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yellowyani · 3 years
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2020: A year of competent art
(A pretty long post!)
New Years is almost here and in celebration i went through a lot of old art just to make myself feel better, and to make it super obvious that art isn’t a birth given gift but a skill! (I also wanted to take old art practices and add them to my new style bc i started doing the eyebag thing again.)
The one rule is that I have to say at least 2 good things for every negative!
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heres a doodle from january of 2020. i love the brush i used, the square painter brush is one i used to use all the time. i really like how the water looks around the ear, its not bad. Uhh an obvious bad thing is the stringy hair on his forehead, it looks like its barbed.
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a clutch/yani from march/april! anatomy is ok :/
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2 drawings from around the same time in may when i started to do a lot less realism and more cartoon-y drawings. in the first drawing omg youta is so yellow what the hell happened. second drawing, i love noahs smile hes really cute i love him! and evies hands look really good.
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a long journey of wack anatomy, bad line art, and awful color choice in June
then i started to experiment a lot. i did a bunch of studies and then in august:
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I fell in love with thick and chunky line art! i started to focus less on the face and more on the whole body, learned how to shade better, dropped the face highlights and favored a simple and fast style. i realized i could never go to sleep with an unfinished project, if i did it would never get finished so with my harder pieces I wouldnt sleep between them and it wasnt great for me, so this quick and simple style can get done within hours and i feel like i can get a lot of my ideas out faster, and its less of a headache.
Its the start of this tumblr! of course this shinra was my first post
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fire force was the first anime to make me draw and color a full piece. this one just happens to be one of my favorite fire force drawings!
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Im planning a redraw for this one bc i love it so much!
I think what really changed my style even more is the return to my roots
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I loved the look of the faces, they were more realistic proportions but still cartoon-y in style.
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started to color my line art and blur it too!
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dont know when i started to do this eyelid thing but i love it and now i do it all the time
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My favorite piece from this year! i love ludger smooch smooch kiss kiss
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And some recent stuff that im happy with!
Just remember people- your not magically good at something. most times you really have to work for it!
As an example: heres a old drawing from 2016
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its definitely..  something
Vs My redraw of it from today!
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lovebunnie · 4 years
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fr the poem questions: all of them >: )c
jared... only for you...
the tyger – are you a taker of calculated risks or do you enjoy playing with fire? would you rather ask for permission or forgiveness?
i am a major rule follower, i am not at all adventurous and i like to stay in my comfort zone. my life is a mix of staying true to my comfort zone and doing what I feel is right, first instinct. 
i carry your heart with me – do you believe in fate? what’s your secret to living a good life?
i tend to not believe in fate, it tends to make people not take responsibility for their actions and it leaves a bad taste in my mouth; predestination takes away humility from us. and i wouldnt say that im currently living a good life, its getting there but more often then not i would not describe my days as ‘happy’, more so just another day. but to make a day not outwardly bad, i firmly believe in having a really good breakfast in the morning and taking a shower at night. both of those really make my days better.
i wandered lonely as a cloud – what does nature mean to you? where do you feel most at peace?
nature for me is what comes to us instinctively and what we turn to for comfort in trying times. i feel the most at peace either at summer camp or in my bedroom with my cat :3
blackberrying – what were your early years like? do you miss being a child?
my early years were very happy, i was a very happy and funloving child. it was a time where i wasnt told about any of my family drama so i lived in blissful ignorance. i definitely miss being a child, all the way up to about 7th grade. its just been downhill from 8th grade and on.
ode to a nightingale – how do you feel about your own mortality? do you believe in life after death?
my mortality is something of a burden i carry with me everyday, a reminder that every minute is precious and this is the only life i get, i have one shot to not fuck it up. i dont believe in the afterlife, the concept of death is something that if i think too hard about then itll fuck me up.
hope is the thing with feathers – what gives you hope? what would you tell your 10-year-old self?
hope comes from those news stories about good news, like charity donation goals being hit and remembered anniversaries and flower bouquets in public, there is good in the world and sometimes its hard to find but its always there. to my 10 year old self, i would tell her to not hold too tightly to those around you, and that life constantly changes so dont get too attached or comfortable because itll prevent you from growing in the future.
