#i cant believe his SECOND birthday is gonna be in march

[dawniebb]

Face reveal bc yes

So, guys...especially from the Renegades fandom bc i’m the most active there: you saw the title lmao. This will...barely get notes (i wonder if it’ll get notes at all) buuUUUT YEAH LET’S GOOOO (If you’re gonna reblog pls be respectful bc i have issues and btw reblog ONLY if we are mutuals)

THIS IS ME! <3 HELLOOOO!!!

Now, if you want to stop here, do it. If you don’t...well

I’m going to tell you a story about myself and why I decided to post this.

First of all, I’m not celebrating anything. I’m just celebrating me, I guess (?) and in fact I’ve been wanting to do this since my parents got me a She-Ra cake for my 20th birthday back in May, because I loved that thing and felt the physical need to shove that thing into everyone’s faces But I didn’t because I didn’t feel ready enough...then that thought left my mind, and it came back like two weeks ago.

I’ve had mental issues since I was in like...elementary school. I’m sure I had felt depressed before I turned 12; however, the first memory I hold of feeling so, it’s when I was already 12. Because it was then when I realized that I wasn’t just a dumb kid who didn’t know how to make friends xd To this day, I genuinely feel like I was suffering from isolation bullying; you know xd my classmates purposely excluded me from activities, they would find any excuse for not letting me join their work teams and stuff like that; during my last year at elementary school, I only had like one friend, and that one friend and I shared a sort of abusive/toxic relationship, as in: manipulation, “we’re best friends. you should only talk to ME”, and then this friend turned her back at me too, because she decided to join the rest of the group and ignore me.

lol.

And I remember wondering what was I doing wrong. Like, why didn’t people like me; why didn’t they want to hang out with me; why did everyone seem to have friends except me. And then I got trapped into a very...dark place, and I remember being overthinking one day, because I tend to overthink a lot...and I remembered this specific kid who was in the same class as me.

I was in the line for the teacher to check my homework, and this kid, a boy, was behind me.

You see. I’ve always been chubby xd I don’t think I’ve ever been skinny since I was 2 years old or so, because by the time I was in kindergarten my classmates’ moms were already calling me a ‘little meatball’ thinking it was a fucking adorable nickname because Mexican moms can be pretty shitty sometimes don’t let the media stereotypes fool you not all of them are all cheerful and upbeat and when I was in elementary school, for some reason, besides being chubby, I had a really bad posture. And this boy who was behind me started imitating my way of walking and his friends were laughing, so I turned around and asked him wtf his problem was xd and he turned around to his friends and asked “Do you see how hunchback she is?” like I wasn’t even there xd and I genuinely tried to slap him but I couldn’t, and he said “Yo, stop moving because you’re going to cause an earthquake”

And my mom has always felt personally attacked for the fact I’m...u know, fat. She has always been very insistent on the fact I need to lose weight and stuff like that. And her, mixed with my experiences at school, made me feel like I wasn’t enough.

But my mind started saying things like “And u know why you aren’t enough? Because you’re fat”

Because, like, the day of the hunchback insult, when I told the teacher, who was a very shitty teacher btw but i’m not talking about her again today (i’ve already talked about her in MANY of my university papers, because I’m studying to be an English teacher), she turned around at him and said “Don’t listen to HER” and to this day I still don’t know why xd

But it made me feel like I wasn’t enough. Because I was fat.

Lol x2.

To this day, I still don’t know if I have an ED. Like, I genuinely don’t know. But I can safely say that, if I have one, it’s more likely BED... because, through the years, I managed to lose weight when I turned like 15 and I had my quinceañera party, but then first year of high school came and I had a relapse into depression...like, this might come off as a very unpopular opinion, but junior high school was dope for me x’d I remember it as one of the best years in my life, right after my second and third year in high school (high school in Mexico lasts only three years) and so...when I started my first year in high school and got fucking depressed again, I gained ALL that weight back, and even doubled it. During my second year of high school, I met my friends. The friends I still keep with me to this day. And they accepted me like the fucking train wreck I was, failing math like three times in a row and crying about it every single one of those times  because I’m pretty sure I have dyscalculia but my parents won’t listen to me they think i’m just lazy when it comes to math even though they know i cant even read a fucking clock . And them, along with my another very close friend who I met via fanfction when I was 12, helped me go through it. Like, I did have some issues with my body during high school, but not as much as you would expect. They were getting pretty bad in my first and second semester, but during the other four my friends managed to stop me from losing my mind, even when it all went to shit in my third year again for different reasons.

Then I graduated from high school, and I made friends there too. Although my best friends are still my friend from fanfiction, my friends from high school and just one of my university friends. And you know...I was left...pretty scarred from the shit that happened during third year of high school, and even if I didn’t feel like I was *that* depressed, I did gain a lot of weight.

Like, the highest I’ve ever been. Then my dad got sick during October from last year, then my two doggies were murdered god i fucking hate my neighbors the same day my dad was released from the hospital and my mom went kinda nuts during December and I wanted to just...yeah.

So I did a lot of emotional eating. Like, y’all don’t understand.

It was like...I would go to uni and eat a brownie. Then chocolates on my way home. THEN a “a snack” like...fucking rice krispies. Then a huge ass meal, with soda bc why not. Then I would have either cookies or hot cheetos as a treat after my huge ass meal,

I’m a short person xd carrying that much weight was making my ribs and back hurt, as well as my legs and feet; my breathing was freaking awful, and there were some days were I got SO paranoid I just said things like “i’m gonna die today” or “out here trying to get diabetes like the rest of your family, aren’t you??” :’) but i didn’t tell anybody. My parents are not really an option in this case, BUT I didn’t tell my friends, because then I would have to explain that I ate a lot and that was something I was EXTREMELY ashamed of.

When February came, I was scared of going out, because I knew I would have to choose what clothes to wear and nothing fit me anymore and, the things that did, looked super stretched on me and, u know, I was sore. My health was getting bad. But I didn’t like to feel that way.

AND I MUST CLARIFY HERE. I’M WORKING ON THAT. I’M ACTUALLY A BODY POSITIVY DEFENDER, I JUST DIDN’T LIKE HOW *I* LOOKED AND, BESIDES, I WAS GETTING SICK. I GENUINELY THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO DIE AT SOME POINT. I’M NOT SAYING BEING FAT OR CHUBBY IS DISGUSTING. NO. I BELIEVE ALL HUMAN BEINGS ARE EXTREMELY BEAUTIFUL. AND IF I’M WRITING THIS IS BECAUSE I WANT YOU TO KNOW RECOVERY IS DISGUSTING AND DIFFICULT SOMETIMES AND THAT IF YOU’RE GOING THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THAT: I’M SORRY. NOBODY SHOULD EVER FEEL LIKE THAT. I SUPPORT YOU. AND I HOPE THINGS GET BETTER. AND NO MATTER WHAT OTHERS SAY, YOU’RE BEAUTIFUL. YOU ARE TO CHANGE ONLY IF YOU WANT TO CHANGE. BECAUSE IT’S YOUR BODY. KEEP HOLDING ON.

But going back to the story...

My friends used to tell me I looked pretty all the time, which I appreciate a lot to this day. But my parents were like

Me: I’m fat and I look deformed.

Them: I agree.

Because yeah.

Just before the pandemic madness happened, I went on a school trip with my uni friends and one of them triggered my isolation trauma in the worst way possible...and that, somehow, ruined ALL the photos I took throughout the trip. Because I wasn’t enough. Because I was deformed and fat and I looked like an apple. Because nobody wanted to be seen near me. And my personality was shitty.

Like, I should’ve known I was worth it. I’m still worth it and I know that. But I wasn’t less worth it when I was chubbier. And maybe I didn’t look as bad as my head made me believe. But at the time my mental health was extremely awful.

Now, covid happened.

Not gonna lie. Quarantine fucked me up as much as it fucked everyone else, but for me...by not going out, I stopped being near trigger foods, and I was even able to consult a dietitian.

I’ve lost 15 kg since March. And I’ve managed to love my past self, but I love this one because changing it was my decision. Sure, my parents didn’t help a lot, but in the end it was MY decision. I’ve come to accept I was worth it even when I felt disgusted by myself, and all of those awful things people said or did to me, like my friend during that trip...

I didn’t deserve any of those things. Because NO ONE deserves to be treated that way.  No one deserves somebody else making fun of them. No one deserves somebody else doing awful things to them that they know damn well that they trigger their childhood trauma. No one deserves to be judged for the way they look.

I was in a very dark place, and sometimes I’m still inside there. And like...during all those times, I kept posting in here.

I remember being next to my dad in the hospital, telling him “Guess what? Supernova drops this week” or “We’re going to watch TDP together, right?” or “Let me talk to you about She-Ra...” ....those were things that like...saved my life for a while, though mostly Supernova. Because, actually, Marissa Meyer has helped me in my fucking darkest years x’d from my third year of high school until now.

Her books didn’t take my depression away, but they did make things a little lighter for me, even when I felt like dying.

And I know this fandom is like..full of minors, so...I don’t know if any of you need to hear this: But you’re worth it.

If you want to change anything in your body, do it because YOU want to.

Because YOU’LL like you better.

Because it’s YOUR body, and it’s the only part of yourself that you and other people can touch.

Nobody should ever tell you you’re worthless because of your weight and your physical appearance. And if they ever do, then they’re the ones who should apologize, not you.

Nobody has the right to mistreat you, abuse you, or use your own body against you.

As for me...my ribs don’t hurt anymore. Nor does my back or my feet, and my breathing is getting better; I took the conscious decision to lose weight but, like I said, now that I’m not in such a dark place, I’m staring to realize that the past me wasn’t as hideous as my mind was making me believe. She was okay; she was broken inside, but she didn’t deserve anything that happened to her, nor did she deserved to treat herself that badly.

I posted my photo just to celebrate that I can finally said I’m not disgusted anymore. I can finally see myself in pictures again. And see my own reflection. Or go through my closet. Or do my makeup, because I LOVE doing my makeup and I was even ashamed of that. I’m not fully okay yet, but I’m healing.

So, if there’s any little Dawnie around here: I hope you give yourself a chance and realize you’re beautiful.

I hope that, if you change, it’s because you wanted to do it.

I hope you know that it’ll get better even if the healing process it’s not that easy.

I hope you know there’s people who love you.

I hope you know that you are beautiful. You were always beautiful and, no matter what path you choose, you’ll always be beautiful.

And worth it.

And human.

And important.

Take care of yourself, because you’re wonderful, no matter your size <3

#personal #VERY PERSONAL LMAO DAWN WHAT HAPPENED THERE U OK? #tw: eating disorders mention #TRIGGER WARNING EATING DISORDER MENTIONS #tw: depression #TRIGGER WARNING DEPRESSION #face reveal #and im gonna tag this bc yes #renegades trilogy #marissa meyer #renegades #archenemies #supernova #also TW: BULLYING

[marinasquer]

Puppy Date - Squeger

Who: Marina Squerciati and Patrick Flueger ( @pjfluegerx​) When: March 5th - Afternoon What: Patrick and Marina go visit an animal shelter and walk a few of the dogs Notes: This is where they meet Pizza and Marina falls in love!

PJ: Patrick was happy to get a day off, even more lately. Him and Marina became something and he was happy about it. So he made plans to go out with her and had good idea he knew she would like. "Come onnn slow poke!" he teased as he grabbed her hand to lead her to the car. "This place is very hard to get into and we can not be late" this being the middle of the day but he had to lead her on. Once in the car he started to dive not telling her were he was going.

Marina: was pretty confused when he started saying they couldn’t be late. Where they hell could they be going? It was the middle of the day. “I’m coming,” she replied with a chuckle as she followed him to the car. As they drove, she tried to figure out his plan. “Okay, where are we going? I feel like this is some kind of weird kidnapping situation or something.”

PJ: laughed as he looked over at her. "I didn't know I had a five year old with so many questions" he teased as he drove on. "Ah oh no you know my evil plan" he did a fake evil laugh and shook his head. "Trust me you're gonna love it" he smiled. He reached over and kissed her hand. It was just for fun but he knew she would love it.

Marina: “I’m actually five and a half,” she playfully argued. “You should’ve known you couldn’t get away with kidnapping me so easily. We work this shit every day. Fake stories, but still.” When he said she’d love it, she softened up and smiled at him. “I do trust you. I’m just curious.” Marina intertwined their fingers and held onto his hand.

PJ: he chuckled "Oh such much better" he smiled shaking his head. "Well I did already get you in the car so I'm almost there" he teased. He would never but it was just funny to joke about with their line of work. "good" he smiled at her for a second before he went on driving. Once they got closer he chuckled "Put this on" he got some black out sunglasses. Once she had them on he drove down a street and up to a dog shelter. "don't move" he teased as he got out and hurried around to open the door for her. Once she was out he smiled at her as he took off her glasses "Time for our doggy date" he winked.

Marina: chuckled a bit. “That’s true. You made me trust you all these years, but it was all to go with your master plan.” When he handed her the glasses, she rolled her eyes. “Are you kidding? I can just close my eyes or something.” With a sigh, she put the glasses on and let him continue with the surprise. She grabbed his hand so that she could carefully get out of the car. As soon as he took the glasses off, her eyes grew wide. “A doggie date?! This is perfect!”

