#guess i'll cross that bridge when i get to it !

[apparently-artless]

HAPPY AROMANTIC VISIBILITY DAY!!! [June 5]

To every aromantic people in the entire world: YOU ARE VALID. YOU ARE A WONDERFUL GIFT. YOU ARE LOVED. I SEE YOU.

So I actually got the chance to tell my mother and my brother about me being aroace. My sister who lives with me already knew. To be honest, you could say that they are not aware that such gender exists. But one thing I was able to confirm is that they respect and support the LQBTQIA+ community. In fact, back when I was still figuring out my gender, I already talked to my mom about it. And she told me that she's okay with it if I'll turn out to be a lesbian. And so a few months back, when I got the chance to go home, I took it as an opportunity to let them know. I explained to them what aromantic and asexual meant, although I think they pretty much had a general idea. Their initial reaction is "but that would be lonely" which I would take as a positive reaction all things considered. I can understand that they are concerned about me not finding a partner and that I may end up alone in the future. My mom also added that maybe after 10 years or so, I might change my mind. I just explained to her that yeah, I will still be an aroace 10 years from now but it's not like I'm fully dismissing the possibility of finding a partner. Who knows, I might find someone like me. But I'll cross the bridge if ever I actually get there.

Anyway, my family still loves me and respect my decisions. And I know they will still be there for me in the future no matter what. I guess as someone who is an aroace, it's up to me to make them understand (maybe not in an entirely full understanding but so much as to accept) that I can also live a happy life without being in a relationship. That it's not a requirement in life and that it doesn't make me a lesser person. So that in the future, if they encounter another aromantic and/or asexual person just like me, they would know what to say and not to say.

To those who managed to read up until this point, thank you! And I hope that in the future, more and more people would be aware of ARO/ACE/AROACE spec.

#aromantic #arospec #aromantism #aromantic visibility day

[valiant-portabella-pirkko]

"It is done, my Champion. When this world comes to heel, you will be my blade in the dark. Together we will remind mortals why they once feared the night."

Guess who just finished Mordremoth's Fang the other night. :)

#my posts #GW2 #Guild Wars 2 #sylvari #Ceara the Defiant #i WANTED to do a photoshoot in post-Vinewrath silverwastes #but nobody was running it because of the festival so rip #so instead you get this! which still looks cool i think. #i had to buy most of the jade runestones tho because i needed so MANY. man the second-to-last step is greedy lol #now i gotta decide what i want to do next... i have almost everything to complete the Predator (its precursor dropped for me a while back) #but i still need a bunch of onyx lodestones and those are.. pricey. oof. that's all i have left for it tho. #and i'd be out of Gifts of Exploration. + if i want to make another Aurene legendary i'll need to map complete echovald again (agony) #ah well. i'll cross that bridge when i get there #this was my big endgame. all my scarlets keep getting spoiled with legendaries LMAO (it's because they'd actually use 'em) #Aurene's Rending might be cool for Saoirse the Flame but i kinda like her just with the bioluminescent set tbh #and even though Pirkko has Aurene's Fang i honestly use Scarlet's Kiss (rifle) on her more than the sword rip #at least holosmith is kinda funny and if i kill things with the holoforge I GUESS it thinks i've swapped to sword and does the crystal kill #but maybe it just does that in general if you have them on a weapon swap because i could swear Saoirse did it once too. idk

[forestwhisper3]

I'm a bit behind now, but here's day 3 of Risecember:

The theme was "Elf," and who better than Donnie? After all, elves make all the toys.

(Who knows what this mad scientist has made for his family, though)

Day 4 is the one I need to catch up on, and since it's 1 am now, I need to do day 5, too. But I'll catch up.

#Risecember #day 3 #rottmnt #rottmnt donnie #Day 4 will feature Raph #Still using backgrounds from google...BUT! #I drew Donnie freehand (using references but still!) #No tracing! #I'm so proud of myself. Even if his arms/hands are a little wonky and he looks a bit chunky #I still did it all on my own #This is turning out to be pretty fun #I have no idea what I'm going to do for some of these later prompts though... #Guess I'll cross those bridges when I get to them #Anyway #It's late and I have an early shift tomorrow so... #Goodnight! #My art

[k1ttysh1ft4r]

Scripting struggles

I'm changing my magical girl outfit and I have 5 I like and I cant pick one... they don't even match the magic I gave myself anyways idk why I'm like this...

Anyways I'm just taking them all 🤷🏾‍♀️ when I wear them in my DR I'll decide which ones I want to keep.

On that note I need to pick a wand/weapon too. The struggle starts again.