the road not taken – do you find it hard to make decisions? what regrets do you have?
its really hard to make decisions because i always assume that my ideas are wrong or bad so if someone else takes the lead, i cant be blamed. as far as regrets, i wish that in my past, i just put myself out there more. i couldve spent highschool actively seeking for possibilities instead of sulking and wishing they came to me. they dont ever, you have to find them.
still i rise – what's your relationship with yourself like? what are your best qualities?
i have a bad relationship to myself; if i admire one trait about myself, the other traits must be less than. for example, if i think i look nice one day, then i remember abt my grades or my writing and how much i hate both of those. i can never be fully at peace, it will never be enough to sate my psyche. my ‘best’ qualities depend on the day, right now i think i have nice eyelashes.
howl – can you express yourself freely? do you feel smothered by societal norms?
i struggle everyday to be my genuine self. its not so much societal norms but my own mind; i want to look nice but i dont want to attract too much attention. i want to be remembered but not for how good my ass looks or whatever. my biggest fear is that people see me as something desirable but only sexually so i want to dress how i feel but i cant because im terrified of the gaze of men on my campus.
the raven – are you in touch with your feelings? how would you describe the relationship between emotions & rationality?
im extremely in touch with my feelings. i can acknowledge when i am angry or sad or happy, even if i dont know why. i allow myself to feel my feelings and then let them pass, i hate bottling those things up. between emotions and rationality, i use my emotions 9 times out of 10. i ask myself, ‘what do i want?’ and the first thing i come up with, i know is what i truly want to do. 
sonnet 116 – how do you define love? what qualities do you look for in a significant other?
i think love is everything; its the warmth of hanging out with familiar people, its when people remember facts about you, its a meaningful hug and its ‘this reminded me of you’. its different for everyone but i feel love in everything i do. in a significant other, the biggest thing is being able to make me laugh, if youre funny than im sold.
to autumn – what's your favorite season and why? what cherished memories do you associate with that season?
my favorite season is winter because it has lots of holiday warmth, good food, pleasant childhood memories, and comfortable clothing. also i love snow. i have very vivid memories of a blizzard in maryland when i was 11(?) years old, my neighbor tied a sled to the back of his ATV and dragged us around the cul de sac, it was so much fun!!
the waste land – do you like big cities? if you could choose any place on earth, where would you settle down?
i love big cities, they evoke so many feelings of love and the atmosphere being surrounded by people makes me so happy! if i could live anywhere, i think it would be san francisco, i love the city and the weather and the public transportation!!
o captain! my captain! – what are your aspirations in life? what motivates you?
in life, i want to give a tedtalk. i would also love to publish a book but i dont like what i write so if i ever did, id end up hating the book anyway in a year or so. i want to teach people the joy of public speaking and i want to give kids the joys i had given to me by my teacher when i was their age. my motivation comes from, this has to be done and if no one else will do it, it might as well be me. i have the passion and everything else will follow after that.
she walks in beauty – what's your aesthetic? how would you describe the relationship between inner goodness & outer beauty?
id describe my aesthetic as lovecore, i love the color pink and red and hearts and flowers and teddy bears and dresses and sparkles and valentines day and i love everything stereotypically ‘cute’. and i feel there is no outer beauty without inner goodness, if someone has bad intentions or a rotten core, their outward appearance will reflect.
one art – how do you deal with loss? do you write diary entries, poetry or prose?
thankfully i have not had to go through tremendous loss in my life but when i feel an emotional loss or general low point, i tend to move towards art, aimless doodling to take my mind off of situations. it centers me.
work, sometimes – how does your favorite weather make you feel? what is happiness to you?
my favorite weather makes me feel SO happy, all smiley and giddy and like things are going to be okay, just for one day, i will make this a good one. happiness to me is comfort and joy, its something that makes you laugh until your sides hurt and its art that you look at and feel. happiness isnt a huge moment, its little moments scattered throughout the days.