PJ: looked at her with a smile. "yes years of pretending being your friend and dating you will lead up to this" he winked. He was kidding and he knew he was lucky to have her in his life.Even more now he didn't think they be here but he was glad it happened. "No you would so peek!" he smirked a moment. "Yep" he smiled looking at how excited she was. it was cute so he smiled as he watched her "Yeah I thought it be fun to go look at them and maybe walk a few"

Marina: simply rolled her eyes at him. It didn’t take long for her to get used to his teasing. She knew it would only get more often as they spent more time together. “I would not! I know how to be patient for a surprise.” Marina was exited to see all of the dogs. She wanted one so bad, but she never really got one for herself. “We do need to be careful though. You’ll have to hold yourself back. I know it’s hard for you to keep your hands off of me,” she joked. She knew there was potential for someone to recognize them, and she wasn’t sure how much they were really sharing yet.

PJ: they had known each other so long, it was easy to see why they got along so well. They could tease each other and make jokes and they both knew it was all for fun. "No I think you would peek and mess it all up" he joked looking at her. He knew she wanted a dog as much as he did. But their work kept them to busy to have one really. "Oh funny I was about to say the same thing to you, hands off" he did a spin before he laughed. They were a thing but the world did not know that yet. Soon enough they got checked in and headed inside to the dogs.

Marina: “Come on, Paddy. Where’s the trust,” she asked in a teasing tone. It made her happy that there was someone to geek out over dogs with. It was even better that it was him. “You’re gonna struggle more than me! You can’t keep your hands to yourself.” Marina made sure to move her hips a little bit more whenever she walked in front of him. As soon as she saw the dogs, her face lit up. “Look at them! I want them all!”

PJ: he laughed "Not much I think you peeked at your last birthday" he joked. But it was nice they had a lot in common and everything. Nerdy but though and loved dogs a lot. "you wish you know you wanna get up on this" he flexed once before he looked at her. He had to stop and watch a second, she did know how to get him. "No no you cant have them all" he smiled as he was looking at them and reading about them. "Aw they are all so cute" he smiled.

Marina: When he flexed, she couldn’t help but keep her eyes on him. He was attractive and he knew it. That was why she had to tease and get back at him. “Later, Paddy. Keep yourself together,” she joked. Marina smiled at all of the dogs, reading any cute fun facts out loud. “I think I can. You can have half and I’ll have half. It’s perfect.”

PJ: he had to look at her, she really did drive him crazy but in a good way. "Pfft you keep your hands away fro me" he smiled a moment at her. But he was kidding he was more at fault over her. "Aww" he was down on his knees at one smiling at it. "as much as I love the sounds of that you can barley take care of me muchless 10 dogs" he chuckled.

Marina: couldn’t believe how things were working out. Never in a million years did she think he would feel the same way she did. That they’d be where they are now. She went over to where he was and kneeled down to look at the dog. “Since when am I supposed to be taking care of you? You’re a grown man,” she joked. “Let’s go walk this little guy.” She stood back up to go find someone that could help them out.

PJ: he too was a bit surprised how things had been going. That he and Marina had been working out. That she had felt the same way he had for a while. He was just so thankful that he took the chance to kiss her that one night. "Yes you know you have been for years now" he nugged her with a laugh. "Yes please he's pretty cute" he smiled. He went and asked and a worker got the dog out.

Marina: It was tough since they were in the public eye. They were still trying to figure out when to tell people they were together. “How could I have forgotten? My grown man of a child,” she teased. When the worker helped them, she let PJ hold the leash so that she could bend down and play with the dog. She scratched behind his ears and on his head. “He’s so precious.”

PJ: it was going to be something once everyone knew. But he was fine with them just being a couple around each other only. "Yes, you have always taken care of me" he smiled at her for a moment. He just wanted to kiss her now but he couldn't. "He is pretty cute" he loved on the dog for a moment. Once he was done loving on the dog he started to walk outside with the dog and her.

Marina: wasn’t sure when they were going to be out in public, but she didn’t mind getting him to herself. “You’re just damn cute. I can’t help it.” She knew she could say certain things when people weren’t close enough to hear. As they started to walk the dog, she followed along. The dog seemed a little nervous, but he was still excited to be getting some attention. “I think he likes you.”

PJ: looked at her for a moment and smiled. "You are not to bad yourself" he knew no one was to close so he could say it. But this was nice and fun the dog was nervous but happy for a walk with them. "I bet who don't like me" he joked looking as the dog pulled them along the trail. He looked around not seeing anyone around them. So he kissed her cheek and smiled. "Are you having fun?"

Marina: playfully winked before continuing on. It was nice getting to just walk along with him and the dog. “I mean, I’m sure there are people out there who think you’re a pain in the ass like I do,” she teased. When he kissed her cheek, she couldn’t help but smile wide. “I am, yeah. This is pretty perfect. You know me well.”

PJ: he love to hold her hand right now but he knew they could not do that. someone would see them and that would start something. "Im sure they do and I knew you were into me for my ass" he joked winking at her. he laughed as he walked on with her smiling. "I wanted something simple but fun...and we have a good time and the dogs get to have a good time" he grinned at the door who was very happy and walking all over the place.

Marina: “It’s really the only good thing about you,” she joked. It was really sweet of him to think of a date that was different than what people usually did. He combined something they’d both love. “I wish I could get a dog, but I’m always afraid I won’t have enough time for him or her.” Marina bent over a bit and gently start to pet the dog’s head. “Maybe someday.”

PJ: he chuckled at her for a moment shaking his head. but it was fun idea they both liked doing good things, and loved dogs. so a date going to see dogs and walking them was their cup of tea. "Same here, I mean I wish I could but we work so much" he sighed as he got down by the dog loving on it.

Marina: couldn’t help but sigh. “Depending on how things go,” she started, nibbling a bit on her bottom lip from nerves. “We could split dog responsibilities. I mean, we work at the same time so it’s not like one of us is off while the other works, but still.” Catching herself rambling, she stopped and simply watched him with the dog. Both were adorable.

PJ: he smiled at her softly as they were both down petting the dog. "someday we can make it work" he smiled at her and put his hand on hers. They were petting the dog so it was okay for the moment. "Or we can always come here and get our dog fix" he smiled at her. He knew she wanted one badly but the work they did the apartment didnt mix.

Marina: looked over at him with a little smile. "Someday," she repeated. Since their relationship was still new, she didn't want to jinx it by making a bunch of plans. She gently used her thumb to stroke the back of his hand since they got a second to touch. "That sounds good to me. These little ones will be our fake adopted dogs."

PJ: smiled at her for a moment "yeah it will happen" he said looking at her. He wanted to make it happen for her. But it would be hard to do right now. "we can come as much as you like to take them for walks, we can bring this place food and whatever they need too" he smiled as he stood up. It was the best way they could get their dog fix for now.

Marina: had come close to adopting a dog a few times, but she always ended up talking herself out of it. It meant a lot to her that he knew how much she'd wanted a dog. It meant he actually listened to her when she talked. "We should see what they need," she replied. "That's a good idea. Who knew you were smart." Marina gave him a little smirk so that he'd know she was joking around. Standing back up, she turned to start heading back for the animal shelter. Maybe they could get in another walk before they left.

PJ: Paddy just wanted the best for her, and he hated he couldn't give her it all right now. But someday he knew she have a dog a few dogs really. "When it comes to dogs I can be" he grinned at her. Once back to the shelter they turned the one dog in. He asked for another and they got cute small dog with spots. "aw what a cute one this boy is" he smiled ruffling the dogs ears.

Marina: chuckled at his response. "Dogs definitely deserve all of your smarts." As they walked back, she gently bumped into her with her shoulder. It was playful and friendly enough that if anyone saw, they wouldn't think anything of it. When they swapped out the dogs, Marina practically melted at the smaller one. "Oh my god," she cooed as she bent down to pet the dog. "Hey, bud. You're so sweet." The dog immediately moved to lick her face, tail wagging with happiness.

PJ: he laughed "Yeah they are my people" he joked. Happy they had the love of dogs like they did. Yeah everyone did like dogs but they two of them really loved them. He had smile at her reaction to the smaller dog. He melted at it really at her and the cute dog. He looked over at the dogs name tag "AW his name is Pizza" he laughed. "No wonder she loves you so much" he joked.

Marina: had dogs in the family when she grew up, so she'd always loved dogs. They made her happy. Her eyes grew wide when he told her the dog's name. "Well, hi there, Pizza! I wonder who named you something so silly." She laughed and then scratched the dog's head once more before standing up. "Pizza and I have a fantastic relationship. Don't be jealous," she joked back.

PJ: he too grew up with dogs and loved having them. But the show had kept him so busy he never got one. He thought about it many times but the most he got was fish really. "It's cute maybe they thought all the spots were pizza toppings" he chuckled as he stood up from the dog. "I am i mean I wish I could be you so I could know him" he joked as they walked outside.

Marina: "That makes it even cuter! It's like he has pepperoni all over him or something," she said as she laughed. "You can't be me, Paddy. Sorry not sorry. I'm one of a kind." She winked as they headed back outside. This dog was a lot calmer than the first. He was content to simply go around and sniff everything.

PJ: he nodded "I can see it" all the spots did look like pepperoni and like sausage so it was pretty cute. "I know but I wish I was so I could be friends with the dog" and not the dog to be her friend to tease her. Both dogs were great but the smaller pizza was cute and wasn't tugging his arm off.

Marina: chuckled as she shook her head at him. "You can still be friends with the dog. You'll just have to accept that he'll always like me better than you." Pizza turned to Marina again and nudged her hand with his head. "Hi," she said in a higher pitched tone. "You want attention, don't you?" She easily bent down again to pet the dog, huge smile on her face.

PJ: he laughed "I know that and he's just being nice but he told me he loves me the most" he joked just happy she seemed happy. He got down by them and petted the dogs back as it was loving on her. "Aw he's just like you always beggging" he laughed.

Marina: "He told me he loves me the most! I think he was lying to you. So sorry." Pizza turned to Patrick and quickly licked his face before going back to Marina. "That was a pity kiss," she joked. When he teased her, she rolled her eyes. "He likes to kiss me. Can't really blame him."

PJ: Patrick looked at her for a moment shaking his head a her "all a set up he told me he's gonna love you now so i can come back later and get all the real love" he chuckled as he kissed the dog on the head. "He's not wrong there kissing you is pretty nice" he winked.

Marina: laughed when he told her it was a set up. “Pizza’s just a super great actor. Making me believe he actually loves me.” When he commented on her kissing, she looked up at him with a smug little grin. “You’re lucky you get to kiss me whenever you want now. Or, I guess, whenever we’re alone.” She stood up again so that they could finish up the walk.

PJ: he nodded at her with a smile. "Very good we should bring him to set...or not he take our jobs" he joked with a laugh. He would love to kiss her right now, and not stop. "Kissing you while we act was always alright" he smirked at her. "Makes me wanna hide some place" he winked as they walked back and inside. They turned in the dog and he asked what they needed for the shelter. "We will be back with what you need " he smiled at her.

Marina: “He can be the new police dog. Sniff out all of the drugs.” It would be awesome if they had a K-9 unit on the show. “You never complained. You liked it so much, you even moved it outside of work,” she teased. “I’d hide with you anytime.” When they had to give Pizza back, Marina frowned and bent down to say goodbye to him “We’ll come see you soon, okay?” After Pat finished talking to the worker, Marina stood back up so they could head out. “Have a great day,” she told the woman with a smile. “Give Pizza a few extra treats.”

PJ: he laughed "oh yes he's going to scare all the bad guys, he's so big and scary" PJ laughed. "but he would be a good little police dog" he smiled at her. He laughed. "Same to you, you like to keep it up as much as I do" he laughed. "Good..." he smiled glad she hide behind a wall to kiss him if they could do it. He was sad to to leave the dog so he said his good byes. He nodded at the worker and they started to walk outside. He saw a hall with no one and pulled her over. "You cant talk about kissing without me doing the kissing" he said and gave her a kiss.

Marina: laughed along with him. “He doesn’t have to scare them away! He just needs to be able to alert someone if the person has drugs. He can do that.” She playfully shrugged a shoulder when he called her out for liking kissing him. “Maybe I do, maybe I don’t.” When they walked away from the dog, there was a hint of sadness on her face. She definitely had a connection with the little girl. Marina was confused when he pulled her to the side, but as soon as he said why, she smiled. Her hand went up to his cheek as she kissed him back. “So sneaky.”

PJ: "I think most police dogs do it all not just be cute and sniff out drugs" he laughed. But Pizza could do it maybe, and be the first small police dog. "I think you do" he chuckled he knew he did and he would tell her that. The hall way was nice dark enough and no one came around since it was down by the exit like near a closet. "So sneaky" he smiled as he pushed her on the wall giving her another kiss.