#shifting antis dni #I can probably guess which ones I'll get rid of cuz one of them have huge/long sleeves. #Imagining me fighting a witch or something and my sleeve snags on something and I die instantly GHAIF #I didnt script safety because I wanted stakes. But now Im really scared to shift lmao #<- I'll probably just script I cant die but can get injured #or that I have safety and cant die but I don't know that #And also maybe scripting that if i die I just go to my better cr #since I wanna make that my new cr and I dont want to come back here after death #idk yet though I'll just cross that bridge when I get there #shiftblr #dr scripting #scripted whole ass magical girl lore cant decide on an outfit. Dont even got a wand oh my priorities are. sigh. #they're something alright. not a good something but something nonetheless #anyways. back to pinterest happy shifting ! #kitty.shifter

[wereh0gz]

Ok so. I've decided that I'm for sure gonna get a binder. I looked at Spectrum Outfitters specifically and they seem pretty good. I've already taken my measurements and everything so I know what size I should get and I've looked into y'know how to put it on and how to bind safely and all that stuff. Just need to choose what color I want :] (probably the hardest part of this whole thing lmao)

HOWEVER. I don't have enough money for it right now and I haven't talked abt this at all with my mom (I kinda.. don't want to explain all of this to her. She's very supportive of me and I'm sure she'd be cool with it but idk it's still scary and awkward and I don't wanna deal with that) so I was thinking of setting up a goal on my kofi and holding a sale for my comms so I can get enough money for it by myself + just have some extra cash for other unrelated stuff. Since this is a pretty personal thing for me I wanna do it all on my own and not have to go through mom first for once. I wanna feel like an adult and do things for myself y'know

So yeah point is I'll probably try and do a holiday sale for my comms soon to hopefully get enough to cover that so stay tuned :]

#ramblings #i don't really know what i'm gonna do once i order it #i guess i can just try and get it before she notices #or just hope she doesn't ask any questions. lol #idk i'll cross that bridge when i get to it #like i said it's not like she's not supportive of me i just. don't fucking know how to explain this whole deal #bc i haven't come out to her as genderqueer yet. so. yeah #idk maybe i'm just making this hard on myself but i genuinely. do not want to lmao #anywaysss #idk how much i'm gonna take off my prices. maybe 30% or 40% off?? #50% max i guess but idk #i'll decide probably when december comes around

[theirloveisgross]

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#random thoughts on a monday afternoon #I'm glad I decided I'm gonna give less of my money to the azoffs (I say less because I guess I'll still stream the music) #So I'm not stressing about spending money on vinyls or cd's (which makes me sad but a genocide makes me even sadder) #Maybe I'll get them second hand months later or something... Just like. Not create that demand. I'll see when the time comes. #And as for tour... Ooof. Same thing. I'll miss seeing him live but I just cannot in good conscience spend money that #I know a good chunk of is going to Zionists who hate Palestinians #Maaaaaaaaaaaybe if someone happens to be unable to go to a show near me and giving the ticket away #Or selling it cheaper #Idk... I'll cross that bridge when i get to it #will it make a difference? lmao. no. but it's like other things in my life... my vegan choices... my zero-waste choices... #it's individual but I feel good with my decisions I think #*shrug*

[magicstormfrostfire]

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#I wanted to make Sonic trans in the sonilver fanfic #because I love that interpretation of him that I see often. i think its nice #but Im going way out of my expertise if I do that because like #I think he/him pussy is what Sonic deserves #but also despite having a vagina ive never written vaginal sex befofe #and that seems like a hurdle I dont wanna try and get through when this project is supposed to be lighthearted and fun #but then also I thought 'well maybe he can have had bottom surgery too so I can just write into my comfort zone' #but that also feels like another can of worms im not too familiar with at the same time #idk I feel like im thinking too hard on the technicalities #but also I dont know a whole lot and im kinda afraid to ask no matter which direction I decide to go with him #so idk I might just give up and make cis Sonic as usual #but i'll cross that bridge when I come to it I guess....? #the story is nowhere near them having sexy anytime soo

[e2019]

stealing catalytic converters seems way too easy and so so profitable. i often work overnights at car dealerships and/or random commercial parking lots all by myself idk for how much longer i'll be able to control myself

#oh but then who do i sell them to? guess i'll cross that bridge when i get to it

[viric-dreams]

SMEN seemed incredibly stressful and unrewarding gameplay-wise, so I'd decided to just Not... But after reading about the actual lore I'm not sure how Ockham can spend that much time in the Parabola and not somehow get involved. Fingerkings, take the wheel.