acquainted with the night – do you think there's such thing as the right time? what’s your outlook on the world?
no, i dont like to set things off for the thought of there being a right and wrong time. time isnt real and we only have so long on earth so there is no time but the present. go get that tattoo, ask them out, eat that snack. my outlook on the world is that there is a lot of bad shit but there is also a lot of good shit you will never see but it important nonetheless. you cant change the world in a day so you might as well take it one day at a time, working everyday to make it as good as possible.
if – do you daydream a lot? are you volatile, or do you stay calm when conflicts arise?
i love to day dream, it helps me determine what i really want and its a lovely distraction when the goings get tough. i try to avoid conflicts in every situation possible but if i were pushed, id either accept my mistake and apologize and work towards a better future; or i would tell the other person how im feeling and what i can do to help them feel better.
what would i give? – do you cry often? if you could change anything about your past, what would it be?
things make me sad but rarely enough to cry, things more so tend to weigh me down then break me. i let the sadness take me however it sees fit. and if thats to cry, so be it. if i could change anything about my past, i would just say that you will only get this chance to start over in a new state once, the years will go by quick so to TAKE OPPORTUNITIES WHEN THEY SHOW THEM SELF TO YOU!!!!!!
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turnipmage · 5 years
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@electricjudgement​ 8) well. since you asked
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dr. oscar blackmoore is a soft-spoken mild-mannered medical practitioner (mostly physician, but is trained in general surgery and also works as a mortician). he’s part of a world i have with sam aka @merle-casts-zone-of-truth(more under cut, including some more doodles >:) )
his primary work is as a physician for the local creature population (”creatures” being the term for the monster-like beings that inhabit a dimension/world parallel to earth, the majority of whom fled to earth centuries ago), while at night he’s contracted out as a mortician for the mob, while also providing healthcare services for its members. particularly their boss, arthur
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of course, oscar, himself, is a creature. in particular, he’s from a species of vampire-adjacent beings known for their long life span and being, like, really goddamn weird and as a species closed off from the rest of the creature world. also vaguely bug-like. for a quick run down, they drink blood, have six arms, have a somewhat chitinous shell covering parts of them, are around 7′, and all of their limbs are doublejointed. i’m still working on their design, but here’s a rough look, with the second set of teeth representing what oscars looks like a bit in his half-transformed form. (yes oscar can change from one form to another with the help of glamour, his own being a modified version that allows for gradual change. his species cant change to humans on a whim, as neither can most creatures.)
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now, in his own species’ terms, oscars about mid-thirties, but to other creatures, and humans especially, you could call oscar old. he was part of the first mass movement of creatures from their home world to earth, taking place roughly in the 17th century, though he was alive for at least a century prior to that, living in his old all-vampire hometown. why did he leave? well, he doesn’t like to talk about it (”if i dwell on past mistakes any more than i already do ill die”), but reportedly its got something to do with necromancy and him making extremely bad decisions
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once he’d crossed over onto earth, he mostly stayed closed off. it’s a fact he’s ashamed of nowadays, but oscar was.... quite a bit of an asshole when he was younger. so he wasnt just trying to keep his creature identity secret from his new human neighbors, but he just couldn’t give two shits about the people around him,and in many cases enjoyed actively terrorizing the locals at night with his... less than human characteristics. until he met vincent, a handsome, spirited pirate with dreams of hitting it big.  the two were basically inseparable for a years, in love, as vincent rose in infamy and wealth (eventually becoming captain of his own crew), but a nasty falling out led to them losing contact, and vincent hitting the chopping block, likely due to something oscar had done. at the time, oscar pretended not to be bothered, but he noticeably refused to get close to another human again for quite a long time
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sometime after, oscar was enlisted to help another creature who had moved in the first wave, caroline. this part of the timeline is pretty muddled as we havent gotten to ironing it out just yet, but oscar helped caroline and her growing group of people by acting as their doctor, and over time, the two grew to be close friends, and for a long time were the closest the other had. caroline ignored or actively encouraged oscars not super great mindset, allowing oscar to go out and attack/feed off of humans at night. during that same time, vincent, suddenly a ghost now and also king of the underworld (long story), found out oscar was still alive, flpped, and proceeded to start haunting the shit out of him. and... thats where it was at, for a while.
