#this is bitter and annoyed im sorry

[altschmerzes]

i’ve reached the amatonormativity breaking point. i want to crawl into a cave and never experience shipping or jokes about how athletes on the same team who play well together Have to be in love or snide comments about Just Friends or the inevitability of And Then They Get Together forcibly stapled onto every single character dynamic or calling other people’s relationships into question because you think they’re too close to Not be In Love with each other or whatever else the world chooses to throw at me again. there is never any making it stop or even making people think for a second before barrelling headfirst into doing this constantly and without regard for what they’re reinforcing or shitting on as long as they get to have their fun. I’m Sick Of It. ive seen enough and im crawling back in the dirt like some kind of aromantic groundhog GOODBYE.

#gav gab #this is bitter and annoyed im sorry #ill snap out of it in a minute #aro blogging #get it all out of my face!!! forever!!!!!!!! #shut up about romance Shut Up About Romance SHUT UP ABOUT ROMANCE #i cant do ANYTHING without being inundated by this i can’t even ENJOY SPORTS #GOOD LORD

[todayisafridaynight]

being daigo in january 2017 was probably the happiest month of his life because he just got out of jail Again for a crime he didnt commit Again and he's probably thinking how he has to keep running the tojo clan if he wants to respect kiryu even though hes """""""'gone""""""""" or whatever and then some bitch with the newspaper in his ear like 'the governor's trying to evict us what should we do' and i can only imagine the LOUDEST sigh of relief this man had to internalize as he began to flesh out his two-year plan then and there

#snap chats #no one touch this post fuck you im drawing this at some point but im too tired but i still cant stop chortling about it #like i just know daigo was tired as balls so imagine getting THAT kind of out from it all ....... #NO MORE GUILT ABOUT IT HE GOT AN EXCUSE NOW #Oh Noooo The Governments Telling Us To Fuck Off :(( I Dont Think Theres Anything We Can Reasonably Do But Dissolve #genuinely the nicest thing aoki ever did in his entire life was give daigo an out of this sisyphean existence and he didnt even know #he just wanted to be a big ol bitch boy and accidentally made daigo the happiest man on earth #ending this post now before i think of IW's plot and get annoyed again vjlkJLKAJVAL GOOD NIGHT EVERYONE #AND ALL THAT PLANNING WAS FOR FUCKING NOTHING /SORRY/ IM STILL BITTER #IM GOING NOW FR BYE STAN DAIGO

[kuruk]

I get that everyone has strong emotional reactions to the subject of cheating and I get it because I'm someone who values romantic relationships very highly and I'm someone who becomes careful of how I talk about even meaningless otome games because of how careful I am with the potential jealousy and hurt feelings of the people I love like that, and I do silly unnecessary things to prevent that (not in a way that's detrimental to me, I like doing that for them) but you guys forget that the consequences of cheating are not equal for men and women.

Yes maybe I'm overcorrecting for the issue but there's so much context people don't take into account. Saying there's differences between men cheating and women cheating doesn't mean "men bad, women good" it's not mindless girlboss rhetoric and it doesn't mean I love when men suffer and that I don't think women should be accountable. it's a real thing and that doesn't really affect the morality of the action itself when isolated but it does affect how we can choose to react to it because yes everyone already agrees women are narcissistic witches incapable of human feelings who deserve to be beaten and killed when this sort of thing happens while I see women make excuses for their boyfriends and husbands and blame themselves for their loved one's disloyalty. no, cheating is never good but you do contribute to the issue by treating it as THE ultimate unforgivable evil rather than a moral failing and betrayal that truly isn't higher up on the list than other betrayals within relationships such as physical abuse.

Sorry maybe my own experiences have warped my mind a bit but when my mom was strangled by my father she screamed for help and my brother ignored her because she's just a useless cheating whore to him now.

Not to mention, I know a lot of you don't take this into account because you're young and don't plan on getting married for like 15 years if even that, but there is already a huge imbalance of power in relationships between many men and women. You all know this but I'm not sure you even understand what this does to people or what it looks like sometimes. Middle class white men like preying on brown women in poverty and trapping them in marriage sorry I don't have sympathy for when they get cheated on. This isn't a hyperspecific scenario that's like "Well of course abuse is an exception stop bringing it up 🙄" because our attitudes about this still affect those women.

#go look at forums of divorced men complaining to each other and see how they talk #dramatasizing this and divorcing it from its context doesn't help women who get cheated on it just helps bitter vengeful men feel good abou #themselves #not about people saying “yes” to that poll btw. im glad people are like that really! it was a relief. #but it brought up other discussions of cheating that have been kind of annoying sorry

[skitskatdacat63]

Okay I finally have some finished drawings of them haha. I swear I have a regular art style, chibis are just easier okay!!!!