Marina: “He’d be a TV show police dog. He can get away with just looking cute,” she playfully argued. Since they had walked back to where people were, she couldn’t tell him that she did enjoy kissing him. He knew she did anyway. Marina couldn’t help but be completely caught up in him. She knew she should double check that no one was around, but all she could focus on was his lips. After a minute, she placed her hands on his chest and gently pushed him back. “We can’t. Let’s go back to my place, or yours. It’s safer there.”

PJ: he smiled a moment at her "that is true, he dont really need to attack anyone" he chuckled. He knew they shouldn't but he missed her lips he missed her. So he had get a little bit of her while he could. He kept at it till she pushed him back. "ughh" he chuckled. "You act like we are hiding from zomies" he laughed as he walked out of the hallway with her and to the car

Marina: softly ran her fingers through his hair after pushing him back. "Zombies would be easier for us to deal with," she joked. "You know why we have to be careful though. For now." She followed him down the hallway and back outside to the car. After slipping into her seat, she reached over so she could grab his hand. They could at least do that again. "This is gonna sound kinda dumb, but I'm actually pretty sad to be leaving Pizza behind."

PJ: he let out a breath as she pushed away from him. He knew they shouldn't the public didn't know about them yet. "I think so we can run and hide from them easy not like the public" he laughed. He was glad to hold her hand again since they were in the car no one could see it. "I know, but we work to much right now" he was sad about it since he did like pizza a lot too

Marina: "Exactly! We could kick some zombie ass. Real people are a lot harder to deal with." She brought his hand up to her lips so she could kiss it. She was struggling just as much as she was, but she was forcing herself to stay calm. They'd be by themselves again soon. "I know. I mean, we work too much anyway. As long as the show lasts, we're gonna be busy." She shrugged a shoulder. "But so many people have pets anyway. I just need to bite the bullet someday."

PJ: he laughed light as he looked at her. "I think we do good if the world went walking dead on us" he joked. Really he knew he be scared of that so he hoped it would never happen. "Yeah and that maybe a while" he chuckled a moment. The show was doing so well now they were kept busy. It would be hard but if you had someone help you, you could have a pet easy. "Someday it will happen" he looked at her quickly and went on driving.

Marina: hoped a zombie apocalypse would never happen, but she knew if it did, she'd at least be pretty safe with him and any other cast mates they could meet up with. "I hope it's a while from now. That means we'd still have a job." She chuckled a bit as she turned her head so she could look over at him. "I know it will. Thank you," she told him, gently squeezing his hand. It helped that he understood how much it sucked to leave the little guy behind.

PJ: he smiled at her for a moment, she did mean a lot too him. So if everything every happened he would do everything he could to take care of her and to keep her safe."I know right? As much as a break would be nice I like having work" he laughed. He kissed her hand just not letting it go he couldn't help himself. "Like I said we will come back to visit as much as we can"

Marina: slipped her hand out of his so that she could reach up and play with his hair, forearm resting on his shoulder. "I like having work too. It means you get to see my adorable face every day. I know that's your favorite part of the job." She liked the plan they had. To visit the animal shelter when they could and help out with anything the shelter might need. It was almost like the entire shelter was theirs. "As much as I don't want this to go to your head, you're kinda the best."

PJ: he smiled at her touch, it was all so nice. He had no idea how much even a little touch could mean to someone. "Oh yes that's all i am there for is to see your face" he laughed lightly at her. "but it is a big part of it now" he winked. Hearing what she said he had look over at her and smiled. "You are too, you're amazing" he smiled. After a short drive they arrived back at their apartments.

Marina: "I knew it," she replied quickly. "Who cares about the other great people we work with when you get to work with me?" She was joking, of course. There was a lot more that was awesome about working on their show. When he called her amazing, she smiled a bit wider. After getting back to their apartment building, she got out of the car, looked around, and then grabbed his hand.

PJ: he looked at her with a smile and laughed "Yes all about you as always not everyone else" he smirked only kidding. He loved everyone they worked with. But there was something about Marina that just made his heart skip a beat really. Once out of the car he was happy to hold her hand as they walked up to her apartment.

Marina: smiled as she listened to him laugh. "As long as you know the rules," she joked back. The rest of the cast and crew were like family to her, but Pat had always been something different. As they reached her apartment, she unlocked the door and pulled him inside. "And we're free," she said playfully. "I'm all yours again."

PJ: looked at her with a smile. It was part that their characters had a thing. so it made them become very close over the years. He just got so close to her, he was close to the rest of the cast but she was his number one. "Oh no you have to keep me in line" he winked. He laughed when she pulled him inside "thank god" he said pulling her into a kiss.

Marina: They'd gone through a lot together as actors so it only made sense that they ended up developing genuine feelings for each other. They had a similar chemistry that their characters did. The fans, cast, and crew could all see it. It'd just taken them a bit to figure it out. "Keeping you in line is hard work," she teased. Her arms immediately went up and around his neck as she leaned in close to kiss him back.

PJ: so many years of work, it lead to the becoming so close. He always thought their thing was just acting, that it wasn't real. But it ended up being their feelings was not just an on screen thing. "i know but you love doing it" he smirked into their kiss as he backed up them onto the couch.

Marina: "Someone has to do it so I figured it might as well be me. I'm the only one that really can." The couch hit the back of her knees so she immediately moved to lay down. Her arms stayed around him so that she could pull him down with her.

PJ: he nodded wit ha laugh. "you are, you are the only one for me" he smiled at her. She really was, he was thinking that she was all he needed right now. he laid on top of her but held himself over her.

Marina: melted a bit at what he said. It was super cute. "I love it when you get all mushy and say adorable things." She felt as if she could stay in this moment, kissing him, forever. It was all she needed. He was all she needed.

PJ: smiled at her, she did really make him so happy. "You are almost as cute as Pizza" he laughed. He snuggled with her and snuggled his nose into her neck before he kissed it.

Marina: laughed as she looked at him with wide eyes. "Almost?! I should at least be even with Pizza." As he moved his head to her neck, she tangled her fingers in the hair on the back of his head and held him close. "We should talk about the elephant in the room. Well, the elephant I know about, but I don't think you know."

PJ: he chuckled "wow I thought you would say that Pizza is way cuter" he joked and looked at her "but you're right you are the cute one. He smiled as he kissed her once more before he smirked. "We cant get a dog Marina so we so cant get an elephant" he joked.

Marina: "Well, Pizza's way cuter than you, but he's pretty even with me," she teased. Hearing him admit she was the cute one made her smirk. "There you go." Her hand went to play with his hair again. "Oh, shut up. You know what I mean." Though it would be pretty cool to have a pet elephant. "Tracy asked me if something was going on with us. So we need to either be a bit more careful at work or accept that the people close to us might get suspicious."

PJ: he chuckled "i can see that" he said about himself. "I don't know... I think you right about him but he beats me is true" he laughed. he did love when she played with his hair, he just liked that feeling. He laughed looking at her sitting them up he moved so she was laying on him now and he brushed her hair from her face. "well stop being cute and I'll stop looking at you like i do" he joked. He bit his lip for a second. "What do you wanna do, tell our friends or just try keep it more quiet..."

Marina: "Aww, no. You're not allowed to put yourself down. Only I'm allowed to do it since we know it's not true. You're super adorable. You and Pizza are the two cutest." The first time she ran her fingers through his hair, she noticed the way he leaned into it, so she'd made a mental note to do it often. Marina let him swap them so that she was now laying on him. Made it a little easier for them since she was smaller. "I can't help it! You stop being cute," she playfully argued. "I don't know. I feel like maybe we don't tell them outright, but we stay the way we've been and if they figure it out on their own, we can just ask them to keep it quiet. At least until we're at a point where we want it out."

PJ: he laughed "i'm kidding" he said. "Yes i love it when you tease me" he nodded. Because they did that to each other it was all fun and games. It was just her, she could touch his hair and he really melted. He liked his hair and normally he didn't let many touch it at all. "You need to stop being hot I cant help but look at you, so you need stop first" he smirked at her. He thought a moment as he held onto her hand. "they are gonna figure it out soon I think" they just were so into each other it wa hard not to see that. "But we can tell them too they all are our family and wouldn't say a thing if we ask them too" so there was two ways to do it and it was hard to think what one was best.

Marina: She smiled when he admitted he was kidding around. Leaning down a bit, she placed kisses all over his face. “Just checking. I don’t want you to ever think you’re anything less than amazing.” Marina’s head fell back in laughter when he complained about her being hot. “I can’t help it! They do my hair and makeup and make me look somewhat decent. You need to stop being hot too. They always have you in those tight shirts. Perfect for the fans and me.” Thinking about their options, she found pros and cons for each one. He was right though. If they confided in their friends and the people they worked with, no one would say anything. “We can tell them. And just make sure they all know it’s not really something we’re ready to put in the public eye yet.”

PJ: he laughed as she kissed him all over he loved it. "Same with you babe, you are the best thing..that's happened to me" he smiled as he kissed her. But really she was good looking and the shows team makes her look even better. "They do make you look great and that must be hard because you look amazing always" even when she had no make up and just woke up. He laughed "you wanna know how hard it is to get the shirts off?" he teased. He wanted people to know, but just their friends since he knew they be happy for them. "I think they understand that..."

Marina: “You’re so cute,” she mumbled against his lips as she kissed him back. The fact that he was giving her so many compliments made her happy. He knew exactly what she needed to hear. While she loved their joking relationship, it was nice to get the sweet side of him too. “I don’t know if I’d say always, but you’re maybe a little biased.” Marina jokingly wiggled her eyebrows when he talked about getting the shirts off. “All you need to do is say the word and I’d happily help you out.” When it seemed as if they’d decided on what to do, she relaxed. It’d been bothering her ever since their cast mate had brought it up. “Everyone already jokes about how you’re mine. Now they’ll know it’s official,” she teased.

PJ: he smiled hearing what she said. They could do that, kid around with each other and could give each other all the compliments. It was funny and them they were not the serious at all. "I maybe but you do always look amazing but that make up team is amazing too" he chuckled kissing her. He laughed. "ah maybe that was my plan to get you to help get me out of them" he teased "can you even get this one off?" he said with a wink. It wasn't hard to see how they looked at each other. "I think they know...but will be happy for us once tell them" he smiled. thinking of how they should do it.

Marina: She kissed him back easily, but then softly nudged his shoulder. “Thank God they have the makeup team for you. Someone to fix up this mess of a face you got,” she joked. Marina squinted her eyes at him with a competitive expression. “Don’t tempt me because you would be out of this shirt in seconds. If I had it my way, you’d never wear one.” She smiled at the thought of the people they cared about actually knowing their secret. It’d make things a whole lot easier. Especially at work. “They’re gonna ask us what took so long.”

PJ: he smiled into her kiss, he was very into them right now. "i know i don't think I could be on TV if they didn't fix me up" he laughed. He gave her a look like he did mean it and put her hand at the bottom of his shirt. "hmm you would like that" he teased. "I knoww they are gonna all go about damn time you too"

Marina: “That’s why you’ve had so much with me. They just say toss Paddy with Marina so that she can look good enough for the both of them.” Her eyes traveled down his body a bit and since he suggested it, she moved her other hand so she could pull his shirt up and over his head. “The view just got so much better,” she teased. “They are! LaRoyce has been telling me to lock you down since season two. I thought he was crazy.”

PJ: he laughed "i think that must be it they knew if I wasn't always working with you i'd look like a dog" he joked as he kissed her with a smile. He was glad she was okay with it and into it so she took off his shirt. He sat up so she could get off his shirt. "so it's good for you...." he winked at her as he had kiss her again. "that sounds about right I think he told me that too" he laughed.

Marina: laughed as they continued to joke around. “At least you’d be an adorable dog.” Seeing him shirtless wasn’t anything new to her so she definitely didn’t mind when he suggested it. It made it even better that she got to relax back against him as they cuddled, her hand resting on his chest. “This is what the fans tune into every week. They’re all just hoping you have a shirtless scene.” She grinned and kissed him a few times. “Of course he did. Hoping one of us would give in to his matchmaking.”

PJ: he smiled as they joked around with each other. He laughed "they got to use all the guys for the eye candy" he was not the only guy that had take their shirt off all the time for no reason. Half the time they had something in a locker room was to have a guy with a shirt off, when they could talk about the same thing outside no problem. "I think they all hope you would" he winked as he was playing with her shirt. "He's gonna brag he set us up"

Marina: “I like it. The females kick ass and the guys look hot. It’s perfect.” Whenever the women had to go undercover, things would get revealing, but they didn’t have too many scenes where they were shirtless. If they were, it was to show that they hooked up with another character. “They’ve gotten to see a decent amount. Like how they constantly have Tracy and I in this crazy, ultra push up bras. As if a cop would give if she had perfect cleavage.” Marina laughed at it. It wasn’t a big deal to her since she knew looking good was a part of being on TV. It was entertaining. “He probably will. Whatever helps him sleep at night.”

