#they asked if i was genuinely asking this as if ut was obviojs

[hello-im-queer]

I asked my alloallo friend (maybe alloro and ace they don't know rlly) why people cheat on their partners.

They said something along the lines of 'well they get bored but still love their partner but want to try something new cuz the spark from the start of the relationship isn't there anymore. They just wanna try somebody else to figure out if they still love their partner'

Like

Huh???

Just talk???? Why would you risk that there's a person who loves you so much will hate you because you did it with another person? If they'd talk, there's maybe a bit of hurt, yes, but it's all morally okay you know? Communicate!!!! If you don't communicate how would your partner know that you're getting bored and think abt other people? Like that's so fucked up

Aroace conclusion: just talk or break up ffs

#they asked if i was genuinely asking this as if ut was obviojs #yes i am genuinely asming this because i didnt believe people to be *that* stupid #like #cmon guys #in the end they stopped expkaining cuz i couldnt make sense of it #aromantic #asexual #aro #aroace #arospec #ace #queer #lgbtq #aromanticism #acespec #imrwtm