulders. It’s gross, entitled behavior. (I believe as an adult he even sought a pardon but then dropped it because he was shamed. Ugh.)

I don’t think he should get work until at least he takes some action to fix his own legacy on race. (I do wonder what Tom knows and thinks about Mark’s ongoing choice to shrug his shoulders at his own role in racial in/justice, especially given that Tom is an exec producer on Uncharted. I don’t think it would be out of bounds for the public to ask those questions of Tom, actually.)

I do, however, separate the work of art from the morality of an individual involved in it. I’ve written about that here re: Joss Whedon and Buffy. I think art belongs to all the artists who have collaborated to create it, to consumers who have found meaning in it, and to a whole culture that’s shaped it and that it shapes. Those words are probably too lofty for a film like Uncharted, but the main ideas still apply.

Aside from all of that, I don’t think Mark Wahlberg is a good actor. He’s sort of a charisma-vacuum! I’m not sure why he gets work at all just on the merits of how good he is at his job. At one point he rode his older (also problematic) brother’s coattails, but that was a long time ago.

So I will see Uncharted and cringe at Mark’s bad acting. But I do support people handling Mark’s presence in the film however they see fit. I explained my own approach, but I know there are other reasonable perpectives, too.

#uncharted #tom holland #mark wahlberg