PJ: He noded, the men always had to have their shirts off. Like they would be talking and changing and it would happen. The times they got hurt the shirt would come off too. "i never get that you look damn amazing and Tracy too so no need for that" he looked down at her chest with a wink. "i think look great with what you have" he smiled at her. "I think the only cop with big brests is tv and porn cops" he laughed. "He's gonna brag about it"

Marina: shrugged her shoulders. “It doesn’t really bother me or anything. It’s just funny how different it is from real life. I get that it has to be a bit more glamorous.” When he looked down at her chest, she playfully rolled her eyes. “I was going to say I think you’re the only one who’s been in hot and heavy scenes with me, but then I remembered there was one with Charles.” It wasn’t often that the show showed much of an intimate scene, but when they did, it had typically been their characters since they were established. “I can’t imagine having a big chest and being a real cop. The running is... not fun.”

PJ: he smiled at her "i get it's for tv it's how it is we all got to look hot keep everyone watching" so they use make up on everyone, give the girls push up bras and more. "very nice" he winked "I am the lucky one... I mean you are the lucky one" he laughed "don't remind me" he made a face at her. But their characters were a thing so they did only really do stuff like that with each other. "i bet that would hurt and make it hard to like tackle someone"

Marina: “Exactly. Plus it’s not like I’m straight up naked or anything. That’s where I’d draw the line.” There were women who didn’t mind scenes like that, but she didn’t think she could do it. She chuckled when he reacted to it mostly being scenes with him. “Why don’t we just say we’re both lucky?” There was a little pout on her face when he said not to remind him. “Oh, is someone a little jealous that he didn’t get all of my make out scenes?” Her tone was teasing as she questioned him. They both knew it was work. “Whenever we have days with a lot of running or chasing with stairs, it hurts me, so I can only imagine how much it must hurt if that’s a woman’s actual job that’s larger than I am.”

PJ: he laughed "that's what funny men can be nearly nacked and it's okay on tv but women nope" he laughed. He had to get down to just boxers before and it was always weird. Since so many people were really in the room with them. "We are" he smiled for a moment. "Yes, no one should kiss you but me" he winked. It was before them and even if so it be just for work and it be okay."I bet I mean I dont know you run with them at all" he laughed.

Marina: nodded along to what he was saying. "For real! Men can do anything on TV and then a woman tries and all of a sudden people are pissed." It was crazy how many double standards still existed. "No one gets to really kiss me. They're technically kissing Kim," she told him. That at least made it a tiny bit better. "Before I automatically yell at you," she started with a laugh. "Were you saying that sarcastically like I don't run or were you serious?"

PJ: he nodded "it's crazy I mean I've seen the men that get to be nacked and show off their ass, but a women cant do that?" he never got that it was a weird thing. Like everyone should be treated the same. "But you Kim sooo" he made a face her and laughed. "But thankfully Kim is to into Adam to want to kiss anyone else" he smirked. "I mean you got nice ones so I dont know how you run with them bouncing all around" he laughed. "my boobs are not big" he frowned looking down with a laugh.

Marina: "Welcome to the world of a woman," she told him, playfully patting his head. While it sucked, it was something she'd gotten used to. "Oh, hush!" Marina laughed along with him. "Kim isn't kissing anyone right now. She's working on herself. Trying not to be buried under her grief and stress." When he commented on not knowing how she ran, she couldn't help laughing some more. "It's really not hard or anything. Sure, they move, but that's what a bra is for. To support them and make it so they don't go crazy." She kissed his cheek. "So sorry. You're just a late bloomer," she teased.

PJ: he shook his head "If I can show my ass on tv you should be able too" he smirked. "or dont' cause ..." he smiled as he kissed her. "i know she is and Adam is working on it all too, it's hard for them" he sighed. But he knew they would get past it all at some point. "i seen the ones that you in it's not a sports bra....." he knew they normally would do sport type things with them. "do you think real cops use a sports bra?" he asked making a thinking face before he laughed. "very late....very very" he smirked.

Marina: chuckled a bit. "I don't need to show my ass on TV. I'm good keeping it to myself and a very select few." She liked that a lot of her scenes were surrounded by real plots and not just sex appeal. "I wish they let us wear sports bras. It would make things so much easier!" She shook her head at him. "You are very boob motivated tonight. You've suddenly turned into a teenage boy," she joked.

PJ: he nodded "you don't and i don't" he smiled. They rarely did it wasn't the type of cop show they were on. He knew some of the others were all about that. "You should ask them as much as I like your push up you should be able to run when it dont hurt" he smiled. "What my girlfriend has good boobs sooo I think about them" he winked at her.

Marina: “I mean, I won’t argue if they want to write one in for Adam,” she teased. It didn’t happen often for any of them. The most they had to do was shirtless scenes; and that was more often the guys. “I’ve been able to survive this long. They do give more supportive ones when we have something strenuous.” Marina rolled her eyes at him, but she was chuckling. “They appreciate their fans.”

PJ: he laughed "you would want to see my ass" he gave her a sly grin. But work asked for what they did and it normally wasn't to bad. "that's good" he said he didnt want her hurting. "They better" he laughed. He gave her a kiss and smiled. "I don't why you are so cute it's not fair me" he smirked

Marina: pretended to be innocent. “I don’t know what you’re talking about. I just think it’d be loved by the fans,” she pretended. It was sweet that he seemed genuinely concerned for her. The costume departing was typically pretty good with making sure nothing was uncomfortable. She kissed him back gently, hand moving to his hair. “How is that not fair to you?! You’re the one who gets me and all of my cuteness.”

PJ: he shook his head "oh just for the fans not for you?" he chuckled "you know if you were not sitting on me" he winked at her wit ha smile. He knew their crew did great but he still hoped she never was hurting. "I know but I wanna touch you and kiss you all the time now and you being cute makes me hard not to" he laughed as he ran his hand down her side.

Marina: “The fans can have Adam because I get the real thing,” she replied. “What would happen if I wasn’t on you?” Marina looked at him with a knowing grin. Hearing why it wasn’t fair made her smile. He was sweet. “You can touch and kiss me often. Just not when we’re working or in public.” She knew that wasn’t helpful. “You being cute makes it hard on me too, you know.”

PJ: he smiled hearing that glad she was here. That they at last after years of being close were a thing. "you be blinded by a full moon" he joked laughing. "We work a lot and are out a lot so it's hard" he said kissing her a few times just to catch up for when she was away. "I am gonna make sure to look at you extra cute now"

Marina: erupted into a fit of laughter when he told her what would happen. “Lovely,” she joked. “That’s my man.” Hearing his argument to what she said, she pouted a bit before kissing him back. “I know it sucks, but you can kiss me in between scenes and when it’s just casual rehearsal. Makes it a little better at work.” She played with his hair as she looked at him. “You’re always extra cute. You’re a mix of cute and hot that kills me.”

PJ: he laughed with her smiling for a moment at her. "very white sadly" he chuckled. "I don't if I'll be able to stop" he smirked. She did really drive him crazy lately. His hair ugh she knew how to get him to just melt. "Oh wow because you're cute and very sexy to me...and you need to just ...not... so i dont get in trouble someday" he joked.

Marina: “You’d have to show some kind of self control,” she teased. The way his facial expression changed just slightly when she started playing with his hair made her smile. “Why would you get in trouble?” Her eyebrows were furrowed as she looked at him with curiosity. “I guess at work you would, but only when we’re trying to film. But you wouldn’t get in trouble for anything else.”

PJ: he laughed "with you i cant" he joked as he snuggled with her a moment. She just made him really happy and he always wanted to be close to her. "you would get me in trouble since you're mean" he teased kissing her neck. "I am kidding but really it makes us our time even better" when they had to keep away from each other it made all the time with each other better

Marina: smiled softly at the way he jokingly complained about having to stay away from her. It was adorable. “I’ll do everything I can to make sure you don’t get in trouble,” she promised with a laugh. After the kiss to her neck, she rested her head down, nuzzling against him. “That’s true. If we were all over each other constantly, I’d get sick of you.” She was joking, of course. She didn’t think it was possible to ever get tired of him.

PJ: he smiled "that's going to be hard on you" he joked. He was just glad to be around her even if it was when they were working. "that is true, I mean I'd be sick of me" he joked he laid back more now just wanting to snuggle with her. They never had to do a lot to have a good time. They could just talk and snuggle and he would be happy

Marina: “I’ll somehow find a way,” she joked back. Closing her eyes, she took a few deep breaths as she relaxed. It was nice getting to simply rest with him sometimes. Being in his arms was easily one of her favorite places to be. Since they didn’t have much to do today, Marina silently decided that they wouldn’t move much from their current spots. A chance to relax was all she needed.

PJ: he smiled as she felt so at home in his arms. She just was made for it he felt. He smiled as he closed his eyes "time for a nap" he chuckled lightly. Time did change so his body was off and he needed some rest

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[dfwemelie]

March 2019

I hate how awkward I am around Calvin. It's like I freeze up and dont know what to do or how to do anything. It's fine though cause we will get over it eventually. We both never realized how much we have in common and its pretty crazy. He makes me happy.

I got new shoes :D they are black and white Van's. I also got some new pants which is cool, they have holes in them UwU

Around 2 days ago I got into a fight with Gage cause he said that wearing all black makes me look stupid. I was really hurt by it and eventually started crying cause I'm a bitch and cant handle my emotions properly. I dont even know why Gage is still in my phone, I thought I blocked him. I have an amazing boyfriend now. I care about him. I dont need Gage in my life anymore.

This homework makes me feel fucking stupid. Calvin says he wants to help me with it but I have to figure it out on my own. Hes a good boyfriend. Tomorrow is his birthday but I didnt get him anything cause I'm poor :'). I'm sorry Cav if you ever read this.

Its Clavins birthday today :'). I cant believe hes 16. I still have a long way to go until my birthday, but that's ok. 145 days isnt even that long..

I told Calvin I was pansexual today and I started having a panic attack. He noticed and held me tight and kept telling me everything was going to be ok. Calvin didnt let go of me until he felt my heart rate go down. I felt safe in his arms, I've never felt like this before. I like this feeling

Today is friday, the last day before spring break. Yesterday I got super hangry and pushed Izzy and almost punched Kelly in the face. I've felt super nauseous all day it's weird. Also kinda tmi but I have the weird urge to makeout with a girl lol. My crazy teenager hormones are kicking in.

Everything hurts and I'm dying.

this is why I dont get attached to people. I fuck everything up. I'm sorry Calvin but I cant tell you what I used to do. (I told him lol)

damn I havent done this in awhile. its March 19th and I just found out Kaylie got braces!!! She looks so pretty. Also Calvin and I got into an argument last night but we worked through and we hugged the entire lunch period lol. He cares about me alot and I care about him, I dont want to mess everything thing up. I've never told my parents about any of my boyfriends at all, but I feel like I could let them know about him. It's weird but I've never had a boyfriend like him before. I love it, and him. He treats me like a queen UwU.

Calvin was sad today, I didnt like the fact he was sad so I grabbed his arm and didnt let go until we walked into class after lunch. In the library I layed on his shoulder the entire time and he didnt seem to care lol.

Cav just told me he might be moving so I'm doing a sad

March 22, 2019. Calvin ran away and I'm currently sitting in the hallway crying. I'm so fucking scared.

it's the next day and I'm ready to talk about it. Calvin got caught with stuff and him which caused him to be super pissed off. I ignored him at the beginning of lunch and I went to talk to Kaylie and left Calvin. I came back to sit in our spot but Calvin wasnt there. I sat down and Calvin walked by. Jack said something to him which made Calvin angry. He walked off and threw his phone across the library. I tried to go after him but he walked out of the library, I thought he would come back so I didnt go any further. A couple seconds later I saw him walking away and it was like time stopped. In that moment, my heart broke into millions of peices. I started crying and crying....and more crying. I cried for the rest of lunch. I walked into class while crying and put my head down. Mrs.Lawshe noticed and asked if I needed to go outside into the hallway. I did for about 45 minutes. During that time Micah, Donte, Aedon, Kristen, James, and both Luke's asked if I was ok. I wasnt but I said I was. When Micah came around he could tell I wasn't so he kept asking, I gave in and told him that Cav ran away, he said he would be back to talk to me some more. When Micah was gone Kristen saw me asked me the same question, she told me everything would be ok and if there was anything she could do for me than she would do it. I asked her if she could go get Avery and she did. When Avery came out she asked me what was wrong and I told her everything. She comforted me and helped me through it. Micah came back around and sat on the other side of me for a little bit then had to go back inside. I stayed out for a little bit longer with Avery until I had to go get dressed for Culinary. I went to the bathroom, got dressed, came back, and finished the last couple minutes of class. I went to Culinary and said exactly 7 words the entire class, in the middle I went to the bathroom and cried. Mrs.Langley say me and i just told her i had a bad day. I went to class and proceeded. The bell rang and Carlos asked me what's wrong. I told him and started crying, he hugged me and told me everything was gonna be ok. He walked me to my bus and went home. Calvin stole his parents iPad and texted me at 3:55, but I was asleep trying to numb my pain. I woke up and immediately texted him, we talked about what happened. we forgave eachother and moved on. Everything is ok now. I love him so much and I'm glad we could work everything out.