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but then, suddenly, a few centuries later, closer to the present day, a new janitor is hired, a cute upbeat guy called lance. and oscar is smitten.
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they get to know eachother, gradually, and become friends. lances influence strong on him, oscar begins to pull away from caroline, and from the more toxic mindset of the work environment she’s created, and starts to think over himself and his actions. it isnt until lance leaves, and oscar goes with him, that he decides to make an effort to try and be a better person. and so far, he’s definitely succeeded in turning himself around.  he’s also started making amends with vincent, and the two are also quickly growing closer again. at some point during everything with lance, he also gets contacted by the mob, and starts doing contract work for them.
 nowadays, oscar is much kinder and more considerate than he’s been in the past. he has an aversion to hurting people and tries to make life easier for the people around him. hes maybe a little exasperated sometimes, but he gives people the benefit of the doubt, and tends to try to hold off on getting angry when possible. he’s a bit of a worrywart, and has a tendency to mother hen the other ocs, fretting over them if they get hurt 
some more miscellaneous details about him:
-absolute goth nerd
-enjoys victorian-era outfits and wears somewhat toned-down versions of them as his daily wear
-theatre kid, generally playfully dramatic
-can sing pretty gd well
-plays violin
-has MULTIPLE pet bugs
-trans man, considers himself bisexual and queer
-has ddr competitions with lance
-can’t hold his alcohol worth shit
-definitely not a vampire, lance
-definitely not a necrophiliac, lance
-still holds out hope that caroline, like him, will eventually come around and stop being as much of an ass
-his double-jointed-ness from his creature form carries over to his human guise
-more that im forgetting we need to start writing this stuff down
-a triplet, with his two sisters
so thats the general gist of him, im leaving out a decent amount bc my hand is cramping from doodling and also i may just want to leave those as a surprise. 
while writing this i realized that parts of his story dont quite make a lot of sense? unless you know about the timelines of the other ocs?? so if theres questions on stuff feel free to ask me or sam
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ask-svt-hearteu · 7 years
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bestfriend! Joshua
Anon requested: “could you do a joshua best friend au?”
Genre: friendship 
Word Count: 1504
you’ve known Joshua Hong for most of your life
went to the same school all the way into highschool
elementary, not much happened
probably just say hi and stuff like, “Can i use that glue stick when you're done” 
middle school came along and the two of you were officially in the 7th grade
you weren’t really the type of person to have a lot of close friends, maybe only a little over a handful
but you did have a lot of friends, your classmates and friends of friends 
because you never really had a problem having a fun and nice conversation with someone
Joshua was one of those friends, just the nice boy in your math and history class who actually knew all the states and their capital 
until your history teacher decided your class wasn’t allowed to choose their own partners anymore and chose them herself
“Y/n and Joshua, you guys have ‘Causes of The Civil War’ ” 
so as you gave up your seat for someone else, you scooted into the now empty desk next to Joshua
“Hey Joshuaa, so what do you want to do first”
“Hmm we can look at the text book first” 
the whole project had some class time available to work on it but was expected to be worked on at home
“Do you want to do a powerpoint then?” he asks 
“Yeah! What’s your number so I can send you the links and stuff” 
so you guys finished your project a day early and got an A of course
and the conversations should've died there or something 
except when you had to sit next to each other for presentations he leaned over and looked at the paper on your desk 
“You like Naruto?” 
you look down at you rough doodle of Naruto’s face and grinned
“Yeah do you??” 