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#let it be known to the court that they are not that 'sunshine x grumpy' trope #but rather 'man who is incredibly annoying x man who is incredibly bitter' #alternatively: unstoppable force x unmoveable object #THEY ARE VERY SPECIAL TO ME!!!!! #AU so good that i draw for 8 hours straight- #my blog this past week has turned into just them! sorry not sorry!! #i guess i just really love them a lot as well bcs its brought back a type of creative drive i havent had in years? #this is why im drawing chibis so much tho!! they dont make me nearly as frustrated as my regular style #like i just sketch them on paper and its super easy to transwer to digital #and its def preparing me for a fuller sized drawing so im happy about that! #but otherwise also love them very much bcs i love writing their lore and talking about their lore and drawing their lore ;;;;;; #and the historical research is so fun!!! #okay oops anyways its 7 am and my hand hurts #vettonso #fernando alonso #f1 fanart #formula 1 fanart #f1 art #formula 1 art #f1 #formula 1 #catie.art. #*also very important to me that fernando *is* shorter in this au like irl but he wears heels all the time #boy king au

[notebook-enthusiast]

i love autistics who struggle with hygiene and stereotypical autistics and autistics who have no friends and autistics who have anger issues and low empathy autistics and nonverbal autistics and high support needs autistics and autistics who consider their autism a disorder

#sorri am drunk and feeling bitter #part of the reason i dont say im autistic except on tumblr is bc of the annoying ass ppl who make autism to be a simple quirk #instead of like a legitimate neurodevelopmental disorder that inferes w a lot of someones life lol #like even tho i myself am 'high functioning' i still struggle to feed myself and i pick my skin and hit myself sometimes like #im all about not being all doom and gloom but im so fucmin annoyed by ppl sometimes #whateverrr 😐 i am goong to bed

[munamania]

yeah ok so this girl from my school is going to the fucking oscars. and presenting. like ok!

#what the fuck ever man not jealous at all or anything #i mean idk what she's presenting really but the fact that she's even involved!!! hello!!! #not discounting her work she's incredible but. she was also forced into a lot of stuff by this insane guy in our program #who totally totally creates his own legion of nepo babies #like! she's great but im also sitting here soooo bitter like. i could have done that. i just wasnt one of the hand selected people last #summer that this guy worked with. despite applying several times to work with him and now having met and interviewed with him #for a position i probably wont get cause he's gonna pick the most annoying evil insufferable girl instead just cause he knows her #she will absolutely not be a better representative of our school than i would be. im a really great speaker lol. and am generally charming #she has the personality of like. a fucking leech. she's terrible #and it's like do i want to work for this guy for a month while trying to get something out of this trip no but do i think im good enough #to deserve his backing like yeah. i was a better producer than one of his wunderkind lol. #wow ok sorry this is truly showing how cutthroat we little film kids will get i guess. it's just bullshit #you'd have to know this guy he's notorious with everybody in the film/english department #he could NEVER be my bestie prof. but my bestie prof also doesnt have all the same connections. but who cares he's also not the most #annoying guy on the planet #abby talks

[hellhoundlair]

sometimes u will see hellers talking about how certain scenes and episodes would be sooo much better if /lists the most stupidest shit that wouldve sucked so bad but dean and cas kiss/ and u check and it has 22,000 notes

#i dont hate cas but i hate the way hellers treat cas so much. i need to stop being mad tho #also how could u be so obsessed w cas and dean when sam is right there.... sams crying thanks.... #anti destiel #anti deancas #nothing is actually wrong w this ship im just bitter and i get annoyed easily keep doin ur thang <3 #anti hellers #i just dont want ppl who would get sad at seeing this post to see it IM SORRY i know the feeling

[bitterpyre]

I'm trying very hard to not spam like all the things, but I just love all the things ;-;

#diary of bitter #im sorry if it's annoying #I'm really trying to not do it anymore lol

[gritsandbrits]

Normally i wouldn't gloat but i admit i am so glad i unfollowed certain peeps on Twitter bc they cannot handle any wellfounded criticism of the political right and slaps the SJW label on anything that isn't 5000% conservative. Even without the politics they just come off as massively bitter and i don't want to be dragged into such cesspool of misery.

#im sorry but yall just as nasty as extreme sjws it's all the same shit #some of you really want to be Regina George but turn out to be Audrey Bourgeois #this is also why im starting to consider gatekeeping i dont want to be aroubd ppl who cannot keep their politics out of fandoms #extreme right and extreme sjws included #like yall are so constantly negative and bitter and hates any sort of critique it's annoying as hell

[fereldenshero]

i think i want to **** ** *** ***** or ***** ******** ** ***** ******** because ** *** **** ********* and not even to ******* **** ******* let alone ***** even though i *** ** ******* ** ******** ***** **** ** ** ** **. kills

#sorry im not gonna provide any context im just. annoyed. and maybe a bit bitter. a lot bitter #vent #lovely.txt