Todays my moms birthday, happy birthday mom

OMG OMG OMG. Ok so Calvin texted me saying he wanted to talk to me. So I asked the sub if I could go to the bathroom and she said ok. I went out there with Calvin already waiting for me, he grabbed my hand without saying a word and took me to the stairwell where the cameras couldnt see. We got half way down and he pulled me in close and grabbed my hands and put them behind his neck. He put his arms on my lower back and hugged me for a couple seconds. At this point I already knew what was gonna happen so I was kinda nervous. He looked into my eyes and asked if I was ready. I said yes (of course lmao) then he leaned down and kissed me. Like 2 seconds later it turned into us making out and I wasnt mad about that lol. We made out for like a minute until I said we had to go back to class before anyone would wonder why we were gone for so long. I went back to class and I'm told Kaylie and my face got super fucking red lol. Like a guy in my class was asking if I was ok and I just nodded. I wanted to go back and do it again lol, like really want to. But it would be weird if we both asked to go to the bathroom twice, plus I dont want us getting caught. When I got home Calvin and I were talking about it and I was like damn, he was a really good kisser and supposedly so was I. We cant do it until next week because he has ISS, but omg I can not wait until that day comes. Ok yeah I'll stop talking about it now lmao.

I gave myself my 4th and 5th tattoo over the course of the last 2 days, The first one I did waas a smiley face on my upper left arm. The second one I did just last night (which took forever btw) was the word “compulsive” of my left forearm. None of my parents have asked or I think have noticed them yet. That’s good I guess. I think I wanna tell them that they aren’t “sharpie drawings” and are actual tattoos on my 18th birthday, since I would finally be the legal age to get one. I think my favorite one I have right now is “compulsive”. I think it describes me perfectly. I’m gonna be honest though, it is not the best looking tattoo I have ever done, but that does not make me love it any less. I’m worried about drill team tryouts with my tattoos. Apparently I need to get administrative confirmation that my tattoos are fine and i’m allowed to try out. I’m also worried about my mom finding out. I don’t know if the couches are gonna ask if I have any. If they do, I absolutely have to say yes because they can be covered only to an extent. I don’t my mom finding out cause she might not let me be in drill team if I actually do make it (I doubt I will, but i;m going to try out anyways.) Calvin says he wants me to ove him once since i'm an experienced tattoo artist. I’m still not sure if I trust myself to do it on another person. I can do it on myself cause it’s my body and i’m ok with it if I mess up, but on someone else? I would start freaking out if I mess up.I’m gonna talk to him about it probably next week. I love him so much lol.

Calvin came over to my house and walked Chewbacca with me omg

I stg all of this is about Calvin. I went to check the mail and I saw him across the street lol. I knew he was walking around but I didnt know it was in my neighborhood. we walked me to my mailbox cause I was checking the mail and it was really fucking cold lmao.

[themicahjea]

My 2 0 1 9

I started my year as a freshman student in college, figuring things out and is really confused as to what i was doing and what direction am i heading. I wasn’t doing well in my studies since i had a “transfer shock” and literally only had 2 weeks of “summer break”. By the second semester, i was physically and mentally tired—this also means that my emotional status is not as strong as it was the previous years. The first day of the first month of year, i remember writing a note somewhere and wrote my feelings out. I was really sad. My mental health was affected by the things happening around me — obviously, i wasn’t doing well at the beginning of this year.

February came. I just had my midterms exam when my sister broke the news that my dog died. My sweetest little boy, Gift, just turned 1 and he died. I felt worse. I felt like i failed as a fur momma. I felt like i failed him. I cried so many nights, and it didn’t help that my roommates keep on reminding me about his death as if it was nothing to me. March. The last hurrah of the semester. My friends and I were planning about our Siquijor trip, took the finals — which i THOUGHT i did good. I finished my NSTP and said goodbye to my tut-tees. They are so precious, i could hug them — then went on to the trip. I went cliff jumping, lots of swimming, attended a sponge cola concert which surprised me because the lead vocalist of the band recognized me. That night, my friends went drinking. I drank a little but i poured more softdrinks than the actual gin. THAT was when my “friends” babbled and said “the gin doesn’t taste good anymore because we’re out of softdrinks”. It was a heckin small problem but they made it seem really big. — that’s when i knew that that “friendship” is not gonna last. I was right. I didn’t hang on to them anyways so it didn’t really hurt. Lol. April and May, it was summer break! Finally! I spent most of my time at home, soaking everything up before school starts again. Last April, i attended our church’s annual youth camp. It was a three-day-camp where you just learn about certain people in the Bible and their way of living and how God sustained them. It was also a team building camp and let me tell you, THIS CAMP HELPED ME. A LOT.  — aside from the camp, we went on different short trips, here and there. Also, the whole summer break was filled with me getting some rest and watching the whole Avengers movies, from ‘The First Avenger’ down to ‘Infinity War’. I basically became a fan. It was the 12th of May when my friend, Shayne asked me if i could watch Avengers Endgame with her since she wants to watch it again. I said yes. I knew how it would end since I’ve seen some scenes on twitter and my sister’s friend spoiled the heck out of me — BUT THAT DID NOT STOP ME FROM CRYING! It was so embarrassing to get out of the theater with VERY swollen eyes. It was probably the most heartbreaking film i watched this year.  June, school started, again. SOPHOMORE YEAAAAAR! I kinda know what my classmates are , where they’re from and what they’re attitudes are. I was MORE cautious this time. I only spend time with Ross, Angela and Charlene. In fact, i went to Bohol with Ross and Angela!  July. Right before my birthday, my family and churchmates went on a trip in Palawan. Enjoyed every bit of it. My birthday came and it was all fun, until it took a turn on the 17th. I got robbed. Lol, i knew that man was up to no good. My body told me that. My intuition told me not to trust him but oop, i dont know why i still gave him my money... idk. Two days later, i went to the police station to file a report and it turns out, there’s another man who’s looking for the SAME man. He was robbed by the same man as well. This was when i realized what God meant when He said that the love for money is not good and is a sin. I realized what a man can do to be able to get your money. August, i went to Bohol for a weekend! It was one of the most spontaneous trips I’ve ever taken. I went to Bohol to watch a movie. Yes. I went there to watch ‘The Art of Racing in the Rain’. I pranked a few of my close friends that i was pregnant which was surprisingly a success. They really thought i was. Lol. It was also “Hibalag”! Took the midterm exams and then celebrated the festival. All i did was stay in the booth for certain period of times. Bought some stickers. I went home for a little bit to meet the newest member of the fam, little Miss Potts. We bonded and watched a little bit of Avengers endgame. September went by so fast, i cant even remember what happened. Basically, i went back to Dumaguete. Then i received another news from my family that Miss Potts escaped the gate and is missing. I did my very best to look for her so does my family but nobody turned her in. I couldn’t  believe i lost 2 dogs this year and it’s heart breaking. — but right after Potts was gone, we have been blessed with another pup. My mom’s friend made us adopt him since she has tons of dogs already and she doesn’t have enough space. We, well i, was supposed to name him ‘Stark’ to keep the “one-syllable-name-for-the-pets” rule. But when i saw him, i knew Stark wasn’t his name. When my aunt called him ‘Happy’ since he made the whole house happy again, since Pott’s gone, it clicked. It wasn’t a one syllable name but Happy suits him. Happy’s also the name of Tony Stark’s head of security, anyways so...  Also, I guess i was so drowned with all the school works i had to do that time. I. Was. LOADED! I even attended a climate strike!. But thank you Lord, i was STILL able to nap in between lunch breaks and classes. My sister and my cousin also visited me in the campus and stayed for 3 days! We went on a lot of food trips, we can’t even take it anymore! October means semestral break— but there’s always rain before the rainbow comes, right? Thankfully for my minor subjects, all we had to do were requirements like making a video, recording songs as well as plays. I was the lucky one who was picked as the Basilio of the group. Being the Basilio means i have TONS OF LINES, but the Lord sustained me. I was able to master my lines and delivered them without any mistakes on stage.i also made new friends. Looools. After the finals, i went home to my family. I went home to a news which would be my fall for the next few months. I received a news that involves my parents. Im not gonna elaborate but because of these information, i had several mental breakdowns and at one point, the one thing i don’t want to happen, happened. I melted down in front of my sister. Personally, i don’t want her to see me cry. I don’t want her to see me at my weakest point. This month started t all. Started all my emotional breakdowns and my anxiety is back from its grave. I really thought I’d  already heal because i also went to my father’s home town to just have an emotional closure with the place. I visited some of the places i used to play in and visited my elementary school and the friends i used to play with. I really thought I’d be fine, but no. I was so so so stressed that the whole 2 weeks of my break, i was just lying down, wasn’t able to do a thing. I cant even eat. I got the flu. I was SO weak and couldn’t move. November. I went home for a little bit because of intramural break and went home again for The Jesus Reigns celebration because my sister performed on stage for the second year!!! Im so proud!  December. I was home early. I went home on the 13th so i could attend my sister’s birthday party. Outside the house, it’s full of fun. Went out a bunch of times with my churchmates, bonded with them, we attended our church’s annual thanksgiving which i enjoyed, my sister and i was able to hang out in achi joanne’s house a lot more late. I went swimming with my friends, everything is actually fine outside. But then when im inside the house, it feels like im suffocating. I cant move well. I cant feel well. I honestly dont know how and what to feel right now. On Christmas day, i ate processed/packed chocolate chip cookies for Noche Buena instead of tita mom’s lumpia and then i cried. I didn’t even get a family photo for this year’s holiday season. I really really dont know. I feel numb and unable. I long for the connection with God which i know i have to work on. I’m so down and depression is eating me ones more. Little by little. Right now, i feel like I’m  fat Thor Odinson. Depressed and feels like he failed with his mission in killing Thanos... I’m in a battle of my inner Thanos right now. I’m not losing but he isn’t either. But i know, I’m going to win this Battle because it is not I that’s handling it. It is God. I know He’s got my back and I’ll win because a child of Gos is NEVER a loser. I’m gonna win this fight, and just like what Cap said,  Whatever it takes. I’ll do whatever it takes to win this fight. To win this Battle. This situation that I’m in right now should not really affect me in any way because i know that God’s with me and He’s going to fight for me. My life is “Father-filtered” which means whatever I’m going through right now, God has allowed it to happen. WHY? Because He is preparing me for my future battles. He wants me to gain more strength to carry on.  I know that all these BREAKDOWNS of mine will become BREAKTHROUGHS. I know it and i believe in it. I trust in the Lord. 2020, Get ready for a stronger Micah. She’s not gonna give up on whatever you throw on her because her God is bigger than those problems. 

 Happy New Year Everyone!

God Bless You All! 

#new year #2019 #2020 #new decade #new #beginnings #highlights

[the-bookler]

85 questions

Rules: Answer these 85 statements and tag 20 people.

I was tagged by @honoraryshadowangel thank you so much! Honestly i’m still getting to know people so tagging uuhhh @quillbit-reads @coffeebooksorme @happybibliosaurus honestly i’d tag more but it’s 2am and im tired sorry!

the last 1. drink:omg pink lemonade with tamova vodka, not good. Kids, drink expensive vodka it makes the world of difference 

2. phone call: A friend at 1am last night via FB messenger because my dog escaped and was heading her way 

3. text message: uuuuh i dont use my phone’s intrinsic functions ie calls and texts so last person I messaged via FB messenger was my friend Jack about an award ceremony we were both at 

4. song you listened to: haven’t the foggiest, I didn’t listen to music today

5. time you cried: I was drunk and upset over a friend who committed suicide in April I believe, would have been in June

6. dated someone twice: lmao i’ve dated one person properly and wouldn’t go near that person again with a ten foot pole if I was at gunpoint so sorry nope 

7. kissed someone and regretted it: bahahah march i got into a fight with him he was demanding and i don’t care for people i barely know demanding large swathes of my time seeing as im so busy but apparently he’s cursed so i haven’t kissed anyone since it’s awful

8. been cheated on: November 

9. lost someone special: April, RIP Rafa <3 

10. been depressed: It was last bad in November, guess why

11. gotten drunk and thrown up: June it’s the second time i’ve ever been that drunk I hate it so much I usually just have a can or two and float around smiley and fun tbh 

3 favourite colours 12. Green 13. Lilac 14: Pink

in the last year have you 15. made new friends: oh god yeah, at least 100 new people in my life and i’d count at least 50 of them as very good friends now 

16. fallen out of love: hmmm not love i don’t think 

17. laughed until you cried: yepppp

18. found out someone was talking about you: people always talk about me i’m great ;D no but like... of course people talk about you? not maliciously probably in my case 

19. met someone who changed you: Yep!

20. found out who your friends are: totally 

21. kissed someone on your Facebook list: ahahaha yes a lot of them, we had a game of spin the bottle in November some time. I’m also a bit of a devilish rake by American standards but that’s just how youths in Ireland are.

General: 22. how many of your Facebook friends do you know in real life: I know of them all but i’d say there’s about 30 i’ve never met in person or been introduced to 

23. do you have any pets: Sascha the cat and his brother Charlie the Jack Russell!

24. do you want to change your name: I kinda instigated a change of it from megan jane to megjay but other than that nah

25. what did you do for your last birthday: went to a silent disco, had several complimentary jaegermeister shots, stayed overnight in my uni city instead of going home like i usually do, oh also a drama society quiz we failed spectacularly

26. what time did you wake up: this morning was about 12.30pm D: i’m bad in summer...