so that’s how the two of you became close because later that night, you texted him ranting about the latest episode  
and the conversation went on to other animes
then somehow led to whether you finished your essay
then to which flavor of ice cream was best
the two of you, probably the most unlikely friends ever
the nice, quiet boy who hung out with his group of guy friends 
and the social butterfly who pretty much talked to everyone,
and now him
highschool came around and you watched as he taught himself guitar
and joined choir 
“What the freak Josh why am I just finding out you have such a nice voice, it’s not fair” 
“Oh,” he laughs as you poke his shoulder over and over again at lunch, “Sorry my bad”
even though you and Joshua had many different classes and were involved in different groups, the two of you never failed to hang out
one of the these times being towards the end of highschool, where you went to this annual Korean festival together
“Look I wanna go there! There’s fried fishcake” you saying tilting your head towards the stand and proceeding to tug on his arm
“Hold on please!” 
the both of you pause and turn to around to face a foreign voice
your eyes meet a Korean man, who’s facing Joshua
“Do you know what kpop is?” 
he continues to explain how he’s a manager for Pledis Entertainment and scouting for trainees, then asked Joshua if he wanted to join
“Ah can I please think about it?” he says, while you just look at them back and forth
the guy hands him is contact information and gives him a couple days to decide
“JOSH!” you squeal, even though you didn’t really understand the situation much, but you understood something, “You could go be a singer!”
“I know I know, but can I do it? Live in another country? How do I even know..” he trails off nervously
you grab his shoulders and look him in the eye,
“Joshua Hong. I know you kay, you finna spend the rest of your life regretting it, and I know how much you want this okay. What do I always say?” you stare at him pointedly
“If life gives you ramen you take it and eat every last bit,” he says, a smiling forming on his face
“Right!” you say laughing
so for the next two or so years, you guys always stayed in touch
without fail, you guys would at least text every other day
and when he debuted, he sent you tickets to his showcase with the backstage tickets 
so what other thing is there to do besides go
and be extra af 
so of course you went disguised as a fan 
with a baseball hat with seventeen written across 
and a giant neon poster with 'JOSHUA HONG' written across 
and a bright orange t-shirt with the derpiest Joshua face you could find from Seventeen TV 
and let's not forget the gift you prepared him 
you almost lose your voice from all the screaming you did but whatever it's worth it 
and when it's over, you go backstage
 and basically tackle Joshua, proudly 
"JOSH YOU MOTHER FREAKING DEBUTED" you scream loudly 
"Y/N WHAT ARE YOU WEARING?" he exclaims holding his laugh in poorly 
Svt crowds around you dying of laughter from your outfit 
the two of you catch up on everything and you end up pretty much being the last friend or family backstage 
with the other members screaming excitedly around you guys, you talk to them a bit 
"Guess WHAT I gotchu a gift" you say wiggling your eyebrows at Joshua 
he laughs, still on a happy high, "What what, I have expectations" 
"Oh TRUST me, this will be the best gift you've ever gotten" 
you hand him a gift bag 
as he pulls the tissue paper out, looking inside the bag, and immediately bursts out laughing
pulling the item out, the others are laughing and seal clapping 
"thanks for the matching shirt”
"Anytime, now there's more!!" you say winking 
he grabs the last thing from the bag and laughs, extremely amused
dropping the bag in surprise he holds the item to his face 
a water bottle with 'DRINK WATER NOT ALCOHOL' printed on in big, bold, black letters 
"You're gonna be dancing a lot so you need to stay hydrated!" you grin, winking excessively 
"Ah you're the best, seriously" he grins and pulls you into a hug 
fast forward 2 years or so later
your have your life together as best as you can for a college student, and find the time to attend his concert
like last time, nothing will ever compare to seeing Joshua and his group live
as you walk backstage, the more mature ish side of you doesn’t play jokes and engulfs him a tight hug
“You’ve made it so far” you say looking at him with tears in your eyes, ruffling his hair
“Qhat is this you’ve turned soft?” he jokes ruffling your hair also
“College does that to a person I guess” you joke
the two of your haven’t seen each other in over two years after all
and with this limited amount of time you guys made the most of it
right before you have to leave, he tells you to wait 
so you settle down at the edge of the stage, where the two of you were, legs hanging off the sides
he comes jogging back over, a box in hand
“What is this? you already gave me a set of merch” you say laughing, accepting the box as he hands it to you
“A gift” he says, flashing his eye smile
you make a surprised sound,”hmm? what did i do, you already give me a bunch of free stuff” 
“Aye we’re best friends, besides it’s nothing burdensome, promise” he claps his hands together and grins
you pretend to glare at his seriously, “Imma hold you to that Hong” 
opening the box, that was clearly wrapped by a staff member or possibly Mingyu
you know your best friend after all
picking up the object, the first thing you register is it’s a really nice looking water bottle
well as nice as they get
you're a pretty quick person so 0.1 seconds later you register the giant bolded words in your favorite color
‘WHEN LIFE GIVES YOU RAMEN YOU TAKE IT AND EAT EVERY LAST BIT’
you stare at the bottle then turn at Joshua who’s looking at you excitedly
“Wow i'm a freakin philosopher” 
“Yah!” 