[caruliaa]

now one cares if ur mom loves you soooo muc and u love her soooo much and ur omg arent mothers soo great always bs. shut up !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#(BEING VERY PETTY BC MINE SUCKS SO FUCKING MUCH) #but also if i have to see the post bieng like 'oohh imagine sweet nothing with how your mother always loves u unconditionly' everywere #(which good 4 u stop acting like thats the universal experience for everyone it fucking isnt) #then you all have to deal with me platonic-fing it and making it abt friendship. sucks to suck loser !!!! #like what if the soul deconstructers *are* my parents in my experience. what then bitch !! #sorry im rly just annoyed abt that one post bc i feel like theres an obsession among swifties to only every understand each song in a way #that like. does or cld fit within her life instead of relating it to ur own experince esp in regards to them all being abt romance #like ppl being like 'i cant believe ppl think x song cld count as a platonic love song when its obvs abt romancce' #or not understanding how the emotions expressed in a song abt a traumatic break up could also be related to other trauma #including trauma inflicted by a parent/friend/ any other relation someone cld have to someone #but the one time !! relating one of her songs to smth other than roamnce is acceptable to swifties its the stupid fucking #'ohh my mom is soo great shes the best' bs thats a sure fire sign the person saying it will never take anyone whos been mistreated #by the parents serious and just respond w 'but its ur momm u have to love her bc shes ur mommm :(((((' #sorry ik im being needlessly bitter which sucks bc i have a a good point here like can we just let ppl relate to songs in whatever way they #want to and not care abt their being a 'defnitive' meaning to the song bc the whole point of art esp music is how YOU relate to it #also like. that post isnt bad at all its acutally completely fine im just bieng dumb and projecting ig bc i feel like the emotions of ppl #whos parents were good to them r always taken more seriously like. if i made a post talking abt relating the 'give me back my girlhood' lin #to my experince w my shitty parents i feel like it wldnt be taken as seriously as this 'uwu i love my momm' bs yk. anyway maybe im wrong !! #who knows !!!!! maybe i shld try to talk abt how i relate her songs to my personal experinces more #also i am being rly dumb sm bc ik other ppl have spoken abt relating her songs (esp mtr and tolerate it) to shitty parnets but iv also seen #ppl treat that like its dumb which is stupid !!!!! who cares !!!! ur being a dick let ppl relate music to whatever experiences they want !! #anyway. i think i seem more pissed her than i actually am im just annoyed bc this is a pet peeve of mine lol #flappy rambles

[sammygender]

im so sick of rich people whining about being called rich. or upper middle class WHATEVER. just saw some stupid tiktok about how people with airpods and. like. those fancy rich fridges with filters that make water. are not the enemy. and like well yeah i suppose so but it’s not hurting anyone for people to make fun of them. some delusional idiot in the comments saying “a family on 200k a year is not rich” are you actually fucking kidding me rn

#200k a year is so fucking much lmfao what WORLD are u living in #im literally like. like i consider my family decently well off these days we get huge food shops and like i have a fucking iphone 11 now and #its weird to get my head around that. like. we do not struggle #for money at the moment we can mainly just… get stuff! so weird #so i’m not even coming at this from a poor angle these days even though i was sorta poor #growing up #but no offence (full offence) but if youre happily spending £200 on a pair of shitty headphones and you have two kitchens and an endless #wardrobe of clothes that cost like over twenty quid and you regularly go on fancy ass holidays abroad and- #YEAH im bitter. i am i can feel it and i’m not really that ashamed. sorry! #ur rich. not a crime. just admit it #sorry sorry sorrryyy im getting bitter cause everyone i know spends like £40 on jeans but £4 is too much for me to spend without feeling #immense guilt and i just know these were the sorta kids whove never experienced being shouted at for taking a couple pieces of dairylea and #some bread not because ur parents were shitty but because that was an entire lunch meal for you and youd just messed up a whole thing of #food planning. or having cheap sainsburys own brand school cardigans which didn’t have the logo on and everyone always looked at u a little #funny cause of it. or having everyone look at u like ur mental cause you’ve never been on a plane before. like #augh. i wasn’t even poor that’s the insane fuckinf thing i can’t #imagine how annoyed id be 24/7 if i had less money like #‘the people u call rich have way more in common with you than with the 1%’ ok and?? and?? #it’s not my responsibility to force rich people into class consciousness when ninety percent of them think homeless people are a disease #anyway. #the airpods thing is so stupid anyway yeah you’re not necessarily rich if you have airpods but bro they’re like at least £100 and if ur #casually spending £100 on headphones that ain’t that great ur either rich or stupid😭 #oliver talks

[rottenxfairy]

being autistic and needing a guide on how to do everything is so annoying it doesn't matter how small i need a step by step instructions on how to do it and if i don't get that i don't do it at all

#theres so many things i want to try/do #but theres not guide on how to do it and its bothering me so i have to get creative #im probably will be very annoying and bitter all night so sorry in advanced

[agayconcept]

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#listen i am not mad that a good chunk of hair in the front of my head is going grey i have no weird age crisis over this #but #i Am annoyed thats its decided to go gold-grey which is (in my case at least) insanely hard to dye #oh u wanted ur whole head to be one even purple colour ? sorry nope #big ole chunk o' blonde-purple in the front like a money piece from hell #i have to dye it 2 or 3 times for it to take the fuckin colour #its annoying and expensive and tedious af #ugh #k im done lol im just rly bitter #my hair is my gender and this is simply transphobic