27. what were you doing at midnight last night: running around my neighbourhood and the surrounding roads and fields after my runaway dog in the lightning. I wish I was lying 

28. name something you can’t wait for: To move to my uni city and get started on my second year of college!

29. when was the last time you saw your mom: like two hours ago

30 has vanished? mysterious 

31. what are you listening to right now: nothingggg other than the cars on the road

32. have you ever talked to a person named tom: huh. not that i’m aware of, they’re all tomás or thomas here.

33. something that is getting on your nerves: people chewing loudly, people expecting me to help them without asking or being roundabout in the way they look for help like just being sneaky 

34. most visited website: not sure tbh

35. hair colour: blonde

36. long or short hair: mine is mid length it’s growing, I usually keep it short for practicality but im a poor college student who cant afford cuts and i have mad curly hair so my friends cant do it for me, so it’s gonna be long soon lol

37. do you have a crush on someone: kiiiinda? im suppressing it, it’s a Bad Idea.

38. what do you like about yourself: everything, i’m glorious 

39. piercings: i’ve two in each lobe 

40. blood type: No idea, I waited 4 hours to donate blood and find out once but turns out my veins are too slim and i’m banned from giving blood now :) :) :) 

41. nickname: megjay, megs, meggy, nutmeg

42. relationship status: single af

43. zodiac: Virgo

44. pronouns: she/her

45. favourite tv show: I don’t watch tv,.... maybe criminal minds? i like Reid

46. tattoos: not yet!

47. right or left handed: right

48. surgery: nothing yet but i feel like i’ll need work done to my knees sooner or later

50. favorite sport: volleyball! i’m hopeless at it despite being a spikeball coach lol

51. favorite vacation: Denmark or London

52. favorite pair of trainers: The pink ones i stole from my sister ;) 

MORE GENERAL

53. eating: nothing 

54. drinking: nothing

55. I’m about to: sleep

56. waiting for: second year of college wooooop

57. want: sweets 

58. get married: idk i don’t really want to but i might change my mind

59. career: stage manager or actor or playwright or something related 

WHICH IS BETTER:

60. hugs or kisses: both, i’m a slut for human contact come kiss and hug me i love it 

61. lips or eyes: eyes

62. shorter or taller: taller pls 

63. older or younger: older

64. nice arms or nice stomach: love makes you blind ie you dont really care like im not gonna pick someone to love based on their anatomy

65. hookup or relationship: relationship

66. troublemaker or hesitant: troublemaker, im a bit shy i need someone to get me into my mad situations 

HAVE YOU EVER:

67. kissed a stranger: yea lol i got to know him later though

68. drank hard liquor: i dont even know what qualifies as hard... jaeger?

69. lost glasses/contact lenses: no

70. turned someone down: yeah tinder is rife with... interesting folk

71. sex on the first date: nope 

73. had your heart broken: kinda

74. been arrested: no

75. cried when someone died: yes

76. fallen for a friend: yep! it ended really poorly i do not recommend!

DO YOU BELIEVE IN

77. yourself: 100% 

78. miracles: nope

79. love at first sight: kinda 

80. santa claus: no

81. kiss on the first date: lol yep im loose with my affections 

82. angels: nope 

OTHER:

84. eye colour: blue 85. favourite movie: Kingsman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#tag games #all we've learned is i love people and myself lol

[wannabebridgetjones-blog1]

28 March 2017

Having not written a diary in a while, this is gonna be weird. This begins on the 23rd February 2017.

I was sitting writing an English essay back home for uni, whilst talking to a friend. Snapchat is basically the foundation of this friendship. By this stage, I was a second year, and he was only a fresher, but we’d grown pretty close, and with me being a, still, incredibly single and somewhat desperate guy, I had been flirting with him. But then again, that wasn’t unusual for me. The issue by this stage was he had very slightly flirted back.

His birthday was earlier that week, so a fairly big group of us had been out for drinks. Too tired for clubbing, him and his mate came back to mine for a film. We ended up staying awake til 7am, by which point he’d already given me the look that he wanted to kiss me about 10 times. Unfortunately, it hadn’t happened, but it definitely sparked something in me that wanted to kiss him back.

So, im writing this English essay. What an unromantic text Oedipus the King is! I mean, killing your dad and shagging your mother – come on, not when im trying to flirt.

Out of nowhere, he sends me a snapchat saying he likes me. HE LIKES ME! He – a very cute, charming gentleman, who gets my humour actually likes me, the arrogant, narcissistic joke? I couldn’t believe my luck! Although, he continued by saying that I should tell him I don’t so he can get over me. Being a little flirt and being kinda (very) shy about it, I say “The feeling isn’t totally unmutual” because who doesn’t love a double negative? Well, him apparently. He thought I was blowing him off (and not in that way, mind out of the gutter please). So he asked if I could forget about it, which then made me think he’d changed his mind, but I let it slide because I didn’t want things to be weird.

But that played on my mind a lot. So the next day I send him a message amongst our usual snaps and ask what it was all about. If I remember rightly, I was still doing the essay, so as well as the potential of a guy liking me, an ancient guy liking his mother a lot was also mixed into the equation. And once we both explained our sides of the story, we were both equally minded to the fact we liked each other. Someone please inform the BBC that a miracle has happened. Or the Daily Mail, they love shit like this.

On the Saturday, he came out and picked me up from work, took me to my favourite noodle bar, and then I showed him the beautiful historical sights of Edinburgh, all from the castle promenade. And whilst this was going on, I knew I really wanted to kiss him. But being an awkward nearly twenty year old, I decided I would be cute and “boop” his nose with my own, which had previously worked in testing whether guys wanted to kiss me. So I went in, and as I was about to pull back, he leans in and kisses me.

And there we were, making out on the castle promenade in the freezing darkness. Only to be cut short, of course, by someone with a trumpet playing “The Last Post” about 50 feet away. I believe they may have been with the Welsh crew that had come to watch their national team being humiliated at Murrayfield in the 6 Nations.

Well, if you cant laugh, what can you do?

Two weeks later, he would be my boyfriend.

#diary #bridget jones #gay #Oedipus is not sexy #writing #journal #edinburgh

[jwnbwnjwn]

Entry 9 (05.09.2021) - (06.04.2021)

Before I get into things, I cant believe I haven’t been on here in almost half a year. Well, to be fair I do get on here, but just for a quick minute to see my small feed and then get off, or whenever I get those notifications from tumblr desperately trying to get me to open their app again. I actually have been meaning to get on here and write, but I guess it became one of things you say and never do. I just felt that there was so much on my life to update on that I kept pushing it back further and further. I know I don't have to, but someday I’d like to see what was going on in my time back in the day - both good and bad, Besides, it’d be an interesting thing for my kids and for my older self to look back upon and see what bullshit went on. Reading off my last entry, I see I brought up that keto diet again. Yeah, that shit never stuck. It was one of those things that I tried once and it went great, and then I kept trying it time after time and it failed every time. Even now, this month, Im still trying to get back into it. And by “getting back into it”, I mean I told Mr. that I was gonna do this diet with him, and then i continued eating like crap - but wait I have an excuse. My sisters birthday was the week that we were supposed to start, so I mean, I couldn’t step out on my sisters birthday bro, I had to eat that good good you know? 

Covid is still a thing. Update on that though, I did get vaccinated. My university opened up vaccinations for students and so me and Mr. The first vaccination didn’t hurt at all, to be honest I didn’t even feel the dang thing go in. And it was so funny because after you get the vaccine they monitor you for fifteen minutes and Mr. legit had the worst luck and sat in the only available seat which was in the corner between an Asian girl who was on the verge of throwing up and someone who was laying down in a bed about to pass out. I mean, it was hilarious imagining if they were to throw up on him, and besides with the jokes we made, It was so hard to keep in my laughter. The second vaccine was about two weeks after the first, and there was some sting to that one. I didn’t get any crazy symptoms, but my head was spinning and i felt very tired, the best way I could describe it is when you’re really sleepy and you just wanna sleep all day and your eyes are heavy, like that. Like, the best type of sleepy where you’re about to knock out. The only bad thing to it was your head spinning but thats it, I guess it made you feel very weak aswell. 

*Sidenote: It literally took me almost a whole month to come back to this draft and finish it. It is currently 06.04.2021.

Last thing I was talking about was the Covid vaccine. Yeah, the symptoms weren’t too bad, it was just the dizziness I guess. My sister got the vaccine this past month and she experienced the same symptoms as well, and so did Mr., Ice, and my mom. I already finished with my spring semester, and summer classes just started. I’m taking a Crij course this summer just to get it out of the way already, and I am retaking Biol 1 in Summer 2. Aside from this, it has been really shitty. I guess the least worst thing that’s happened so far is that my older brother came to visit back in March this year. I haven’t seen him in a long time, but it wasn’t all exciting. I’m not sure if I’ve talked about him before on here, but long story short, he’s caused my siblings and I a lot of trauma from when we were at a younger age. When he came, it was just one of those things where it was really awkward at first and then it just kind of became a “faking everythings good” type of thing. After this, shit really hit the fan. 

I never thought this would be anywhere near a part of my story but,

*Trigger Warning: child exploitation*.