#i guess i'll cross that bridge when i get to it #but for now am avoiding wells at all costs

[axewchao]

Playing with Power-Ups

Since Leon and Dusty (as well as the rest of their friend group) started out in the Marioverse, it's only fitting that I try giving them power-ups at least once :3

But I wasn't gonna risk nearly crashing the program like I did the last couple times I drew all five of them in one pic, so it's just Leon and Dusty for now, with the super leaf and boomerang flower respectively! Complete with both human and hooman versions because it took like... I dunno, ten minutes to edit the differences =w=)b

#Leonardo Parson #Dusty Corey #mario power ups #man i should've been using a darker color for Dusty's hair MUCH SOONER than this #the lighting against the brighter lineart color was just... awful :'D #and I HAD to curl Leon's tail. he's a Koopeleon after all! XD #or at least... the green-haired version of him is... #...actually come to think of it- maybe i should make a 'Real-Worlder' tag of some kind? #since their human selves could easily fit in the 'Real-Worlder!Dal' AU #guess i'll just cross that bridge when i decide to get there =3= #axewchaoscribbles

[bearsgrove]

crying, coughing up blood, screaming and biting as im selecting my art pieces to sell on inprnt

#river.txt #it's the ''i'll cross that bridge when i get there'' moment and we at the bridge #the day has come when i impale my heart and my soul on a stake and die figuratively #hope everyone is happy as i rot and wither from within #not to be dramatic but i really fucking hate this but. i have to figure shit out and try this out #i guess #not to mention i have no income #but ngl i hate it so much that i'm not sure i'll even go through with it #i want to scream in the middle of a field for hours until my throat bleeds and i pass out from exhaustion #fuck all life

[etherealnoir]

My mom is so afraid of the world at large that she can't imagine me wanting to live someplace else. I told her that, if I have kids, I won't raise them here in the US. She said she thought that was silly because racism is everywhere.

But racism isn't the only issue here in the US, especially when it comes to the welfare of children and pregnant people.

#like yeah I'm gonna deal with racism but i'd also like to not worry about my kids being murdered in school or stripped of their rights #idek where I'd go but I guess i'll cross that bridge when I get to it

[bunnymajo]

Oh. It’s this.

I’ve been warned of you…

#pics taken before a disaster #how the sally dip story isn't a story of breaking a cycle of abuse I'll never know #but I guess I’ll cross that bridge when I get to it #majobun liveblogging

[chaoticsoft]

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Believing for the brown, curvy, leftist best friend of my dreams to find me soon. An emotionally mature, emotionally healthy (not in an ableist way, in a "you're aware of and have mostly processed your childhood trauma and it is no longer actively sabotaging your life and relationships" way) earth sign would be lovely. Or Scorpio or Cancer placements. Someone ideologically aligned with me, I'm so exhausted with the apolitical mentality of my past friends. Someone from a multicultural (or just a nonwhite) background; it is so deeply lonely being my friends' only "ethnic" friend; being the only one in conversations who has that lens they see the world through that my past and current friends are just oblivious and apathetic to.

I don't want to teach them. Challenge them. "Help them grow." I don't want to do that anymore. It is beyond exhausting. All my life I've been like water to my friends, adjusting myself to the shape of their container. Finally, I want someone who matches me, meets me how I actually am. Attuned and aligned with me.

#i dont really believe manifesting works but....it is nice to dream #also if i do find this person I suppose there's a risk I'll fall in love with them lol #i guess we'll cross that bridge when we (hopefully) get there #diary

[rcharsals]

taggssss.

º ✧ 。––– in . º ✧ 。––– dc . º ✧ 。––– answered .

º ✧ 。––– out . º ✧ 。––– my edits . º ✧ 。––– images . º ✧ 。––– musings . º ✧ 。––– isms . º ✧ 。––– dg . º ✧ 。––– video . º ✧ 。––– music . º ✧ 。––– aesthetics . º ✧ 。––– hcs .

#tags. #º ✧ 。––– in . #º ✧ 。––– dc . #º ✧ 。––– answered . #º ✧ 。––– out . #º ✧ 。––– my edits . #º ✧ 。––– images . #º ✧ 。––– musings . #º ✧ 。––– isms . #º ✧ 。––– dg . #º ✧ 。––– video . #º ✧ 。––– music . #º ✧ 。––– aesthetics . #º ✧ 。––– hcs . #i dunno if i need other ones #these are the ones that came in my head #i guess i'll cross those bridges when i get there

[monster-noises]

BARTHOLOMEW!! I went to my first ren fair in over 15 years a few weekends ago and got inducted into the royal mycelium society! Anyway how was your weekend?? 🎃

The JEALOUSY i feel omg.......

Welcome to the royal court of the mush!!!!!!

I woooooorked all weekeeeeeeend

I get every other weekend off and this was my On weekend, so i closed yesterday and did a 9-6 today AUGH terrible...

I get tomorrow off though so that's fun

#monster noises #i'm going on vacation next week and I can 't WAIT #What will i do when it's over and i no longer have anything to look forward to? idk #cross that trecherous bridge when we come to it i guesS #for now i'm focusing on the Good #gunna see if there's anywhere i could get a Massage in the town i'll be staying in.....