“Just kidding~ i love it i’m going take it with me everywhere” you smile, wrapping an arm around his shoulder
“Good and drink water-” 
“And alcohol because yes i'm definitely gonna fill it with vodka or something” you tease
“No no no you better not!” he says pretending you scold you
“Ssshhh we’ll see” you smirk
“Y/n L/n” 
“That’s me, your bff dude” 
he doesn’t bother to try to further the conversation, knowing he’ll lose
and so the too of you sit there 
basking in the stadium lights and sipping on water not alcohol ;) 
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marcusssanderson · 5 years
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20 Simple but creative ways to cheer someone up
Discover some simple but amazing ways to cheer someone up.
Life always has its ups and downs. Nevertheless, it’s not easy seeing someone we care about wear a frown.
Whether it’s a bad break-up or a rough day at work, we would go through great lengths to make them feel better again. But sometimes the way to cheer someone up is simpler than slaving in the kitchen all day.
Just because you can’t give them an all-expense paid vacation doesn’t mean you can’t cheer up your loved ones. Here are 20 cheap but creative ways to bring back a smile to their faces:
How to cheer someone up
1.) Give a smile or a hug.
Hugs and smiles are sure to brighten anyone’s day. Ever had a rough day at work only to grin back at a stranger who’s already beaming at you? How about being greeted at the door with hugs from your wife and kids? Wasn’t that a pleasant surprise?
Smiles and hugs are perhaps the only gifts that you can give without making yourself any poorer. So be generous with them! Cheer someone up today with a smile and a hug!
2.) Recommend writing.
From Benjamin Franklin to Virginia Woolf, plenty of people have benefited from the art of writing. Whether it’s journaling or some free writing exercises, getting your thoughts down on paper is one of the best ways to instantly feel better.
If your loved one doesn’t have a journal yet, you can gift them cute notebooks or even just small notepads to start with. They don’t need to write entire diary entries either. Doodling or brain dumping ideas can also be feel-good exercises.
  3.) Give a sweet treat.
Cliché as it is, there’s usually nothing better than some sweet treats when you’re having a rough day. Whether your friend or loved one is into cookies, candy bars, or dark chocolate, have one handy in case they need a quick pick-me-up.
4.) Treat them to tea or coffee.
Cheer someone up today with an invitation to tea or coffee. Think about how many moments in life are improved by the simple addition of a warm drink – from mornings, busy workdays and relaxations to trying to gain favor, a hot drink can go a long way.
Make the moment even more special (even while at the office pantry) by getting your friend’s favorite drink. Invite them to take a few minutes to sit down with you. Then pour them a cup and enjoy each other’s company for a while.
5.) Crack a good joke.
There’s nothing like a good laugh to dispel awkwardness or get the ball rolling. Having a good joke up your sleeve can come in handy when times get rough. If you don’t have a treasure trove of good ones, funny quotes or anecdotes will do.
6.) Pop in a feel-good movie.
Movies are often a great distraction for people who feel down and out. Cheer someone up by watching their favorite film with them. You could also surprise them with a selection of inspirational movies.
Whether they’re in the mood for tearjerkers, Rom-Coms, or Disney classics, there’s a movie that’s bound to make them smile again.
7.) Share a quote.