I believe I have mentioned before that I had gone to couples counseling with Mr. This was back in early-midway 2020. We had gotten better, so our counselor saw fit that we stop going. It was scary at first, because we felt like things were just going to collapse again now that no one was going to be there to help support our relationship in a healthy way, but it was actually great. Individually, I was really scared too. I mean, I was used to things blowing up eventually over and over again, so you could imagine the hesitation I had when I had to actually trust Mr. again, and I mean like actually trust. I was practically forced to put my walls down and trust him, and I fought him and our counselor so hard on it, but it was like the whole world was against me because left and right people were telling me to trust him, so I did. I was really worried at first. The first couple of months were normal, but there was several times where I would overthink things, and look for things to go wrong. I’d stay up and stalk his social medias, his friends social medias, like, I was looking everywhere. I guess this is what gave me the slightest hint about what was going on. I had gone through his likes on twitter and saw that he had “hearted” a photo of a girls onlyfans. And it wasn’t just a regular girl, It was someone we knew and went to highschool with. This girl was someone that Mr. and his friends would always tease and bully, and I don’t know why, maybe it’s some misogony, but there is always going to be something sketchy when it comes to a certain group of guys and girls they tease. They say all this stuff about them, but once that girl is exposed in the slightest, they are all there jerking their meat to them. Anyways, I confronted him about it and he said that he had clicked on the profile just to see what it was and once he realized what it was he exited out. I gave him the benefit of the doubt, and moved on. Towards the end of the year, I’d say around late October, I started believing that things were okay. I even talked to my friends about it and stated how weird it felt for things to be okay, almost as if it felt wrong, but they assured me that if I had nothing to worry about, then don’t. To just be free, be happy. And then my world was crushed. In early to mid December, I woke up to several messages on my phone from a girl I recognized, but never had any contact with. I had previously known her because she was an ex to a former friend of mine. However, because she messaged me on messanger and deleted the messages before I had the chance to read them, I couldn’t see what was said. I was only able to see that I had gotten messages and that they were deleted. I replied to her and asked what was up, because I was extremely confused as to why this girl was messaging me in the first place. Her reply was, “Do you know “Mr.”?. This legit shook me to the fucking core because it is what I had feared all along. I was so tense for months, and once I had finally relaxed, this shit gets thrown in my face. She started asking if I knew my own boyfriend, and said that I might want to talk to him. I remember I kept asking her what was going on, but she just kept repeating the same thing; to talk to him first. And it was really odd because the night before, Mr. had messaged me a long paragraph explaining how he loved me, and how he’s made mistakes, and how life is so hard on him, and just basically explaining himself to me in such a vague way. But I took it to heart, because he opened up to me on his own after months of me asking him to. I didn’t wait to think of it as an apology for what was coming. That was the last message he had sent me before I got the message from this girl. Lets call her Desert. I was spamming Mr. with calls, texts, I even tracked his location and he had turned it off. Eventually I came to the conclusion that he had gone back to doing what he used to, which was something dealing with nudes or that he had cheated on me, or both. I ran to my friends scared half to death; I couldn’t eat, talk, I was freaking the fuck out. It’s almost as if my body knew, and was preparing itself. Mr. got back to me later at night, but he didn’t want to tell me anything about what was going on until I threatened to leave him. I recall telling him that I’m done waiting, and that I needed answers now or I was going to bombard Desert with them and hear it from someone else and leave. This is when he told me. He told me that months ago, after our couples therapy had ended, an old friend of his, someone we went to highschool with, lets call him Bucket. For some insight, Bucket is some bad fucking news. This guy is the last person you would want any of your family around. And I remember he had started talking to bucket and some other friends from highschool again, but I don’t know why my peanut brain didn’t think exactly who he was getting involved with again. Anyways, he told me that Bucket had reached out to him and asked if Mr. had any lewd photos of girls. Reminder: this was something they had been doing back in highschool. Mr. told him no, and that was that. Bucket kept coming back and asking, over and over again, and after Mr. gave some more thought to it, he remembered that he had his old SIM card from his old phone and that he might have something on there. He checked it, and sure enough there was. Let me pause you right here. When we were in couples counseling and as it was coming to an end, I expressed my worries about the SIM card. I had known that Mr. was doing this stuff back then, so I knew he had photos on this card. I think his phone had cracked or something like that, so thats why he got a new phone. When I asked about the SIM card, he said he had given the phone and SIM card to his sister, and that they were gone. I thought it was super weird because not long before that he said that he was hesitant to give the phone to his sister and idk what, it was weird. Anyways, back to the story. Mr. sent the photos to Bucket, and from there was the start of our downfall. Mr. got invested in it, and he got back into trading nudes and lewd photos of girls. This already sounds bad, but the worst part is that these were old photos. This SIM card went years back, and I mean years back to when he was in highschool doing this. What I am trying to get at is that he had photos of girls from highschool, meaning underage for the most part. Mr. is 22, and he was 22 at the time he got invested into this again. I didn’t even know what to think of it. I felt like throwing up, like my intestines were going to come out of my mouth and like I was going to die. I literally had a feeling of disgust and anger, not only for him lusting over other people, but the ages of the people he was lusting over. I, as well as many others, consider this child p^rn. I now had this idea that I was dating this pedophile for years, and was barely finding out. I felt like fucking dying, all those sacrifices, are for this? That was at worst as it got. Desert reached out to me to tell me about this, because Desert was Buckets ex girlfriend, and now babymomma. She had found out and let me know. However, Mr. found out she was doing this and talked to her, and convinced her that he would let me know and that it was for the better, and she let him. Desert sent me screenshots that she had found through Buckets account between him and Mr., and I can’t even begin to describe how hard my heart fell through my ass. It hurt like i just got shot in the throat. It was through her and these screenshots that I also found out that he had previously planned to hook up with one of our old friends, as well as other people. I’m not even going to go into the degrading words he had said about the fellow girlies I (used) to be friends with. It was a fucking mess when I met up with him. I told him that he was a pedophile, and it went to hell from there. I’m talking massive breakdowns, crying, yelling, you name it. I was telling him people were going to report this, hell, I told him I was going to report this. I’ll save you the hours of repetition, I didnt report shit, well, not at this moment. He also let me know that he had been buying this girls onlyfans, remember the girl I mentioned earlier, the one who I caught him hearting photos of? Yeah, he had been buying her onlyfans, and his friends and him were pitching in for it. What ended up happening was that Desert had told me and let me know that she was going to be notifying the girls that these pigs had photos of, and that it was up to them what they wanted to do. I let her know that it was fine, and that I would support whatever it was they did, meaning, if they were to make a report on them, so be it. He’s a grown man, he dug himself in this hole. What ended up coming of it all; I believe she is still notifying the girls about the photos and the pigs, because it’s still being brought up recently. I’m still with Mr., if that’s what you want to know. It hurt a lot, hearing it all, and I took some time for myself to figure out what I want to do, to figure out how to go about it, hell, to catch a breather. We didn’t spend valentines day together because of this. I was there to support him though, because he was scared that each day was going to be his last, meaning either the cops were going to get to him first or he was himself. I was there for him, I supported him, cared for him, even though I was supposed to be the one to receive that treatment. But I did it because I love him. I know it sounds stupid, especially if you consider everything. But I do love him. I’ve known this man for about 5 years, and even though he is such a fucking stupid person, I could tell this wasn’t the way he wanted things for himself. I could tell that he never wanted to be in that place, but it’s where he ended up. Mr. has been going through a rough time lately, I know how difficult things are for him. I don’t know if I’ve mentioned it before, but he’s at home all the time taking care of his very ill father. I can only imagine the lengths that something like that would take you through. I know many people suffer with many different things, and many use different outlets to release themselves of this pressure and stress. I believe because this was something that Mr. had previously been involved with, and because Bucket reached out at the time, this was the path that led him to the biggest mistake of his life. He found his comfort in these photos, this environment, these people. I know many struggle with porn addiction, drinking, sex addiction, intrusive thoughts, etc. I just think the demons caught him at the “perfect” timing. I believe he had been suffering through intrusive thoughts for a while. And with the stress and pressure from his family duties and his friends, it led to this. I know it hurt, and I never would’ve pictured ourselves in that situation, ever. But, I also knew that that person I was dealing with, was not the Mr. I knew. I knew he was somewhere in there, but I also knew that he was dealing with something greater than just stress. It was a whole mountain of ugly things. And yeah, I could’ve walked away and moved on with my life, but once you get to know somebody inside and out, and get to know and fall in love with them for every ounce of their being, I don’t believe the choice to “walk out” is there anymore. I believe at that point they become a part of you, they become family. It’s not that I didn’t have the strength or the choice to leave, because I did. It’s more that I couldn’t leave him to suffer knowing that’s what he was doing; suffering. I wanted him to get better, I didn’t want to see him behind bar cells, or even worse. I needed him to get better for himself, and for his future. I know many won’t understand, but that’s alright. As long as we understand, that’s all I needed. We stayed together, and overtime we took care of one another. We now stand in a better place, one where forgiving has been a big part of. It’s going well again. We tried going to couples counseling, but our counselor had a waitlist and pushed it all the way until the coming fall, and I mean im not going to be here so there is not going to be any couples counseling to begin with, but thats alright. We did do it for a week before she had to push us back, and in that week when I opened up to her about what had taken place, she believed it to be the extreme measures to involve cps and make a report. She made a vague report, and since I was the one to speak on it, it was as if I had made the report. However, nothing came out of it because it was not ongoing and cps didn’t think it was extreme enough to open up a case about. I think we have come to a place where were good now though. Recently, one of the explosive girls that they had photos of reached out to Ice, my very close friend, and warned her about the people she was involving herself with. She was talking about me, and how I am involved with Mr. I guess she warned her because people are starting to look at me weirdly for being his girlfriend. Ice let me know, and I told my friends that I would never put them in such a bad situation where they have to like who my partner is, and I let them know that if they felt like I was someone they no longer wanted to be associated with, then I would understand if they left. They didn’t leave. I don’t really care for people to start looking at me weirdly, because it simply isn’t like that. We know the truth, Mr., my close friends, and I, and I am okay with that. He started going to counseling again, and I have found myself at peace with the world. I understand how crazy it can all be y’know? I don’t know how I’ve come to be the person I am today, but I’m thankful for it. I know peace, I know life, and I know what love is. I strive to fill my life with these and live as comfortable of a life that I possibly can. My relationship is good, work is still being done, but it is good. I can ask for nothing more but for us to be blessed with another day of being together. 

My relationship with my father has plummeted. I had reached out to him early in the year about what was happening in my relationship, and I did find my comfort in my own dad. However, what I failed to realize was that my own father was a man who had misogynist views of his own. I forgot that he was a creep, and someone who Mr. would end up like if he didn’t try to make himself better. Along with this, I realized the absence he made in my family and the way he treated my siblings. My sister and mom have talked to him, and oh man, did my sister and I let him have it. He knows why we aren’t speaking. He constantly apologizes, says he’s been “joking” about the way he sees woman, as if joking about it for the last 20 years is even possible. It’s just gaslighting, and it’s not working. That’s why we don’t talk anymore. He can’t even realize how sick he is, and tries to save his ass from losing his daughters by calling it “joking”, which evidently makes it worse. 

I have reached out to a former professor of mine to be my mentor, and he has said yes. This man is someone I highly respect who I took for an Engl course for my basics. He’s an older man, who just recently retired from teaching. I’m just glad I can be able to remain in contact with someone who I see myself in. 

I can also finally say that I am finally moving to my dream university this coming fall. It has all been approved, and I have a dorm and all. I’m very excited, but also saddened to be leaving my family and friends. I also have to share that I have a job now! I am currently a hotel receptionist working night hours, which is where I am writing this blog at right now. I love this job, and I love the people and the hours. It’s very peaceful for a college student like myself. 

Well, I’ve finally caught you guys up. I hope it brings you a giggle to say that through writing this, I have a slight lag to my typing because of all the shit I had to say. I’ll try to write more often. I hope you guys remain safe. See you soon. 

Ended this at 06.04.2021 at 5:28 AM.

-jen

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""Does price of car insurance go up, down, stay the same, after getting G licence?""

I'm in Ontario, Canada and am going for my G licence in July (I'm 26, if that makes any difference?). Right now I'm an occasional driver on my parents insurance and plan to stay that way after I get my G. Right now my insurance is 90 per month. I want to save up for enough insurance for 12 months so when I move out it's out of the way for one year. Anyway, does anyone know if the price of insurance goes up, down, or stays the same after getting your full G licence? I kind of want to figure out how much I should save up for the full year by knowing how much it'll be monthly. I plan on going in and talking to them, but I wont be able to for a few days...just curious if anyone can basically give me a heads up. Thanks.""

Life Insurance?

I'm a joint account with my husband's credit union, Michigan First Credit Union, Priority Credit Union, Detroit Municipal Credit Union which is here in Detroit Michigan some of them has a promotional life insurance like CUNA Life Insurance which is included with my husband's Michigan First Credit Union that he included. My question is, can my husband include me or buy a life insurance for me that is included with those credit union as family life's insurance. Is that possible? I just want to know because I'm only new here in USA and came from other country so I'm scared with this life insurance that my husband buying, can he buy life insurance for me in those family credit union.""

Whos got the cheapest auto rates on insurance right now?

Whos got the cheapest auto rates on insurance right now?

Anyone know of an affordable auto insurance that is nationwide?

small companies/ customer friendly , with a website""

Is it normal for Car Insurance rates vary so much.?

I'm thinking of buying my buddy's 92 corolla wagon and have been looking around for insurance prices. Progressive is the cheapest so far at $124 a month for liability. All other companies have been double. Geico is the most expensive at $278 per month. I'm a 20 year old male with a clean driving record. I just got my license and i've had my permit for a couple years and never got any tickets or anything. i have also taken drivers Ed. I qualify for the good student discount. Anyways my question is, is it normal for it to vary so dramatically. All these prices were for just the minimum state required insurance. Also does anyone know of a cheap alternative. I even tried the general and they wanted $248 per month.""

Buckner Kentucky Cheap car insurance quotes zip 40010

Buckner Kentucky Cheap car insurance quotes zip 40010

What are the regular insurance cost of these cars. (without deduction or add cost)?

Porsche Nissan 350 Honda S2000 and also give me a recommendation on a nice not that expensive, good sporty looking car, lol.""

Who sells the cheapest car insurance?

Who sells the cheapest car insurance?

What the best cheapest 1 day van insurance in uk?

goin fron newcastle to glasgow tommorw n need the cheapest van insurance for a couple days going 10am n wanna come back 10/11pm

For high risk car insurance how ?

how many accidents do you need to be moved up to a high risk insurance company? I got in a car accident a year ago and last week I came very nearly close to one twice. how much is the insurance policy for high risk insurance?

Low Cost Health Insurance?

I am contemplating quitting my job and going full time to school so that I can have a fresh start with a new career. It would be fine if it was just me, but I have 2 kids and I am single. With school I would work about 40 hours/week doing clinicals at the hospital plus my school work, so I wouldn't be able to work as well. I know I could get state assistance with medical but I did that before and it was the absolute worst healthcare I've ever experienced. They treated us like we were scum. I want my kids to be well taken care of for the few semesters that I would be out of work. I will be getting all of the student loans that I can to pay for basic expenses and hopefully some sort of sliding scale healthcare...Any ideas?""

""Help selling a car to an Italian, Insurance problems.?

I have just sold my car to an Italian and he now wants to drive the car to Italy. He's been told he can't insure a car that isn't registered in Italy and my Insurance company can't help. How can he get Insurance for the Journey? What other pitfalls can we expect?

Can I drive my friend's car if I am NOT on their insurance?

In the state of OHIO, I want to know would I be able to drive a friend's car if I am NOT on their insurance, but I have my own insurance?""

Where can I find low cost health insurance in Florida for kids?

Where can I find low cost health insurance in Florida for kids?

""For Home Owner Insurance purposes, is an unfinised basement included in total square footage of the house?

Are Insurance company underwriters not supposed to include unfinished living areas of the house when determing my total square footage of house for replace cost purposes? My premium went up even though the home inspector from Allstate did not know I had part of my house that is unfinished. I was not home at the time when he did this home based underwriting square footage procedure.

Whats the cheapest car insurance ?

I'm 19 years old and i just bought myself a 2001 Pontiac Firebird Trans Am WS6 i know that its going to be pretty high but ive been driving since i was 16 and this is my second car never had any accidents or any tickets i wanna get a cheap one but one that will give me good benefits. Another thing im a full time student and Im in the Marines i think that may give me a little discount to shouldn't it. My question is which one should i get cause i've never gotten insurance by myself.

Insurance required for a self-employed cleaner?

My girlfriend is thinking about starting cleaning peoples house's. Does anybody know what kind of insurance would be required for this!

""If you have or had a ninja 250 at 16-18, how much did your insurance cost and who where you with ?

Does the bundle up insurance on some companies actually save you money ?

Average motorcycle insurance?

What is the average motor cycle insurance for a 22 year old female who's taken the motorcycle driving course? Anybody know a ball-park figure?

What car insurance is cheapest?

im enlisted in the marines right now and i haven't shipped out to boot camp yet, i will be 18 years old and planning on getting a used jeep wrangler after boot camp, i just want to know which car insurance will bee the cheapest for it, thanks!""

""Health insurance, to see chiropractor help!?""

im trying to find health insurance because i dont qualify for medicare. im currently unemployed and looking for work, and couldnt go to fiu this semester. im 26 years old woman. i hurt my back lifting boxes a few months ago. the pain is horrible some days that i have to stay in bed all day. i need to see a doctor but i dont have money and i am living with my disabled mother. http://consumerdirect.bcbsfl.com my zipcode is 33010 what is the cheapest insurance here that would let me see a chiro and get xrays done? the less i would have to pay the better since my financial situation right now is bad.""

How much would insurance be for a Mazda MX5 MK1?

How much would the insurance be for a Mazda MX5 Mk1 in the uk. I know the car doesn't cost that much, and its quite old! I was just wondering what a 17 year old male would have to cough up :) Any useful website links would be nice aswell""

Does the owner of the car have to be insured?

I drive my sister's car and my sister lives in a different country. Does my sister have to be insured since she is the owner? I am insured..

""I need short term auto insurance, since i will be on vacation for 45 days in southern california,?

Now my insurance company doesn't cover me in the states

Getting car insurance on the spot?

I am looking for my first car at the moment and I have a question about insurance. Let's say I go to look at a car that I've found on the internet and I decide to buy it right there...how do I go about getting insurance right away? I live in the UK btw

Car Insurance coverage?

I was driving in a dirt parking lot at my school, I drove over some 3 foot tall weeds, I didn't see there was rocks underneath and as a result, damage to the under carriage occurred to my vehicle as follows: 1. Radiator crack 2. Transmission oil pan bent, 3. Exhaust damage total est cost $1,800 I am wondering whether or not this will be covered by insurance this happened yesterday I have not yet contacted my insurance company it occurred within 100 Yards of a paved road.""

Is credit used in determining health insurance rates?

I am licensed in GA for property & casualty insurance, so I know credit is used to help determine rates for auto & homeowners insurance, but it is considered in health insurance?""

How much would insurance be on a 2005 Maserati Quattroporte for a 19 year old?

Clean driving record, driving for 3 years. Dads buying it but insurance will probably be mostly me, curious as to how much it would actually be?""

About Insurance Rates on 06 Ford Expedition?

Gieco just went up on my rates. WTF? No tickets, No wrecks, No claims. I'm 64, good driving record, Wife 64, or Son 44, may drive occasionally. Retired and drive less than 10,000. yearly. Best rates with Reliable Company???""

How much would auto insurance cost me?

I am 19 years old and I do not have my license yet. I have been holding of for a while because I know that I will not be able to afford the insurance right now. My dad does have insurance and when I do get insurance, it will be on his policy. Although I know it will be alot because I am a 19 year old male, I really cant guess how much approximately it will be. Also, how much would it be if I were to get my own car and car insurance? ( something small and used, nothing fancy). Any help would be great. Thanks in advance""

What insurance will accept me?

Here is what happen. I was invited into this car insurance agency. I was with them for the last 5 years. I had 3 accidents in the last year. 1 first one was at an airport and the guy that hit me claimed full responsability 2nd a guy went through a red light and hit me and was charge with a dwi. The 3rd a chick clipped my car and no claims were paid because it was a he said she said. My car insurance now said that they were dropping me. I was tlaking to an agent and she was telling me it did not matter that 2 were not my fault because i was still in an accident. I was then telling her how I felt robbed and cheated by them. I then heard what sound like chewing in the back round. I said Are you eating She said what? I said are you eating She said um... maybe I said how rude, after 5 years of loyalty and you do this They dropped me. They said no one will want me. how can i get car insurance now?""

Buckner Kentucky Cheap car insurance quotes zip 40010

Buckner Kentucky Cheap car insurance quotes zip 40010

How much is car insurance for teens?

How much is car insurance for teens?

Using car insurance comparison sites?

Hi, I'm 18 years old and taking my lessons. I've been trying to get a quote on a couple of cars that I would like to buy for when i pass or to get provisionaly insured on, I got a quote as having a full driving licence on a 2000 3door 1.2L for fiesta, I filled in all the relevant information no modification, using for social and commute to one place of work etcetc and its comes up with the cheapest being aroud 7000, this cannot possibly be right can it? Ive checked over the details and used different cars and the same price always comes up.""

""Which insurance company is BETTER in Naples, FL -- UHC or CIGNA?

Planning to get an individual insurance and those two are one of the good ones. I'll also get a Dental Premier (ppo) and Vision Plan. A bit worried on the dental though coz there are only few who has affiliation with insurance companies. HEEEEEEEELP. Which one is better?

Car insurance?

lets say a 21 year old person goes to a car insurance company and is quoted $2000 for full coverage auto insurance. how much do you think this person will be charged at the same company at 25 years old?

Motorcycle insurance quote?

can you get a quote without entering a social security number? i dont want to give it out

Trying to get public liability insurance?

I am a self employed sub-contractor for a drylining and plastering company. I am trying to get public liability insurance but every single insurance website or insurance comparing website keeps asking me for my business details and address and whether I have any employees and how long business has been trading etc....obviously none of these are applicable to me as I don't own and run a business but can't complete the form without the details. Can any other sub contractors tell me how they filled theirs in?

Does the official DMV website offer a free point insurance reduction program?

my friend recently complete an online 6 hour class to reduce his insurance rates by 10%. he told me the class was free and that he found it from the dmv official website. but when i go on the website, it only directs me to classes from private companies that aren't free. does the dmv website offer a Point Insurance Reduction Program (PIRP)??? http://www.dmv.ny.gov/broch/c32a.htm thanks!!!""

How much does car Liability insurance cost for you?

how much does car Liability insurance cost for you I was wondering how much does it cost i know every body has a diffent one but what is yours so i have a estimate thank you

Ford Fiesta Zetec s 1.6 Insurance?

turned 17 and just passed my driving test living in london. was thinking of an Ford fiesta zetec s 1.6 Xreg Shape? however is the insurance cheap on it ? or are they any other 1.6's + that are cheap to insure at this age? e.g. E36 318i?

How much would insurance cost yearly for?

for a 2005 Lamborghini Gallardo that would be purchased for 110,000 dollars. Thank You.""

""Did not want to renew the car insurance, they did it anyway.?""

Our car insurance was expiring on the 28th of may. We had all the premium paid by the end of march. At the end of april we got rid of the car. Couple of days later we received renewal documents from the insurance company. We have been with those company for 2 years, we didn' t make any claims. For the past 2 years we were paying 102 pounds a month. The renewal documents were saying that we only got the 1 year NCB and that our monthly instalment is going to be 140 pounds a month. I rang them on the 6th of may and said that first of all we have 2years of NCB and we want the documents from them proving that , second of all I have asked how come the instalment went from 100 pounds to 140 pounds a month the nice guy explained that there was a mistake (in their system 1 year of NBC was showing) and now it has been sorted and we are going to receive the proof of 2 years NBC and the monthly instalment is going to be 100 pounds. I thanked the guy and said that we do not wish to extend the insurance and I am only waiting for the 2years of NBC. He said ok and I thought it was sorted. We went on holiday abroad on 21st of May and got back on the 7th of June and imagine my surprise when in the post I have found the letter from insurance company with the certificate of insurance enclosed and them thanking me for deciding to stay with them and saying that my monthly instalment is 130 pounds!!! (because apparently i decided not to the the brakedown cover that i had before!!!!) I decided to call them first thing in the morning, but befor I did it i checked my account and of course they have already debited it with 130 pounds. I called them and the woman there explained that they were never informed of not extending the policy and that of course they have it registered that i phoned on the 6th of may with questions but they called me and left a message on my voicemail and apparently i never rang them back. She explained that all I have to do is to send the certificate of motor insurance back and then i will get the money. So i did. Once they got it they rang me saying that now they want the proof of selling/scrapping the car, WHY???I do not think it is any of their business. Especially that as far as I am concerned I am not cancelling the policy , I never wanted it. It is all their fault they did not listen. Can I do something about it, I have also got the funny feeling they are not going to give me full refund that they are gonna come up with something.""

How do i transfer my brother's car to my name in california?

its a 1974 vw bus. i want it as my car. how much is it to change it to my name? and im 17 how much wud the cheapest insurance be? and the tags are a few months outdated.. wat am i getting into?

Want better insurance coverage??

It looks like that because of the conflicting passages in the ACA that you just might be able to qualify for better coverage by renouncing your American citizenship. http://blog.heritage.org/2013/11/27/obamacare-undermines-american-values/

Cheapest estate cars to inusre?

hi, im a 18 year old male looking for a new car, im looking at estates as i surf and need alot of space for boards etc. my last car, a clio 1.5 diesel was super cheap to run and tax (60mpg +) and insurance group 9 so didnt completely bust the bank. im looking at cars like the skoda fabia estate (1.2 and 1.9 Diesel) and the peugeot 307 and 207 1.4 diesels as they are also cheap to run and insure. the problem is i live in devon and any cars that are reasonably cheap are scarce. I average around 8-10 thousand miles a year. and am still in education so cant afford to run a 30-40 mpg car. any ideas? thanks""

Does anyone know an insurance plan for health and dental?

I am in need of health insurance and dental and i a in between jobs does anyone out there know a decent affordable insurance company that offers help to people like me thank you in advance

Help with teen car insurance?!?

on average how much do you pay for your car insurance as a teen and with what company? oh, and where you live?""

If my son is on my parents insurance does that mean they claim him on his taxes?

Okay my son is now 1 year old. He is on my parents insurance, we live with them, and my parents pretty much support him.(pay for all expenses).. Now my sons father wants to put him on his taxes. I know he just wants to get money to get him a new car. he also says he will get me a car too. but idk about that. When i told him i think my parents already claimed him, he started yelling its his son, and told me to give him his security card(he has a really bad temper and gets angry to where i get scared) so i did.. but now i need to sign a paper..and i dont want too.. Here is my thing i told him that he is automatically on my parents taxes, because he is on there insurance, so that would mean i would have to take aiden off of their insurance(Which means he wouldnt be on any insurance)he started yelling how stupid i am and just to sign paper, my question is is it true that because my parents have him on their insurance, he is on their taxes. What should i do? Thanks for anyhelp. Sorry long question. Please no rude answers""

How much would I have to pay for car insurance?

I'm 18 years old and I just bought my first car and have no legal driving experience. Dose anyone know what's the most money I would have to pay for insurance?

Should I add to my insurance?

I have full coverage insurance on my car that my bank still owns. My brother occasionally drives it. He does have a license but he doesn't own a car. Should I add him to my insurance policy or will my full coverage cover him if he gets into an accident?

What is the best but affordable health insurance w/h low deductibles anyone knows about?

What is the best but affordable health insurance w/h low deductibles anyone knows about?

Car insurance help and rules?

Okay so I am 18 years old living on my own completely dependent. Now if I put my dad as a secondary owner to my car so I still have possession of it and got on his insurance would it be cheaper? Or would it have to be his car. I live in Oregon by the way. And also could I get better rates if say I got on my grandma's insurance? Is that possible considering she isn't my guardian or anything and I don't live with her? Because she has the best credit known to man and I know that affects your rates. If you have have any tip on how I can stop paying 250 a month on my 94 Accord which is 4 door (yes I'm getting very raped by American Family) I would appreciate it.

Car Insurance for a teenage.....?

I am turning 17 and I already got my licence. i wanted to know how much my car insurance would be if i were to get a 2000 toyota corolla in Glendale,CA.""

""I want to but a new car in the next few months,can I transfer insurance?

It's insured for the next 6 months. When I get the new car can I transfer that insurance on to the new one? What if the quote my insurance company quotes is not competitive and I want to cancel the policy. Do I get a refund on the amount of months left or do I lose it? Thanks.

Car insurance Policy expiration date?

ok so my grandma told me that my car insurance expires 9/15/2011 but on the paper I have it says it doesn t expire till December of this year. I don t know if she got it confused or what. I don t have a phone to call them my phone is text only. On top of that I am looking for a new insurance company I currently have Farmers. I paid $50 for my insurance, but i was on my grandma and dads insurance, I dont know if it would be the same if I paid by myself or if thats just how much i paid being on their plan. if you can answer any of these questions that would help alot.""

I was in a car accident. My car was deem a total lost. The insurance towed my car away. I waited 1 year?

trying to get my claim paid. Today I received a letter from some car auction center, stating that I had to go get my car or they will charge me storage per day. now my car was a honda 05 I originally finaced the car and still owe money on the car. like 13000. The insurance company is not paying my claim. The finance company gave me a charge off on my credit. Now If I go pick up this car. is the car now mines? I do not have the title. How do I get the title.""

Buckner Kentucky Cheap car insurance quotes zip 40010

Buckner Kentucky Cheap car insurance quotes zip 40010

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