Inspirational quotes are always a great go-to for any occasion. From quotes about success, diversity, change, or facing challenges, you can count on a wise one-liner to cheer someone up.
8.) Play games.
When your friend or loved one isn’t in the mood, they might be waiting on you to provide a distraction. Often, it helps to be doing something completely different so you could feel better sharing about your problems later on.
Playing games (such as board games or video games) can be nice stress relievers. Take advantage of table football at the employee lounge for co-workers who are feeling down and out. If your partner seems cheerless, why not try a quick game of Jenga?
9.) Sing your hearts out.
Music can do wonders for gloomy spirits. If your best bud is feeling blue lately, invite him or her to a night out of good ol’ karaoke.
There’s nothing better than belting out some tunes to soothe the mood. For friends on a budget, simply turn on your Spotify and sing to your heart’s content right in your living room.
10.) Give a short handwritten note.
Sometimes short and sweet is best. If you have co-workers who could need some cheering up, a quick note to appreciate their hard work is a good idea.
If sending handwritten notes to loved ones is not possible, a quick email or SMS should do the trick. Tell them you love them or that you wish them a good day.
11.) Take a walk through a park.
Being in nature can have healing effects. If you want to cheer someone up, a quiet walk around a nearby park can be a refreshing welcome. For those at home, you can take your friend for tea in the garden.
This activity does two things. One, the greenery will help re-energize the senses. Two, walking can help combat the blues done by being sedentary.
12.) Watch the sunset/sunrise.
There’s definitely something about sunrises and sunsets that capture the imagination. Artists, poets, and writers have all taken their inspiration watching the sun rise and set on horizons for centuries.
Use this to help cheer someone up. While waiting for your shift to end, open up the windows. Gaze through the glass and see the skies ablaze with color.
If your friend or loved one is feeling down, invite them for an early morning jog. As you run through the streets, point out the still-sleepy sun peeking from behind wisps of pinks, purples, and blues.
13.) Go stargazing.
The night time can be just as inspiring as the day. Let the stars remind you and your downtrodden friend about the miracle of life.
When you’re lying down on your rooftop or balcony, gazing up at the darkness sprinkled with tiny dots of light will make you realize how each one contributes to the beauty of the night sky.
14.) Dance to some tunes.
If you know you can’t cheer someone up with jogging or sports, perhaps dancing would do the trick. Play a nice tune and take their hand for a waltz. To take things up a notch, choose some cheerful beats to lift your friend’s spirits.
15.) Prepare a hot bath.
Similar to taking hot drinks, a warm bath or shower is always a good remedy when you’re feeling down in the dumps.
Do the same for a close friend or loved one by preparing a hot bath personalized to their needs. If your best bud is a reader for instance, include a copy of their favorite book along with relaxing soapy suds.
16.) Invite them to dinner/lunch.
There’s no doubt that food brings people together. Bring a smile to someone today by inviting them over for lunch or dinner.
It doesn’t matter if it’s take-out, a home-cooked meal, or somewhere fancy. What matters is that you share your time with someone you feel might need it the most right now.
17.) Gift or lend a book.
There’s nothing like a good book to ward off bad vibes. If you think your friend or loved one is having a bad day, perhaps some ‘me-time’ with their choice of book is the right antidote. For those on a budget, you can always borrow from a public library.
18.) Go for a drive around town.
Cheer someone up with a drive around your local town or city. It could be a quick or long one, depending on what makes the person happier.
There are cases where an individual would want to talk about what’s bothering them but are hesitant to do so at home or at a public place. A drive could be a good opportunity for them to open up.
19.) Play with a pet.
It’s no secret that pets help us manage stress. Lower stress levels means we’re happier and living longer. If you know someone who could benefit from feeding your cute parakeet at home, then have them over.
For those whose workplaces are open to furry pals, why not introduce your friendly pug to that colleague who’s been looking so down lately?
20.) Simply listen and be there.
Perhaps nothing will cheer someone up more than having a listening ear. For what could be a better gift than the gift of attention in a world brimming with ‘busyness’?
Sit down and open your heart to someone who could use five minutes of your time today.
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